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UndertheOcean (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 08:48 PM Original message |
why is Monogomy glorified anyway? |
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Faygo Kid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 08:50 PM Response to Original message |
1. Yeah, well, it doesn't work that way. |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 08:55 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. But if sex doesn't neccesarilly mean love and commitment |
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WheelWalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:09 PM Response to Reply #5 |
13. They don't - |
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crikkett (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:15 AM Response to Reply #5 |
83. having sex with another person makes you vulnerable |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 08:53 PM Response to Original message |
2. Don't ask me. |
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WheelWalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:03 PM Response to Reply #2 |
10. I agree, |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:43 PM Response to Reply #10 |
24. I often have confused people asking how one cheats in a poly relationship |
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crikkett (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:25 AM Response to Reply #24 |
86. What if J.E. just fell into her arms in a moment of weakness |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 02:08 PM Response to Reply #86 |
102. I'm sorry, but it really isn't contradictory. |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 05:20 PM Response to Reply #102 |
109. You're fabulous! |
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tomg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 07:27 PM Response to Reply #102 |
128. What a wonderful, intelligent and |
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crikkett (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 10:34 AM Response to Reply #102 |
144. I got your point and don't think you're contradicting yourself anymore. |
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Runcible Spoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 06:41 PM Response to Reply #102 |
167. I fucking LOVE YOU. |
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bemildred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 06:47 PM Response to Reply #102 |
168. Yes, integrity is something you do when it's inconvenient. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:51 PM Response to Reply #2 |
25. in your circle of friends |
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WheelWalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:56 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. I didn't hear |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:59 PM Response to Reply #26 |
30. polyamorous... wasnt in the dictionary, lol |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 10:06 PM Response to Reply #26 |
31. It really depends on the setup. |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:58 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. Actually it's fairly mixed. |
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WheelWalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 10:09 PM Response to Reply #28 |
32. Permutations extend ad infinitum. |
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Chovexani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 10:15 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. That sounds wonderful. |
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WheelWalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 10:31 PM Response to Reply #33 |
36. It is wonderful, |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 10:30 PM Response to Reply #28 |
35. i apprecaite it |
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GliderGuider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 08:58 AM Response to Reply #28 |
65. I was in an open marriage in the 1970s, and in a triad recently |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 09:54 AM Response to Reply #2 |
74. Let me hear back from you when you're old. |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 08:53 PM Response to Original message |
3. Cause VD don't just sting no more |
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WheelWalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
4. Free Love, or even |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 08:57 PM Response to Original message |
6. I don't think there's anything wrong |
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Kitty Herder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 02:12 AM Response to Reply #6 |
52. Absolutely. And if you can't keep your word, don't commit to a monogamous relationship. |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:57 PM Response to Reply #52 |
136. Pre-commitment to something people really don't understand the power of at the time . . . |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:34 AM Response to Reply #6 |
91. Exactly how I feel |
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baby_mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 07:14 PM Response to Reply #6 |
125. THAT is the correct answer. NT. |
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Whisp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 08:59 PM Response to Original message |
7. love is never free in a patriarchal society. nt |
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crikkett (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:30 AM Response to Reply #7 |
88. ...or any other in existence on the planet. Love is give and take. n/t |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 08:59 PM Response to Original message |
8. Men want to own their offspring and they do that by owning women |
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Kitty Herder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 02:16 AM Response to Reply #8 |
53. I agree for the most part. |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:00 PM Response to Reply #53 |
138. Pleasantville . . . ? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 05:26 PM Response to Reply #8 |
112. It is no less sexist to claim that women want kids, but they're too expensive on their own. |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:18 PM Response to Reply #112 |
153. They call it cheating mostly because of the religious baggage |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 08:29 PM Response to Reply #8 |
133. Primary reason . . . right there! |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:01 AM Response to Reply #8 |
143. You are touching on something that really bugs me about the defenses of Edwards. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:27 PM Response to Reply #143 |
157. Really? |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:14 PM Response to Reply #157 |
158. I've never seen "rolling pins" and "frying pans" being joking matters, except in cartoons. |
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AllentownJake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:02 PM Response to Original message |
