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TomInTib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:05 PM
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My best friend and business partner is under the knife as I type this.
Partial radical mastectomy.

One of the finest, smartest, funniest Women on the Planet.

So, after all the trials and tribulations of the last week (OMC's Stacy), if you have any Positive Mojo Arrows left in your quiver - notch 'em up and fling them in the general direction of the San Francisco Bay. I am certain they will find Nina.
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:06 PM
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1. Of course. Prayers to you and your friend.
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TomInTib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:24 PM
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5. Thank you so much.
This thing is driving me to distraction.
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spoony Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:09 PM
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2. Sure thing!
That's what communities are for. :grouphug:

May Nina come through well, be healthy and continue to enrich the lives around her with her smarts and humour.
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saracat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:14 PM
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3. Positive light and healing to Nina!
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canadianbeaver Donating Member (929 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:21 PM
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4. Wrapping the San Fran area with bubble of light and healing...
for all those who may need it..including Nina.

Heck....wrapping this whole dang world in loveable light!! PEACE
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Fredda Weinberg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:29 PM
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6. Best wishes ... you posted her photo once, didn't you? n/t
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musette_sf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:33 PM
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7. prayers for Nina n/t
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ljm2002 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:34 PM
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8. Love, prayers and light...
...sending to the Bay (oh, how I miss it) and Nina!

Here's hoping she comes through this and recovers fully.
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Richard Steele Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:37 PM
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9. Of course! Best wishes and good energy for Nina!
Let me just pet my "good vibe generator" up to full purring speed here....

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TomInTib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 03:14 PM
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26. Thank you, Richard.
And Nina is not much bigger than that cat.

98lbs, this morning at check-in.

Thank you,
Tom
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lazyriver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:40 PM
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10. Funny thing about positive mojo...
there always seems to be some left. Consider those arrows flying.
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northernsoul Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:40 PM
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11. Best wishes, Nina!
Positive mojo rockets, prepare for lift-off!
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:40 PM
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12. Thought, wishes, prayers to you all, Tom.
:hug:
:grouphug:
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:41 PM
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13. Healing thoughts on the way for Nina! nt
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ismnotwasm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:47 PM
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14. Absolutely
Edited on Thu Oct-04-07 02:48 PM by ismnotwasm
Good wishes and good health vibes headed toward San Francisco.
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Ellipsis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:50 PM
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15. Positive vibes comin' your way.
She'll be okay.
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:51 PM
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16. Piece of cake, Nina. . .
May she have nothing but years of joy and laughter ahead of her.
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fed-up Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:53 PM
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17. here come lots more good, healing thoughts for a successful surgery & fast recovery..& some hugs nt
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malaise Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:53 PM
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18. Here's wishing her
pure good vibes.
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MANative Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:54 PM
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19. Wishing Nina a full and complete recovery, and
many decades of good health to come.

:hug:
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Stinky The Clown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:55 PM
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20. Good Karma on its way, Tom. Be well, Nina.
I have two business partners. Both women. Wonderful women. "Like family" women. I can really relate to how you're feeling. The younger of the two had cancer surgery just a few years ago, in her late thirties.

Be well, Nina.
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TomInTib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 03:22 PM
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30. You know,.....
with all the crap that I have been through in my life, I would never have guessed that this thing would affect me so deeply.

Nina was laughing about it yesterday and I was just a mess.

She is a tiny, beautiful woman with the heart bigger than the sky.

Weighed 98lbs at check-in this morning.

Thank you, buddy,
Tom
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Hepburn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:58 PM
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21. Positive thoughts on their way as I type this!
Aiming myself at the bay area in SF.
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dave123williams Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 02:59 PM
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22. I don't envy her; my mom went through it, and let me tell you, it sucked for all involved.

Best on a speedy recovery to your partner. Medical science has jumped leaps and bounds since our family encountered breast cancer.
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mitchtv Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 03:00 PM
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23. Best hospitals and Dr's in the world
in the Bay Area She will be well treated, and come out just fine
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 03:01 PM
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24. Best wishes for your friend TomInTib!
:D :hug: And when it's caught early, there's a very good chance for remission.
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 03:13 PM
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25. I'll give you positive. I'm a breast cancer SURVIVOR.
She will be, too. :hug:
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TomInTib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 03:18 PM
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28. Now, THAT'S what I'm talking about.
Thank you, congradulations and wishing you a lifetime of clear scans, emilyg.

Tom
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KitchenWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 03:15 PM
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27. Absolutely!
Nina is surrounded by healing energy which will give her strength.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 03:19 PM
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29. Of course. A prayer for recovery and ease. nt
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Contrary1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 03:35 PM
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31. 10 Year Breast Cancer Survivor Here!
Edited on Thu Oct-04-07 03:37 PM by Contrary1
Positve mojo arrows flinging now.
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TomInTib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 05:02 PM
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36. I love it.
That "Survivor" business.

