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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 01:54 AM Original message |
Let's avoid sexism in general, if we can |
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rockymountaindem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 01:58 AM Response to Original message |
1. You'd better hide well |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 02:31 AM Response to Reply #1 |
7. Nah. If you're longwinded and banal enough, you can avoid a bad flamewar |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 02:45 AM Response to Reply #7 |
11. ROFL |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 02:00 AM Response to Original message |
2. Empress Wu of China and Katherine the Great of Russia |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 02:27 AM Response to Reply #2 |
6. But of course even basic comparisons between heads of state are hugely flawed |
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HardRocker05 (486 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 03:52 AM Response to Reply #2 |
24. would one man in a group of 100 women act differently than he would in a group of 100 men? |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 03:54 AM Response to Reply #24 |
25. That's another reason why these piecemeal analyses don't really work |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 07:21 AM Response to Reply #2 |
31. also under Indira Gandhi, india commited a lot of violence against its citizens. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 02:00 AM Response to Original message |
3. I read that thread also and decided I was too tired to duke it out. |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 02:23 AM Response to Reply #3 |
5. Your last line is an indication of how far we have yet to go |
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Jed Dilligan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 02:02 AM Response to Original message |
4. What you're arguing against is essentialism |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 02:42 AM Response to Reply #4 |
10. Lots of anecdotal evidence exists for cruelty from both genders |
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IChing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 02:56 AM Response to Reply #10 |
15. violence of the mind or body is a power |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 03:59 AM Response to Reply #15 |
26. Which hexagram is that, exactly? |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 09:49 AM Response to Reply #4 |
37. Wise words |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 02:32 AM Response to Original message |
8. Wacky Silly Women |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 02:37 AM Response to Reply #8 |
9. First of all, I never accused women of being wacky. And that type of analysis cuts both ways |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 02:45 AM Response to Reply #9 |
12. Nope |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 02:53 AM Response to Reply #12 |
14. I assume that's taken for granted on a progressive board--maybe I shouldn't |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 03:03 AM Response to Reply #14 |
16. You need to read |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 03:06 AM Response to Reply #16 |
17. I said in the original post that men are more individually aggressive by nature |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 03:11 AM Response to Reply #17 |
19. So |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 03:30 AM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Remember we're talking about a capacity for cruelty here |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 03:07 AM Response to Reply #16 |
18. We Feminists |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 03:12 AM Response to Reply #18 |
20. I just wish people wouldn't be so quick to write off an entire gender/race/whatever |
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SheWhoMustBeObeyed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 06:34 AM Response to Reply #16 |
27. The behaviors that testosterone influence do not exist in a vacuum |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 10:05 PM Response to Reply #27 |
63. Thanks so much for this |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 07:31 AM Response to Reply #8 |
32. no one is denying that men commit the vast majority of crimes against women/humanity |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 10:00 AM Response to Reply #8 |
38. You are missing the point |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-09-07 03:19 AM Response to Reply #38 |
65. also, I might point out |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-09-07 05:13 PM Response to Reply #65 |
75. women are not the only victims |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 07:12 PM Response to Reply #8 |
52. It's possibly worth scaling these, to put them in perspective. |
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Kiouni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 02:52 AM Response to Original message |
13. . . . |
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HardRocker05 (486 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 03:34 AM Response to Original message |
22. you are wrong on the 'if women had equal capacity for violence, they would commit the same |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 03:40 AM Response to Reply #22 |
23. I'm not saying I know the answer here--you may be exactly right |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 06:45 AM Response to Original message |
28. Chemically, women AREN'T as violent as men |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 06:37 PM Response to Reply #28 |
48. I've always been curious about that sort of thing |
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SheWhoMustBeObeyed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 09:42 PM Response to Reply #48 |
60. I invite you to read #27 |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 07:16 AM Response to Original message |
29. i think women are just as capable of violence if socialized in the same manners as men |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 07:20 AM Response to Original message |
30. I'm not sexist, but I'm a product of a sexist system and a guy. |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 07:41 AM Response to Original message |
