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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:25 PM Original message |
Poll question: would you want to know if mate was cheating on you |
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Birthmark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:26 PM Response to Original message |
1. NO. |
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MercutioATC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:27 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Ahh! Now, THAT'S real revenge! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:29 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. lmao.... ya. lol lol. n/t |
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Birthmark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:32 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. Well, it's only fair. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:35 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. well, that is a very good point. a lot of time they are doing it to relieve guilt |
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Birthmark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:39 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. If there's a good reason |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:40 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. well |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 10:22 PM Response to Reply #16 |
37. . |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-13-08 12:19 AM Response to Reply #37 |
57. . |
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gateley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 07:15 PM Response to Reply #6 |
32. And always living with the fear they'll be found out. |
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hisownpetard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:32 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. What if she had no shame? |
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Birthmark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:35 PM Response to Reply #5 |
9. Then I wouldn't be married to her. ;) |
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Donnachaidh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:52 PM Response to Reply #5 |
24. OR he. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:57 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. eeeew. that is not good. n/t |
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SteinbachMB (304 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:42 PM Response to Reply #1 |
18. You cheat on me |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-13-08 02:03 AM Response to Reply #1 |
58. That's assuming she would feel shame, and not be a sociopath. |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:31 PM Response to Original message |
4. Oh, please, I always knew. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:37 PM Response to Reply #4 |
12. really. i have heard this. |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:32 PM Response to Original message |
7. Yes. |
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Birthmark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:36 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. What you can do to change things: |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:43 PM Response to Reply #11 |
19. That too is an option, but sometimes breaking up a marriage |
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Birthmark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:48 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. That's true. |
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hisownpetard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 08:21 PM Response to Reply #19 |
36. But in the scenario described, I don't think it would be *you* who needs to wonder |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 11:44 PM Response to Reply #36 |
43. It's a question. |
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hisownpetard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-12-08 10:42 AM Response to Reply #43 |
48. You didn't say, "...if there is something I should know about." That's different from asking |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-12-08 02:03 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. How do I know the fault isn't mine if I don't ask?n/t |
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hisownpetard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-12-08 02:12 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. Because you're not the one who disrespected your partner by cheating. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-12-08 02:20 PM Response to Reply #49 |
51. bah hahaha. well. i told hubby a decade ago, .... i dont want to hear 20 yrs down the road |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-12-08 02:59 PM Response to Reply #51 |
52. Some people aren't willing to throw away a whole marriage |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-12-08 03:26 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. cleita you are right. i am wrong. readily i agree with you. |
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hisownpetard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 08:19 PM Response to Reply #11 |
35. !!! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:38 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. what can I do to change things?... you are a bigger person than i am |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:34 PM Response to Original message |
8. Yes, to get tested for STDs or HIV at minimum |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:39 PM Response to Reply #8 |
15. facts just gotta be out there. |
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blonndee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:41 PM Response to Original message |
17. For me, it would depend if it was ongoing or a one-time thing. |
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BlueJazz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:44 PM Response to Original message |
20. I'd ask her for her Lover's Name...I could then call him up and ask him.. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:46 PM Response to Reply #20 |
21. fist to fist |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:48 PM Response to Original message |
23. Yes. Nobody wants to be made a fool of. |
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angrycarpenter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:55 PM Response to Original message |
25. Been there on both sides and it sucks. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 06:59 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. i am good at lying. AND i never lie. no reason |
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davsand (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 07:05 PM Response to Original message |
28. I'd want to know. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 07:14 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. you know.... |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 07:11 PM Response to Original message |
29. Yes, so I could exit, stage left her from my life. |
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OhioChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 07:12 PM Response to Original message |
30. Oh Hell Yes..... n/t |
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devilgrrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 07:15 PM Response to Original message |
33. Man, these relationship/parenting threads make me glad that I'm single/not looking |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 07:18 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. hey.... marriage for 14 years has been soooo good and very very easy |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 10:31 PM Response to Reply #34 |
42. Husband and I have wondered that, too... |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 10:24 PM Response to Reply #33 |
38. you're missing me |
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devilgrrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-12-08 12:09 AM Response to Reply #38 |
44. Yer already taken! |
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Fox Mulder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 10:26 PM Response to Reply #33 |
41. I know what you mean. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 10:25 PM Response to Original message |
39. Yeah. He'd probably want to know why I was kicking his sorry ass. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-11-08 10:26 PM Response to Original message |
40. Why in the world would I want to know something like that? |
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Yupster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-12-08 05:08 PM Response to Reply #40 |
54. One reason is that you'd be seeing |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-12-08 08:23 PM Response to Reply #54 |
55. the best |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-12-08 12:24 AM Response to Original message |
45. Yes, but only because of the disease factor. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-12-08 12:27 AM Response to Original message |
46. Trust me, I'd know and he sure as HELL would know!! |
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htuttle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-12-08 12:29 AM Response to Original message |
47. Been there. Done that. Got the T-Shirt. |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Apr-12-08 08:27 PM Response to Original message |
56. Seeing as how i'm not impervious to disease, yes i'd want to know and then i'd be tested |
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Vidar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-13-08 05:07 AM Response to Original message |
59. I'd like to know. Personally the dishonesty bothers me more than the sexual infidelity itself. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Apr-13-08 11:45 AM Response to Reply #59 |
60. exactly |
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