I have full faith that Nina will walk away from this, but it is killing me.

Heck, she was laughing about it when she first told me.

"Can you believe that? Breast Cancer? Just what I f&%king need right now."

She is so tough.

So pretty.

She weighed 98lbs at check-in.
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Contrary1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 05:26 PM
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38. I laughed too...after a while.
As they were wheeling me into the OR for the mastectomy, I asked the nurse to call Hooters and inform them that I wouldn't be making it in to work that night.

Humor does help a lot sometimes. :)

Keep un informed as to how Nina is doing.
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 08:33 PM
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52. Hello Sister!!!
:hug:
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Raejeanowl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 04:17 PM
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32. I Can See Nina Glowing
She's positively vibrating with the energy of our combined prayers and meditations. Think that way, too, Tom. Direct our cleansing, healing flow into her along with your love and concern. I will keep the both of you in my thoughts and prayers.
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TomInTib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 04:42 PM
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34. I'll keep you posted, Raejeanowl.
First, your friend and mine.

And now, Nina.

Difference is, Nina's going to make it. I just know.

But this has been the proverbial ton of bricks, Raejean.

Damn, I feel so alone.

T
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 04:38 PM
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33. Off to you Tom and Friend
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Wiley50 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 04:55 PM
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35. Add me to this list, Tom! Best Wishes! n/t
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TomInTib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 05:34 PM
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39. Thank you, Wiley.
This business has me a little off-balance, right about now.
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Emit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 05:09 PM
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37. Positive Mojo Arrows to Nina now! n/t
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mulsh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 05:40 PM
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40. Oakland's vortex of mojo is on its way.
I'm also making extra sacrifices to my personal god of health and healing for her.
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proud patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 05:41 PM
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41. sending healing strength
for her recovery :hug:
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KT2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 06:02 PM
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42. Sure do -
sending healing vibes to Nina.
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OzarkDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 06:06 PM
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43. Sure, will do
To reassure everyone, Stacey's situation was a terrible tragedy, but its also very rare.
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 06:25 PM
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44. bless your friend. I will pray for her. GO, NINA! Be well.
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Booster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 06:29 PM
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45. I'm lighting a candle for Nina right now. We can't afford to lose
one of the finest, smartest, funniest Women on the Planet. :grouphug:
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TomInTib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 07:09 PM
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46. Thank you, spenbax.
While I am sure she will be fine (minus a body part or two), this thing has hit me like a freight train.

Nina is a beautiful woman.

All 98lbs of her.

We knew one another when we both lived in Dallas (maybe 15 years ago). Then she moved away and we lost touch.

I moved to Tiburon five years ago and went out walking down our tiny Main Street the second day I was here.

Ran into Nina on the sidewalk.

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Booster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 07:34 PM
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48. Wow, that's amazing you ran into her on the sidewalk. Some
people are just meant to be together (not necessarily in a man/woman relationship, but as great friends) and forces we have no control over make these kind of things happen. I have a feeling Nina is going to be fine, especially with you around. Tell her she's got a lot of people pulling for her here on DU.
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 07:11 PM
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47. I hope things go well for her
I will be keeping both of you in my prayers.
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 07:36 PM
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49. Absolutely, Tom.
My mom is a breast cancer survivor. Sending good survival/healing vibes to Nina.

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coffeenap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 07:53 PM
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50. Sending all the healing energy possible.
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earth mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 07:59 PM
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51. Sending positive & healthy vibes to your friend and you. nt
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RiverStone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 08:41 PM
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53. arrows on the way!
...they will find her, even through the fog!




best wishes for her speedy recovery:)
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lonestarnot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 08:48 PM
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54. Fire in the hole!
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emsimon33 Donating Member (904 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 09:04 PM
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55. She has my prayers and positive wishes for full recovery
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havocmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 09:08 PM
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56. Healing energy for Nina, in a big white ball and flying to the bay area
May she recover as well as my sister in Tucson has.

Surround her with positive, supportive people who know this particular drill, Tom. My sis said that made all the difference for her.

:hug: for you to get you through so you can be her strength when she needs it.
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Beausoir Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 09:30 PM
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57. Damn breast cancer. Best wishes to your good friend.
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MuseRider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 09:35 PM
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58. They are on their way
to you and to Nina. Tomorrow morning the billies and I will dance.

Never run out of arrows, I grow them here :). :hug:
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davsand Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Oct-04-07 10:22 PM
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59. Tom, I lit a candle for you two.
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/message.cfm?l=eng&cid=4403067

Sending you both well wishes, wisdom, and healing energy.


Laura
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havocmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-05-07 08:45 AM
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60. A kick for the friend of a friend
Keeping the lady in my thoughts...

:kick: because DU is full of good people with good energy to share.
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fortyfeetunder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-05-07 09:14 AM
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61. Hugs and healing
:hug:
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Javaman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-05-07 11:33 AM
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62. Much good thoughts and prayers. nt
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