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readmoreoften Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-07-08 08:54 PM
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On "how could gay rights compare to civil rights?" Someone asked me to repost this as an OP.
A new poster who was skeptical about the importance of "gay rights" was confused as to how gay people might dare compare their concerns with the suffering of African-Americans by calling their demand for rights "civil rights." My response was--to put it simply--that the rights of LGBT people are an example of civil, meaning social and legal, rights.

"Ranking" oppressions is a grisly business that serves no one. When we put up DU polls with themes like "Who suffered worse: African-Americans, Native Americans, Jews under Hitler, or Gays?" All we do is pit subjugated groups against one another in a fight to make sure that our own dead, tortured, and mutilated will not be forgotten.

Nothing will take away the horrors of slavery, the continued class brutality against millions of African-Americans, the destruction of the black family through the selling of children and the separating of parents, the rape of black women by white slaveholders. No worries: the legacy of slavery is a special sort of American capitalist illness with such devastating effects, it'll be hard to minimize even with a black president.

But all the suffering of Blacks, Jews, Latinos, and Native Americans does not justify the social disenfranchisement of another set of people, especially one that cuts a swath through the descendants of black slaves and Native Americans, through Jews killed in the holocaust, and throughout the latino population (including undocumented workers and their children.) LGBT people exist in equal numbers in every population, although cultural issues play a huge part in how visible non-white gays are to the 'general public.' LGBT people exist in every class and socioeconomic bracket, although you are more likely to see affluent LGBT people on your TV because you are more likely to see affluent people of all nationalities on your TV.

There is also a tendency to attribute masculinity with working class status. Hence "Joe the Plumber" who makes $250K and spends his discretionary income on fancy car rims a year is "working class hero" but "Miqael the Barista" who earns $8 an hour as a barista and spends his discretionary income on skin creme is "an upper class elitist." By the way, GAY MEN EARN LESS THAN STRAIGHT MEN. But lesbians do earn the same as straight women--who also earn less than straight men. http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=15707842

So lets first gut the idea that GAY=RICH WHITE MEN. It's not like 10% of white men are gay and .00012% of blacks, asians, and latinos are gay. If you want to forget about Black LGBT people, then you can forget about James Baldwin, Lorraine Hansberry, and Alice Walker.

To make my point:

Some black gay folk's black gay heroes:
http://www.fyne.co.uk/index.php?item=354

Some good places to start reading if you REALLY care about the existence of LGBT Asians and Pacific Islanders
http://www.columbia.edu/cu/lweb/indiv/southasia/cuvl/glb.html

Care about Native American two-spirits? Maybe you might want to start here:
http://www.nativeout.com/

Latino?
http://www.adelantemagazine.com/

Iranian-American queers?
http://www.cheraq.net/45/ahmadinejad.htm

Working class queers? Click on this link if you aren't afraid of being soiled by "the left" (and by that I don't mean Clinton and Obama)
http://www.solidarity-us.org/node/1618

In other words: if you think that LGBT are mostly rich white people then you get all your info about LGBT people from FOX news and CNN and you're not really qualified to open your mouths about us. Either that or you're a rich white straight person whose gay friends are rich white gay people. Either way: you have no right to propagandize and demonize our reality.

But anyway, what real "civil wrongs" could have been done to gay people? Isn't it just a little razzing, a little name-calling here and there?
And aren't gay people some newfangled invention, created by the permissiveness of white hippie culture?

TORTURE

1) The new world to Pre-1900s: As slavery and indentured servitude flourished so did the murder of gay men (and lesbians, although I haven't taken the time to reproduce the info here, check out Thomas Laqueur's book "Making Sex.")

One of the tragedies of the New World is that it took over much of the legal system of the Old World. The Buggery Act of Henry VIII (as re-enacted by Elizabeth I in 1563) was adopted, often verbatim, by the original thirteen Colonies, and buggery was punished by death. The records of convictions are scarce, but they were not systematically recorded and are therefore difficult to discover. In 1624 Richard William Cornish, Master of the ship Ambrose, anchored in the James River, Virginia, was hanged for committing sodomy with the 29-year-old cabin boy William Couse. We know that sodomites were prosecuted in Plymouth Plantation in the 1640s. In 1646, in Massachusetts Bay Colony, William Plaine was executed for having committed sodomy with two persons in England before going over to the colonies; and in the same year, in Manhattan, New Netherland Colony, Jan Creoli, a negro, was sentenced to be choked to death and burned to ashes for a second offence of sodomy. A lot of rich whiners, they were. :sarcasm: But those were the 'olden days', right? Maybe not...

