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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 11:23 AM Original message |
There is no "teachable moment" if no one will listen |
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timeforpeace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 11:32 AM Response to Original message |
1. What exactly was the teachable moment in all this? |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 11:35 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Liberals could have learned that cops are always in the right.. |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 11:45 AM Response to Reply #2 |
5. Cops most certainly are not always in the right. |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 11:50 AM Response to Reply #5 |
7. The other side will not listen either.. |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 11:59 AM Response to Reply #7 |
10. Because this is a liberal board and we don't have many others here |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:02 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. That's funny, I've seen a great deal of argumentation on this board about this event.. |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:24 PM Response to Reply #12 |
18. No should you |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:36 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. Bad faith was shown by officer Crowley when he deliberately lured Gates outside.. |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:40 PM Response to Reply #20 |
21. I was not there |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:47 PM Response to Reply #21 |
26. Hopefully it will go to trial.. |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:58 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. There always are |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:05 PM Response to Reply #28 |
32. I'm being a bit flippant here... |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:08 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. And you might recall they lost |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:15 PM Response to Reply #35 |
39. Eh, I didn't think we'd see another Repub POTUS for a generation after Nixon.. |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:22 PM Response to Reply #39 |
41. I fear it too. |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:02 PM Response to Reply #26 |
56. And what would be the lesson... |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:20 PM Response to Reply #21 |
66. Those actions are not in dispute. This bad arrest was thrown out |
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Chulanowa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:44 PM Response to Reply #18 |
23. The sad fact is, both sides aren't equal |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:04 PM Response to Reply #23 |
31. That is indeed true |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 04:33 PM Response to Reply #31 |
83. The "sides" are not black and white here, either |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:07 PM Response to Reply #23 |
57. I would never say that. What I am talking about is... |
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karynnj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:13 PM Response to Reply #7 |
16. The answer to their not listening is not to emulate their behavior |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:50 PM Response to Reply #16 |
27. Crowley's arrest of Gates was not justified.. |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:07 PM Response to Reply #27 |
34. We should have an airing of grievances so that comes out |
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karynnj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:33 PM Response to Reply #27 |
44. I never said it was |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 02:43 PM Response to Reply #44 |
52. That was my point about class.. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 02:22 PM Response to Reply #5 |
47. I think you're making a fundamental mistake in communication strategy |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 04:48 PM Response to Reply #47 |
86. ! |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 04:57 PM Response to Reply #86 |
88. Do you think that's right? I think it probably is. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 04:59 PM Response to Reply #88 |
90. The OP and thread is great, brought out the best of DU and your post is BRILLIANT |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 11:43 AM Response to Reply #1 |
4. President Obama referred to it yesterday |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 11:49 AM Response to Reply #4 |
6. Crowley deliberately lured Gates onto his porch specifically so he could arrest Gates.. |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:05 PM Response to Reply #6 |
14. Did you file a complaint? |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:44 PM Response to Reply #14 |
22. I couldn't afford to move out of the county at the time.. |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:26 PM Response to Reply #22 |
42. My sympathies for you and your daughter |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 02:28 PM Response to Reply #42 |
49. I don't think we are that far apart.. |
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dogtag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 11:54 AM Response to Reply #4 |
8. I'm sorry |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:13 PM Response to Reply #8 |
15. Maybe we should pause a moment and think before we post |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:13 PM Response to Reply #4 |
59. I often see posters reflect different ideas about 'who' is being taught... |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 04:46 PM Response to Reply #4 |
85. "Two gentleman" sit down "on neutral ground" to discuss the previous meeting |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 02:49 PM Response to Reply #1 |
54. It ain't over... |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 04:17 PM Response to Reply #1 |
81. Deleted message |
Evergreen Emerald (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 11:37 AM Response to Original message |
3. Amen. |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 11:58 AM Response to Original message |
9. The responses here prove your point - |
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karynnj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:03 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. True - and some are reacting to being called out by unrecommending |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:22 PM Response to Reply #13 |
17. I never even thought of that! |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:45 PM Response to Reply #13 |
24. Where have I been uncivil? |
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karynnj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:47 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. I did not say you, or anyone was being uncivil, though there were uncivil posts in the lasttwo days |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:02 PM Response to Reply #25 |
30. This is a very emotional subject for people who have been on the receiving end of police abuse.. |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:14 PM Response to Reply #30 |
38. Exactly why we need to take this seriously |
