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lightningandsnow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 05:48 PM Original message |
What do you do when people tell racist jokes around you? |
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The Blue Flower (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 05:51 PM Response to Original message |
1. I just say it isn't funny |
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proud patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 05:51 PM Response to Original message |
2. I usually will just not laugh if in another home |
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lisa58 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 05:52 PM Original message |
How about, "I don't get it? What's funny about that?" |
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Dyedinthewoolliberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
3. It must be hard |
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Lex1775 (314 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 05:53 PM Response to Original message |
4. Don't laugh. |
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peacebird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 05:53 PM Response to Original message |
5. You don't HAVE to "say" anything - just look at them without a smile, that lets them know you don't |
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chill_wind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 05:59 PM Response to Reply #5 |
8. Yes-- it works. I won't pretend to find humor in racism no matter the setting |
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onethatcares (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:38 PM Response to Reply #8 |
24. that is the ticket. If your so called aquaintances don't understand |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
6. Miss Manners has the answers to all questions... |
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texshelters (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
7. It depends on who it is |
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John Q. Citizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 05:59 PM Response to Original message |
9. You could tell your own joke, like Q: 'Why do people tell racist jokes?' |
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NNN0LHI (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:02 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. That is really good |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:04 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. That made me laugh. Just join in, pointedly. |
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John Q. Citizen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:13 PM Response to Reply #11 |
16. The key is to stick to the 'It's just a joke, don't get so upset,' if someone doesn't like your joke |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:42 PM Response to Reply #16 |
26. and play naive and all. Very funny. |
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Mind_your_head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:05 PM Response to Original message |
12. Stoney silence if you are shy |
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Pavulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:09 PM Response to Original message |
13. Generally I leave.. |
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mamalone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
14. That's a tough one.... |
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Mind_your_head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:25 PM Response to Reply #14 |
19. That's VERY good advice! |
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mamalone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:36 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. Thanks! |
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Mind_your_head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:51 PM Response to Reply #22 |
27. Great mom - great daughter..... |
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mamalone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:58 PM Response to Reply #27 |
30. Awww.... how kind you are! |
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pink-o (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:12 PM Response to Original message |
15. I had a cousin who used to pull shit like that all the time when I was your age |
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Prefer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:15 PM Response to Original message |
17. poop in their shoe |
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catnhatnh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:22 PM Response to Original message |
18. AspieGrrl....It's a big world with plenty of causes for anger or despair. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:29 PM Response to Original message |
20. If someone does that near me I'll usually say, |
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OutNow (538 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:35 PM Response to Original message |
21. I Get In their Face Big time |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:37 PM Response to Original message |
23. Your parents should be the one to say something, your parents invited them so i'll |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:40 PM Response to Original message |
25. If the situation permits, I say something like "That's not appropriate" |
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OffWithTheirHeads (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:53 PM Response to Original message |
28. If it's funny, I laugh |
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elfin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 06:53 PM Response to Original message |
29. I say "I didn't know you were a racist" in a |
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laylah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 07:29 PM Response to Original message |
31. Of course, being much older, |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 08:05 PM Response to Original message |
32. I try to say in as bland a voice as possible, "I don't think race jokes are funny" |
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Canuckistanian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-22-08 08:08 PM Response to Original message |
33. I usually don't say anything |
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