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armyowalgreens Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 05:35 AM
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Letters from a concerned parent of a student: " Open Homosexuality-make out sessions"!!!
So a little over two years ago, when I was just a wee junior on the high school newspaper, I was forwarded an email from a parent of a friend. The letters came from a "concerned" parent (I got word that it was a mormon parent) who had contacted the school districts superintendent.

Most of the content in these letters is absolutely ludicrous. But I found it particularly comical and just recently found it again. I figured you guys would enjoy it. Especially in light of the recent court cases dealing with school authorities and searches/drug tests

Enjoy...

" Hello to All Parents and Future Parents of
> 'GILBERT HIGH SCHOOL- <GHS>'.
>
> Many of you are aware of the 'DRUG PROBLEM' -
> 'NON-Enforcement of the DRESS CODE' and other issues
> 'GHS' has had and continues to have for the past
> several years.
>
> There is a very growing concern that
> 'EVERYONE' is turning a blind eye, looking the other
> way, etc., in hopes that these issues will just one
> day go away. Well I'm here to tell you -THEY ARE
> NOT GOING AWAY, in fact they are multiplying in
> intensity. Over 50% of the student body is either
> participating in one area or another or multiply
> areas. We as a community, as concerned parents need
> to 'STEP UP TO THE PLATE' and fight for change,
> fight for protection of our children and fight for
> what is right.
>
> I am not naive in thinking that these problems
> and issues are only at GHS...for we know that every
> school including our elementary level, jr. High
> level and high schools across the state and country
> are plagued with these issues. However; GHS has a
> very poor philosophy at enforcing the rules and
> therefore have created a nightmare for all those
> that attend this school.
>
> The things that are in the letter below are
> all TRUE - I have heard these things personally from
> several students that attend GHS and a few who have
> fallen prey and become victims to Drugs because
> everyone is looking the other way hoping that it
> will just stop.
>
> Without structure, guidelines, rules and
> enforcement we are allowing 'CHILDREN' to govern
> themselves. This only leads to one thing -
> Destruction, Chaos and ultimately the deterioration
> of a generation. The reason they are 'CHILDREN,
> TEENS, etc.' is because they have to have
> leadership, teaching, structure, guidelines, rules
> and adults to enforce and teach them in order for
> them to become productive, self-sufficient citizens
> of society and our community.
>
> Now some of you may be reading this and
> feeling I'm being dramatic or blowing things out of
> control. I will list a few items that are REAL and
> that are going on in "GHS' and you tell me if this
> is dramatic and out of control.
>
> 1) Lunch Time: Kids cutting 'Cocaine'
> and snorting on the lunch tables outside for all to
> see. The
> teachers response - we can't stop it, it's
> everywhere.
> 2) Bathrooms: Smoking 'Heroine' during
> class breaks and lunch time - Kids are smoking
> 2 - 3 times a
> day.
> 3) Drugs being sold and used behind the
> brick barrier wall at lunch time
> 4) Cigarettes being passed during lunch
> time
> 5) Open Homosexuality-make out sessions
> lying on top of each other using the lunch
> Tables as their beds, being
> displayed in front of everyone at lunch time
> 6) Sexual favors being done underneath
> the stair wells during lunch and class breaks
>
> This is what our children are being faced with
> on a day to day basis and as a very concerned parent
> I say we must band together and stand as a community
> and make a demand that a change be made, and that
> all of this has to STOP and STOP NOW!
>
> Last year a few students were busted for drug
> use...they were granted permission to come back to
> 'GHS' if they told who all the other parties were
> that were involved with the drug use. They complied
> with the request and gave the list to the
> administration. 'NOTHING' absolutely 'NOTHING' was
> ever done to any of those that were on the list and
> who are known for participating, selling and using
> drugs. My question to the administration is: 'WHY
> WAS NOTHING DONE'?
>
> I was privileged a week ago to be speaking to
> some students that attend the 'BASHA HIGH SCHOOL'
> and I asked them about their drug problem, their
> dress code issues etc. They informed me that there
> isn't a drug problem - because our school is a 'NO
> TOLERATE' school and the teachers and administration
> strictly enforce it. That their 'DRESS CODE' is
> strictly enforced and that if you wear a shirt and
> lift your arms up and skin shows - you are 'CODED'
> and so consequently because the students know the
> rules, know the guidelines, know the boundaries -
> there isn't issues. Now 'BASHA' I'm sure has other
> issues but this proves that if everyone is working
> together for the common good of the students - the
> issues can be minimized.
>
> I am writing this letter to request your
> 'HELP', 'SUPPORT' and 'INVOLVEMENT' to join in our
> crusade to change 'GHS' to a 'NO TOLERATE' school
> and that guidelines, rules and structure is enforced
> by everyone. Let's help take back the control and
> make 'GHS' a Great, Safe school for our children.
>
> Please respond to this e-mail with a YES or NO
> so we can keep you posted and up to date as to when
> the meeting is going to take place with Dr. Santa
> Cruz and Dr. Barrett. The more we can support each
> other and support our children - the bigger the
> difference we can all make.
>
> Please feel free to contact me either e-mail
> or phone for additional information and support.
>
> I hope your will 'SUPPORT' and get 'INVOLVED'.
> We need EVERYONE.
>
> Sincerely,
> ( I removed her name till I know more)
> In our relentless search for material wealth,
> Americans have embraced a culture where steep
> profits and shallow relationships have multiplied
> our possessions but reduced our social values.'
>
>
> - George Carlin"





