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hang a left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 08:53 PM Original message |
What do you do when you are trapped in an abusive relationship? One where you have not the means? |
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DS1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
1. Since you don't want real advice, I'll have to go with |
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hang a left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 08:58 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. I don't know who you are but.... |
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candycom (36 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 04:52 AM Response to Reply #1 |
114. Okay, okay......... |
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SharonAnn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 08:33 PM Response to Reply #1 |
138. It damages your son to know you are abused. It is teaching him it's OK for men to abuse women. |
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msongs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 08:58 PM Response to Original message |
2. walk out the door NOW, worry about the "means" later and take the kid with you. try a local |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:13 PM Response to Reply #2 |
21. I agree with |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 08:59 PM Response to Original message |
4. i walked out the door |
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silverweb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
5. Been there, done that. |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
6. I'm so sorry he abuses you |
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goclark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:18 PM Response to Reply #6 |
78. Get out! Been there, done that and know it will not get better |
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shraby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:02 PM Response to Original message |
7. Find the nearest women's shelter and |
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hang a left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:07 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. I love ya Shraby... |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:02 PM Response to Reply #13 |
49. I haven't yet read down thread... so maybe you answer this below |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:37 PM Response to Reply #13 |
82. It's not an option. It's an obligation. n/t |
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demnan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:02 PM Response to Original message |
8. what kind of example does he set for your son? |
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hang a left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:06 PM Response to Reply #8 |
11. He never does this in front of my son |
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Hoof Hearted (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:38 PM Response to Reply #11 |
36. So your son will never know? Nuh-uh. You know better than that. |
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Mnemosyne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:37 PM Response to Reply #36 |
63. Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? It is easy to be on the outside |
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Hoof Hearted (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 02:43 AM Response to Reply #63 |
110. Yes. Twenty years past the last of my broken teeth were extracted last week. |
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Mnemosyne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 07:34 PM Response to Reply #110 |
134. It has nothing to do with condoning it, Hoof, it is a matter of . |
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Mnemosyne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:39 PM Response to Reply #11 |
37. Your boy hears, whether he is awake or even just his subconscious |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:04 PM Response to Reply #11 |
51. The verbal violence is what teaches acceptable contempt |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:22 PM Response to Reply #11 |
80. Your child will know. |
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shraby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 01:27 AM Response to Reply #11 |
99. Believe me, your son will remember |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:02 PM Response to Original message |
9. Violence will only increase, so you figure it out -- |
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Richard Steele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:03 PM Response to Original message |
10. Bear in mind, this isn't just about YOU. |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
12. Uh. |
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hang a left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:11 PM Response to Reply #12 |
18. Thank you... |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:31 PM Response to Reply #18 |
32. My dear, I know you said that you didn't want advice |
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notadmblnd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:08 PM Response to Original message |
14. My husband and I got physical one time only |
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hang a left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:18 PM Response to Reply #14 |
22. Well good for you!! |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:28 PM Response to Reply #22 |
29. then tell him he'd better not |
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Mnemosyne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:48 PM Response to Reply #29 |
39. I used that line myself a couple times, long ago. A baseball bat is |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:54 PM Response to Reply #39 |
43. two of my sisters have had these sort of problems |
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Mnemosyne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:12 PM Response to Reply #43 |
56. Anyone smart, without a gun, knows to stay away |
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StarryNite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:57 PM Response to Reply #39 |
70. I was thinking of a gun. |
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Mnemosyne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:03 PM Response to Reply #70 |
73. Not real comfortable with guns, |
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tnlefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:36 PM Response to Reply #22 |
62. He's gotta go to sleep sometime has always been my motto! |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:00 PM Response to Reply #62 |
71. ...she drug him out into the middle of the street... |
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tnlefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:26 PM Response to Reply #71 |
81. My sons were with me when she was telling this, |
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hang a left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 01:32 AM Response to Reply #71 |
100. Don't you love it?? |
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Ms. Toad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 07:58 PM Response to Reply #22 |
137. Take a street fighting class |
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scarletwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:09 PM Response to Original message |
15. If you don't want "advise" (sic), why did you post this? What DO you want? |
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Mnemosyne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:50 PM Response to Reply #15 |
42. I believe |
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shaniqua6392 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:10 PM Response to Original message |
16. I am so sorry. |
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hang a left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:34 PM Response to Reply #16 |
33. Thank you so much for your words... |
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Mnemosyne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:55 PM Response to Reply #16 |
44. shaniqua, you said it much better than I did. |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:00 PM Response to Reply #16 |
48. beautiful story and best advice |
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TheDebbieDee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:11 PM Response to Original message |
