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Bluzmann57 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 10:40 AM
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One of the toughest girls in the world
Edited on Wed Feb-25-09 10:44 AM by Bluzmann57
My cousin, Kelly, had a birthday yesterday. she's 24. That in and of itself is unremarkable, young ladies and gentlemen all over the world are turning 24. But Kelly's story is kind of inspiring, at least to me.
You see, her mother, who is now deceased, slept around and was in and out of jail many times. As a result, Kelly still doesn't know who her biological father is. She was raised by her grandfather who is a tough old guy, but has had several health problems over the years. Anyway, Kelly persevered, got straight A's her senior year in H.S. and went on to college. She got a scholarship for softball and some grants because she literally had no money. She was told by some teachers in H.S. that perhaps she should pursue a career in either education or law as she was very adept in those fields. But after her mother died, Kelly chose nursing. She is a sensitive caring human being and she was close to her mother in spite of everything. So she felt health care was the way to go. She held down a full time job managing a local (delicious) ice cream parlor, and still made the honor roll in her last semester at college. Now she is a full time nurse at a well known local hospital in Illinois. She is a lovely person, both on the outside and more importantly, inside as well. And she is a lesbian. For all the right wingers out there who hate lesbians, I challenge any of them to be raised in a tough environment, overcome it, and succeed in life. Kelly and I went out for a couple of drinks last night and she mentioned that she stumbled across a "cool" new website. I asked her what it was and she replied "Democraticunderground.com I think it's called". I broke into a broad grin and told her that I post crap all the time in there (here). So Kelly, if you are reading this, I love you and how about some free ice cream? :-) I also reiterate, one of the toughest ladies I know. I admire her for it.
On edit- I apologize if anyone is offended or bored to tears with this tripe. But when she told me she reads DU, I just had to pay a (very amateur) tribute to her. Thank you for allowing me to do this.
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 10:42 AM
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1. Hats off to your cousin!
:applause:

She sounds AWESOME!!!!

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unhappycamper Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 10:44 AM
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2. Let's hope Kelly signs up! n/t
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ShortnFiery Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 10:44 AM
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3. Very heartwarming story.
Thank-you and best wishes to you and your cousin Kelly. :hi:
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October Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 10:45 AM
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4. Happy Birthday, Kelly! Welcome.
:party:
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tavalon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 10:46 AM
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5. I'm proud to have her as a fellow nurse
She sounds like gold.
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Triana Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 10:50 AM
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6. Hats off to Kelly! YOU GO GIRL!
You've every damn right to be proud of your beautiful young cousin. :woohoo:
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Not Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 10:59 AM
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7. What an inspiring story
THANK YOU for sharing.
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Booster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 11:01 AM
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8. Happy Birthday, Kelly. I just wish my niece was more like
you. She's had everything handed to her on a silver platter by two sets of parents and she's just bored as Hell with college and life. Good luck to you.
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 11:03 AM
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9. i always love the honoring of another human being from someone who loves them
Edited on Wed Feb-25-09 11:03 AM by seabeyond
nothing niftier in life.

thanks for sharing

and hey... kelly, you are loved.
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Brazenly Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 11:10 AM
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10. Welcome Kelly! And Happy Birthday!
:party: :party: :party: :party: :party: :party: :party: :party: :party: :party: :party: :party: :party: :party: :party:
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YOY Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 11:21 AM
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11. Hey Kelly if you start posting you're in good company!
And quite diverse company that all accept you for who you are and what's inside.
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Aristus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 11:21 AM
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12. Congratulations, Kelly!
You sound like a wonderful person! B-)
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satya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 12:10 PM
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13. Kelly, you are an inspiration to all of us! Happy belated birthday. nt
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progressoid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 12:44 PM
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14. She obviously has good taste!
Hi Kelly :hi:
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PopSixSquish Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 12:52 PM
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15. Happy Birthday Kelly
Keep on keeping on!

:fistbump:
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laylah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 12:54 PM
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16. Way to go
Kelly! :hug: May you prosper and succeed!
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bertman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 01:00 PM
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17. Welcome, Kelly!! Sounds like you're a great cousin, Bluzmann57.
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Patiod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 02:59 PM
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18. And ignore the infighting you see here Kelly - it's rare
Really! We almost never beat up on each other over minor issues! Hardly ever!
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Uncle Joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 03:03 PM
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19. Good for Kelly and thanks for sharing, Bluzmann.
:thumbsup:

Kicked and recommended.
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City Lights Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 03:03 PM
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20. What a wonderful story!
Thanks for sharing. And Happy Birthday, Kelly, if you're reading this. :party: Hope you sign up and start posting soon. :hi:
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PVnRT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 03:05 PM
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21. I'm offended by use of "the"
I demand satisfaction.
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madokie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 03:07 PM
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22. Thats great
On so many levels. Give her a :hug: for me sometime
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 05:03 PM
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23. kelly reminds me a lot of my nieces
both are studying to be nurses after their mom died of cancer 3 years ago. the youngest was a senior in high school and the oldest was a sophomore in college when their mother was diagnosed with inflammatory breast cancer. she died just two months after diagnosis, and my sister's incredibly brave daughters never missed a day of school. they said the best tribute they could give their mother was to continue their educations. Ashley graduates in may and Shannon will be going into her junior year.
i know exactly how proud you must be of Kelly.

