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Sat Jul-11-09 11:40 AM
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Poll question: 'Some of my best friends are Republicans' |
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Sat Jul-11-09 11:42 AM
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1. I have some long time friends |
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Sat Jul-11-09 11:43 AM
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2. Rec'd for the lol option. |
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Sat Jul-11-09 11:43 AM
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Unless there's some sort of a joke here that's going over my head, why not? One needs to know people from all sides of life. Besides, how are they going to learn anything if they don't have me to advocate for my side of things?
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Sat Jul-11-09 11:44 AM
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4. If someone is a repuke, |
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:54 PM
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28. As long as we stay off politics, we're cool. |
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We can talk about baseball, music, movies, whatever. If politics comes up everyone walks away pissed.
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Sat Jul-11-09 02:28 PM
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39. Same here...no politics, and no |
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religion.
Which some of them are apt to bring up, in a mighty (but somewhat futile) effort to Convert The Godless.
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Otherwise, we can sit and have some pretty interesting chats
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Sat Jul-11-09 05:00 PM
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i have repub friends from several religions. one of my repub friends is an atheist. a pro-life atheist. it's pretty frigging iconoclastic. i think life would be really boring if we surrounded ourselves only with people who think the exact same things, politically. i just people by their character, not their politics.
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Sat Jul-11-09 11:45 AM
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5. We have some long time friends who are Republicans--but I wouldn't call them best friends. |
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Sat Jul-11-09 11:46 AM
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:23 PM
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18. Oh yes..I know an O'Conner who loves Sarah Palin like a six pack... |
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Sat Jul-11-09 11:46 AM
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Some of them I can have good rip-roaring arguments with, and others......we just don't talk politics.
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Sat Jul-11-09 11:48 AM
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8. Yep, some of them are Republicans |
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and some in this group voted for Obama. Others are hopeless but I am not throwing them under the bus because we have political differences. Life is too short.
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Sat Jul-11-09 11:49 AM
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9. Other. No friends, some relatives. nm |
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Sat Jul-11-09 11:51 AM
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10. just my 87 year-old Aunt Betty -- as far as Americans are concerned |
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I can hardly ditch my 87 year-old Aunt who used to take me on trips when I was a little kid.
When it comes to Europeans or Middle or Far Easterners - some of my good friends are conservatives - I am able to separate emotionally in those cases. American conservatives tend to be - for the most part, with some exceptions, more extreme and less rational than conservatives from the United States.
I have found also that some conservatives on a personal level are kindly, compassionate and tolerant enough and some people on the left are not.
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Sat Jul-11-09 01:44 PM
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33. I've found the opposite - kindly compassionate and tolerant |
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people on the liberal/left, democratic side. Have not encounterd that with my repub friends. I think there is a personality that is attracted to the mindeset that is repub (and the same holds true for dems). That personality tends to be more ridged. It's why they always make jokes about "hearding cats" when refering to democrats. Dems are open minded and tend to try (rightly or not) to look t different sides of the issues and be more tolerent of other view points. Just look at our congress, repubs are in lock step, dems are infighting. Personally, even though they are holding up progress, there is a part of me that is glad that we have the infighting and argument.
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Sat Jul-11-09 11:51 AM
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11. Yes, but they have an excuse |
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Sat Jul-11-09 11:54 AM
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12. Yes, I even know Republicans who are black, Hispanic, Jewish, on welflare, LGBT, in the armed forces |
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And even most of the above all at the same time.
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:38 PM
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25. There are tons of gay republicans here in denver |
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I went into queer chat the day after the election and taunted them. LOL
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:04 PM
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13. some of my best friends are EX-republicans |
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the things that were done in the last 8 years was just too much for them.
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:05 PM
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14. Yes. I have relatives and friends who are Republicans. |
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:06 PM
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15. Yes, I do have friends that are republicans - nt |
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:07 PM
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16. Both of my brothers were Republican |
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Until W. got the 2000 nomination.
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:19 PM
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17. My Dad was a republican until 2008 but he voted for... |
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Democrats in the past and for Obama in November.