1) From the 1920s on, gay men and lesbians were arrested and committed by the state and experimented on by scientists. From Wikipedia: "Medical attempts to change homosexuality included surgical treatments such as hysterectomy, ovariectomy, clitoridectomy, castration, vasectomy, pudic nerve surgery, and lobotomy. Substance-based methods included hormone treatment, pharmacologic shock treatment, and treatment with sexual stimulants and sexual depressants. Throughout the 20th century, gay men and lesbians have been arrested and subjected to having their genitals burned and cut off--often for belonging to underground gay rights organizations. One person you might want to use as a reference for this is Alan Turing, that bougie computer genius who helped the allies win WWII. Sure he was convicted of homosexuality in the UK, but no matter really, the same sort of thing happened here all the time. From Wiki:

"Turing was given a choice between imprisonment and probation, conditional on his undergoing hormonal treatment designed to reduce libido. He accepted the estrogen hormone injections, which lasted for a year, to avoid jail. Side effects included gynecomastia (breast enlargement)...On 8 June 1954, his cleaner found him dead...the death was ruled a suicide...Because Turing's homosexuality would have been perceived as a security risk, the possibility of assassination has also been suggested..."

And surely lobotomies of gays in Western democracies stopped before 1979?!!! RIght? Maybe not...

http://andrejkoymasky.com/mem/holocaust/ho07.html

Lobotomies of gay people stopped in Western Germany only in 1979. In the 17 years since 1962 30 homosexuals were operated on the hypothalamus.

But that would never happen in the US!!!!!

This spurred doctors like American Walter Freeman to brutally operate no less than 4000 patients in the 40's in USA using a golden ice pick. When he visited Denmark the Danish doctors at first were shocked.

Still, no one would do such a thing now! Well, except for psychiatrist serving the State Legislature of North Carolina in 2007

http://www.gay.com/news/article.html?date=2007/07/31/2&navpath=/channels/news/

A North Carolina psychiatrist who served the state Legislature this month as a volunteer "Doctor of the Day" is in trouble for more than urging electric shock therapy for gay people, the Charlotte Observer reported...

In his book, "Dr. Bob's Grocery Store Medicine and Healthy Life Anecdotes," which he gave out to lawmakers on his July 17 rounds, Crummie contends that "there is no such thing as a homosexual. The Gay Movement is a hoax," and that "individuals who act out homosexually are at best very neurotic and at worst psychotic. Most of them are character disorders."

Crummie, 69, writes that he put a stop to homosexuality at a North Carolina prison when he threatened to give electric shock therapy to anyone caught in the act, then demonstrated the procedure on a severely depressed inmate as others looked on, the Observer reported. He describes the episode as "one of my funniest stories."


The good doctor also made a point to mention that "We don't hear about the successful lobotomies."

Police Brutality

2) Dr. Crummie wasn't the only law enforcer interested in rehabilitating teh gay. The founding fathers were interested in keeping a check on us as well. From civilliberty.about.com: "In 1779, Thomas Jefferson proposed a law that would mandate castration for gay men and mutilation of nose cartilage for gay women. But that's not the scary part. Here's the scary part: Jefferson was considered a liberal. At the time, the most common penalty on the books was death."

Legalized dress codes in many states led to arrests of many lesbians from the 1940s to 1970s as did prohibitions on "same-sex dancing." Upon arrest, the brutality of the police against gays and lesbians was (surprise, surprise) not much different than the brutality against other oppressed populations. Gang rape and other assaults were certainly not unknown. For example, Leslie Feinberg described in Stone Butch Blues being forced to choose between giving a police officer a blowjob during a club raid, or being forced to go into the bathroom and eat his shit.

Need more? Excerpt from the Progressive:

LGBT people face torture worldwide

BY SURINA KHAN
June 28, 2001

First the bad news. Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people all over the world are tortured and abused, often at the hands of their own governments and communities.

In Chicago, a gay man arrested after an altercation with his landlord in February 2000, reported that he was severely abused by police, who "handcuffed him by his elbows to a hook on the wall. Allegedly, while one officer walked away (but did not leave the room) the other sodomized him with a billy club, ramming his head against the wall as he did so."

