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Seriously, I'm asking.
I'm for gay marriage so long as we have state-sanctioned marriage, but, really, I think we should do away with it altogether.
Why should two people who are in a state-sanctioned sexual and cohabiting relationship get medical benefits, tax benefits, insurance benefits, and inheritance benefits that I do not, simple because I either "haven't met the right person" or don't want to be married? Why can't I, for instance, put my uninsured mother on my health insurance at work, in lieu of a spouse? I guess because I'm not having sex with her, our relationship doesn't qualify.
I would even argue that promoting marriage as a good for society is flawed thinking. We need less children, not more, and incentivizing marriage and procreating are, in my humble opinion, only adding to the problems the world faces. One can be a law-abiding, socially aware, community-involived citizen without being married.
$0.02
Meanwhile, as long as I can do it as a straight woman, I think my gay and lesbian fellow Americans' rights MUST be upheld, too.
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