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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 04:03 AM
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You know, it really comes as no surprise, but I'm fuming none the less.....
The viciousness of this place seemingly knows no bounds.

I've not said much over the past couple of days, because it might have been tombstone city for me responding to some of these obnoxious posts.

But what has bothered me most about all of this Cindy Sheehan bashing, is not necessarily those who simply and honestly believe it's best that she retires.

It's all of the fricking taunting and "in your face" celebration by individuals who know there are so many of us who are deeply hurt, sad and disappointed she was run out of town by so called progressives, including someone here.

It's one thing to articulate your view by explaining why you think it's best she retired.

It's another thing to taunt and gloat and post crap, simply to enrage without any regard for people's feelings.

It's nasty and it makes me sick.
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 04:06 AM
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1. Hear, hear, cboy4.
That's exactly how I feel. But I keep thinking about how prophets are seldom welcomed in their own town. That seems to be what's happening to Cindy, much to my dismay. She doesn't deserve to be kicked to the curb in the way she has been by some people. I have a daughter, and just the thought of losing her brings tears to my eyes. To actually lose a child, for whatever reason, is beyond comprehension.
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LittleClarkie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 04:09 AM
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3. It has always been thus
whatever the occasion, there are hurt and aching DUers, and there are those who are not sensitive to this and post crap.

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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 04:11 AM
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4. Precisely why I mostly stay out of those things..
Nothing we say or do will alter her decision. No doubt she's just worn to a frazzle. If she needs time to decompress, it's her decision.

just as her way of mourning her son is her decision.

If you think about it, she's probably not been alone with her thoughts since Casey died.. This had been her "keeping busy" phase, but now she's apparently ready to deal with the enormity of it all, and who knows..she may decide to speak out again, but even if she does not, she shined a big ole light on a lot of stuff people had been ignoring.
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Faux pas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 04:12 AM
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5. I've steered clear of every Sheehan thread. I don't want to read
slams against a grieving mother who has worked so tirelessly to end this bogus war. She wasn't doing it for herself, she was doing it for others out there who might be in danger of losing their own children. Sometimes people just don't think before they start the sh*t slinging. Makes me sick too.
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Kiouni Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 04:41 AM
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7. I went to one of her rallies
and setting my own views of her leadership abilities and overall impact aside, she still has done more then I have to stop the "war."
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Faux pas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 12:59 PM
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24. All I've done is sign petitions, send letters and emails. Cindy
should be proud of her contributions to the movement.
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 07:20 AM
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9. I've tried to stay clear of as many as I can. But the sad thing is I
think these people *are* thinking before they "start the sh*t slinging."

They just want to cause pain.
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Faux pas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 01:15 PM
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25. Infliction of more pain on a mother who has lost a child is beyond
cruel. To me, cruelty is a conscious act, that makes it extra sad.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 04:33 AM
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6. The only problem with Cindy is that she's fully human.
Like all of us, she's a human being, capable of great things and also sometimes of making mistakes.

And some here people react to any sign of weakness or imperfection like sharks to blood in the water.

I don't think that any of us, especially those who haven't lost a child to that war, are justified in judging anything that she does. She's been trying to make her son's death count for something, and she's made a monumental effort to reach people.

I applaud her and I hope she can begin to heal.
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radfringe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 05:03 AM
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8. all she wanted was an answer to a simple question
she wanted bush to explain the reasons why her son died in Iraq. It's a simple question and also a big question because it encompasses more than just Cindy's son - it includes all those who have died, those who have been wounded and those who are still fighting "over there".

It asks why are we there. 4 years into the war/occupation and we still do not have an honest answer.

I don't believe she set out to be the face of an anti-war movement, the movement grew around her determination to get an honest answer. Was she caught up in it? Yes, and with it comes supporters and critics and those who want to use her for their own agenda and it became overwhelming.

She's not running for public office nor is she trying to win a popularity contest - she just wants an answer. With her camping outside of bush's "ranch" she threw a pebble into the ocean and started a tsunami.

She's still waiting for an answer. Whether she or the rest of us will get that answer will depend on a choice. Do we put political considerations ahead of the truth? Politics before people or people before politics?




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jonnyblitz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 07:38 AM
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10. and it's not all "newbies and trolls" doing this like many claim
it's old time DUers who believe in party over principle and who are fine with Cindy as long as she is just going after the GOP. for some reason they think DEMS should get a pass for their war support, which is BULLSHIT! I have had it with these party loyalist ASSHOLES!! :puke:
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 09:04 AM
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11. No you're right. It's not all newbies and trolls, yet the number of
sub-1000+ posters involved in stirring up so much of the ugliness is hard to ignore.

It makes one wonder.
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bvar22 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 11:21 AM
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18. # of posts means nothing.
Check the profile for the length of time the asshole has been at DU.
Its possible to run up 1000 useless posts in a couple of days in The Lounge.
Most of these people have "profile disabled".
Some of them have been here for a while, but very few. "They" started showing up after DU gained some Media recognition. They did not come here to contribute to a Liberal website.

Large Corporations and the politicians they own have large budgets dedicated to Media Consultants/ Image Doctors. These corporations hire staff to haunt Liberal sites on the Internet to disrupt, "catapult" Corpo Propaganda, propagate "astroturf", and discredit Progressive leaders.
(See any Chavez thread).
They are slightly harder to spot than Freepers, but there are some symptoms:

*Anyone (besides the OP) responding over 3-4 times to a thread is suspect. How many times does it take to state your opinion, clarify your position, and then make room for someone else? Someone posting more than this has an agenda that is beyond contributing to a dialog. Most of this type of disruption comes from those who:

*Support the Iraq Occupation (though they may be smart enough to not say so directly). Their support will be revealed by their support of politicians who will fund and extend the occupation.