In 1995, a lesbian inmate in California was placed in a men's unit where she was constantly visible to the other prisoners, even when she was in the shower and toilet. A guard sold entry to her cell to male inmates, three of whom raped her.


But the good news is you don't even need to be gay to be tortured by the police for being gay!

http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=1a2_1222363923

CIVILIAN ANTI-GAY VIGILANTES

3) The numerous crimes against LGBT people aren't classified as "crimes against LGBT people" because in many "red state" areas the concept of "LGBT people" does not exist and police departments refuse to collect data. This minimizes the number of official count of violence against gays because of the state's refusal to actual count the incidences of violence.

I'm sick of worrying about the people I love being beaten and murdered. One summer I knew 3 people who were beaten into the hospital. One story only made a COLLEGE NEWSPAPER. I'm sick of not being counted ON EVERY LEVEL. And I'm sick of watching young LGBT people of color being murdered only to have privileged white straight people insinuate that LGBT issues are basically elitist white bullshit. DO THESE DEAD PEOPLE LOOK LIKE RICH WHITE MEN?

ttp://










What do images like this do to fan the flames of hatred?










http://www.conjecturer.com/images/Chick/02.bmp
http://www.conjecturer.com/images/Chick/03.bmp




From truechristian.com:

What's worse than a Fag? Two Fags! How could anyone anyone be so ignorant? You fools! We aren't to allow these pedophiles to wed, we are to KILL THEM ALL!! Listen to the words of Love by Jesus Himself!

Leviticus 20
13 If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.

This is a complete outrage! Now gays can dephile the sancity of marriage. The marriage I have to my wife has just been insulted since now those rump ranging Faggots can do the same thing. Fags EAT their own FECES! They lick each others rectum!!! THEY CALL IT TOSSING THE SALAD!! Salad of what?! Vomit?! That's probably what they bathe in those FILTHY FAGGOTS!! DIE DIE DIE!!!

Leviticus 20
13 If a man also lie with mankind, as he lieth with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination: they shall surely be put to death; their blood shall be upon them.


They are all Evil and since we are the Good guys here it is our DUTY to take away their "deserved rights" and show them for the slime God shows us that they are.


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As a lesbian, my partner and I face financial hardship that straight people don't (although my partner is allowed to buy me insurance, any medical benefits given to me are considered taxable 'added income'), state-sanctioned job discrimination (I can be fired for being gay), and having any assaults or even my murder being covered up by police because the municipality I live in doesn't recognize "hate crimes." If my partner is injured, any hospital that wishes to do so can bar me from seeing her on her death bed. Even when we have been together for 50 years, an estranged brother in-law or a nephew she's never met will be called in as her next of kin and if the relative is a religious fundamentalist, they can bar me from ever seeing her again.
*********

It's not just about some whiny plea of a few wealthy elitist white men who 'own the world and now want to redefine marriage too'--although a few wealthy white men might get some benefits along with the unwashed hoards of average multi-ethnic poor, working, and middle class gays--it's about a path towards financial and social EQUALITY which means not being sodomized and raped by police or religious vigilantes. It's about health insurance for kids and making sure foster children can get adopted into loving homes. It's about the survival of white and black and asian and latino and native american people.

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readmoreoften Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-07-08 09:06 PM
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1. Come on now. There's gotta be someone who finds the photos or links useful enough to K&R.
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Withywindle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-07-08 09:08 PM
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2. What a fabulous post.
That really lays it all out, very eloquently. Thank you. Proud to K&R.
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2Design Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-07-08 09:10 PM
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3. kick
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glowing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-07-08 09:36 PM
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4. Any way to find divisions and fear.. to win elections and keep the power
and money control.. All divisions are dangerous to the Democracy we all love. I hope with all my heart that this will go to the Supreme Court (once a few get to retire and are replaced) and these laws are thrown out as Unconstitutional.. Because it is.
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intheflow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-07-08 09:37 PM
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5. That was magnificent.
Edited on Fri Nov-07-08 09:38 PM by intheflow
Beautifully researched and written. Whoever suggested you post it as an OP was right on. This is the best argument for GLBTQ civil rights I've ever read on DU. It should be required reading for all DUers. :hug:


(Except Jesus never said doodly-squat about homosexualty. Leviticus was something like 2000 years before Jesus. Jesus really didn't seem to have hang-ups about anyone except the Jewish religious right and the oppressive Roman government.)
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justiceischeap Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-07-08 09:58 PM
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6. It seems to me some people don't get that this is a wedge issue
That will be trotted out every election until our straight brothers and sisters stand up beside us. They allow the gay community to be used by the wingnuts by being silent.