Here is another letter from the same woman...



I'm a very concerned parent.
>
> I have been a resident of Gilbert for
> more than 13 years. I have seen the
> pros and cons of all the growth and
> for the most part I am very pleased
> with the community effort that has
> gone into carefully managing this
> expansion through the years.
>
> I recently attended a community
> meeting where feedback was shared from
> several of the Gilbert High student
> body. The collection of information
> was anonymous, which insured that no
> retaliation would be possible against
> the students who spoke up.
>
> Among the facts shared via the q & a
> were the increased drug use both on
> campus at GHS, and off campus. Some of
> the information included students
> witnessing the cutting of cocaine on a
> table at school, and the use of and
> exposure to everything from heroin to
> prescription drug abuse. Added
> information I have received from
> students is that of drugs and drug
> paraphernalia being seen in backpacks,
> lockers, etc.
>
> This information was particularly
> troubling with the added news that I
> personally know a GHS student who is
> now in treatment for drug addiction.
> As a matter of fact, the institution
> that is treating her has stated that
> Gilbert High School is currently the
> worst valley school for drugs. I do
> not have the statistical information
> she cited, but I can make that
> available to you.
>
> Other information shared by your
> students is your lack of enforcement of
> standards of dress code, which in an
> of itself may seem a trivial matter,
> but if the most basic rules of conduct
> are not respected, how can other
> more serious rules be followed?
>
> I am not a parent who is prone to
> complain to teachers or administrators,
> however this information is more than
> a little troubling to me because
> from every source I have spoken with,
> GHS has a lax policy on enforcement.
> This lax reputation for enforcement
> was shared by your students. This is
> the reputation that Gilbert High
> School has gained.
>
> I realize that the bulk of the
> responsibility of drug prevention must come
> from home. You can't expect educators
> to do a parent's job. I believe that
> I represent many parents who feel that
> way.
>
> However, there is a responsibility of
> school administrators to implement
> and enforce programs/policies that
> protect all students while on campus. I
> believe it is not reasonable to expect
> that students should be treated as
> if they are in a police state, but at
> the same time, there must be a
> deterrent or drug problems will only
> increase, as they reportedly have.
>
> I have several questions:
>
> What steps are in place at GHS to
> prevent the above mentioned, on-campus
> use of illicit drugs?
>
> Has the use of drug-sniffing canines
> been utilized? Will it ever be
> utilized?
>
> Is it within your policy at GUSD to do
> random drug testing, or random
> locker checks, especially when
> informants have notified administrators of
> drug use on campus/or directly prior
> to attending campus classes?
>
> The old saying, "An Ounce of
> Prevention is Worth a Pound of Cure", may
> sound dated, but in all honesty, it is
> true, isn't it?
>
> If a student chooses to use illegal
> drugs and gets away with it, with no
> fear of punishment,that is going to be
> everyone's problem if it is done on
> campus, or done prior to a student
> being on campus.
>
> I am not alone as a concerned parent.
> I truly fear that an increased
> climate of drug-use only lays the
> foundation for situations like
> Collumbine.
>
> From all accounts, the reports I have
> heard cause me to envision a volcano
> that is starting to spew some waves of
> lava, just prior to the massive
> explosion that will take out the
> entire mountain. GHS has a pretty bad
> reputation, and the community seems to
> think you administrators take a
> blind eye to the majority of it.
>
> Please let me know what you are doing
> at this time to insure the safety of
> my child on your campus, and please
> tell me what you are planning to
> implement in the near future, because
> apparently the current method of
> choice isn't working.
>
> I look forward to your response.
>
> Best Regards,
>
> Carol Emmett
> Gilbert





