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ccharles000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-11-09 04:37 PM
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Many Women Targeted by Faith Leaders, Survey Says
One in every 33 women who attend worship services regularly has been the target of sexual advances by a religious leader, a survey released Wednesday says.

The study, by Baylor University researchers, found that the problem is so pervasive that it almost certainly involves a wide range of denominations, religious traditions and leaders.

"It certainly is prevalent, and clearly the problem is more than simply a few charismatic leaders preying on vulnerable followers," said Diana Garland, dean of Baylor's School of Social Work, who co-authored the study.

It found that more than two-thirds of the offenders were married to someone else at the time of the advance.

Carolyn Waterstradt, 42, a graduate student who lives in the Midwest, said she was coerced into a sexual relationship with a married minister in the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America for 18 months. He had been her pastor for a decade, she said, and told her the relationship was ordained by God.

"I believed him because I was looking for direction and for help," said Waterstradt, who ended the relationship years ago and entered therapy. The pastor was removed from the clergy.

Waterstradt said she has suffered lasting psychological and spiritual consequences from the relationship, including depression and a deep distrust of organized religion. "It's very difficult for me to walk into a church," she said.

A growing number of denominations are moving to do something about such problems, particularly since the Catholic Church's highly publicized sex scandal involving its clergy.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/09/09/AR2009090901724.html
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marshall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-11-09 04:49 PM
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1. I worked with an AME minister who said that was one of the perks of his job
As a teenager back in the 70s I was shocked during a conversation with him. He proudly said that he had bedded dozens of women over the years who came to him for "counsel".
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Missy Vixen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-11-09 04:56 PM
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2. I'm one of those 33 women
I was asked out by a Catholic priest that was friends with some of my guy buddies when I was in my twenties. He said, "Just because I'm on a diet doesn't mean I can't look at the menu."

During that same period of time, I was asked out by a married pastor of the same denomination. I told him "no". Repeatedly.

I'm thankful I had the common sense to distance myself from each of these men, and to tell both of them that if they didn't leave me alone, I'd be going to the archdiocese/church board.
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tanyev Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-11-09 04:58 PM
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3. There are a lot of people in occupations that confer authority and trust
who chose those professions for all the wrong reasons.
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chaplainM Donating Member (744 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-11-09 05:13 PM
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4. Wait, that's less than 4%
I wouldn't call that "prevalent."
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BlooInBloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-11-09 05:16 PM
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5. Depends on what the rate is in the larger population. Which, naturally, the post doesn't tell us.
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Arugula Latte Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-11-09 05:22 PM
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6. You wouldn't call 1 in 33 "prevalent"?
Hooookay.
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Captain Hilts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Sep-11-09 05:50 PM
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7. It's a 'power' thing. nt
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