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Herman Munster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-11-07 12:32 AM
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Bernstein's book says Hillary's father was abusive
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/18984501/

Hillary Rodham’s childhood was not the suburban idyll suggested by the shaded front porch and gently sloping lawn of what was once the family home at 235 Wisner Street in Park Ridge, Illinois. In this leafy environment of postwar promise and prosperity, the Rodhams were distinctly a family of odd ducks, isolated from their neighbors by the difficult character of her father, Hugh Rodham, a sour, unfulfilled man whose children suffered his relentless, demeaning sarcasm and misanthropic inclination, endured his embarrassing parsimony, and silently accepted his humiliation and verbal abuse of their mother.

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Hugh Rodham, the son of Welsh immigrants, was sullen, tight-fisted, contrarian, and given to exaggeration about his own accomplishments. Appearances of a sort were important to him: he always drove a new Lincoln or Cadillac. But he wouldn’t hesitate to spit tobacco juice through an open window. He chewed his cud habitually, voted a straight Republican ticket, and was infuriatingly slow to praise his children. “He was rougher than a corncob and gruff as could be,” an acquaintance once said. Nurturance and praise were left largely to his wife, whose intelligence and abilities he mocked and whose gentler nature he often trampled. “Don’t let the doorknob hit you in the ass on your way out,” he frequently said at the dinner table when she’d get angry and threaten to leave. She never left, but some friends and relatives were perplexed at Dorothy’s decision to stay married when her husband’s abuse seemed so unbearable.

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His control over the household was meant to be absolute; confronted with resistance, he turned fierce. If Hillary or one of her brothers had left the cap off a toothpaste tube, he threw it out the bathroom window and told the offending child to fetch it from the front yard evergreens, even in snow. Regardless of how windy and cold the Chicago winter night, he insisted when the family went to bed that the heat be turned off until morning. At dinner, he growled his opinions, indulged few challenges to his provocations, and rarely acknowledged the possibility of being proved wrong. Still, Hillary would argue back if the subject was substantive and she thought she was right. If Dorothy attempted to bring a conflicting set of facts into the discussion, she was typically ridiculed by her husband: “How would you know?” “Where did you ever come up with such a stupid idea?” “Miss Smarty Pants. Hugh Rodham did not pay his children on those weekends when they came downtown to “help work on a big order.” Often he’d drive them through Chicago’s aggregation of skid row neighborhoods to remind them of how fortunate they were. He freely expressed prejudices against blacks in the most denigrating terms. He never had a credit card, taught Hillary and her brothers to read the stock tables in the Chicago Tribune, and counseled the wisdom of thrift.

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After each of Hugh’s children was born, he drove the family back to Scranton for a baptism at Court Street Methodist Church, where he had been baptized in 1911, and his brothers before and after him. Every summer the Rodhams drove across the Alleghenys for a two-week vacation at a cabin he and his father, with their own hands, had built on Lake Winola, near Scranton, in the rolling Pennsylvania hills. The cabin had no heat, bath, or shower. It was a far different environment than the luxurious vacation cottages of many Park Ridge children on the shores of Lake Michigan or the Wisconsin dells. Hugh meant the vacation to connect his children to a past not as privileged as the one they knew in Park Ridge, as well as to maintain a strong sense of family. On one of their summer vacations, he insisted they visit a coal mine in the anthracite fields nearby. Whatever her discomfort with such gestures at the time, Hillary’s later political identification with working-class values and the struggles of average wage-earners was not something acquired at Wellesley or Yale as part of a 1960s countercultural ethos.
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NoodleBoy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-11-07 12:40 AM
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1. I wonder how people would accept a presidential candidate who had abusive parents--based on gender
Bill Clinton's stepfather was physically abusive, and people say it made him stronger and a better negotiator. I'm interested in knowing what people would think knowing that Hillary Clinton--or any other major female candidate-- also had an abusive parent.
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Clark2008 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-11-07 05:33 PM
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7. People accepted Shrub (for a time) and everyone and their
brother KNOWS Babs was abusive - at least verbally. Hell, even Nixon said the woman knew how to hate.
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KT2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-11-07 01:17 AM
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2. Sounds like a real jerk
but I have known men like him - very insecure bullies.
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Hekate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-11-07 01:29 AM
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3. LA Times gave Bernstein's book a very good review last week
Said the only part that wasn't excellent was the 6 pages he devoted to Hillary's Senate career. Six pages is just not enough for that subject.

Anyhow, look at her. She's as tough as they come.

Hekate

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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-11-07 01:46 AM
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4. Very strong woman.
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Bucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-11-07 03:21 AM
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5. You know how they make steel? It's the same as smelting iron, but the fire is much hotter.
Mrs Clinton kicks ass a number of different ways. I won't vote for her before she's officially nominated. But she's the real deal and having a hardass for a father only increases my admiration for her.

She'll still cost us the election, but I have tremendous regard for her skills.
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Herman Munster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jun-11-07 05:31 PM
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6. this sheds some light
into possible reasons why Hillary stayed with Bill after his many affairs. She witnessed her mother putting up with an abusive man and she may have thought for all Bill's bad behavior, at least he wasn't nearly as bad as her father was to her mother.

This also sheds some light into her character and how strong she is when fighting the republicans. Her dad raised a little warrior.
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