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our stories have much in common- i didn't really care about gay marriage either. i figured it would happen one day, but we'd go through years of domestic partnerships and civil unions, but one day the supreme court would decide that separate but equal was inherently unequal in this case as well. but until then, i really didn't care.
here's the sad thing- i'm gay. and i didn't care.
until tuesday, november 4th, 2008, when it all changed. i discovered i cared- i cared a lot.
like you, one of the reasons for my turnaround was the election of barack obama. suddenly things that seemed impossible- things like a black president- became real. i too, saw the joy and triumph on the faces of black america- i couldn't imagine what they were feeling, but i knew that one day i wanted to feel it too. i want to see a gay president elected, with the issue of his gayness not a factor in the race. i want to feel that moment of "we've arrived", that gay people are finally part of the discussion- not as freaks or perverts, but as equals, as fellow americans invested in the future of our country. i want that.
of course the other thing that changed on election day, is that a group of religious zealots got together and repealed one of my rights- a right every other american has, but gays and lesbians are not deemed worthy of. 52% percent of my fellow californians were swayed by their campaign of fear, and suddenly, something i've known all my life, but always hoped wasn't entirely true, was put into bold face black and white and shoved into my face: i was a second class citizen and my rights didn't matter. my people weren't deserving of equal protection under the law. and then i REALLY knew what marginalized minorities like black people, hispanics, jews, etc. have known for a long, long, time. that we don't count and we are not equal, and most hurtful of all, people are willing to go out of their way to let us know. to scapegoat us, and blame us for problems not of our making. to demonize us and disparage us. and if we should want to fight back, we are being uppity, and we should just shut up and be happy with the scraps we have been given. it is not right and it is not fair.
so now i care.
i care because i realize what has been done to me, has been done to others before me, and will be done to other marginalized peoples in the future, and i have a duty to fight because of that. we need to remember that our nation was founded to escape this sort of persecution but somehow that has become irrelevant to many. now that the oppressors are emboldened by a victory over the oppressed, they will press for more and more, until all their goals are met. i can't let that happen- YOU can't let that happen. this isn't just about gay marriage, it's about protecting the rights of a minority against the tyranny of those who would rule them. this is about maintaining the integrity of our constitution and bill of rights and system of government. the people that backed this measure, aren't so much about defining marriage but more about redefining our very system of government. they want to make this the first stop on a road to a government where the bible trumps the constitution, and that is something just too scary for all of us to contemplate. they will not stop with one measure in california, it is just the start. they too have a 50 state strategy. there is no gay agenda, but these people most certainly have an agenda, and it begins with the gays, but certainly doesn't end with them. you could be next.
think about it.
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