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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:06 AM
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Why does a mother bring her 4months old baby
to a place like the convention? Isn't it way too loud for a baby? I think it was totally uncalled for and bad judgement on her side.
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:07 AM
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1. Toher, that baby is the same as her Chihuahua is to Paris Hilton...merely an accessory.
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:08 AM
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4. Says a lot about her
as a mother. Thanks, but no thanks.
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Libby2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:08 AM
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2. I know it. She's a stupid ass.
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:10 AM
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6. And dangerous
I am as scared of her as I was of * in 2000.
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grasswire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:08 AM
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3. some of us think it's child abuse
Late at night, ungodly noise, bright lights, being passed back and forth, and not even a little blanket to put over its head. I think it's cruel.
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:09 AM
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5. Exactly
every reasonable woman would leave the baby at least backstage or even at home with a nanny or grandma. She doesn't care about her children, it is all about her and the pictures it produces.
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grasswire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:23 AM
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8. sure......bring the baby out at the beginning....
...and then send it back to some comfortable space with a sitter; she could even say so: "Little Trig is going offstage for a nap; say goodnight, everyone."
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KharmaTrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:35 AM
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9. AllThe Kids Are Being Abused
There's Track whose MOS is being waved around (I've only heard Biden refer his son's deployment once), the there's the Bristol circus that is a living example of what life without Roe v. Wade is like...humiliating her daughter in front of the world (a trauma I'm sure that will have long-lasting effects) who appears to have other problems as well...symptoms of someone alienated by their parents and looking for acceptance and comfort in other places.

And then there's the baby...her abuse of that child outrages me no end. From the story of her flying all over creating while in labor to going back to work 3 days after giving birth to a special needs child (all children at that early age have many needs), and now dragging this child around like a prop.

I hope many women are watching this closely...as well as moderates and independents. They can see which party NOW (and has always) stood for true family values.
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JeffR Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:37 AM
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10. Says it all!
:toast:

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KharmaTrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 03:25 AM
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12. Thanks JeffR
Do I get an honorary DUzy? :rofl:

Cheers...

:toast:
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malaise Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 09:36 AM
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19. LOL
:hi:
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KharmaTrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 09:42 AM
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22. Well I Tried...LOL
I'm listening to Stephanie Miller...she's hillarious this morning

http://www.wcptam.com/about/

She's alread ripped on the new "Preachergate" mess.

BTW...we're getting remnants of Gustav here this morning...we could use the rain.

:hi:
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KharmaTrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 09:42 AM
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23. Well I Tried...LOL
I'm listening to Stephanie Miller...she's hillarious this morning

http://www.wcptam.com/about/

She's alread ripped on the new "Preachergate" mess.

BTW...we're getting remnants of Gustav here this morning...we could use the rain.

:hi:
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lynnertic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 04:12 AM
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13. what is his MOS- that describes his specific job you know
I've only heard he was 'army' and 'about to deploy'.
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knitter4democracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 09:34 AM
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18. I entirely agree.
I really do try not to judge other moms, as I know I'm no perfect mom myself by any stretch. Still, there's no way I'd have taken my babies to that thing. Especially not my daughter, who would get so overstimulated just from family get-togethers that she'd just shut down and pretend to sleep only to be up all night screaming and nursing.

The story that she put out about her labor shows her to be incompetent and dangerous. What she did to her daughter was horrifying and all to silence some bloggers (when she could've done that with just herself and not involved her daughter at all). The woman disgusts me.
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emmadoggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 09:43 AM
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24. Ditto. To everything you said.
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KharmaTrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 09:54 AM
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31. My Situation Is More Personal
I have an older sibling who is mentally handicapped. My mother spent the rest of her life caring for my sister and now I'm her guardian. I've grown up around people with many disabilities and work with the center my sister is affiliated with...and watching Palin's "parenting" skills with that baby make me sick. She's put her ambition ahead of the bests of interests of that child...in a very critical time of its life...and is now using this kid as a prop? That People magazine cover sickened me more as she's trying to get sympathy...I feel so bad for those children.
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knitter4democracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 10:23 AM
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34. She's used him as a prop since she was in labor.
She had to fly back to Alaska to make sure he was born in the right state--putting his life at risk for a damn political stunt. It's too bad her kids seem so nice and are so cute--they really ended up with questionable parents.