33. The focus should |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 07:58 AM Response to Reply #33 |
35. As usual, excellent post. Thanks. nt |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 11:20 AM Response to Reply #33 |
41. That approach avoids examining the systemic causes of misogyny. |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 11:28 AM Response to Reply #41 |
42. In response to |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 11:37 AM Response to Reply #42 |
45. Abusive parents come in all races. |
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goodgd_yall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 07:50 PM Response to Reply #41 |
55. I find your post on this subject to be the most clear-headed |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 07:48 AM Response to Original message |
34. Excellent post |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-09-07 01:07 PM Response to Reply #34 |
71. wow you're against the troops now if your a (hysterical) feminist! thanks for the laugh! |
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ananda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 08:17 AM Response to Original message |
36. sexism is pervasive |
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Beelzebud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 10:06 AM Response to Original message |
39. If you are never offended, you aren't living in a free society. |
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Hidden Stillness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 10:42 AM Response to Original message |
40. Count to Five and Here It Is... The Backlash |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 11:29 AM Response to Reply #40 |
43. Exactly What I Said |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 06:31 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. I think women have a perfect right to be angry, defensive, and offended |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 06:49 PM Response to Reply #43 |
50. Being upset about violence against women would be a given, right? |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 06:29 PM Response to Reply #40 |
46. I wish I understood where you get "I hate 'bitches'" from this post |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 07:21 PM Response to Reply #46 |
53. It comes from exactly what you are discussing in the OP. |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 09:03 PM Response to Reply #53 |
59. That's what it's about, isn't it? More than anything it seems we're meant to work together |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 11:35 AM Response to Original message |
44. Great Post JPGray. Definitely Very Thoughtful. K&R |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 06:42 PM Response to Reply #44 |
49. To me it's like the white guy complaining about the black comic's "white people can't dance" routine |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 07:03 PM Response to Original message |
51. wow, i have to ask you some stuff but not now... |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-09-07 02:11 AM Response to Reply #51 |
64. Be gentle |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-09-07 04:02 PM Response to Reply #64 |
74. like a lamb |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-09-07 06:06 PM Response to Reply #74 |
77. It's kind of irrelevant, isn't it? Without a level playing field it's all pure conjecture |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-10-07 12:46 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. i know a lot of guys seem concerned that feminists are broadbrushing all men and your OP was |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 07:23 PM Response to Original message |
54. Men commit far more violent crimes than women. |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 08:53 PM Response to Reply #54 |
58. I'm just asking people not to take for granted that men are inherently more cruel |
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HardRocker05 (486 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-09-07 04:32 AM Response to Reply #58 |
67. more importantly, it shouldn't matter either way. violence is usuallly bad and wrong and should be |
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pink-o (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 07:58 PM Response to Original message |
56. I'm old now, so my individual experiences with sexism are fewer |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 08:49 PM Response to Reply #56 |
57. I've read a lot about the split between chimps and bonobos--the book "Demonic Males" for instance |
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pink-o (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-09-07 12:49 PM Response to Reply #57 |
70. Demonic Males? I don't believe that for a minute |
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ithinkmyliverhurts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 09:47 PM Response to Original message |
61. It'd be better if we avoided it in particular. |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-08-07 09:55 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. Very true--I have absolutely no quarrel with anyone who regards this thread as trivial |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-09-07 03:55 AM Response to Original message |
66. ... |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-09-07 02:05 PM Response to Reply #66 |
73. Yeah. Is there any getting around that, do you think? |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-09-07 11:21 AM Response to Original message |
68. I think of Karl Marx, when he said BOTH the rich AND the poor were slaves of the system |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-09-07 11:34 AM Response to Original message |
69. Oh, bitch, bitch, bitch . . |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-09-07 01:16 PM Response to Original message |
72. IA, people are conditioned and trained from birth to be one way |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-09-07 05:43 PM Response to Original message |
76. You are a bad bad man. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-11-07 12:06 PM Response to Reply #76 |
79. I was really hoping to see a greater number of flames when returning from DU after my 2 day hiatus |
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