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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 12:07 PM Original message |
Poll question: Have you personally ever been involved with Domestic Violence? |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
1. not directly, but unbeknownst to me, my sister was a victim |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 12:26 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. My family didn't know for yrs either.We get good at hiding things. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 01:02 PM Response to Reply #2 |
10. Yep. There were a few years when what I wore to work depended |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 02:11 PM Response to Reply #10 |
18. how f@-ed up is that? that the VICTIM has to cover up the crime! |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 02:27 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. I finally figured it out -- untreated mental illness -- and took care of it |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 02:33 PM Response to Reply #20 |
23. sorry, I didn't mean YOU were messed up, just the situation. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 02:40 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. It was pretty bad and no, I'm not bristling. |
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Rosemary2205 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 12:35 PM Response to Original message |
3. My current husband has become a violent person. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 01:09 PM Response to Reply #3 |
13. Rosemary, |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 01:35 PM Response to Reply #3 |
17. It's at such times that we must realize ... |
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Rosemary2205 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 02:40 PM Response to Reply #17 |
25. This is very true. |
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sampsonblk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 12:43 PM Response to Original message |
4. Yeah, a girl hit me then called the cops |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 01:18 PM Response to Reply #4 |
15. A similar thing happened to a close, personal friend of mine. |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 12:51 PM Response to Original message |
5. Thanks for speaking out--yes, it can happen to anyone...ANYONE |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 12:54 PM Response to Original message |
6. I had a girlfriend who beat the crap out of me |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 12:58 PM Response to Original message |
7. As an EMS worker? Does that count? |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 01:00 PM Response to Original message |
8. Yes, as a child and an adult. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 01:02 PM Response to Original message |
9. Emotionally abusive marriage |
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independentpiney (966 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 01:04 PM Response to Original message |
11. My ex-wife |
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Quixote1818 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 01:04 PM Response to Original message |
12. I guess I am lucky. Never seen any kind of domestic violence first hand. |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 01:10 PM Response to Original message |
14. I punched a guy I saw hit a girl once - does that count? |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 02:32 PM Response to Reply #14 |
22. That makes you a hero!...n/t |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 02:38 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. lol! If that's true at all, it's only because the bar for it has been lowered... |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 01:19 PM Response to Original message |
16. Yes, as an adult... |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 02:22 PM Response to Original message |
19. My father was an abuser and active alcoholic. My earlier childhood |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 09:44 PM Response to Reply #19 |
51. I'm glad she did, for all your sakes. |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
21. k&r |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 02:42 PM Response to Original message |
27. I still love my country. Does that count? |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 06:18 PM Response to Reply #27 |
39. 911 911 911 911 911 |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
28. yes- childhood and adulthood. |
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Squatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 03:48 PM Response to Original message |
29. I was accused of rape once |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
30. yes, although only once |
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kerry-is-my-prez (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 03:54 PM Response to Original message |
31. Saw some guy beating a woman and got some guys to break it up... |
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MedleyMisty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 04:31 PM Response to Original message |
32. My mother's current boyfriend is abusive |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 08:24 PM Response to Reply #32 |
45. You're right to keep your autonomy from that kind of situation |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 09:41 PM Response to Reply #32 |
50. I can understand her not understanding..... |
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Lone_Star_Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 04:35 PM Response to Original message |
33. Only 17% of the 77 people who've voted have not |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
34. As a child, yes... |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
35. I tried to stop a guy from beating his girlfriend and she turned on me. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
36. I beat a guy senseless after he tried to rape a friend of mine. |
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blues90 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 05:09 PM Response to Original message |
37. Both as a child and adult |
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Prophet 451 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
38. Difficult to talk about |
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Ino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 06:30 PM Response to Original message |
40. Yes, starting at the honeymoon |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 06:37 PM Response to Original message |
41. I'm trying to keep my daughter out of it now UP |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 08:16 PM Response to Reply #41 |
44. Thanks and good luck, restraining orders are a good start |
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Jed Dilligan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 06:40 PM Response to Original message |
42. Never been in a violent couple or family |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 07:03 PM Response to Original message |
43. Lots of emotional and verbal abuse. |
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Az (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 08:28 PM Response to Original message |
46. I have intervened on a number of occaisions. |
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SmokingJacket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 08:36 PM Response to Original message |
47. No, I've never been with a violent man. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 08:46 PM Response to Original message |
48. So Sorry To Hear You Went Through This U.P. I Can Only Hope You Never Have To Again. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-25-07 09:40 PM Response to Original message |
49. 19% vote no. Thank you all for sharing and voting. Amazing numbers. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-26-07 10:45 AM Response to Original message |
52. Thank you everyone, kick for the morning crew to see if anyone else want to vote |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-26-07 10:49 AM Response to Original message |
53. Careful with this topic. I was accused of being a co-abuser of my child |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-26-07 05:39 PM Response to Reply #53 |
59. That person sounds like a critical jerk with a lot of assumptions. |
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ourbluenation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-26-07 10:49 AM Response to Original message |
54. it takes the average victim 8 times to leave his/her batterer for good. |
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originalpckelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-26-07 10:58 AM Response to Original message |
55. Oh dear, this is just a heartbreaking thread. |
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MountainLaurel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-26-07 11:20 AM Response to Original message |
56. In high school |
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DearAbby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-26-07 11:31 AM Response to Original message |
57. Been there done that. |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-26-07 11:39 AM Response to Original message |
58. No, but... |
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