When I see him, I just want to swoop in and take Trig and cuddle him and take care of him instead. Her older girls make me want to open up my home and be a host family for them, too. Why can't she ship them here to Battle Creek--it's not that much further than where they shipped Track off to (he was sent to Portage, MI, half an hour away, to finish his senior year with some "host" family).
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lapfog_1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:11 AM
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7. Like a money shot in a porn movie
the fundies had to SEE that baby... the one SAVED from the clutches of raving post birth abortionists. That had to see that Sarah made the right er, um choice by having this baby. Not that they are pro-choice... but Sarah made the right choice..er well, she really didn't HAVE a choice so she made the right DECISION... yeah, that's the ticket.
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:41 AM
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11. they use their uteruses, fetuses, and offspring as props
it's sickening.
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Hubert Flottz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 04:24 AM
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14. They use "God" as a prop too
And "God" is pissed off just like we are I think..."God" disrupted their convention.

The republicans are Studio Patriots and Studio Christians. They might fool the fools but it looks like the rabid "religious" Reich wingers may not be fooling "God" I guess they think "God" is just another chump.

Stagecraft and Diebold are the only cards the rats have left to play.

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Connonym Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 04:30 AM
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15. The father let it happen too
we can't just blame Sarah Palin for this. Mr. Nameless Palin didn't stop it either. Plenty of blame for both parents here, let's not single out just the mom.
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NNN0LHI Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 09:38 AM
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21. Father looks pretty well kept to me
I suspect she has had him on a short leash since his drunk driving days.

Don
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knitter4democracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 09:48 AM
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28. Oh, the guy who couldn't hack it being the SAHD?
She promised, during her run for governor, that her husband would stay home with the kids. Well, he didn't like it much, so he went back to work, and the kids were farmed out (son sent here to Portage, MI to finish his senior year, Bristol sent to live with Grandma in Wasilla, and we all know how well that went).

Yes, Todd should've put his foot down and not allowed their baby to be up that late in the bright lights and surrounded by all those disease carriers (sorry, but since he's at higher risk of infection, he shouldn't have been there). It doesn't sound like he's the guy who'll do it, though.
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Kitty Herder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 01:55 PM
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46. So true.
Fathers are responsible for their children, too.
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radfringe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 04:32 AM
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16. can you say photo op prop? n/t
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 09:14 AM
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17. Sarah Palin = Das Vorwand.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 09:38 AM
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20. if she didnt bring the child she would be accused of ignoring the child
either way, there would be criticism of what to do with a small child
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 09:47 AM
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26. nonsense. no one would criticize her for that.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 09:47 AM
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27. yes, they would
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Kitty Herder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:00 PM
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48. Not if they had any sense and could understand that child's greater risk for infection.
Of course, there are a lot of people who don't have any sense, so you may be right.
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knitter4democracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 09:48 AM
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29. Not if she handled it right.
If she made a small joke about how it was past the kids' bedtime and they were asleep already, people would've thought nothing of it.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 09:51 AM
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30. agreed but had she just left kid w.nanny at home, without explaining
there would be criticism about it
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knitter4democracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 10:20 AM
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33. I'm not so sure about that.
I don't think I'm alone in not really liking to see the children forced to sit there like props (I didn't like seeing Obama's kids up so late and surround by the crowds, honestly). She would have to say something, though, since having the kids there is the norm, and everyone would've respected her for it.
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Retrograde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 11:01 AM
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37. Obama's kids are 7 and 10 (i.e., not infants)
and with a parent. IIRC, they were back stage for Obama's acceptance speech, and only came out at the end, along with Michelle, Biden, and his family (watching Sasha chase balloons with one of the Biden grandkids close to her in age was precious). The speech was over by about 9 MDT, so it wasn't that late for their age.

They weren't sitting in the audience holding an infant.
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knitter4democracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 03:55 PM
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56. That's true. It wasn't all that late, I guess.
Even so, I know my kids (ages 6 and 8) would've had a hard time sitting still and looking nice and smiling right, especially later at night when they're tired but too wound up to sleep.
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Obamanaut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 09:46 AM
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25. Mainstreaming at an early age. nt
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Sisaruus Donating Member (703 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 10:16 AM
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32. Let's find the substantive reasons to go after Palin and refrain from bad-mommy accusations.
The left's obsession with good mothering/bad mothering and working moms is going to bite us in the butt. Frankly, she would have been vilified by us for hiding the child/children. There's plenty of substantive reasons to go after Palin. Let's not give the right the public voice of equal opportunity for women since they don't deserve it.
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 01:31 PM
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40. I don't care about her older children
they are old enough to say yes or no if they want to be there at the convention. The baby is my main point. I would never take a baby to such a noisy place.
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Sisaruus Donating Member (703 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 04:18 PM
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59. Babies go to noisy places all the time.
Traffic, airports, family high school football games, shopping malls... babies are actually quite adaptable. Find a valid reason to criticize her.
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Annces Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 10:26 AM
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35. I heard 3 women commentators defending her on CNN
yesterday, all of them had children too. It seems many career women think it necessary to have children. They all had sympathy for Palin bringing her children there.
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 10:33 AM
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36. my first thought, baby should be in crib asleep at home. loud noise and bright lights
neither of my kids endured