17. I have been where you are now............ |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:11 PM Original message |
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hang a left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:35 PM Response to Original message |
34. I love it... |
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Ghost in the Machine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:11 PM Response to Original message |
19. Leave. Right. Now! Don't wait, don't hesitate. Leave. Now! |
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trashcanistanista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:12 PM Response to Original message |
20. You can press charges and get him out. |
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merh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:19 PM Response to Original message |
23. You think your child doesn't know, but he knows. |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:08 PM Response to Reply #23 |
54. I concur and I can't say it any better than merh. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
24. Take your kid and leave now! |
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parasim (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
25. Well, fas far as I'm concerned, he is NOT a "dream father" |
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Mnemosyne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:19 PM Response to Reply #25 |
58. Excellent points and advice, parasim. Exactly right. n/t |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
26. you are going to have to leave whether you have finances or not |
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BlackVelvet04 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:27 PM Response to Original message |
27. I'm sorry you don't want any advice...... |
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frogcycle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:28 PM Response to Original message |
28. my sister stayed in a relationship like this |
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Hoof Hearted (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
30. I got out - and as a mom I MUST say. . . For your son's sake |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:30 PM Response to Original message |
31. Today, I went to the grocery store. |
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roody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:38 PM Response to Original message |
35. When he kills you, you won't be trapped anymore. |
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StarryNite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:20 PM Response to Reply #35 |
79. Blunt... |
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kimmylavin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:40 PM Response to Original message |
38. What do you do? |
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derby378 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:49 PM Response to Original message |
40. There IS a good man for you and your son - but you won't find him unless you GET OUT |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:50 PM Response to Original message |
41. Make it look like an accident. |
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msedano (682 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
45. do you read? |
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Horse with no Name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
46. I'm sorry for your predicament |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 09:59 PM Response to Original message |
47. This is texbook. |
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canetoad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:02 PM Response to Original message |
50. I can dig your need to vent |
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CelticWinter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:04 PM Response to Original message |
52. Your not alone---- |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:08 PM Response to Original message |
53. YOU HAVE A RESPONSIBILITY TO THAT CHILD OF YOURS |
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Mnemosyne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:27 PM Response to Reply #53 |
59. So many great posts here, wish I could recommend many of them. |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:53 PM Response to Reply #53 |
87. hang a left--you said this boy was your "youngest" son |
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hang a left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 01:50 AM Response to Reply #87 |
104. Oldest boy is in college....- |
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Hoof Hearted (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 04:18 AM Response to Reply #104 |
113. If your oldest boy is that old then you are old enough to know better. |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:11 PM Response to Original message |
55. Men like him I would delight |
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hang a left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 01:52 AM Response to Reply #55 |
105. Wow, so passionate. |
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Fierce (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:19 PM Response to Original message |
57. If you love your son, get yourself and him out. |
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StarryNite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:29 PM Response to Original message |
60. He isn't treating your child like gold |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:35 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. The youngest is being singled out for special attention & treatment |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:51 PM Response to Reply #61 |
67. I doubt that is the reason. Lundy Bancroft, America's foremost authority |
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Mandate My Ass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:02 PM Response to Reply #67 |
72. I'd be the last one to argue with an expert |
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hang a left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:53 PM Response to Reply #67 |
88. Wow. That gave me the chills. nt |
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StarryNite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:52 PM Response to Reply #61 |
68. Yes |
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hang a left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 01:57 AM Response to Reply #61 |
106. OMG. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 02:08 AM Response to Reply #106 |
108. Did you see the recent episode of Oprah about domestic abuse? |
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Danieljay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 10:38 AM Response to Reply #60 |
130. He's not treating your son like Gold, the worthless puke of a husband is using him to feel better |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:38 PM Response to Original message |
64. The answer is here: |
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hang a left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 12:00 AM Response to Reply #64 |
90. lorien...your post was so priceless... |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 01:10 AM Response to Reply #90 |
95. You already have |
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canetoad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 01:46 AM Response to Reply #64 |
102. Some points I would add |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 01:59 AM Response to Reply #102 |
107. The book I suggested does not advocate tolerance/ forgivness/ or |
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robinlynne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:39 PM Response to Original message |
65. Abuse never gets better. It only gets worse. Don't pretend it will be better |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:47 PM Response to Original message |
66. he is grooming your son. to be on his side against you. |
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Little Star (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 08:56 AM Response to Reply #66 |
123. Grooming..... |
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Katherine Brengle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
69. Please leave. This is not advice. I am begging you. |
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fed-up (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:13 PM Response to Original message |
