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JackBeck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 02:40 PM
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Family Research Council is pissed at eHarmony.
Edited on Fri Nov-21-08 02:41 PM by JackBeck
For those that need a refresher course on identifying the real enemy:

http://www.frc.org/get.cfm?i=WU08K12&f=RF07B06

eHarmony: Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places

The surest way to lose the culture war is refusing to fight. Unfortunately, no company illustrates that better than eHarmony, whose shocking concession to the homosexual movement is sending tremors through the faith community. In New Jersey, a man named Eric McKinley filed a complaint against the dating service, arguing that its website discriminated against homosexuals by not offering same-sex matching. When the state's attorney general pressed eHarmony about its policy, the company surrendered on the spot. Instead of fighting New Jersey's unreasonable demands, eHarmony collapsed under the intimidation. In a settlement reached out of court, Neil Clark Warren's enterprise agreed to cover $50,000 in administrative costs, pay McKinley $5,000, and give free six-month memberships to the first 10,000 homosexuals who register.

To those of us in the pro-family movement who hailed eHarmony's commitment to the virtue of traditional marriage, the company's actions are distressing and damaging. Even legal experts on the Left agreed that McKinley didn't have a case since Warren, as the owner of a private company, has a right to keep lawful limits on his clients. What's worse, there were plenty of ways for the site to resolve the issue and keep its policy intact. For instance, eHarmony could have simply refused to service the state of New Jersey. Instead, Warren conceded significant moral ground, opening the door to a wave of attacks on other dating sites like catholicmatch.com.

Please join us in expressing your disappointment by emailing customerrelations@eHarmony.com or by calling 800-951-2023. Let them know how troubling it is that a company once so bold in its mission to establish "successful heterosexual marriages" is now actively participating in the assault on the true meaning of sexuality.


It's exciting to see so much infighting from the other side. We could be using this opportunity to divide them even more. Any ideas on how we can go about accomplishing this?
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 02:44 PM
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1. Tell "pro-family" followers that gay couples are also families. nt
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Turbineguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 02:44 PM
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2. Family Research Counsel:
Get Stuffed!
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MineralMan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 02:45 PM
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3. What isn't the FRC pissed about?
Seems like they can find something to hate just about anywhere. Morons.
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47of74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 02:52 PM
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7. Nothing...
Instead of attending to their logs in their own eyes they spend their days pointing out the specks in the eyes of others.
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JackBeck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 03:09 PM
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11. I think the larger point to be made here
Is that the Right Wing fundies and their organizations are quickly unraveling, now that the election is over. And it's now gotten to a point where they are openly and publicly fighting with one another.

This is a good thing, and an opportunity for our side to take advantage of their waning power and influence.
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MineralMan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 03:23 PM
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14. I agree with you.
I expect donations to these "organizations" to drop off sharply, and that'll put paid to some of them. The economy and the impotence they've shown recently should stimulate a lack of interest.

Tony Perkins can bite my red butt!
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yellowcanine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 02:46 PM
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4. Good. Anything that takes up staff time at FRC is a good thing.
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JackBeck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 05:32 PM
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27. And it's a dwindling staff. Funny you should mention it. n/t
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FreeState Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 02:48 PM
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5. "participating in the assault on the true meaning of sexuality."
Wow - just wow, could they be any more hateful?
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JackBeck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 02:53 PM
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8. Yeah, that just kicked their hate up to a whole new level.
But as long as they keep bleeding staff and fail to meet fund raising goals, we'll actually see going our lifetime possibly the exact moment when they are rendered irrelevant.
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 03:25 PM
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16. And what is that true meaning, pray tell?
:shrug:
And why do religious zealots feel it necessary to control every aspect of people's private lives?
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Lerkfish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 02:49 PM
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6. completely as an aside, the thing I find disturbing is
that this is treating humans as dating commodities, that have a financial value as assets in a transaction.
The settlement was an exchange, in virtual financial assets, of the perceived damage, which was a lack of opportunity to find love.


nothing to do with the OP's point or the whackjob fundies' lament, but just something that really stuck out at me when I read the out of court settlement.
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monmouth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 03:00 PM
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10. You're absolutely right, the bottom line is the thing.....n/t
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cobalt1999 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 02:55 PM
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9. One day eHarmony will allow atheists to participate too.
That will really blow their minds.

(maybe they already changed that rule)
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MineralMan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 03:25 PM
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15. Why would atheists bother?
They're already finding the best matches on their own...handsome devils and lovely women that they are...(present company included, of course).
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 03:26 PM
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17. They don't?
Are they run by the Mormons or something?
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cobalt1999 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 03:44 PM
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22. It used to be a rule there, not sure if it still is.
Religious fundamentalists run and own the site not sure what flavor they are.
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qb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 03:11 PM
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12. About eHarmony's caving so readily... maybe they just needed an excuse
to dive into the lucrative same-sex market.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 03:16 PM
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13. If the Freaks argument is eHarmony didn't fight, then the wedge
is that FRC is antogonizing potential partners in their "movement" and harrassing pro-family businessmen.

lol
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 03:29 PM
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18. "...sending tremors through the faith community."
Okay, once again Fundies, those of us outside of your religion are not bound by your religious rules, dumbass.
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JackBeck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 06:56 PM
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32. Their dreams of turning this country into a theocracy continue to fade.
About fucking time.
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damntexdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 03:35 PM
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19. Too bad it took legal pressure for eHarmony to do the right thing.
But if that's what it takes, AGs should go for it. The squeels from Fuckups on the Family should be eharmonious music to our ears.
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FiveGoodMen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 03:39 PM
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20. Basic rule: Any org with 'Family' in its title SUCKS SATAN'S COCK
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JackBeck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 03:41 PM
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21. Umm....PFLAG?
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FiveGoodMen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 03:45 PM
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23. Fine. Every rule has exceptions.
But beware of 'Family', 'Concerned', 'Values' ...

You know what I'm getting at.

No. I'm not against PFLAG.
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JackBeck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 03:46 PM
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24. 'Concerned' is the one when I get
Well, concerned.
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 04:51 PM
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25. FCVSC
Family of Concerned Values Sucking Satan's Cock.
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rucky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 04:54 PM
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26. or "Concerned"
or "Freedom"
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FiveGoodMen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 05:54 PM
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30. Oops! Forgot 'Freedom(TM)'
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guitar man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 05:37 PM
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28. Professional windmill tilters they are
:eyes:
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donco6 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 05:39 PM
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29. Gay bits and bytes rubbing naughty parts with straight ones.
The HORROR!
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FiveGoodMen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-21-08 05:56 PM
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31. !
:rofl:
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