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ewoden (634 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 10:22 PM Original message |
Well my wife has called it quits |
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rusty quoin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
1. I'm sorry man. |
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MannyGoldstein (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
2. Ooof. So Very, Very Sorry To Hear |
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momzno1 (434 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
3. goodness, I am really sorry... |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 10:27 PM Response to Original message |
4. I'm so sorry. |
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Zoigal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 10:32 PM Response to Original message |
5. Sincerely sorry, ewoden |
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Beausoir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 10:34 PM Response to Original message |
6. Damn. I am sorry. |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 10:34 PM Response to Original message |
7. Do you have a lawyer? |
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BlueJazz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 10:34 PM Response to Original message |
8. I understand....Many of us have gone through a divorce and there... |
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cyberpj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 10:36 PM Response to Original message |
9. DO THIS NOW: 1-Get printouts of all financial accounts. 2-Hire an attorney. Do NOT wait. |
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peacebird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 10:37 PM Response to Original message |
10. oh my, I am so sorry. Know that you and your family are in our prayers, hoping against hope |
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Uben (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 10:49 PM Response to Original message |
11. Life goes on, bro |
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Raejeanowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
12. Pardon My French, But That Is Shitty |
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napi21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 10:57 PM Response to Original message |
13. Another thing you need to do NOW is get a note book. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 10:59 PM Response to Original message |
14. (Been there, Done that.) You are about to have one of the most difficult experiences of all. |
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goclark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 01:19 AM Response to Reply #14 |
31. Excellent and so true ~ |
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TroglodyteScholar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 01:40 AM Response to Reply #14 |
32. Wish someone had given me this advice when my wife left awhile back... |
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ChairmanAgnostic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 06:05 AM Response to Reply #32 |
45. tahiti has some great points. follow them. |
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Beerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 02:43 AM Response to Reply #14 |
38. Holy shit, how I wish I'd read your list |
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blondie58 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 11:00 PM Response to Original message |
15. I am so sorry, ewoden |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 11:00 PM Response to Original message |
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0007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 11:07 PM Response to Original message |
17. Its easy to give advise but hard to take it ... Don't do anything |
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Mojorabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 11:16 PM Response to Original message |
18. I can't add to the |
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Carolina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 11:23 PM Response to Original message |
19. my deepest sympathy |
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intheozone (839 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 11:34 PM Response to Original message |
20. sorry to hear it, a divorce is never easy, especially with kids. nt |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 11:36 PM Response to Original message |
21. So sorry. |
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Cleetus (405 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 11:47 PM Response to Original message |
22. Shit, I'm sorry. |
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soothsayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-05-07 11:53 PM Response to Original message |
23. Think of it as a rough patch. Things will work out for the best. |
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On the Road (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 12:03 AM Response to Original message |
24. Took Your Money and Your Daughter -- |
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Colorado Progressive (980 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 12:10 AM Response to Original message |
25. Crap. Try to work it out, really. Fight the devil you know. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 12:15 AM Response to Original message |
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The Velveteen Ocelot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 12:16 AM Response to Reply #26 |
27. That was just mean. |
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ChairmanAgnostic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 06:12 AM Response to Reply #27 |
46. and thoroughly uncalled for. |
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SammyWinstonJack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 07:10 AM Response to Reply #26 |
49. ... |
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Hoof Hearted (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 12:28 AM Response to Original message |
28. Deepest sympathies. It's just like a death. Your kids will be O.K. if the two of you can both |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 12:34 AM Response to Original message |
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Maraya1969 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 01:01 AM Response to Original message |
30. Oh geeze I am so sorry. |
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nosmokes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 02:28 AM Response to Original message |
33. Divorce sucks. I'm sorry. |
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Der Blaue Engel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 02:32 AM Response to Original message |
34. You have my sympathies |
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donheld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 02:32 AM Response to Original message |
35. I'm so very sorry |
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Guaranteed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 02:35 AM Response to Original message |
36. Make sure you aim the anger in the right direction. |
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Beerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 02:40 AM Response to Original message |
37. Wow, that's about as grim as it gets short of Death; |
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Shandris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 02:53 AM Response to Original message |
39. I know I'm brand new here |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 03:00 AM Response to Reply #39 |
40. Welcome to DU, shandris! |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 12:17 PM Response to Reply #39 |
74. Welcome to DU, Shandris. |
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MichaelHarris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 03:17 AM Response to Original message |
41. Very sorry to hear that |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 05:20 AM Response to Original message |
42. is |
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ChairmanAgnostic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 06:01 AM Response to Reply #42 |
44. NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO |
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gaspee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 06:37 AM Response to Reply #44 |
47. And after mediation |
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ChairmanAgnostic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 05:55 AM Response to Original message |
43. first things first |
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gaspee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 06:41 AM Response to Reply #43 |
48. When you said |
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ChairmanAgnostic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 10:01 AM Response to Reply #48 |
65. That is what I promote in my book. |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 08:14 AM Response to Reply #43 |
55. And I might add: do NOT attempt to turn the children against the other parent. |
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ChairmanAgnostic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 10:01 AM Response to Reply #55 |
66. very well put! how true. |
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johan helge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 07:23 AM Response to Original message |
50. I'm so sorry, |
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The Backlash Cometh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 07:28 AM Response to Original message |
51. And this too shall pass. Just hold on, try to do something positive and new |
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NorthernSpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 07:44 AM Response to Original message |
52. this is a huge shock to your system, and you have to protect your heart... |
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Xenotime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 07:46 AM Response to Original message |
53. You sound like this was a bit of a surprise to you. So sorry. |
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BlackVelvet04 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 08:04 AM Response to Original message |
54. It's really important to have someone to talk to who isn't too |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 08:33 AM Response to Original message |
56. I am so sorry Ewoden. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 08:33 AM Response to Original message |
57. So sorry to hear this. Excellent advice on some of these posts |
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Kajsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 08:43 AM Response to Reply #57 |
58. Great advice, Mnhtnbb! |
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John Q. Citizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 11:13 AM Response to Reply #57 |
70. Yep, no badmouthing. If you can't say something good about her, her |
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leftist_not_liberal (408 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 09:03 AM Response to Original message |
59. My condolences and two words of advice |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 09:34 AM Response to Original message |
60. Get a lawyer....NOW! |
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mcscajun (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 09:35 AM Response to Original message |
61. My condolences, ewoden. Tough times ahead, for sure. Been there. |
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lonestarnot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 09:37 AM Response to Original message |
62. Here's a couple more words of advise you didn't ask for but, |
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ChairmanAgnostic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 10:06 AM Response to Reply #62 |
67. and less stressful, and more rewarding for the kids |
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John Q. Citizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 11:21 AM Response to Reply #62 |
71. It depends on what is being faught over. If it's the TV, just let it go. If it's |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 09:41 AM Response to Original message |
63. I'm sorry, ewoden. Very, very sorry for your pain. |
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Vidar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
64. I'm very sorry. I hope you are able to deal with it better than I did. |
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iamthebandfanman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
68. as someone from a divorced family |
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muffin1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 10:23 AM Response to Original message |
69. I am so sorry. |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 11:22 AM Response to Original message |
72. I am so very sorry *hugs* |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
73. So sorry. And yes it is all about the kids now. |
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blue cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
75. I'm so sorry |
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momster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 06:11 PM Response to Original message |
76. My Sympathies |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 06:18 PM Response to Original message |
77. Wow, that sucks. |
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Flabbergasted (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-06-07 06:19 PM Response to Original message |
78. I'll keep some good vibes going for you..... |
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