9. Children |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:46 PM Response to Reply #9 |
141. No -- that's the patriarchal "family" . . . |
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Zynx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:19 PM Response to Reply #141 |
154. Given the errosion in the ability of one income to provide for a family |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 02:55 PM Response to Reply #154 |
163. ...or two mothers, or two fathers . . . or a mother and her sister . . . |
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Zynx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 03:33 PM Response to Reply #163 |
164. In any case, there needs to be two incomes in most cases. |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 03:35 PM Response to Reply #164 |
165. two incomes . . . as I said . . . but not specifically "mother/father" . . . |
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daleo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:03 PM Response to Original message |
11. We may have evolved for it |
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Kitty Herder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 02:17 AM Response to Reply #11 |
54. Great reply! nt |
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Runcible Spoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 07:02 PM Response to Reply #11 |
169. oh what a load of crap. if that were true, then it would be true cross culturally. |
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Edweird (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
12. Oppressive christofacist authoritarians have too much sway. |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:19 PM Response to Reply #12 |
139. You mean patriarchy and religous patriarchy have too much sway . . . |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 06:39 PM Response to Reply #139 |
166. Deleted message |
jesus_of_suburbia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:10 PM Response to Original message |
14. I think it's up to each individual couple. I prefer monogamy, but I have friends who prefer else |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:10 PM Response to Original message |
15. It's a choice |
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bemildred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:11 PM Response to Original message |
16. It has many real benefits. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:17 PM Response to Original message |
17. Monogamy evolved to protect PROPERTY.. |
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WheelWalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 10:53 PM Response to Reply #17 |
42. That's a pretty Indo-European centric outlook, don't you think? |
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Kitty Herder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 02:22 AM Response to Reply #42 |
55. It is indeed. |
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crikkett (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:32 AM Response to Reply #17 |
89. Yeah that's why Birds practice it. n/t |
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GliderGuider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:41 AM Response to Reply #89 |
92. Humans rarely grow feathers, though. |
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Zynx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:20 PM Response to Reply #92 |
155. The animal kingdom is hardly some utopia. |
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Annces (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:18 PM Response to Original message |
18. I don't know |
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arthritisR_US (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:19 PM Response to Original message |
19. sex and love ARE 2 different things but if you take vows to be |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:19 PM Response to Original message |
20. Men don't want to raise another guy's kids. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 02:31 AM Response to Reply #20 |
56. From an animalistic passing on genes sense perhaps, but I know lots of happy ste-dads. |
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SteelPenguin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 08:35 AM Response to Reply #20 |
64. There's a tribe, I think in New Guinea |
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crikkett (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:32 AM Response to Reply #20 |
90. Yet another false generalization. nT |
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baby_mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 07:13 PM Response to Reply #20 |
124. Ah well, guess I'll just blow my BIL off next time he drops my nephews on me. NT |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
21. you want to do it. do it. someone wants to commit to monogamous |
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sybylla (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 09:35 AM Response to Reply #21 |
72. Same here - it's a very selfish, hurtful act |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 11:37 AM Response to Reply #72 |
150. what i have seen on this board is how we would like to give infidility to all people |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:22 PM Response to Reply #21 |
140. If you don't want to be hurt, don't risk you heart --- don't fall in love . . . |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 11:35 AM Response to Reply #140 |
149. yes we all risk. i take personal responsibility seriously and just hasnt |
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jwirr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:34 PM Response to Original message |
22. Those of us involved in the free love movement soon learned that |
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WheelWalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:59 PM Response to Reply #22 |
29. I'm personally |
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deaniac21 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:37 PM Response to Original message |
23. It's really only glorified if you've promised someone that you'd |
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cobalt1999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
27. Because when you are truly in love, you don't want to have sex with anyone else. |
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WheelWalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 10:36 PM Response to Reply #27 |
37. When you are "truly" in love, |
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cobalt1999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 10:42 PM Response to Reply #37 |
38. True, but it can also be a fantastic bit of irrelevancy |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 10:45 PM Response to Reply #38 |
39. you probably dont glorify it either. it just is. i think maybe glorified isnt the proper |
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WheelWalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 10:48 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. We use to have a saying, didn't we? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 11:00 PM Response to Reply #40 |
43. i read your post above |
