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Neecy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 09:54 PM Original message |
Straight DU men, please chime in |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 09:56 PM Response to Original message |
1. No |
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Arkana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
2. Worst I ever got was "faggot" in elementary school and a couple times |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 07:06 AM Response to Reply #2 |
46. I'm amazed I wasn't more in high school lol |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
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bemildred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 09:58 PM Response to Original message |
4. No, I've been hit on, but no slurs. nt |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 12:47 AM Response to Reply #4 |
36. Same. Always nice to know someone thinks you're attractive, even if you aren't interested. |
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bemildred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 09:35 AM Response to Reply #36 |
49. I generally take it as a compliment. |
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Rebubula (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 10:41 AM Response to Reply #36 |
53. My feelings exactly... |
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Bluenorthwest (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:02 PM Response to Original message |
5. Ah when it happens, it really happens |
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Speck Tater (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:03 PM Response to Original message |
6. Quite the opposite. |
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Colobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:24 PM Response to Reply #6 |
16. I had an experience like yours as well, but it didn't end well. |
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Colobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:04 PM Response to Original message |
7. I don't know if this counts, but... |
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Fozzledick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:05 PM Response to Original message |
8. I once knew an orchestra conductor who went out of his way to address me as "faggot" |
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Forkboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:09 PM Response to Original message |
9. My friend and I were just joking about how some people think he and I are gay. |
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Rob H. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:10 PM Response to Original message |
10. No |
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Ohio Joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:10 PM Response to Original message |
11. Yes |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:14 PM Response to Original message |
12. Sure, because I have long hair. |
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safeinOhio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:17 PM Response to Original message |
13. My ex accused me of everything |
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FreakinDJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:22 PM Response to Original message |
14. Sure - I turned a girl down and she accused me of being Gay |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:23 PM Response to Original message |
15. A girl I was set up on a date with, later told her friends that I was gay. |
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tomreedtoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:32 PM Response to Original message |
17. Yes, of course. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:33 PM Response to Original message |
18. Deleted message |
Dogmudgeon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:37 PM Response to Original message |
19. I was severely beaten by a gay-basher |
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Neecy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:43 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Oh, how horrible |
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smalll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:40 PM Response to Original message |
20. Here's my response from the other thread, and thanks for starting this one. |
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slampoet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
22. I got gay bashed Constantly in school. 20 fellow students beat me and cut off my hair... |
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Gman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:47 PM Response to Original message |
23. Any boy who is past 8th grade and still calling other guys "faggot" |
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MadBadger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:48 PM Response to Original message |
24. Hard to tell because growing up and into today, people use faggot like regular speech |
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Alcibiades (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:53 PM Response to Original message |
25. I think men probably deal with this more than women |
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Colobo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:58 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. "Male gender roles are far more rigid, and the sanctions for violating them are greater, I think." |
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sam sarrha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
26. no one is safe from them for any reason.. they have kicked my ass several times just for fun |
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Hydra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 11:32 PM Response to Original message |
28. It used to be assumed that I was gay because I wasn't dating(couldn't afford to) |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 11:37 PM Response to Original message |
29. Not that I can recall... (nt) |
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ProudToBeBlueInRhody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 11:52 PM Response to Original message |
30. No....maybe I don't ever fall in with rough crowds..... |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jul-19-09 11:55 PM Response to Original message |
31. yes...but- i used to be a wait-captain, and i was also a travel agent... |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 12:11 AM Response to Original message |
32. Yes, because I was the "shy, sensitive boy" when I was a kid, so I got called "fag" a lot. |
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smalll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 12:13 AM Response to Original message |
33. The more I think about this, the more I realize what a problem this all is. |
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ProgressiveProfessor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 12:38 AM Response to Original message |
34. I got called a fag by a PETA boy I was preventing from harrasing an older lady in a fur coat |
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TroglodyteScholar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 12:40 AM Response to Original message |
35. I've been called "queer" by an Alabama highway patrolman |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 12:49 AM Response to Original message |
37. Oh yeah, frequently. I get hit on a lot too, though almost never offensively. |
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Cessna Invesco Palin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 01:01 AM Response to Original message |
38. I used to get that occasionally when I had my long hippie hair. |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 02:46 AM Response to Original message |
39. Kids stuff mostly. |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 05:05 AM Response to Original message |
40. No. Simply, no. n/t |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 05:19 AM Response to Original message |
41. Interesting OP/thread. |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 05:31 AM Response to Original message |
42. Yes, But. . . . |
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ThomWV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 06:17 AM Response to Original message |
43. If you've ever been locked up you learn pretty quickly this is nothing to play with |
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timtom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 06:55 AM Response to Original message |
44. At a uniquely unsupervised event for us recruits |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 06:59 AM Response to Original message |
45. BONGGGGG!!!!!! |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 07:15 AM Response to Original message |
47. Yep, walking into the "Gay Dennys" in Phoenix with a guy friend would elicit some name calling from |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 07:37 AM Response to Original message |
48. hasn't happened to me... |
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Mrs. Overall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 10:29 AM Response to Original message |
50. This happened to my husband. He grew up in San Francisco and went to a college outside of Portland, |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
51. I've been treated much worse by a few straight women than by any LGBT person, ever |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 10:36 AM Response to Original message |
52. When I was a child, constantly. |
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burning rain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 10:51 AM Response to Original message |
54. No. Never been taken for gay in a hostile way. |
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PVnRT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 11:29 AM Response to Original message |
55. I've seen plenty of it |
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michreject (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 11:34 AM Response to Original message |
56. No |
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Throd (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-20-09 11:36 AM Response to Original message |
57. I borrowed a gay friend's truck which has a few rainbow stickers on it |
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