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...people have always lied, have always been mendacious, especially the powerful and rich.
Having said that and everything being relative, yes indeed there has been a relative movement in this direction for quite a few years.
I remember the first time I really sat up and took note of it myself. 1984 (ironically). After watching the movie "Beverly Hills Cop", of all this, everything I had been seeing around me for years had snapped into focus with the ending of this one movie, which was and is an excellent and entertaining move, by the way.
Remember how it ends? With the straight-laced Taggart lying his ass off to "save the day" and Axel Foley laughing his ass off at how Taggart finally "got it" and how well he learned.
Suddenly I saw that lying was becoming a more acceptable social more, even being painted a s"cool" as it was in Beverly Hills Cop.
Now, don't get me wrong. Every human being has lies at least once and probably dozens of times.,
White Lies, face-Saving Lies, there are a few species of lies that we tell that do not hurt others, and everyone tells them. Shooting for "never ever telling a lie" is like shooting for utopia. You can try and you might get close but you can never ever fully get there.
But people trying to be decent human beings, who look at it in a self-aware fashion try to limit the lies told, and if they must be told, to make them small and not hurtful of thers, ither directly or inadvertantly. But the striving is kind of a deterrent, and a counterforce to the undesired behavior.
Remove it, and the rubber band snaps back, so to speak. Stop trying hard to be truthful, and without even trying the lies will mutiply like rabbits. That's life and that's human nature.
So is it on a personal level, so is it on a societal level. And that's where this brilliant article makes it's rightful case.
This is a real phenomena. There can be almost no doubt. That Horatio Alger shit never really existed, by and large, but yes, I think lying is now a culutral more and honest is looked at as nerdy, naive and weak.
And this article nails it, sadly. We're a long way from 1984 and how much worse is it now?
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