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-..__... (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-10-08 10:31 PM Original message |
Child abuse, naive or "nurturing" parent? |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-10-08 10:38 PM Response to Original message |
1. "City girls just seem to find out early... How to open doors with just a smile" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-10-08 10:41 PM Response to Original message |
2. i dont agree with mom. i wouldnt/couldnt do it. i so understand the mom and get her |
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Ellen Forradalom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-10-08 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
3. Not sure I'd have done the same thing |
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MonkeyFunk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-10-08 10:55 PM Response to Original message |
4. Wow! |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-10-08 10:59 PM Response to Original message |
5. Is this really that big a deal? |
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Sophia_Karina (26 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-10-08 11:00 PM Response to Original message |
6. it should totally depend on the kid |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-10-08 11:03 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Welcome to DU, Sophia_Karina! |
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Sophia_Karina (26 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 01:35 AM Response to Reply #9 |
23. thank you so much! |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 01:48 AM Response to Reply #23 |
24. I don't think I have a lot of wisdom but I have a lot of heart! |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-10-08 11:01 PM Response to Original message |
7. That reminded me of the Richard Branson story |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-10-08 11:03 PM Response to Original message |
8. I was a latchkey kid at 10 |
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givemebackmycountry (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-10-08 11:41 PM Response to Original message |
10. No shit... |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-10-08 11:51 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. LOL! I'm just laughing with delight at your words! |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 10:26 AM Response to Reply #10 |
39. What a beautiful account of your childhood! You have me yearning for a pastrami sandwich with a |
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MercutioATC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-10-08 11:53 PM Response to Original message |
12. She didn't give him a cell phone because she "didn't want to lose it"... |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 12:47 AM Response to Reply #12 |
15. She knows her kid is capable and I totally get the "not wanting to lose the cell" n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:50 AM Response to Reply #15 |
26. hey, i am down with the lady, but that is a contradiction. trust kid |
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Sophia_Karina (26 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 01:31 AM Response to Reply #12 |
22. yes but |
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Xenotime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 01:14 PM Response to Reply #12 |
47. You are exactly right. She held on to everything that could be replaced... |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 12:03 AM Response to Original message |
13. Kids in Tokyo commute by subway as young as age 6 |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 12:49 AM Response to Reply #13 |
16. "The difference is that these incidents weren't broadcast 24/7 on the national news." - Exactly! |
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spinbaby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:59 AM Response to Reply #13 |
27. Tokyo must be a wonderful place to grow up |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 08:28 AM Response to Reply #27 |
36. I knew a couple who spent a year in Japan (a smaller city) with their preteen children |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 12:44 AM Response to Original message |
14. I wasn't that lucky. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 12:51 AM Response to Reply #14 |
17. There are tons of things to explore in "suburbia"...your Mom was a control freak. |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 01:16 AM Response to Reply #17 |
19. No, there wasn't anyplace interesting to explore where I lived. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 01:31 AM Response to Reply #19 |
21. "I never hung out with the other kids.... aimlessly..." ? |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 12:51 AM Response to Reply #14 |
18. Now THAT was child abuse! |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 01:20 AM Response to Original message |
20. Fucking gossipy busybody wusses are the only ones who have a problem... |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:43 AM Response to Original message |
25. I was a latchkey kid at 9-10 years. |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 08:02 AM Response to Reply #25 |
34. Same here, but I will, perhaps hypocritically, take a different approach w/our daughter |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 10:55 AM Response to Reply #25 |
41. If we do not over protect we can get in trouble though- it sucks |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 07:13 AM Response to Original message |
28. I understand the intention |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 07:19 AM Response to Original message |
29. There is much less crime in America than there used to be |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 07:44 AM Response to Original message |
30. I live in the suburbs but lived a good part of my life in NYC. I saw the mom and son on The Today |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 08:11 AM Response to Reply #30 |
35. Yes. We're in small town/rural division area ... |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 10:54 AM Response to Reply #35 |
40. My town on the other hand is large and sprawling covering loads of miles, with no sense of |
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Karenina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:30 PM Response to Reply #40 |
59. I recall the first day my kids were more than an arm's length |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-12-08 05:20 PM Response to Reply #59 |
61. What a great account! I love the part of your son converting the money! |
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lastliberalintexas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 07:47 AM Response to Original message |
31. I see it as much an indictment on our cities and culture |
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Snarkturian Clone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 07:53 AM Response to Original message |
32. Ugh. Permissive parents are the bane of my existence. NT |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 07:55 AM Response to Original message |
33. most of parenting is about playing the odds. |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 08:49 AM Response to Original message |
37. I let my 15 year old go to India for 11 months.... |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
38. Personally, I wouldn't have allowed this for even my mature 11 year old son, |
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cali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 11:09 AM Response to Reply #38 |
42. well, I have mixed feelings |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 05:59 PM Response to Reply #42 |
56. I grew up in small towns. At the age of eight, I would ride my bike two miles to meet a friend |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 07:15 PM Response to Reply #42 |
60. I'm with you on this. |
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 11:50 AM Response to Reply #38 |
45. Agreed on all points. NT |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 11:12 AM Response to Original message |
43. Wait a minute. She thought he would lose a cell phone but |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 11:47 AM Response to Original message |
44. It's not for my kids. |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 12:09 PM Response to Original message |
46. carrying a cell phone (esp with GPS) would have been a reasonable safety measure. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 01:22 PM Response to Reply #46 |
49. Agreed. Also, if this child can't be trusted not to lose a cell phone, is he REALLY |
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The Magistrate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 01:19 PM Response to Original message |
48. If A Child Of Nine Is Not Capable Of This Modest Feat, Sir, Its Parents Are Incompetents |
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MercutioATC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 05:09 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. It's not about the child's ability to get home, |
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The Magistrate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 05:33 PM Response to Reply #51 |
52. I Roamed The City At That Age, Sir |
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MercutioATC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 05:39 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. I do understand that, it just seems a rather large risk to take. |
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The Magistrate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 05:53 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. The Odds Of It Being Disastrous, Sir |
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MercutioATC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:18 PM Response to Reply #54 |
57. New York is a lot safer now than in the past, but |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 05:56 PM Response to Reply #52 |
55. I am curious |
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The Magistrate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:22 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. Chicago, Ma'am, Mostly |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 01:35 PM Response to Original message |
50. When my daughter was 8 she wanted to "hang out at the mall" with her |
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