I'm sure I'm about to say this wrong but I'm gonna try anyway. The civil rights movement gained momentum when white liberals saw that it was their duty to stand beside their fellow human beings and say, "This isn't right!" The same thing needs to happen for the gay civil, equal, human rights movement (I use the three together because I was told that "civil" and "equal" were "owned" by other movements in history). Straight people need to say loudly, "NO! You are not going to use this issue to divide our nation," and vote accordingly.

Great post by the way. :)
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Rhythm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-07-08 10:04 PM
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7. Thank you for putting this all together... K&R
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-07-08 10:15 PM
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8. That's very powerful
K&R
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tandot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-07-08 10:20 PM
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9. Wow. Excellent post. Thanks!
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curse of greyface Donating Member (594 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-07-08 10:21 PM
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10. Kudos. nt
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intheflow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 01:12 PM
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11. Kick for the Saturday crowd.
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bluedawg12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 01:21 PM
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12. Well researched, thoughtful and sobering.
Thank you for posting this, and all of the hard work that went into it.
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readmoreoften Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 10:56 PM
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55. Thanks for acknowledging this. I was a little down when it only got a few recs. Lotta time went in.
I want people to understand that its not just "rich white gay men" at stake.
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bluedawg12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 01:32 PM
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13. 92% GLBT targets of antigay verbal abuse or threats
As many as 24% report physical attacks because of their sexual orientation.

Herek, G.M. (1989). Hate crimes against lesbians and gay men: Issues for research and policy. American Psychologist, 44 (6), 948-955

........

"Hate crimes against lesbians and gay men occur within a broader cultural context that is permeated by heterosexism. Heterosexism is defined here as an ideological system that denies, denigrates, and stigmatizes any nonheterosexual form of behavior, identity, relationship, or community. It operates principally by rendering homosexuality invisible and, when this fails, by trivializing, repressing, or stigmatizing it."

Herek, G.M. (1990). The context of anti-gay violence: Notes on cultural and psychological heterosexism. Journal of Interpersonal Violence, 5 (3), 316-333.
......

Compared to lesbian and gay victims of recent nonbias crimes, recent hate crime victims displayed significantly more symptoms of depression, anger, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress. Significant differences were not observed among bisexuals. Gay and lesbian hate crime survivors manifested significantly more fear of crime, greater perceived vulnerability, less belief in the benevolence of people, lower sense of mastery, and more attributions of their personal setbacks to sexual prejudice than did nonbias crime victims and nonvictims.

Herek, G.M., Gillis, J.R., & Cogan, J. C. (1999). Psychological sequelae of hate crime victimization among lesbian, gay, and bisexual adults. Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 67, 945-951.
.......

Approximately 20% of respondents reported having experienced a person crime or property crime based on their sexual orientation, about half had experienced verbal harassment, and more than one in ten reported having experienced employment or housing discrimination. Gay men were significantly more likely than lesbians or bisexuals to experience violence or property crimes. More than one third of gay men (37.6%) reported experiencing one or both types of crimes, compared to 12.5% of lesbians, 10.7% of bisexual men, and 12.7% of bisexual women. Gay men also reported higher levels of harassment and verbal abuse than the other sexual orientation groups. Employment and housing discrimination were significantly more likely among gay men and lesbians (reported by 17.7% and 16.3%, respectively) than among bisexual men and women (3.7% and 6.8%, respectively).

Herek, G. M. (2007). Hate crimes and stigma-related experiences among sexual minority adults in the United States: Prevalence estimates from a national probability sample. Journal of Interpersonal Violence, in press
........

More info on hate crimes:
http://psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/html/hate_crimes.html
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readmoreoften Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 10:53 PM
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54. Well that's why we can be so "angry" and "uppity" sometimes. Kicked in the head too much.
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 01:51 PM
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14. kick
I recommended it earlier
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niyad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 02:04 PM
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15. k & r-- thank you for posting this.
I am sending it to everyone on my email lists, so that they can spread it around.

the very fact that someone even asks this question makes me very sad.
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MuseRider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 02:06 PM
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16. Wonderful.
You always put together great threads. Even knowing most of this already I feel just horrible having read it.