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WheelWalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 11:08 PM Response to Reply #43 |
44. Blessings. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 11:43 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. backatcha |
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WheelWalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 11:59 PM Response to Reply #45 |
48. We are the people our parents warned us about. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 12:30 AM Response to Reply #48 |
49. i remember you |
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WheelWalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 12:35 AM Response to Reply #49 |
50. You've got it right, |
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cobalt1999 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 10:52 PM Response to Reply #39 |
41. The monogamy itself isn't glorious. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 11:49 PM Response to Reply #41 |
46. yes |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:01 AM Response to Reply #38 |
76. Er, No. It is never "irrelevant". |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:01 AM Response to Reply #27 |
75. Yes. It should be that way for everyone if they don't lie to |
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GliderGuider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:05 AM Response to Reply #75 |
78. "Should be"? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 05:28 PM Response to Reply #27 |
113. I think your experience is atypical. n/t |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 10:28 PM Response to Original message |
34. it's glorified often by those who don't always follow it |
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RNdaSilva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-10-08 11:58 PM Response to Original message |
47. Become a Mormon and... |
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Mimosa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 01:11 AM Response to Original message |
51. Monogamy benefits women and children |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 02:35 AM Response to Reply #51 |
57. It doesn't have to be only those 2 choices. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 02:36 AM Response to Reply #51 |
58. Even those women who don't want it? |
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girl gone mad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 06:36 AM Response to Reply #51 |
61. It benefits men, too. |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:04 AM Response to Reply #51 |
77. It benefits BOTH. A lesson Michael Douglas learned in |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:01 AM Response to Reply #51 |
95. monogamy benefits my hubby. he knows how easy it would be for me to go out and play |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 02:39 AM Response to Original message |
59. I don't think it should be, it should just be one of several ways that humans can "hook up" as it... |
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TransitJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 02:55 AM Response to Original message |
60. I'm with you. |
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noel711 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 08:17 AM Response to Original message |
62. Well, from an individual who lived thru the 'free love' movement.... |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:06 AM Response to Reply #62 |
79. My best friend and I were saying similar things the other day. |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 08:22 AM Response to Original message |
63. However for many people... |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 09:09 AM Response to Original message |
66. As a species, humans have needed pair bonding for survival. |
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GliderGuider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 09:13 AM Response to Reply #66 |
67. We need cooperative groups to survive. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 09:25 AM Response to Reply #67 |
68. We evolved pair bonding because it works best. |
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Marrah_G (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 09:25 AM Response to Original message |
69. Because historically Polygamy is bad for society and very bad for women. |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 09:29 AM Response to Original message |
70. Women need assistance raising offspring; men don't want to raise another's. |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 09:29 AM Original message |
Sorry, dupe. nt |
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Romulox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 09:29 AM Response to Original message |
71. Sorry, dupe. nt |
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dionysus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 09:53 AM Response to Original message |
73. lol, another turtured attempt to defend sleazebag john eh? |
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JeanGrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:07 AM Response to Reply #73 |
80. Yeah are you surprised? |
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dionysus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:10 AM Response to Reply #80 |
82. sadly no... it wouldn't be *quite* as bad if Elizabeth was healthy, but damn... |
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paparush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
81. This Nation's sick, Puritan, conservative Christian Roots run Deep. |
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Mimosa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 04:01 PM Response to Reply #81 |
103. Paparush: 'We a nation of hypocrites':speak for yourself and John Edwards LOL |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
84. Monogomy works best for me and my SO... |
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Mimosa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 04:09 PM Response to Reply #84 |
104. Elizabeth Edwards didn't choose the cheater: she said she was furious. |
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Lisa0825 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:24 AM Response to Original message |
85. As a practical matter, single moms have high poverty rates. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:29 AM Response to Original message |
87. I am a man. I have always preferred monogamist relationships, as have many men I know. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
93. People like to think that someone loves them forever. |
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DevonRex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
94. How many women can 1 man impregnate in a month? A year? |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:03 AM Response to Original message |
96. For one thing, it decreases the spread of STDs. n/t |
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Occam Bandage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:05 AM Response to Original message |
97. LMAO. DU is so funny. One of its heroes gets caught fucking around on his cancer-struck wife, and |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:21 AM Response to Reply #97 |