*Support Unfair Trade

*Support the Corporate Wing of the Democratic Party

*Support the Status Quo in DC (no talk of impeachment OR holding any politician accountable to the Public)


Not all assholes are on somebody's payroll, but some of them at DU are. It would be naive to believe otherwise. I expect this problem will get worse as the CorpoWings of both Parties become more frantic to hold on to their control.

Good Post!
K&R

The Democratic Party is a BIG TENT, but there is NO ROOM for those
who advance the agenda of THE RICH (Corporate Owners) at the EXPENSE of LABOR and the POOR.

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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 11:34 AM
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19. Yes, you're right. Good points and thanks.
:)
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Individualist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 12:10 PM
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23. You've just described DLC supporters,
and they'll never admit that's what they are.
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KoKo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 09:30 AM
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12. Well said...the taunting and gloating. The accusations.
It wasn't necessary unless one had an "agenda."
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Iris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 09:32 AM
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13. I'm completely out of the loop. What's going on with Sheehan? n/t
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Buzz Clik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 01:34 PM
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28. Cindy Sheehan announced very recently that she's "retiring"
She no longer wants to be the poster child for the anti-war movement. She wrote an article indirectly quoting a DUer who called her an attention whore. Yesterday was mess in the GD.

Interestingly, Cindy spent a good deal of time this morning on various radio programs.
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Iris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 05:22 PM
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34. er. . .which radio programs?
or dare I ask?
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tabasco Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 09:32 AM
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14. Things need to tighten up a bit.
I know that the management wants to keep an open exchange of ideas, but they need to tighten things up with some of these under-the-radar types. IMO, it is ruining DU.
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Le Taz Hot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 09:36 AM
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15. Could we just clarify something here?
The people that are celebrating are NOT progressives. Just someone calls himself/herself progressive doesn't mean they are.

Ignore is your friend.
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 09:47 AM
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16. No, I disagree about ignore being my friend. When you ignore
ugliness, people are allowed to get away with bad things -- or at least they are more often.

Sometimes, wearing blinders in life does more harm than good.

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slipslidingaway Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 10:37 AM
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17. K&R well said.
"It's one thing to articulate your view...

It's another thing to taunt and gloat...

It's nasty and it makes me sick."
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Spazito Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 11:37 AM
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20. Agree, it has been appalling, imo
I have to say, though, the posters, by and large, who are taunting and nasty are what I would call my "usual" suspects. They are nothing if not consistent in the tone of their posts on more than one issue and are NOT newcomers, sadly.
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jillan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 11:46 AM
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21. I agree- and it hasn't only been about Cindy
I was called a "F****" because I support Biden.

The words used against Gore, and all of the candidates over the last few days.

What is going on around here????
Even Air America was dissing DU over and over again yesterday.

Have we lost our ability for a civil discussion? Or has it became who can yell the loudest?
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 12:05 PM
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22. It's not even a case of who can yell the loudest, in my opinion...
it's the person who can inflict the most hurt.

And if you think things are bad right now, juuuuuust wait until we get closer to the primaries. :scared:
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Neecy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 01:29 PM
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26. it's a strange dynamic, to be sure
Some of the Sheehan detractors have been able to articulate their issues without the personal venom. Granted, not many - but a few.

Many of them, though, demonstrate a rage that seems oddly out of proportion to the subject being discussed. Where else have we seen that kind of rage and anger being vented not only against Sheehan but against ANY anti-war activist? I think we know the answer to that.

What the Sheehan detractors of all stripes have failed to articulate is where they believe the anti-war movement is going and how to best organize our efforts. The yellow dogs and DLC'ers are understandably silent in this issue since last week's vote. The hyper-rage addicts are naturally silent as well. But I think it's a central issue now and that's not being discussed at all.



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Buzz Clik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 01:31 PM
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27. Those taunting, in your face anti-Cindy threads/posts have been replaced ...
... by angry, taunting, in your face "you are worthy to lick her boots" threads/posts.

I have little use for either approach.
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 03:10 PM
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29. Maybe so, but considering how nasty so many people were
particularly yesterday (including one arrogant a**hole who ended up finally getting TD'd), it's not surprising some Cindy supporters may have been provoked to the brink where perhaps they did finally lash out with some of their comments.

I don't know what you're talking about, but if it's true, I don't frankly blame them.
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Buzz Clik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 03:30 PM
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33. Trust me, I am not excusing their behavior.
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bvar22 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 03:19 PM
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32. And yet, you have multiple posts to most of them.
Hmmmm.
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dogday Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 03:16 PM
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30. I feel nothing but pity for these people who
are so weighed down by their own mean spirited insults...

Their life can only be what I assume, a miserable existence to want to inflict so much pain and insults toward others...

Happy people don't need to use this type of attitude or language toward others. Intelligent people don't need to hurl insults at others as well...

So that just leaves a miserable, uneducated, person.

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LibraLiz1973 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-30-07 03:17 PM
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31. Your right- I've seen a few threads that have made my head spin
You would think it was Ann Coulter announcing she was leaving the country. Forever.
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