My county (probably state but I have too much to do here in my own little county) is not allowed to document any crimes against GLBT citizens. We have fought that for a long time. We did have one person on the Human Relations Committee who kept an unofficial tally but that was never looked at by others so WOW!>>>I live in a county that has no problems with bigotry against GLBT, except of course the most infamous of them all, Fred Phelps.

There are so many battles and not enough of us to do those battles. From experience I know that to get one little thing changed in your state legislature it takes constant attention to those who will vote for you and you have to hope they can work on others to come along and you have to go into the offices that throw you out over and over again. Then, if you are successful (and we have been pretty successful here) they will try at every turn to overturn what you have won. You have to read every bill and be familiar with every legislator that will try anything to beat you. We really do need everyone to stop bickering over who done it (heterosexuals did it, we need nothing more than that) and figure out what we can do. We also need every warm body we can get to buck up and make some damned noise. These are civil rights, nothing less than civil rights. You stated it all so very well.

I did not mean to get off on my soap box here, I have not been posting too much in a while and it all sort of came out. This was well done as always. I am going to copy it for my husband who has always known I was right for doing what I am doing but has finally gotten so upset and disgusted about it all that he is going to come to meetings with me. YAY! One at a time.
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cwydro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 02:09 PM
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17. Very good.
Kick.
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ruggerson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 02:18 PM
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18. Bravo n/t
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JeffR Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 02:20 PM
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19. Brilliant post.
K & R.

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foxfeet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 02:31 PM
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20. Great post! Thanks for the links.
:applause:
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earth mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 02:33 PM
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21. K & R!
:kick:
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 02:44 PM
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22. K&R
Thank you for this post.
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Neecy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 03:00 PM
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23. You raise some good points
I posted about this over in the GLBT forum, but I think it's an issue so I'll post it over here, too.

if you think that LGBT are mostly rich white people then you get all your info about LGBT people from FOX news and CNN and you're not really qualified to open your mouths about us.

I have to differ slightly from this. I understand urban life in California having lived in both San Francisco and Los Angeles and as in any part of America perceptions are important.

Example: there are two ghettos in San Francisco. One is primarily gay and one is primarily African American. Take a drive through Hunters Point and then take the same drive through the Castro. Can you understand why an African American in Hunters Point doesn't view us as particularly oppressed? What they see is white privilege and they see it in abundance, which is why a resident of Hunters Point might take umbrage when we use the term 'civil rights'. When you live in poverty in a crime-ridden neighborhood perhaps the greatest civil right of all is to live comfortably in a safe neighborhood.

I'm not saying it's right. I'm saying that economic perceptions means a lot, and our communities often exist within a short drive of one another. South Central and West Hollywood, for instance. And the economic chasm in our cities does exist. Granted there are working-class and poor gays and lesbians living in California but you don't see them much in our gay ghettos. They can't afford to live there.

So I understand why urban African-Americans would think that the LBGT community consists of mostly rich white people. It's because we show it to them every day, in real life and not on FOX News.

Two suggestions if we truly are to bridge our divides and start a process of healing: first, comparing our struggle to the civil rights struggle while we're barhopping on Castro Street won't fly and we're foolish if we think it will. Emphasize our human rights, our struggle for simple equality and stop comparing our struggles to theirs.

Second, if we don't join in the fight for economic justice in our cities we'll never form a true partnership with any minority community. The brute fact exists that I did well economically as a white lesbian - and I doubt that I would have done as well had I been born a black lesbian. Racism trumps sexual orientation, at least economically, in society. We need to fight that just as hard as we fight our own battles.
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readmoreoften Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 10:46 PM
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50. What makes you think gay folk don't fight for economic justice just as much as straight folk do?
How come poor black folks in churches are voting shoulder to shoulder with their rich white landlords? How come gay black folks have never pressed to have the rights of straight white heterosexuals away?

Yes, I agree. We need to make economic justice our #1 issue. But as far as I'm concerned that's a radical proposition that many even in the Black and Latino community aren't interested in really sticking their neck out on because capitalism without militant protection of the rights of workers is economic injustice itself.

