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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 10:43 PM Original message |
Any tips on developing fat acceptance |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 10:47 PM Response to Original message |
1. What does "morbidly obese" suggest to you? |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 10:55 PM Response to Reply #1 |
7. My father is morbidly obese (meaning that he's more than 100 pounds |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 12:02 AM Response to Reply #7 |
17. Is he really 100 lbs overweight? |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 01:11 AM Response to Reply #17 |
23. Without exaggeration-he's around 400 pounds, or more |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 05:36 AM Response to Reply #23 |
37. Cheryl Haworth is shorter than he is and weighs 300 lbs |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 11:07 AM Response to Reply #37 |
72. Being 300 and very muscular is very different than being 400 -450 pounds |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 05:45 PM Response to Reply #72 |
88. That's really too bad--there are a lot of fat acceptance sites with extensive hints |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 07:49 AM Response to Reply #88 |
121. Why do you think that the only ways to live are "starve/binge" cycles or constant overeating? |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 08:11 AM Response to Reply #121 |
124. To be honest, El Pinko |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 08:29 AM Response to Reply #124 |
127. 1500-1700 per day isn't "starving", is it? |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 11:56 AM Response to Reply #127 |
131. No, it really isn't.... |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 12:32 PM Response to Reply #131 |
132. My breakfasts and lunches are repetitive, too. |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 12:38 PM Response to Reply #132 |
133. I would like to try that ponzu- where do you get it? |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 12:48 PM Response to Reply #133 |
135. Any Japanese market and many Chinese/general asian market... |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 11:39 PM Response to Reply #121 |
139. I'm not opposed at all--I'm just clueing you in to reality |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-07-08 09:44 AM Response to Reply #139 |
147. Who said anything about meeting arbitrary standards like "average" person? |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-07-08 08:29 PM Response to Reply #147 |
149. Can't disagree with your advice to the OP n/t |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:10 AM Response to Reply #1 |
43. I think it is a medical term |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 10:47 PM Response to Original message |
2. what do you mean by acceptance ? |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:11 AM Response to Reply #2 |
44. That is what I mean, |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:15 AM Response to Reply #44 |
46. can you tell more and be more specific ? |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:47 AM Response to Reply #46 |
55. The health thing is an issue |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 07:09 AM Response to Reply #55 |
60. it has nothing to do with being a liberal |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 07:16 AM Response to Reply #60 |
61. She was heavy when we met |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 07:36 AM Response to Reply #61 |
62. so you are open to her about it ? |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 07:56 AM Response to Reply #62 |
65. thanks for the replies |
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angstlessk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 08:29 PM Response to Reply #60 |
106. I totally agree ...my ex-husband LOVED women with very wide hips and piano legs |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 09:33 AM Response to Reply #55 |
70. That is not about |
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psychmommy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 12:05 PM Response to Reply #55 |
75. i am overweight also. |
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1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
3. i think your acceptance is a great start... |
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ccharles000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
4. If you are both happy... |
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Beaverhausen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 10:54 PM Response to Original message |
5. In what way is the weight an issue? |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:13 AM Response to Reply #5 |
45. yes to both |
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Beaverhausen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 11:34 AM Response to Reply #45 |
73. I lost 50 lbs last year |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 08:12 AM Response to Reply #73 |
125. Congratulations.... |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 10:54 PM Response to Original message |
6. Not sure what you mean |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:18 AM Response to Reply #6 |
47. I don't know what to say |
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izquierdista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
8. Here's some help |
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gateley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
9. Bless your heart - |
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Double T (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 11:16 PM Response to Original message |
10. No. FAT should NOT be OK or accepted! |
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LeftyFingerPop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 11:20 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. You forgot the sarcasm smiley. n/t |
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Double T (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 11:29 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. Oh gees, you're right.....!!! |
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Sam Ervin jret (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 11:59 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. how would you know if she is beautiful or not? or in good health? |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:05 AM Response to Reply #13 |
41. Being 7 feet tall is beautiful and good for you too! |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 11:55 PM Response to Reply #10 |
15. Stupid. Stupid. Stupid. |
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SemiCharmedQuark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 12:19 AM Response to Reply #15 |
20. I agree with you. |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 05:37 AM Response to Reply #15 |
38. Not necessarily |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:25 AM Response to Reply #15 |
52. I'm on it |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:23 AM Response to Reply #10 |
51. I've never pushed her, or nagged |
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The Diest (82 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 11:26 PM Response to Original message |
12. Love is love, but....if her physical appearance is bothering you |
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Kindigger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 12:07 AM Response to Reply #12 |
18. very good answer |
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canetoad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 03:36 AM Response to Reply #12 |
33. Righto. Love with conditions |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 07:26 PM Response to Reply #33 |
100. All love has conditions. |
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cbc5g (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-04-08 11:32 PM Response to Original message |
