WP op-ed: "A Prayer for Larry Craig," by James McGreevey

[DeepModem Mom]

A Prayer for Larry Craig
By James E. McGreevey
Monday, September 3, 2007; Page A15

My gut wrenched when I read of Sen. Larry Craig's bathroom arrest. I remembered my own late-night encounter with the law at a Garden State Parkway rest stop following a political dinner in north Jersey....

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...being in the closet uniquely assisted me in politics. From my first run for the state legislature until my election as governor, all too often I was not leading but following my best guess at public opinion. Politics was for me a way to secure the crowd's approbation while maintaining a busyness that obfuscated the desires of my heart. Despite being a moderately liberal governor, my stance on marriage was: "between a man and a woman." The position, in my mind, created a tension with the lesbian-gay-bisexual-transgender community that affirmed my bona fides as a "straight." Only after the crisis that resulted in my resignation, when public opinion no longer mattered, did I realize the importance and legitimacy of same-sex marriage.

Ultimately, like Sen. Craig, I resigned for the perceived good of my family, state and political party. And in so doing, I at long last accepted a fundamental truth, namely, that I am a gay American. In my soul, I found peace. In my heart, I found love. In my psyche, I disassembled the twisted separate strands of my life to create a healthy integrated person. And with my God, I found purpose.

I can only pray that Larry Craig and his loving family come to peace with his truth, whatever that may be. To those who judge him harshly, I ask that they fill their hearts with compassion and equanimity. The senator did not have a lover on the payroll, as I did; nor did he engage in sexual relations for money or use his office for unethical professional or personal gain.

Is it possible that we hold him to a different standard because a same-sex entanglement is involved? If being gay is, as I believe, a natural gift of the creator, what choice does a gay person have in being gay? If we condemn sin in an equal manner, so be it. But what if our condemnation tells to members of the next generation that they are to be shamed, repudiated and vilified inequitably for being gay?

I pray that the tide of American history continues to sweep toward the inevitable expansion of freedom that recognizes the worth and dignity of every individual -- and that mine is the last generation that is required to choose between affairs of the heart and elected office.

(The writer, a student at the General Theological Seminary of the Episcopal Church in New York, resigned in 2004 after two years as governor of New Jersey.)

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/09/02/AR2007090200889.html?nav=most_emailed

[cali]

1. blechh. n/t

[Olney Blue]

2. I thought this was a well-written article by McGreevey.

[Maat]

4. I did too.

It seemed like a genuine, heartfelt expression to me.

[Prism]

3. I wish he would go away

McGreevey strikes me as a sociopath, and I'm getting more than a little tired of his "Hearken, for verily I am now a shaman of gay wisdom."

That was the fastest adjustment to coming out of the closet I have ever witnessed. I think, like any snake, he might have shed his skin, but he's still slithering along same as ever. He dropped one persona and picked up another like it was nothing.

Real gay people don't talk like this man, act like this man, or handle their sexuality and coming out process nearly as easily and quickly as this man has. Every time he speaks, I feel like I need a shower.

Too much? Maybe. He just does that to me. Everything I've ever read about him creeps me the hell out.