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Philosoraptor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 12:57 PM
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What the hell is a 'hater'? Is it a new meaning for an old word?
I keep hearing this term, or word, used in many different situations, and it seems to have morphed into something other than what it once was, like the word 'queer'.

What the hell is a hater? I might be one, cause there are really a lot of things I hate, like most republicans, and palin, gingrich, rush, hannity, colter, etc. Am I a hater? What's so wrong with being a hater as long as it doesn't consume you? Doesn't everybody hate something or someone?
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Oregone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:00 PM
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1. Its someone who criticizes a person you are irrationally infatuated with
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Howardx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:12 PM
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6. bingo! n/t
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Guy Whitey Corngood Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:15 PM
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10. Why do you hate Salma Hayek? You hater you!!!! nt
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get the red out Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:02 PM
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2. Someone who disagrees
Generally it appears to be someone who passionately disagrees with some original premise presented. For a conservative, it is anyone who disagrees with them. That's not what "hater" should mean but it has morphed into that.
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Cant trust em Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:02 PM
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3. It kind of means naysayer.
Or someone who is constantly raining on a parade.
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Echo In Light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:04 PM
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4. Like most epithets the meaning can vary depending upon context
To be referred to as a "hater" is usually indicative of a very negative, hateful attitude in general, and represents those who often don't display or express any moral qualms w/volatile subjects. So it's easy to see why it's used inappropriately.

For instance, one's criticisms of right-wing power and its machinations doesn't constitute hatred, per se, if your objections are framed within a moral context.

However, if one is merely being flippant, and playing the this-side/that-side 'sports' mentality game of politics, and therefore the criticisms don't stem from one's innate sense of social injustice, than perhaps the term applies.
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spanone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:07 PM
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5.  a person who hates
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Echo In Light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:13 PM
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7. It's not quite so simple.
Republican refers to Obama as a 'socialist,' and uses profanity and belligerence to underscore their rage.

Leftist refers to Obama as a 'moderate repub,' and offers examples of how the two Name Brand party systems is a sham used to protect centralized, corporate power.

Either of those can get you called a "hater," even though it should, should be clear as to the intent behind each, which, again, should be the qualifier. But for other repubs, the first example is 'truth' and therefore anyone disagreeing can be a "hater," as where re the latter example, staunch two party system supporters, even Dems, may consider the person interjecting unwelcome views as "negative," and therefore a "hater."
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Tierra_y_Libertad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:14 PM
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8. The opposite of hate isn't love but indifference. The reverse is also true.
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harun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:15 PM
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9. Someone who disagrees or expresses distaste in something without rationale and in a hateful manner.
Edited on Wed Jul-08-09 01:16 PM by harun
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Blue_In_AK Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:17 PM
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11. It's one of Sarah's favorite words
for people who disagree with her.
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JTFrog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:20 PM
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12. A person that simply cannot be happy for another person's success.
Edited on Wed Jul-08-09 01:21 PM by JTFrog
From Urban Dictionary: hater


1. hater

A person that simply cannot be happy for another person's success. So rather than be happy they make a point of exposing a flaw in that person.

Hating, the result of being a hater, is not exactly jealousy. The hater doesnt really want to be the person he or she hates, rather the hater wants to knock someone else down a notch.

5. hater

A label applied to people who are more negative than positive when discussing another person. It most commonly refers to individuals whose negativity is so extreme that it is all-consuming. However, there are various levels and forms of being a hater, ranging from completely dismissing any positive traits or actions, to merely painting a less than flattering picture by using words with negative connotations. Hating is often attributed to jealousy, but just as often, it seems to stem from some other source.



Few more fitting definitions as well: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hater
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Philosoraptor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:42 PM
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15. I'm not jealous of sarah palin, but I DO hate'er
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damntexdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:30 PM
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13. I'm not sure; but I sure hate haters.
And I loathe loathers, too.
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Philosoraptor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:39 PM
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14. So if you loathe loathers, does that make YOU a loather?
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:45 PM
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16. i was thinking that this morning. if one is merely tired of obsessive coverage, they are haters
hate is a strong word. for me anyway. i dont know there is anyone i hate. i didn't even hate bush.

last couple days, if a person expressed any view that wasn't in line with a group, they were called out for being haters. silly

but it certainly has picked up momentum just like the right sends their word or two out, for all to use. instead of listening, just yell "hater"
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ellisonz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:47 PM
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17. Haters Everywhere
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Sebastian Doyle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 01:49 PM
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18. Well... according to the current DU definition
Edited on Wed Jul-08-09 01:50 PM by Sebastian Doyle
it's apparently anyone who doesn't think a dead pop star deserves 2 weeks of non stop network news coverage.

Last week, it was anyone who merely criticized the President.
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Obamanaut Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 02:16 PM
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19. There are so many choices, I don't know what to hate. I need a decider. nt
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tekisui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 02:18 PM
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20. A critic.
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earth mom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 02:26 PM
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21. If you dare question Obama, you're a "hater".
Edited on Wed Jul-08-09 02:27 PM by earth mom
:eyes:

I can't believe that people actually think a$$ ki$$ing will get them what they want.

Money is the ONLY thing that matters in Washington DC.
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Philosoraptor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 04:41 PM
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22. That has happened to me
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frylock Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 04:55 PM
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23. i <3 haters!
Edited on Wed Jul-08-09 04:56 PM by frylock
 
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Philosoraptor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-08-09 06:23 PM
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24. ?
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