14. Become an agent of change in her life and help her |
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Jack_DeLeon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 12:15 AM Response to Original message |
19. Its your life do whatever makes you happy... |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:29 AM Response to Reply #19 |
53. lol |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 12:27 AM Response to Original message |
21. They don't call it morbid obesity for nothing. |
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Firespirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 12:36 AM Response to Original message |
22. Bookmarking the thread... |
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nadine_mn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 01:11 AM Response to Original message |
24. I am morbidly obese and I don't have fat acceptance fo rmyself |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:39 AM Response to Reply #24 |
54. thank you |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 12:29 PM Response to Reply #54 |
79. Look at the series from Ian Mckenna "I can make you thin." |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:30 PM Response to Reply #79 |
94. I found that guy to be an insufferable twit. |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 08:25 PM Response to Reply #94 |
104. I go the DVDs yes paid for them |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 08:46 PM Response to Reply #54 |
108. start by understanding that some things you can't change, they're beyond your control |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 09:06 PM Response to Reply #108 |
113. Your hubby has medical issues that prevent him from loosing the weight |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 11:40 AM Response to Reply #24 |
74. Your post was very moving to me. Hating yourself every day is awful. |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 01:29 AM Response to Original message |
25. As a person who needs to loose weight and one |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 05:44 AM Response to Reply #25 |
39. It is being genetically diabetic that causes weight gain in adulthood |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 12:19 PM Response to Reply #39 |
76. I'd rather have the McKenna approach to this |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 05:50 PM Response to Reply #76 |
90. Insulin resistance is genetic, period |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 08:21 PM Response to Reply #90 |
103. Yes it is genetic |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 05:15 AM Response to Reply #103 |
117. There is no evidence whatsoever than weight loss is the direct cause |
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The Inquisitive (480 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 01:34 AM Response to Original message |
26. Fat acceptance is a stupid phrase |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 01:38 AM Response to Reply #26 |
27. You forgot one more, the use of certain drugs |
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The Inquisitive (480 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 01:47 AM Response to Reply #27 |
28. good catch |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 02:15 AM Response to Reply #27 |
29. A drug I was prescribed for fibromyalgia helped the sleep-disorder and pain a great deal, BUT.... |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 12:22 PM Original message |
For me it was a diabetes med |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 12:52 PM Response to Original message |
80. A drug to treat a disease for which too much weight is dangerous that causes you to gain weight... |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 01:12 PM Response to Reply #80 |
83. I know I have been pushing his method |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 01:55 PM Response to Reply #83 |
84. Thank you for the tips Nadin. I'll see if I can get the CDs from the library (it's amazing what they |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 02:25 PM Response to Reply #84 |
85. We live in the same town |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 12:22 PM Response to Reply #29 |
77. For me it was a diabetes med |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 02:33 AM Response to Original message |
30. This Monday's LA Times Health section has some surprising info on weight. Link |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 09:26 AM Response to Reply #30 |
130. LOL - key words- "post-diet" |
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Festivito (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 02:55 AM Response to Original message |
31. Accept yourself, the rest will follow. |
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canetoad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 03:35 AM Response to Original message |
32. FFS stop reading shit posts |
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KT2000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 03:59 AM Response to Original message |
34. Just this |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 05:19 AM Response to Original message |
35. If you like the girl, don't you want her to have a long, healthy life? |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 05:46 AM Response to Reply #35 |
40. Except for the slight problem that fighting it makes it a lot worse |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:07 AM Response to Reply #40 |
42. Yo-yo diets, fad diets and crash diets, yes. |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 05:55 PM Response to Reply #42 |
91. Excuse me, but there are thousands who did exactly what you did-- |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 08:26 PM Response to Reply #91 |
105. I didn't say I was better than they are, just healthier. |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 05:06 AM Response to Reply #105 |
116. You aren't necessarily healthier, either |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 07:34 AM Response to Reply #116 |
120. I never had high blood sugar or high blood pressure. |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 08:58 AM Response to Reply #120 |
128. Even if you had lost very little weight, your health would have improved with your new behaviors |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 09:13 AM Response to Reply #128 |
129. I wish I could "gain brain" as easily as I lost weight... |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 11:41 PM Response to Reply #129 |
140. Well, no wonder it worked--you were eating a lot more than average |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-07-08 12:32 AM Response to Reply #140 |
141. That may be so - individuals are responsible for their own body maintenance. |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-07-08 02:54 AM Response to Reply #141 |
143. One's weight range is certainly set in stone |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 05:31 AM Response to Original message |
36. Health advice for fat people is pretty much the same as for thin people |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:19 AM Response to Reply #36 |
48. "A healthier diet" is not just quality, but quantity. |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 05:43 PM Response to Reply #48 |
86. That's mainly genetic. Coastal people in Europe and Asia-- |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 08:52 PM Response to Reply #86 |
109. I couldn't find them but have seen stats |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 05:03 AM Response to Reply #109 |
115. It all starts with genes |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 02:31 PM Response to Reply #109 |
151. "Most medical authorities" know next to nothing about diet and nutrition |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 08:52 PM Response to Reply #48 |
110. have you ever been to japan, el pinko, i suspect not |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 09:17 PM Response to Reply #110 |