74. what is stopping you? there is welfare /medi-cal/ foodstamps/ women's shelters |
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StarryNite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:13 PM Response to Original message |
75. Just be careful! |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:16 PM Response to Original message |
76. I've been in your shoes... |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:16 PM Response to Original message |
77. You may want to visit this forum and copy your post to it - it's a GREAT forum |
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Honeycombe8 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:38 PM Response to Original message |
83. He's trying to turn your son against you, is my opinion. |
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Patchuli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:39 PM Response to Original message |
84. Maybe you don't want advice, but |
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rateyes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:41 PM Response to Original message |
85. A good father does NOT abuse a child's mother... |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:47 PM Response to Original message |
86. Some part of you won't let go of him. You're hanging on to him, for some reason. |
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hang a left (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 12:17 AM Response to Reply #86 |
91. What a thoughtful post... |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 12:25 AM Response to Reply #91 |
92. Then that's what's keeping you hanging on. And how do you know that no one else would ever want you? |
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orleans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 03:28 AM Response to Reply #91 |
111. that is so sad. your answer...your response. it is so sad that you feel that way |
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laylah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 04:02 AM Response to Reply #91 |
112. hang a left |
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salin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 06:46 AM Response to Reply #91 |
118. And sadly, the longer you are in this relationship, the more he will |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 12:55 AM Response to Reply #86 |
93. Poem by an abused woman: |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 01:18 AM Response to Reply #93 |
96. Thanks - that's another reason women stay in these kinds of abusive relationships: |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 01:47 AM Response to Reply #96 |
103. Getting away from them is indeed far more difficult than those outside the |
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begin_within (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 08:32 AM Response to Reply #103 |
122. Thanks - and it's far more common than people realize. |
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AZBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Sep-07-07 11:57 PM Response to Original message |
89. Do you have any other family members that might help? Have you tried to contact any agencies? |
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snot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 12:55 AM Response to Original message |
94. Here's another tack: |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 01:19 AM Response to Original message |
97. You do not want advice? |
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StarryNite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 01:27 AM Response to Reply #97 |
98. And if you don't do it for yourself, |
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QueenOfCalifornia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 01:43 AM Response to Reply #98 |
101. Correct! |
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skyblue (724 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 07:54 AM Response to Reply #97 |
121. exactly. |
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Trajan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 02:12 AM Response to Original message |
109. The reason you did not show the police your wounds ... |
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wildebeest (11 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 05:24 AM Response to Original message |
115. Leave the situation for the sake of your child |
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dddem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 06:26 AM Response to Original message |
116. Change is difficult. |
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oscarmitre (330 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 06:32 AM Response to Original message |
117. I know you don't want advice |
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Jacobin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 07:10 AM Response to Original message |
119. Our town has a women's shelter for these situations |
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OneBlueSky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 07:50 AM Response to Original message |
120. I work as a consultant to a battered women's shelter . . . here are some resources . . . |
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TalkingDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 08:59 AM Response to Original message |
124. You Idiot. You are the one abusing your son. I don't feel sorry for you. |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 10:30 AM Response to Reply #124 |
129. If I could nominate any single post in this thread |
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TalkingDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 11:54 AM Response to Reply #129 |
131. Thanks. I hate reading crap like this. I spend the next hour furious. |
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Corgigal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 12:43 PM Response to Reply #124 |
133. son is safe? |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 09:08 AM Response to Original message |
125. take your son & go to a shelter. |
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IronLionZion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 09:41 AM Response to Original message |
126. ... |
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ljm2002 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
127. What to do when you are in a trap |
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truth2power (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
128. I'm thinking that you don't want advice...you want validation that |
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mandyky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 12:09 PM Response to Original message |
132. Sept. 11 will be 16 months out of mine, |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 07:47 PM Response to Original message |
135. I had a relative who went through this and also a friend |
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Onlooker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 07:54 PM Response to Original message |
136. I don't know if anyone posted this |
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Bryn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
139. Don't stay |
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Raejeanowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 09:32 PM Response to Original message |
140. If You Don't Want Advice |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 10:27 PM Response to Original message |
141. hang a left keep updating us on how you are doing |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 10:30 PM Response to Original message |
142. You do what I did. |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 10:34 PM Response to Reply #142 |
143. Wow. Great post - Great advice - |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 10:38 PM Response to Reply #142 |
144. Recommended Post. :) |
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Lone_Star_Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 11:07 PM Response to Reply #142 |
146. Been there, lived that and came out the other side too. |
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Imagevision (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 10:45 PM Response to Original message |
145. goto the cops, ask for all the agency's in your area that can help, explain to |
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Lone_Star_Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-08-07 11:12 PM Response to Original message |
147. No advice, no BS. |
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