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karynnj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:30 PM Response to Reply #30 |
43. I seriously doubt all the people who were over the top had |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 02:33 PM Response to Reply #43 |
50. I think it is far more frequent than many people realize.. |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:59 PM Response to Reply #9 |
29. Just going by Crowley's police report there was no justification for the arrest.. |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:10 PM Response to Reply #29 |
37. And that point should come out in a discussion |
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dogtag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:22 PM Response to Reply #9 |
40. Not only the intolerance. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 02:26 PM Response to Reply #9 |
48. Perhaps your reality needs a little updating. |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 05:44 PM Response to Reply #9 |
96. that's probably true of both sides in the debate. Everybody knows. |
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karynnj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
11. I agree completely |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
19. At this point Obama has done what coulda, woulda, shoulda been done. Let's move on. |
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TayTay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:09 PM Response to Reply #19 |
36. I wanted to join the President for a beer, |
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dogtag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:47 PM Response to Reply #36 |
45. The next question is |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:16 PM Response to Reply #45 |
61. Oh, the White House is very secretive |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 04:58 PM Response to Reply #45 |
89. Then Obama can meet with a Health Insurance CEO and a Citizen whose loved one died w/o Healthcare |
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Duckhunter935 (777 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 01:05 PM Response to Original message |
33. I posted here that I would reserve judgment |
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Fumesucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 02:35 PM Response to Reply #33 |
51. Which is worse? |
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GeorgeGist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
46. Intraspecific competion is all about losing ... |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 02:43 PM Response to Original message |
53. EXACTLY. I am also very proud of my President... |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
55. We still need a 'civility' forum... |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:11 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. We need a literate forum |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:19 PM Response to Reply #58 |
63. ... |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:19 PM Response to Reply #55 |
64. Now, |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:21 PM Response to Reply #64 |
67. I tried it before and... |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:31 PM Response to Reply #67 |
68. Yeah, that's no surprise - |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:32 PM Response to Reply #68 |
69. Yes... |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:37 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. Your transgressions seem always wrapped in flowery tissue with paper umbrellas |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:42 PM Response to Reply #70 |
72. Ah, you old sweettalker, you - |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:50 PM Response to Reply #72 |
74. Hee hee |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:14 PM Response to Original message |
60. Indeed |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
62. Respect is earned. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:19 PM Response to Reply #62 |
65. Yes. And rights are asserted, not negotiated. n/t |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:53 PM Response to Reply #65 |
76. and sometimes their assanded |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:38 PM Response to Reply #62 |
71. Being respectful is learned. |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:48 PM Response to Reply #71 |
73. And sometimes those that demand respect show none in return. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:51 PM Response to Reply #73 |
75. The Golden Rule |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 03:55 PM Response to Reply #75 |
77. Yep. Reciprocity. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 04:00 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. Nope. When it is extended. There is no guarantee it will be reciprocated. That's the lesson. |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 04:07 PM Response to Reply #78 |
79. Or when none is extended to begin with, there is no reason |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 04:11 PM Response to Reply #79 |
80. Unless you follow the Golden Rule. And learned to be respectful. |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 04:18 PM Response to Reply #80 |
82. Learning takes two. |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 04:35 PM Response to Reply #82 |
84. Someday you'll understand |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 05:20 PM Response to Reply #84 |
93. If you are speaking of something like Ghandi or King |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 05:24 PM Response to Reply #93 |
94. The one who learns the lesson doesn't need the scorecard. The outcome is separate from the practice. |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 05:47 PM Response to Reply #94 |
97. Its not about keeping score but rather if there is a lesson learned |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 06:08 PM Response to Reply #97 |
98. Yes |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 06:30 PM Response to Reply #98 |
100. Sorry for the confusion but it was fun, kind of like |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 06:39 PM Response to Reply #100 |
101. We can only do what is right and have no control over what others may or may not learn. |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 09:11 PM Response to Reply #101 |
103. I understand the cop could have exercised a teachable moment |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 10:31 PM Response to Reply #103 |
104. oh is that what we're talking about? |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 04:53 PM Response to Reply #82 |
87. Learning takes one... |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 05:05 PM Response to Reply #87 |
91. Ah |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 05:37 PM Response to Reply #91 |
95. Aww...thanks... |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
92. Rec +10 for the best thread on DU in ages. A pleasure. Thanks all. And I mean ALL. |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 06:13 PM Response to Original message |
99. I would like this OP better with a video |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jul-25-09 06:45 PM Response to Reply #99 |
102. Look at the teeth on that woman! |
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