I have a really good friend who is a libertarian (more selfish/less warmongering version of repubs). I just pretend she has a mental problem when anything political comes up. She is a very generous and sweet person who loves animals and has been a good friend to me. I just nod and say "that's nice" until the conversation changes to something more innocuous.
I have to have a very good reason to overlook something so wrong in a person that I might want to get close to.
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:24 PM
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19. It's a very short list, but yes. |
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:25 PM
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20. Never had a republican friend |
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But I was shocked to discover that I have a republican relative - thankfully, he's the only one in the family.
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:31 PM
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21. Democrats don't have a monopoly on virtue or republicans on vice |
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:34 PM
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22. My Mother is a freeper |
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to keep the peace, I have to mind watch myself and be objective when talking politics with her. I think telling her that I am a liberal would upset her worse then when I told her I was gay.
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:35 PM
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23. Friends? No. Family? Many. |
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:36 PM
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24. Only the ones I don't talk politics with - ever! |
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And that's a pretty rare occurrence - I can only think of one Republican friend that I still have, and we avoid major political discussions. But if it wasn't for the fact that we've known each other for over 30 years I wouldn't have that much restraint.
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:43 PM
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Some people I know well are republicans. But best friends? Aw hell no.
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:50 PM
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27. Why would I have as friends....... |
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people whose judgement, intentions and veracity I could never trust?
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Sat Jul-11-09 12:57 PM
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29. My husband's best friend is a Puglican... |
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Edited on Sat Jul-11-09 12:58 PM by PassingFair
We haven't seen too much of him since the election...we were at his liberal brother-in-law's house on election night and he and his wife left early because they couldn't bear the emotion and they knew it was not a good night to pick a fight.
The only time he calls my husband is when he needs something. :eyes:
He and his wife are anti-union, anti National Health care and bigots.
Oh, and they BOTH work for the city, have a union, with benefits and PENSIONS and his wife's brother is married to a black woman. And the wife's other brother (the liberal) is gay and has a black partner.
I put up with my husband's friend because I LOVE his brother-in-law.
:crazy:
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Sat Jul-11-09 01:31 PM
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30. Life is far too short to waste with motherfucking republican trash |
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Sat Jul-11-09 01:32 PM
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31. sheeeeit. my only friends. oh, and all my family, are repugs. n/t |
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Edited on Sat Jul-11-09 01:32 PM by seabeyond
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Sat Jul-11-09 01:38 PM
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not a one...however, i've several relatives who are, but we are NOT close.
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Sat Jul-11-09 01:58 PM
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34. We should recognize, and even embrace, the differences |
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between Republicans and right-wing asswrenches.
Yes, I have Republican friends. One or two are close friends. We occasionally talk politics, and, gee — they don't eat babies or smoke flags.
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Sat Jul-11-09 01:59 PM
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35. Some of the best people I know are Republicans, people who would stand by me |
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when I need help. I don't pick friends by politics and I don't judge people strictly by their politics. There are Republicans who are not good people, but there are people here with whom I would not want to spend 2 minutes with even though we politically agree.
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Sat Jul-11-09 02:14 PM
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36. Extremists of any stripe |
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Edited on Sat Jul-11-09 02:27 PM by billh58
I don't associate with extremists on either end of the political spectrum. I believe that Middle Americans, whether Republican or Democrat, are generally socially liberal, and fiscally conservative. The major differences of opinion between mainstream Republicans and Democrats are the size of government, and how much to spend on "social" programs.
A blog that I have participated in for years, and which was once a mainstream, Liberal Democratic community has, since the elections, become a haven for Far-Left extremists, who IMHO are just as bad, or worse, than the neocon extremists.
I have been a "lurker" on DU for several years, but because I was a moderator on another Democratic site I have not had the time to participate here. That may soon be changing.
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Sat Jul-11-09 02:19 PM
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You don't get to pick them, you know...
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Sat Jul-11-09 02:25 PM
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38. Some of my best friends won't let me fondle their genitalia. So what? |
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Sat Jul-11-09 05:04 PM
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Some of my family is, but none of my close, close friends are.
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