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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 03:52 PM Original message |
'Sexting' Results In 16-Year-Old's Arrest |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
1. With the specific details as stated, this sounds reasonable. |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:03 PM Response to Original message |
2. A DA with common sense. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:25 PM Response to Reply #2 |
18. My guess would be if the kid himself is a minor. |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:37 PM Response to Reply #18 |
27. The article says he is 16. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:46 PM Response to Reply #27 |
36. Yea I know that. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:04 PM Response to Original message |
3. Glad the young lady's parents stuck up for her, glad the boy was arrested, glad he was released |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 11:53 AM Response to Reply #3 |
227. I'd Say the Trauma Of Being Arrested Is Far More Damaging Than Anything That Stupid Girl Suffered. |
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tularetom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:07 PM Response to Original message |
4. I was totally on her side until I read this sentence |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:10 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. i didnt like that part either. can still be her side. nt |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:11 PM Response to Reply #4 |
9. The vow is irrelevant to the boy's actions |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:21 PM Response to Reply #4 |
14. I don't go to church but I don't have anything against people who do |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:25 PM Response to Reply #14 |
17. Because she's fourteen. She doesn't know what she's promising yet. |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:31 PM Response to Reply #17 |
21. And this justifys the boys behaviour in what way? |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:33 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. What does it have to do with justifying the boys' behavior? |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:42 PM Response to Reply #23 |
31. I think you are making an assumption |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:44 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. That's how these churches that do "purity vows" and stupid shit like that work. |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 11:58 AM Response to Reply #21 |
228. Why Does the Boy's Behavior Need Justifying? |
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rebecca_herman (494 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:31 PM Response to Reply #17 |
120. and on the flip side |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:54 PM Response to Reply #120 |
135. Oh jesus. |
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rebecca_herman (494 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 02:19 AM Response to Reply #135 |
201. what's so funny? |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:09 PM Response to Reply #120 |
166. at that age it would have upset me too |
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verges (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 05:59 AM Response to Reply #166 |
213. Are you saying that it's wrong |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 12:04 PM Response to Reply #120 |
229. Then Why Should He Pay For Your Immaturity? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 09:07 AM Response to Reply #229 |
247. Well at least you think she is free to say no. |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 10:33 AM Response to Reply #247 |
252. Exactly. Therefore, the Boy Did Nothing Wrong. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 07:06 PM Response to Reply #252 |
270. Do you have any comprehension of US laws? |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 07:52 PM Response to Reply #270 |
272. Get a Clue Yourself. The Boy Was Also a Minor. |
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ChairmanAgnostic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:13 PM Response to Reply #4 |
61. oh no. not a purity bowel attendee. |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:21 PM Response to Reply #4 |
74. As a father friend of mine put it: "when you have a boy, you worry about 1 dick... |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 12:28 AM Response to Reply #4 |
199. Why give these people shit for taking their so called purity vows? |
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tularetom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 07:37 AM Response to Reply #199 |
217. The purity vows won't stop this girl from having sex |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 07:41 AM Response to Reply #217 |
218. btu maybe it will allow her time to have the insight not to have sex with that asshole |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 01:26 PM Response to Reply #217 |
230. As if sex is an unstoppable force. As if all teens have sex. As if all yield to their desires. |
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tularetom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 02:06 PM Response to Reply #230 |
235. How many kids do you have? |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 02:38 PM Response to Reply #235 |
236. What does it matter? |
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tularetom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 03:08 PM Response to Reply #236 |
240. I'm not demonizing anyone, honest |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-16-09 07:43 AM Response to Reply #4 |
274. Ditto... n/t |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:09 PM Response to Original message |
5. "She recently took a vow of purity at her church." |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 12:06 AM Response to Reply #5 |
193. Wow, really? |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:09 PM Response to Original message |
6. Jade needs new parents |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:36 PM Response to Reply #6 |
25. It sunds like her parents are partly responsible for making her internalize fear or shame or |
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TCJ70 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:21 PM Response to Reply #6 |
73. Why? |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:11 PM Response to Reply #73 |
150. please don't breed |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-16-09 07:44 AM Response to Reply #73 |
275. Because it appears that she feels guilty over the incident... |
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Chemisse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:47 PM Response to Reply #6 |
83. Yeah that is an overreaction |
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rebecca_herman (494 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 02:25 AM Response to Reply #6 |
202. Not neccesarily |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 02:56 PM Response to Reply #202 |
237. I wouldn't have been upset. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 02:58 PM Response to Reply #237 |
238. oh goody thinks attractive. oh goody he likes me. nah, not really |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:10 PM Response to Original message |
7. I am so glad I'm not 16 these days. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:15 PM Response to Reply #7 |
10. i guess you can see yourself as victim thru it all or you can say |
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Occulus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 02:37 AM Response to Reply #10 |
204. Their brains literally do not "think thru to consequences"; they're not fully developed yet |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 06:39 AM Response to Reply #204 |
214. they cant think things thru, not capable per you. but we say go for it with sex |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 06:59 AM Response to Reply #204 |
215. my son walked in room and i told him, kid asked for girl naked picture, she showed message to mom |
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depakid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:18 PM Response to Reply #7 |
12. Yep- the nation's essentially declared war on its youth in many more ways than one |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:21 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. God, I know. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:30 PM Response to Reply #7 |
20. It's the age of the person who is been asked to send a photo |
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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:35 PM Response to Reply #20 |