Here is the response of the superintendent


Mrs. Emmett,
> I really appreciate the concerns
> that you expressed regarding topics
> That, if proven true, would be of great
> importance to the district and
> Every parent of every student at the
> school. I have asked that a
> Personal meeting with you be scheduled
> to answer your concerns. Shortly
> Someone will be contacting you to
> schedule the meeting. I have asked that
> Representatives from the district,
> Gilbert High School and Gilbert Police
> Department be present to respond at the
> meeting. It would also be helpful
> If you could bring some details about
> some of the sources of your
> Information and opinions about the
> school in order to be able to respond a
> Little better. I am convinced that the
> meeting will be productive for
> Every one in attendance. If you have
> any concerns or questions please call
> Me at 480 497-3397.
>
> Brad Barrett
> Superintendent



For the record, Mr. Barrett is a complete asshole. I've dealth with him from another school district. The fact that he takes this loony parents accounts of "homosexual make-out sessions" seriously is absolutely mind boggling.


Remember folks. Nothing is more damaging to the mind of a teenager than homosexuals making out. It's super icky.



:eyes:
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ellie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 05:41 AM
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1. I obviously went to the wrong school
We didn't have Heroine or cocaine or make out sessions, homosexual or otherwise.
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armyowalgreens Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 05:47 AM
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2. We have a black tar heroine problem...
But it isn't rampant like the email suggests.

Most of our drug issues are localized. It's not like my school was some out of control drug and fuck fest.
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dysfunctional press Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 09:59 AM
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12. "black tar heroine..." -wasn't she in the sequel to 'song of the south'...?
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armyowalgreens Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 04:55 PM
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13. whoopsy...
:+
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Not Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 07:18 AM
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6. My thought exactly...
Open makeout sessions on the lunch room tables. Yeehaw!
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Chemisse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 05:58 AM
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3. She is one crazy lady
As a high school teacher who occasionally gets stuck with lunch duty, I could only laugh at this letter.

Yeah those drugs all over the cafeteria tables - really what are you gonna do? Might as well just let them go at it; they can always find more and it is just SOO much trouble to write up those discipline slips.

And the homosexual sex on the tables? I barely even notice that, what with the line-up gang bangs taking place on the next table over.

I love all the secret sources she has. What is more fun to high school kids than to provide shocking information to someone who is relishing every word and begging for more.
What's the harm in turning a hand-holding session between two gay kids into a dramatic table sex scene? The overheard whispers about drugs into brazenly snorting lines between bites of lunch?

Perhaps she should be invited to pop in at lunchtime - anytime, without notice. My bet is she prefers her delusions to reality and says no.
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ejpoeta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 06:53 AM
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4. my question is does this woman have kids?? she must, i guess.
but what is she teaching the kids and are they going to be going around causing trouble and inflating things or falsifying them to cause trouble for anyone. IF someone is doing drugs at the tables... then I am sure someone would do something about that. Hell, I am sure there are kids who would tell the teachers if they saw THAT going on. But kids don't generally 'make out', homosexual or otherwise in the lunch room. Well, it's been awhile since I was in school, so maybe things have changed. But can we define making out, please??

I tend to agree this woman would rather believe the worst than to find out the reality.
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cleveramerican Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 07:16 AM
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5. Every town has a few like her
Hope a never see a whole townful.
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ccharles000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 07:19 AM
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7. sounds fun
Edited on Sun Jul-26-09 07:20 AM by ccharles000
:P
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Bill McBlueState Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 07:32 AM
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8. people like this *always* have terrible writing skills
Rampant capitalization mistakes, overuse of quotation marks, glaring usage errors... They'd be so much more persuasive if they could write their way out of a paper bag.
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Chemisse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 07:40 AM
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9. Hmm, terrible writing skills and ridiculous ideas
I sense a correlation. Maybe people with these kinds of ideas are just plain stupid!
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saltpoint Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 09:41 AM
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10. My high school lunch room was spectacularly dull next to the one
in this woman's home town.

Sheesh.
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Hugabear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jul-26-09 09:53 AM
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11. Fuck it. Just line them up against the wall behind the school and shoot them.
How much you wanna bet this woman (and many other bigots like her) wouldn't have a problem with that?
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