:hi: welcome to DU, Kelly.
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yellerpup Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 07:24 PM
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24. Nothing amateur about the way you love, cousin.
Congratulations, Kelly! :grouphug:
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fed_up_mother Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 07:43 PM
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25. Awwwwww, that's sweet! Welcome, Kelly!
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lunatica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 07:46 PM
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26. Hiya Kelly!!
Drop in see us sometime!

:hi:
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Chemical Bill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-25-09 08:33 PM
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27. Good for you both. n/t
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earcandle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 04:04 AM
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28. How very cool!
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DUlover2909 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 05:28 AM
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29. ok I get free ice cream too!
:fistbump: :kick:
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malaise Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 05:36 AM
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30. Belated Happy Birthday Kelly
Lovely post! :grouphug:
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WillyT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 07:26 AM
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31. Happy Birthday Kelly !!! - K & R !!!
:bounce::party::bounce:

And welcome to DU !!!

:hi:
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 07:33 AM
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32. Happy birthday, Cousin Kelly!
Keep up the good work. Your family here at DU is mighty proud of you!

H2O Man
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cate94 Donating Member (573 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 07:33 AM
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33. Happy Birthday!
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NikolaC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 07:38 AM
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34. No Need To Apologize
Your post was a wonderful and inspiring one to read first thing in the morning :). Kelly sounds like the kind of person many would be lucky to know, much less be related to :).
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EmilyAnne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 07:41 AM
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35. So sweet! She sounds great!
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GinaMaria Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 07:57 AM
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36. Hope you're out there today Kelly
:hi:
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rosesaylavee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 08:00 AM
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37. A great American story that...
Hurray for Kelly!
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ejbr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 08:08 AM
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38. As a gay man,
I never knew that lesbians played softball. :evilgrin:

Kelly, if you are reading this, I just want to thank you for hanging in there. I know what it must have been like, and I had a much easier time of things. Brava!
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EvilAL Donating Member (357 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 08:13 AM
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39. Here's a little song for her.
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BeliQueen Donating Member (433 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 09:05 AM
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40. Welcome Kelly!
Happy birthday, and congratulations on all your wonderful accomplishments.

You are an example of why America will endure. You didn't give up on yourself or your country. For that I really thank you.
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RadiationTherapy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 09:09 AM
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41. She's a remarkable woman, not a remarkable girl. Very nice of you to post this!
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mdmc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 09:32 AM
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42. kick
r
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handmade34 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 09:50 AM
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43. Happy Birthday Kelly!!!
thank you for all you do.
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AnotherMother4Peace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 10:04 AM
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44. Wow! - Happy Birthday Kelly - You sound like a wonderful young lady. nt
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tabbycat31 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 10:05 AM
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45. Happy Birthday Kelly
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Rainbowreflect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 10:11 AM
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46. Thanks for sharing such a nice story. Happy Birthday Kelly!
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ayeshahaqqiqa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 10:20 AM
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47. Hi Kelly
I'm so proud of what you have accomplished--and who you are.
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Brewman_Jax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 10:22 AM
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48. Merry Birthday!
and that's an inspiring story. Well done! :thumbsup:
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Ohio Joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 10:23 AM
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49. Sweet
I hope Kelly will decide to join in here, more good people are always welcome :hi:
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Captain Hilts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 10:31 AM
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50. Here you go...
ER: Happy Birthday Kelly! You've got my vote of confidence!


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myrna minx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 10:33 AM
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51. Happy Birthday Kelly!
You really are an inspiration. :toast:
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SalviaBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 10:36 AM
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52. Happy Birthday Kelly!!
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MrMickeysMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 10:38 AM
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53. This was the PERFECT place for this great story...
Welcome to DU, Kelly (you MUST SURELY read this), and

THANK YOU FOR BEING A NURSE! :fistbump:

(A Respiratory Therapist)

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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 10:41 AM
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54. Happy birthday, Kelly!
:kick:

:toast:
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veganlush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 10:43 AM
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55. thank you for the story...
:hi: :woohoo:
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Wapsie B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 10:50 AM
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56. Happy Birthday Kelly!!
:toast:
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renate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 11:04 AM
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57. way to go, Kelly!
Just a few minutes too late for an R, but at least I can give this a K.

Even if you're already proud of yourself for all you've achieved (and I hope you are!), you probably have no idea how exceptional you are. I really admire you. :hug: Your patients, and the other people in your life, are very lucky to know you.

Happy belated birthday! :party:
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swimmernsecretsea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-26-09 11:04 AM
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58. Can I wave at your cousin?
Hi Kelly! :hi:
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