i think it is one more example of a growing list where her self interest overrides protection and care of her children

where i get so mad when they lecture me on family value and promote and sell her as "real mom" when from what i see, she is anything but
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cynatnite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 11:04 AM
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38. Even my RW mother commented on it and thought it was bad judgment...
I think that really turned her off to the point that she might stay home. She has not been happy about the repuke nominee at all.
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 11:05 AM
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39. Is she breastfeeding?
I guess she could have pumped some and left it and kiddo with Bristol, who seems to be the littlest's caretaker.

Or...maybe Bristol, who has been purported to be the real mom, is breastfeeding.

Dum dum dum...
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MissHoneychurch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 01:32 PM
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41. I have no idea
but she didn't breastfeed the baby while giving the speech .....
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knitter4democracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 03:56 PM
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57. She says she is.
I have no idea what the truth is.
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 01:49 PM
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42. I thought there should have been an adult assigned to
or hired to take care of the baby during the event or else it should have been in the hotel room with a sitter. As it was the poor baby was being transferred around every few minutes and I am surprised he wasn't screaming. It just didn't seem like it was the best situation for him.
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 01:55 PM
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45. Oh, the EXPOSURE!!!
:puke:
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:19 PM
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51. just my opinion
you can have yours, and I can have mine and we'll act like grown ups who respect each other, ok?
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Karenina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 03:22 PM
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53. Hä? I agree with you 100%.
NO ONE touched my infants unless they'd washed up to the ELBOWS! NO ONE touches my infant Patenkinder while I'm around without following the same procedure. (Got a baby boom going on this year. The circle of college kids I met when I arrived 15 years ago are breeding like bunnies!) If anyone (other than a parent) sniffles, Babykins and I retire to the next room. The parents laugh and explain old Tante K. away as being super empfindlich and overprotective. I get time, the parents get time and my Babykins don't get showered with the latest shit that's going around, at least while I'm there...

Witnessing the circus surrounding little Trig is almost more than I can bear.
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 03:31 PM
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54. Sorry, I don't have children, just a microbiology degree!
I saw the little girl spitting on her hand and smoothing Trigs hair; later she was wiping his boogers. And along the way he was passed to at least 3 other people. Dad, Mom, Mrs. McCain. It was a germfest.
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onenote Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:02 PM
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50. but that's the point -- the baby wasn't screaming
If it was, this might be worth talking about. But as it stands, I don't see how you can make any hay out of a baby sleeping, being held by its sisters, being petted and kissed by its littlest big sister, etc.
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aikoaiko Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 01:52 PM
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43. Damned if she did, damned if she didn't.

Its really the hallmark of their 2008 primaries and campaign. If they kept the youngster at home people would be saying they "hid" the baby and are ashamed of it. If they brought them -- well you see -- they used him as a prop and should have been in bed.

They're just damned.

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bdamomma Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 01:53 PM
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44. baby used as a prop perhaps.
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onenote Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:00 PM
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47. yes, the baby was used as a prop. Every candidate's kid is used as a prop
If the baby had seemed upset, and crying, and they didn't do anything about it, then I think there would be an issue. But the baby wasn't doing those things and a lot of folks watching were probably going ooh and ahh over the attention being given the infant, particularly by the little Palin child.

This is thin ice territory imo. In my experience, a lot of parents are very sensitive to people second guessing their parenting decisions and throwing the label "child abuse" around will rankle a lot of folks who have taken their kids to places where maybe it wasn't the best place for them but they did so anyway. Working class families in places like OH, WVA, PA often have larger families and rely on younger siblings to watch/hold/care for the youngest ones. Pushing the abusive mom meme is a mistake imo. Those that feel that way will feel that way and those that don't aren't going to be convinced because Democratic surrogates or bloggers say so.

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spanone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:01 PM
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49. it's a great prop
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AngryAmish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 02:21 PM
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52. Because she is a bad mother
Look at her slutty daughter.
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Iris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 03:58 PM
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58. are you for real?
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AzDar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-04-08 03:33 PM
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55. I think she and her husband are full-on lunatics. Maybe even more dangerous than
Cheney....(Jeebus, I never thought I'd EVER type THOSE words!)
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