Relationships: Do as I say (not as I boo-boo)
Call it ego inflation, extreme hypocrisy, classic morality tale or personal failing. Those who secretly commit the acts they publicly disdain are often at
war with themselves.
By Gail Rosenblum, Star Tribune
Last update: July 25, 2007 – 5:38 PM
If the story of Sen. David Vitter sounds like déjà vu all over again, that's probably because it is. Earlier this month, the Louisiana senator, with his wife at his side, offered "sincere apologies" to those he had hurt after being linked to an escort service in Washington, D.C. Vitter -- who has campaigned largely on "family values" -- delivered his mea culpa just eight months after the Haggard affair: The Rev. Ted Haggard, senior pastor of the 14,000-member New Life Church in Colorado Springs and a vocal critic of gay rights, admitted to "sexual immorality" and to purchasing illegal drugs and a massage from a former male prostitute. He labeled himself a "deceiver and a liar."
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The smokescreen. Well, I might get caught, so I'd better make that less likely. "If I'm the fire-and-brimstone family values guy," Miner said, "maybe you're not going to figure out that many evenings, as I'm driving home from Capitol Hill, I'm stopping on 14th Street."
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Faith. Sometimes faith or a strong belief system can be an attempted refuge from a demon or difficulty, Bera said. "You may repeatedly profess your rigid beliefs, in hopes of not thinking and not doing that which you fear or desire."
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