114. Yes, for years and visit on a regular basis. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 08:24 AM Response to Reply #114 |
126. I lived in Hong Kong |
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EOTE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 02:55 PM Response to Reply #48 |
137. That's not true regarding intake. |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 08:01 PM Response to Reply #137 |
138. I'm not saying there is no individual variation... |
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NuttyFluffers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:19 AM Response to Original message |
49. go dancing at a nightclub |
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lightningandsnow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:21 AM Response to Reply #49 |
50. Awesome post! |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:56 AM Response to Reply #50 |
57. thank you for checking in my dear friend |
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lightningandsnow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 07:06 AM Response to Reply #57 |
59. Aww, thanks! |
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NuttyFluffers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 05:49 AM Response to Reply #50 |
119. embrace the beauty, let it shine. |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:53 AM Response to Reply #49 |
56. Agreed and thanks |
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NuttyFluffers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 05:43 AM Response to Reply #56 |
118. browse through clothes catalogs together |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:56 AM Response to Original message |
58. There's a point where obesity becomes a serious health issue |
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cap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 07:55 AM Response to Original message |
63. morbidly obese means that she has a real problem that will kill her |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 08:57 PM Response to Reply #63 |
111. if you get serious with anyone you'll be doing hospital time at some point |
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cap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 07:57 AM Response to Reply #111 |
122. I'm married to someone who is morbidly obese due to metabolic reasons |
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BigDaddy44 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 07:56 AM Response to Original message |
64. This is a ridiculous post |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 08:02 AM Response to Reply #64 |
66. thanks for the post |
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Sheets of Easter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 08:25 AM Response to Original message |
67. Size, shape and or figure acceptance is a great thing. |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 08:45 AM Response to Original message |
68. My SO is a pretty big guy |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 09:30 AM Response to Original message |
69. No.... |
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guitar man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 10:22 AM Response to Original message |
71. call 1-800-MIX-A-LOT |
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Blu Dahlia (362 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
78. I have been in her shoes. Never morbidly obese, |
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NickB79 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 12:53 PM Response to Original message |
81. Thank you for asking this question |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 12:54 PM Response to Original message |
82. I think it's unreasonable to expect yourself to adjust your tastes for "PC" reasons |
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Moloch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 05:44 PM Response to Original message |
87. Yes. |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:14 PM Response to Reply #87 |
93. Good thing you're here |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 05:49 PM Response to Original message |
89. If you love someone, you accept them as they are. |
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Missy Vixen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:38 PM Response to Reply #89 |
95. Undeterred, bingo |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:48 PM Response to Reply #95 |
96. Well it seems that fat makes a woman invisible. |
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Firespirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:59 PM Response to Reply #96 |
97. Erm.... up to a point. |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 07:05 PM Response to Reply #97 |
98. I wasn't meaning to make a point about thin women |
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Firespirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 07:23 PM Response to Reply #98 |
99. Hmm... I guess things are different in the younger generation |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 07:33 PM Response to Reply #99 |
101. Maybe it is generational- |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 02:35 PM Response to Reply #96 |
152. excellent point, that has been my experience exactly |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 06:04 PM Response to Original message |
92. MDMC, I hope she has seen a doctor and been checked for |
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leftyclimber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 08:12 PM Response to Original message |
102. There are clearly things you really love about her. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 08:35 PM Response to Original message |
107. my husband is overweight, here is my experience |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-05-08 08:57 PM Response to Original message |
112. If she were "the one" (stupid though that concept is) her body would not be an issue. |
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Phred42 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 08:02 AM Response to Original message |
123. If you love her - make her stop eating or she won't be around very long |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 12:43 PM Response to Reply #123 |
134. Here you are. |
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Phred42 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-06-08 01:04 PM Response to Reply #134 |
136. not nice |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-07-08 12:34 AM Response to Reply #136 |
142. And insinuating that all a hungry woman needs is a cock in her mouth is nice? |
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Phred42 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-07-08 08:32 AM Response to Reply #142 |
144. WHo said anything about that? |
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El Pinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-07-08 09:33 AM Response to Reply #144 |
146. Yeah, right. |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 02:36 PM Response to Reply #123 |
153. were you born an asshole? or do you work at it? n/t |
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Freddie Stubbs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-07-08 08:42 AM Response to Original message |
145. Morbid obesity is a medical condition which needs to be treated |
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Xenotime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-07-08 09:46 AM Response to Original message |
148. What do you mean by "dating" and "in love" |
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Carnea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-07-08 10:05 PM Response to Original message |
150. Admit to yourself the truth. |
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FlyingSquirrel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-08-08 02:45 PM Response to Original message |
154. My suggestion is to fall completely in love with her. |
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