99. word |
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AuntPatsy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 05:12 PM Response to Reply #97 |
107. Interesting analysis of "those" people....hmmm |
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baby_mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 07:08 PM Response to Reply #97 |
122. Why "suddenly" ? |
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Occam Bandage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 08:32 PM Response to Reply #122 |
134. Heh. Polyamory. |
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baby_mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 02:27 PM Response to Reply #134 |
162. ...alternatively: |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 11:40 AM Response to Reply #97 |
151. exactly. i am being told by defender that i too am at risk of fucking on my mate |
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MedleyMisty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
98. I can't imagine sex without love |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
100. Most peoples' glands reward them most for being (mostly) monogamous. |
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libodem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:41 AM Response to Original message |
101. Anybody remember |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
105. Please get clipped and at least be honest |
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Fla Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 05:09 PM Response to Original message |
106. Interesting this sentiment is from a male. Ok for men to have |
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baby_mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 07:11 PM Response to Reply #106 |
123. The vast majority of the socio-politically aware non-monogamists *I* have known |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 08:06 PM Response to Reply #106 |
131. Don't be too sure about that. nt |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 05:15 PM Response to Original message |
108. Monogamy is better for offspring. n/t |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
110. Because respect for one's self, others, not inciting heartbreak, and lastly, not spreading disease |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
111. Hey if women were given all the rights and privileges men have |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 05:31 PM Response to Reply #111 |
114. and maybe if we all hopped on one foot we'd stop being bi-peds |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 06:24 PM Response to Reply #114 |
117. The family unit is an evolutionary survival instinct |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 06:35 PM Response to Reply #117 |
119. that's one view ... |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 06:42 PM Response to Reply #119 |
120. Your ignorance must be bliss n/t |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 06:47 PM Response to Reply #120 |
121. If ignorance is bliss, you must be delirious. |
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Bluenorthwest (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 11:14 AM Response to Reply #120 |
146. Your views |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 11:28 AM Response to Reply #146 |
148. Correct. And I addressed that in other posts in this thread. |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 05:38 PM Response to Original message |
115. I don't' think it's monogamy.. |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 05:43 PM Response to Original message |
116. What happened to progressives championing civil rights? Why do they turn out to be hypocrites. |
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Bluenorthwest (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 11:24 AM Response to Reply #116 |
147. According to John himself... |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 06:30 PM Response to Original message |
118. Monogamy Isn't What's Glorified, Trust Is. |
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DustyJoe (102 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 07:15 PM Response to Original message |
126. 60's were great ! |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 07:24 PM Response to Original message |
127. A perspective apart from morality |
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BuelahWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 07:36 PM Response to Original message |
129. Didn't the AIDS virus have something to do with the end of the "free love" era? |
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anonymous171 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
130. Perhaps it has something to do with raisng children? |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 08:16 PM Response to Original message |
132. Because if you make a promise to someone, you keep it. |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
135. I think the question should really be . . . "why marriage" . . because |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 10:58 PM Response to Original message |
137. This thread went poorly. |
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UndertheOcean (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-11-08 11:55 PM Response to Original message |
142. 142 replies , gulp .... |
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Apollo11 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 10:38 AM Response to Original message |
145. Senator Edwards -- is that you? |
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UndertheOcean (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:15 PM Response to Reply #145 |
152. No , I'm not that good looking ... |
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Zynx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 12:23 PM Response to Original message |
156. I've never seen anything better than long standing marriages of people who love eachother. |
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iamthebandfanman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:16 PM Response to Original message |
159. it has more to do with respect |
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RidinMyDonkey (290 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:44 PM Response to Original message |
160. Of course we should not confuse love with sex |
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DailyGrind51 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 01:46 PM Response to Original message |
161. We discovered that not even love comes free! |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 07:04 PM Response to Original message |
170. don't get married, don't get engaged and then go for it |
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DailyGrind51 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 09:22 PM Response to Reply #170 |
172. Thank you! |
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IndianaGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-12-08 09:19 PM Response to Original message |
171. Engels: Monogamy is the subjugation of the one sex by the other; |
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