Rich white gay men are heard more because they have more social power than poor lesbians of any color. That's not because they're gay. It's because they're rich and white and male.
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Dragonbreathp9d Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 03:18 PM
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24. Sick...
I cant believe the hatred of some people, even though I have seen it first hand.

ugh, K&R
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nam78_two Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 03:19 PM
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25. Recd
Those images are so saddening :(.
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Rockholm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 03:22 PM
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26. Silly fags, move on. Nothing to see here.
I am sure that is what a number of DU'ers are thinking about now, especially given the number of Prop Hate threads on here over the last couple of days.
We gays are just an afterthought anymore.
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Silver Gaia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 04:50 PM
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27. This is a great post. I just want to offer one correction, if I may.
The words quoted from Leviticus are not those of Jesus. Leviticus is a part of the Old Testament, so is pre-Jesus.

I am not a Christian, nor am I really religious in any sense, so I am not coming from a religious standpoint. I'm just someone with a degree in religious studies.

Other than that, this is a great post. Thanks!
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readmoreoften Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 10:47 PM
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51. I didn't say it. I just cut and pasted what the loony Christian said.
But I hear ya.
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Silver Gaia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-09-08 12:56 AM
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60. Gotcha. ;)
Just wanted to make sure it was addressed. Thanks for clarifying, and thanks for the post!
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Mike 03 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 04:51 PM
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28. Absolutely stunning post.
I never knew any of this.

The saddest, most shocking pictures to me are the ones of the children holding signs and wearing t-shirts. I can't understand how or why parents would ever, ever teach a child to hate another human being who is different in only one way. Because we all share common ground. We are different from each other, but we are all the same. It's very, very sad.
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rosesaylavee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 04:54 PM
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29. Bookmarked.
I am so sorry it is this way for you and everyone else who is GLBT.

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trickyguy Donating Member (461 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 04:56 PM
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30. Coming off of the success of Proposition 8 in California this post is even more relevant.
I already posted some of my thoughts here today under

"I'm a straight woman asking all straights..."

But it's nice to know the LGBT community has some friends here at DU

who will speak out. Just as readmoreoften has. So eloquently.
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 04:57 PM
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31. K&R
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1Hippiechick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 05:05 PM
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32. K&R.
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Bluenorthwest Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 05:17 PM
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33. This is just a brilliant posting
I thank you for this.
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Mr_Jefferson_24 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 05:26 PM
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34. K&R.
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Dystopian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 05:38 PM
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35. KandR.
My heart goes out to all...This is an excellent post...I'm emotionally drained.
Thank you for posting...

peace~
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Barb in Atl Donating Member (254 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 05:40 PM
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36. Great post....
I have always equated civil rights with human rights - thus, everyone should be treated equally. I thought that was pretty easy to understand.

Unfortunately, there are people that actually need it spelled out to the extent you've given.

Well done.

But very sad.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 05:46 PM
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37. K&R!
:applause:

Thank you for posting this as an OP.

I hope it gets through to some people. *sigh*
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niyad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 05:49 PM
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38. . . .
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tpsbmam Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 05:54 PM
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39. K&R!! Wish I could do it more than once. Thanks for posting this -- VERY
informative.
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LatteLibertine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 05:59 PM
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40. One day folks will get it
Indoctrination against homosexual people has real consequences. You can't consistently vilify a group of people and expect nothing to come of it.
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Mike 03 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 06:07 PM
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41. This is the day that made me "get it" NT
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readmoreoften Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 10:50 PM
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52. Awesome Mike. It's really great to have you as an ally. We need all the allies we can get.
Of every race color and creed. :hug:
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NikolaC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 06:23 PM
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42. K&R
:kick: Those pictures were heartbreaking. As long as I live, I will NEVER understand the fear and hatred towards individuals based upon their race and/or their sexual orientation. I do not get why it is wrong, disgusting or sinful for two consenting individuals to love one another. Why is it okay for us heterosexuals and not for anyone in the LGBT community? The double standard makes no damn sense.
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dbackjon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 06:43 PM
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43. Very powerful - thank you
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prayin4rain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 06:48 PM
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44. That is so horrible and digusting n/t
:cry:
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bluedawg12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 07:27 PM
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45. Kick- still thinking about this thread.
It's haunting.
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bluedawg12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 11:26 PM
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57. And whose hate is destroying people?
Prejudice is bad for children and other living things.
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trickyguy Donating Member (461 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 09:17 PM
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46. A totally incredible post. Is it too late to K&R ?.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 09:22 PM
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47. I hear the "Well, they don't deserve special rights or extra rights" all the time and it makes me
furious. If they are receiving "equal" rights, how is that in any way special or extra? *tears hair out*
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ColbertWatcher Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 09:52 PM
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48. Well done. (Link for first missing image inside) Thank you for posting this! n/t
Edited on Sat Nov-08-08 09:53 PM by ColbertWatcher


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OwnedByFerrets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 10:38 PM
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49. Gladly K and R
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readmoreoften Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 10:52 PM
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53. ONE CORRECTION: KEVIN AVIANCE isn't dead. He was just bashed. I don't know why I included him!
Got carried away with right clickin' I guess.
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Zhade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 11:18 PM
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56. TRUTH.
NT!

