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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-13-08 01:07 AM
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I have a lot of respect for you (another TSS Rant)
I am 42 years old, when I was a young teen I loved to play chess (and I still do online).

I have played in many tournaments. My first one was an unrated one. I didn't lose any games, but I drew against a school teacher named Brock. Years later I met a woman (my X wife whom has since died) and I went to her church and he was a deacon there.

The kid who won the whole tournament was from Granville, Ohio. A young Oriental boy with a future in the game. I never got to play him that weekend because of that draw.

About 6 months later his school played mine. I was second board (we had 5 boards). My best friend was board #1 (he was better at strategy and I was better at tactical chess) and I finally got to play this chess whiz from Granville (he was 2nd board as well).

I beat him so bad I felt sorry for him. At the end of the game we shook hands and I asked him "Weren't you the kid who won the Granville unrated tournament?" and he said Yes.

About 4 months after that I was in the Cardinal Open in Columbus, Ohio. I was in round 3 and was matched up against my best friend James. We had never played for top board, I knew he was better and wanted him to be top board so the team could keep winning (our football team sucked at the time, all the school had was us, and yes - I lettered in chess).

I spent about 10 minutes thinking about one move, then simply moved my pawn to King Rook 3. We drew the game. As was our custom we went over our games together - and he then asked me about why I spent so much time thinking over my move.

I had seen a beautiful tactical move that could win me the game - if he made the wrong move. But I did not want to take the chance so I played it safe.

And, as I mentioned, we ended the game in a draw.

Through the years I have played many fine people. One who wore a train hat and was a favorite at tournaments (he was a ref and a player). When he died we had a memorial tournament in his honor, and I could not help feeling bad that the last time I played him I beat him.

At his memorial tournament I played a lady that was ranked higher than me, she too was a school teacher. And I beat her.

I shook her hand and said "I have a lot of respect for you" and left the board feeling bad.

I had won, as I had many times before, but this time (like the time I beat the guy we were having the tournament for) I felt bad about me.

Why? Because it was not about ME - it was about the game. And I see it here on DU as being about the same thing.

I don't care if Hillary or Obama wins, I care about US winning.

The little people, the ones without insurance, the ones who are homeless, the ones that need jobs.

You can win a game here and there (and I have beaten a master and drew with a grandmaster before) - but if you let the game of politics come before the rest of game - well, you will lose in the long term.

I have a lot of respect for the people I have played. Some I have beaten, some I have not. But at the end of the day we all embraced for the love of the game.

You and I are on the same team. Obama. Hillary. It does not matter - they are both way better than the hell we have now.

The game isn't over until we resign - and I say, we still have a chance to win.

You in, or are you ready to turn over the king and give the game to someone else?

Me? I know we may not have the best position and best people - but we have a chance to get closer to a win - and I am willing to go with that.

I respect you and whom you choose. Tell me again why we are fighting against each other?
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JeffR Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-13-08 01:12 AM
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1. Woohoo! First rec
I wish this could be pinned to the top of GDP for the duration of the primaries.

For that matter, my friend, I wish you were running. You'd get my vote in a heartbeat.

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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-13-08 01:16 AM
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Naw, just another drunken rant
from an X chess player :) Damn, what I wouldn't give for us - the people - to be in power for a short spell...

We got it right, they got it wrong. And in the end all I want to ask is 'why??'
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PDJane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-13-08 01:15 AM
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2. Another kick and recommend........
I've been avoiding the primaries; I don't have much interest in the infighting and bickering, in part because I'm from another country and in part because I can't imagine having this long drawn out process take over everything for eons!!!
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NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-13-08 01:16 AM
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3. Beautifully said ...
:kick: :kick: :kick:
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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-13-08 12:59 PM
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11. As always - coming from you that means a lot
as Jack Nicholson once said (a slight tweak) "You make me want to be a better poster" :rofl:
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Ichingcarpenter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-13-08 01:16 AM
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4. The sicilian Dragon Defense.
My son won the chess championship for his district in Denmark
I taught him and respect and admire this post for the reference
and the nice piece of writing.
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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-13-08 01:22 AM
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5. lol
sad that I know what you are talking about :)

Give your son a hug from me.
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intaglio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-13-08 05:04 AM
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9. Dragon the reason I used QGA and QGD
Oh, what - err - K&R for TSS
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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-14-08 12:34 AM
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12. how's it feel to be a geek
:rofl:

Damned sad we both know what the Dragon defense is...no wonder no one dated me in high school.

Oh well, in the end I got the girl :)
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Viva_La_Revolution Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-13-08 01:24 AM
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6. We will win
If we stick together. :)

:hug:
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lapfog_1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-13-08 01:52 AM
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7. Our backgrounds are so similar

I learned to play chess at a very young age. By the time I was 8 or 9 no one in my family would play me anymore. I was first board at my high school chess club, my best friend throughout high school was second. As a junior, I became the State Chess Champion (Kansas) and caught the attention of serious chess players (I had already won a number of class prizes as I moved up the ranks). Then I played Elliot Winslow (current rating 2325), the then current Missouri State Champion and a known US Master... and he was having a horrible day for our match... sick, and having relationship issues... I beat him with possibly my most brilliant game of my life, but had he been at the top of his game, it would have gone the other way. I felt really bad for him. He mumbled a "congratulations" and everyone gathered around me to slap my back. I just felt really hollow inside.

I became good enough to play blindfolded and win against lesser players, and sometimes engaged in simultaneous match play against the entire chess club.

Just before college a Russian Grandmaster came to visit. He wasn't even one of their top rated players. He put on a simultaneous exhibition (32 boards) against the entire Kansas City Chess Club. At the end, his record was 31 and 0 with 1 tie. The tie was me. And then I learned the limits of my chess playing expertise. I was never going to be the next Bobby Fisher... I would never compete on equal terms with the grand masters of the game. It's one thing to play the local club pros and do OK, it's another to play against Tiger Woods. After that exhibition match, I never played competitive chess again (and still haven't).

I wasn't as good as Elliot Winslow... and I never would be.

But I have other talents and found them to be less competitive but more rewarding.

When this current chess match is over between Obama and Hillary, I hope we can all shake hands and move on to face the republicans in November. The Republicans will not make this easy, despite the horrible way Bush and his minions have run things for the last 7 long years. We dare not underestimate them.

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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-13-08 11:47 AM
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10. Awesome story!
I have played blindfold as well, and many games with my friend on the bus without either of us having a board.

I miss those simple days. But life is better now because I have a wonderful wife and daughter :)
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lapfog_1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-14-08 03:29 PM
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13. I had a coach that, while we were driving to the next tournament,
would have me either play him without a board... or would call out a square and have me give the "knight's tour" from that square... or call out another square and have me play "8 queens". All in my head. Doubt I could do either now.

People don't think of chess as a "sport"... but I would go to a tournament and lose about 10 pounds or more in the course of a 3 day event. All from mental effort and nervous energy. Afterward I would feel totally drained, more so than after a hard day of bailing hay (bucking hay) which I did to make extra money every summer (or other farm community jobs).
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Hekate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-13-08 03:16 AM
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8. KnR my friend. You and Lapfog -- I've never played chess, but you are both so right. nt
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