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unapatriciated Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 11:36 PM
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58. Thank You...
as the mother of a young gay woman, who was raped, I know all too well how the police refuse to prosecute theses crimes.
The victim is treated like they are the criminal.
She did sue in civil court and won. It took five years but was worth it to have a judge tell him in open court that he was guilty and should be in jail.
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bluedawg12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-08-08 11:37 PM
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59. Prejudice is stressful.
Wonder why gays get a little bit upset when things like Prop hate 8 come up?

It's not just taking away basic human rights that were already granted.

It's the day in day out drip, drip, drip, of the hate rhetoric that I venture no other group would tolerate for 5 minutes, much less years. Once again, in the ramp up to the Calif. vote, we got hear ourselves debased and dehumanized on nation wide news, anywhere a RW $$$pundit$$$ opened his/her pie hole, and of course up and down the great State of California, about the dangers of hom-o-sex-uals to children, the nation, the sanctity of marriage, the abomination, no it wasn't JUST the vote. Which, for any other group would have been unthinkable to accept.

Yes, funny how being shamed, the perception of loss of social support from expected safe places, and stigmatization affects the psyche.

......

Am J Community Psychol. 2003 Jun;31(3-4):313-28.
Stressor and resilience factors for lesbians, gay men, and bisexuals confronting antigay politics. Russell GM, Richards JA.

Institute for Gay and Lesbian Strategic Studies, Amherst, Massachusetts 01004-2603,
When lesbian, gay, and bisexual (LGB) people encounter antigay campaigns and elections, they face explicit and implicit homophobic attacks. In order to understand the points of stress and the bases for resilience in the face of these attacks, we developed a 130-item quantitative survey on the basis of results of an earlier qualitative study. Three hundred, sixteen Colorado LGB people endorsed items representing sources of stress and sources of resilience associated with the campaign for and passage of an antigay referendum. Factor analyses of the results suggested 5 sources of stressors and 5 sources of resilience for LGB persons and their communities.

These types of messages undermine the basic value and humanity of LGB people.

It is reasonable to expect that exposure to such materials and to discussions about LGB rights can constitute a stressor for at least some LGB people, even when specific election outcomes favor LGB rights.

When election outcomes do not support equal rights for LGB people, an additional set of stressors may come into play.

An antigay electoral decision suggests to LGB people that they are not full members of the community; it may increase legal concerns in matters of employment and housing; it raises concerns that antigay votes will unleash broader forms of harassment and violence (Booth, 1992; Spring, 1992; Stepanek, 1992).

In addition, some LGB people, especially those who tend to deny the pervasiveness of homonegativity, may find their denial compromised (Russell, 2000).



.........

J Homosex. 2007;53(4):173-99.
The relation of social support, connectedness, and collective self-esteem to the psychological well-being of lesbian, gay, and bisexual youth.Detrie PM, Lease SH.
Rhodes College, Memphis, TN

The present study extended the research on the mental health of lesbian, gay, and bisexual (LGB) youth by testing the relationship of social support, social connectedness, and collective self-esteem to psychological well-being in a sample of 218 LGB youth. Perceived social support significantly predicted psychological well-being subscales; social connectedness and collective self-esteem contributed significantly to the psychological well-being of the LGB participants when controlling for perceived social support.
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OneBlueSky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-09-08 06:16 AM
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61. gay rights ARE civil rights . . . "gay rights" are nothing more than . . .
not denying gays and lesbians the same civil rights that everyone else has . . .
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shireen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-09-08 09:13 AM
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62. Gay people are human beings
Sexual identity is programmed in our DNA. Being gay is NOT a choice, it is NOT a lifestyle. It is NOT abnormal. It's simply a part of the diversity of the human species. Anyone who thinks it's a sin is seriously misguided. We need to create more awareness about these facts, and back it up with scientific evidence.


Homosexuality has been observed in nature. One of the sweetest stories I've ever read is about two male vultures, endangered Griffin vultures, at a zoo in Israel who became a pair, and helped raised chicks.

http://www.cnn.com/NATURE/9909/18/gay.vulture.parents/index.html
"Keepers noticed that Dashik and Yahuda, two male vultures at Jerusalem Biblical Zoo, had built a nest together and were mating. So they decided to give the couple an artificial egg to see what would happen.

"They were sitting incubating perfectly," said the zoo's head keeper, Itzik Yadid. "If they are incubating so good, sharing between the two of them, the next step will be obviously to give them a chick to raise."

So far, Dashik and Yahuda have raised two baby birds, Diva and Adi Gordon, with results that exceeded expectations

"We're very proud of them. We think they've done a marvelous job," said bird keeper Sharon Sterling. "They've behaved extremely well, the best parents we've ever seen."



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Christa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-09-08 09:58 AM
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63. Kicked ... nt
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shirlden Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-09-08 10:56 AM
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64. From a 72 year old lesbian
who has been "out" for 54 years, I give this a huge kick. I have been part of it all.


:kick: :kick: :kick: :kick: :headbang: :headbang: :headbang: :yourock: :yourock: :yourock:
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fascisthunter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-09-08 11:00 AM
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65. Kick
Edited on Sun Nov-09-08 11:01 AM by fascisthunter
"Error: you can only recommend threads which were started in the past 24 hours"


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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-09-08 11:02 AM
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66. Perhaps I'm in error, but I consider the situation as one of
Edited on Sun Nov-09-08 11:06 AM by rasputin1952
human rights.

I am straight, but that is irrelevant in this discussion. The point is, people fall in love, they have the right to express that love through companionship, and if they so desire, through a commitment we call marriage.

I fully admit I have little contact w/ the GLBT part of our society, but, as a humanist, I cannot justify denying rights to members of humanity. I have no option other than to support love, peace and understanding in a world that appears to have lost it's base of reason.

To me, the first thing to look at is that we are all human, and therefore deserve the same rights and privileges. Only after one shows him/herself to be a purveyor of undesirable traits, such as murder, theft, etc, should they be taken into account and denied the liberty they have enjoyed.

I have loved a few women in my time, and the feelings are as real today as they were in the past, why, or how could I deny the same emotions to another aspect of society? I don't believe I have that option.

Time will tell where this this will go, but AFAIC, love trumps all other emotions, and through love and understanding, we can conquer the fears and bigotry that is apparent these days.

edited for typo's...:blush:

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nickgutierrez Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-09-08 11:12 AM
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67. Gay marriage is a civil right. Plain and simple.
From the American Heritage Dictionary's definition of "civil right": "The rights belonging to an individual by virtue of citizenship, especially the fundamental freedoms and privileges guaranteed by the 13th and 14th Amendments to the U.S. Constitution and by subsequent acts of Congress, including civil liberties, due process, equal protection of the laws, and freedom from discrimination."

While we're defining things, let's look at Section 1 of the 14th Amendment again: "All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the State wherein they reside. No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws."

That last clause is the famed "equal protection" clause - nowhere in there does it say that it was intended to apply to race, or religion, or gender, or sexuality. What it says is very simple: equal protection of the laws. When you take away a person's right to marry, there's no valid, rational argument that the person is being deprived of his/her liberty, without due process of the law, without equal protection of the laws. You can say a lot of things about the passage of anti-gay marriage amendments in California, Arizona, and Florida, but for me (as a straight man), one word sums it up: illegal.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-09-08 01:12 PM
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68. thank you
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-09-08 01:41 PM
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69. Very, very good......Thank you for taking the time to organize
this very thought-provoking thread.

Well done. :bounce:
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liberal mikey Donating Member (12 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-09-08 01:54 PM
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70. Any word on a National march on Washington?
Thanks for your thoughtful post!
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2Design Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-09-08 05:49 PM
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71. kick
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HarukaTheTrophyWife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-09-08 05:53 PM
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72. First CLASS OP -- you should try to get this published as an OP/ED somewhere
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Duncan Grant Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-08 06:23 PM
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73. KICK
:kick:
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yardwork Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-10-08 06:25 PM
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74. Thank you.
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FreeState Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-08 04:52 AM
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75. Thinking this needs kicked again n/t
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76. Kick (too late to R)
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