24. An adult is different from a teenager asking another teenager |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:36 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. Yea by a couple of years. |
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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:39 PM Response to Reply #26 |
29. You were never curious in high school? |
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Chemisse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:50 PM Response to Reply #29 |
88. The story didn't mention any pressure |
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Occulus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 02:44 AM Response to Reply #26 |
205. A couple of years is the difference in actual brain capability |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:04 PM Response to Reply #7 |
49. +1 |
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Jennicut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:17 PM Response to Original message |
11. Back when I was in high school in the early 90's there was no sexting and cell phone pics. |
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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:22 PM Response to Original message |
15. I have asked to see a guys junk when I was in high school |
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Selatius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:25 PM Response to Original message |
16. We were more worried about kids bringing guns/homemade bombs to school when I was a teen. |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:45 PM Original message |
We used to make bombs in machine shop class |
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Pangolin2 (560 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:20 PM Response to Original message |
71. So did we and we made the nitroglycerin for them in the chemistry lab. |
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abumbyanyothername (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
19. As the (noncustodial) father of a 16 yo boy |
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Shandris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
22. Wait a second... |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:44 PM Response to Reply #22 |
32. I think one has to be convicted before being labeled a sex offender |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:45 PM Response to Reply #32 |
35. following these cases, i have yet to see any of the teens put on the list. |
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nicky187 (124 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:39 PM Response to Original message |
28. Sexting? |
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tomm2thumbs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:45 PM Response to Reply #28 |
34. I'll bet he was trying to avoid the awkward Lindsey Graham clapping errors - he's such a dolt |
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inna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:41 PM Response to Original message |
30. absolutely ridiculous. he should not have been arrested. nt |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
37. I hate to think a dumb 16 year old kid will be branded for life |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:59 PM Response to Reply #37 |
43. How is he going to get branded for life? |
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Vinca (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:05 PM Response to Reply #43 |
53. If his name is on the Internet anywhere associated with this case - |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:12 PM Response to Reply #53 |
60. ding ding ding. so parents better start taking serious and teaching kids to think, be responsible |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:52 PM Response to Original message |
38. I'm more disturbed by the "purity vow" crap than the sexing. |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:52 PM Response to Original message |
39. It's not for us to decide what should or should not traumatize the 14 year old |
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abumbyanyothername (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:54 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. And it's not up to her parents either. nt |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:56 PM Response to Reply #40 |
41. Hah? |
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abumbyanyothername (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:04 PM Response to Reply #41 |
50. I'm talking about the purity vow. |
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TCJ70 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:14 PM Response to Reply #50 |
63. Your examples don't make sense... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:04 PM Response to Reply #41 |
51. but... the aprent does not have the RIGHT to parent a teen |
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McCamy Taylor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
42. 16 yo boy and 14 yo girl are both minors. This was sexual harassment, not attempted rape. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:00 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. I think that could depend on ages of the participants. |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:01 PM Response to Reply #42 |
45. The boy wasn't charged with attempted rape. |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:54 PM Response to Reply #42 |
92. Not even harassment, which is a pattern of persistent annoyance |
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Indenturedebtor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:20 PM Response to Reply #92 |
115. No kidding. I can't believe how big of a deal was made of this |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:23 PM Response to Reply #115 |
116. really? and this is to be expected. we can expect no more than rude and |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:36 PM Response to Reply #116 |
122. We really don't know what actually happened |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:40 PM Response to Reply #122 |
124. i think it is possible |
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Indenturedebtor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:48 PM Response to Reply #124 |
129. Have you ever hit on a man? n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:50 PM Response to Reply #129 |
131. i dont think "hitting" on a man is rude or perverted. so what is the point. nt |
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Indenturedebtor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:55 PM Response to Reply #131 |
137. Well some people aren't very good at making passes.. some people only want sex |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:01 PM Response to Reply #137 |
143. do you know anything about my "method". the only thing i argued is i dont think |
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Indenturedebtor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:47 PM Response to Reply #116 |
127. Pretty much... and half the girls I grew up with were rude and perverted |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:49 PM Original message |
i havent argue any of this. i do challenge that our youth and male especially |
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Indenturedebtor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:56 PM Response to Original message |
138. I don't think that all of them are, but many always have been and probably most always will be |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:05 PM Response to Reply #138 |
147. the reason i challenge the "teenage boys are rude and perverse" is used to justify |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:36 PM Response to Reply #92 |
174. bullshit - harrassment in no way requires more than one instance |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 09:21 PM Response to Reply #174 |
185. apples =/= oranges |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 09:49 PM Response to Reply #174 |
188. Hmmm... I can virtually guarantee you... |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 02:35 AM Response to Reply #188 |
203. who said anything about being involved with the coworker? |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 02:48 AM Response to Reply #203 |
206. If you wanted the example to even remotely resemble that of the OP... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 08:56 AM Response to Reply #206 |
245. You really don't seem to have an understanding |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 09:06 AM Response to Reply #245 |
246. Um, yes, I do have a job. I have employees in fact and am well-versed |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 09:16 AM Response to Reply #246 |
248. So you think that after job, anything goes? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 09:24 AM Response to Reply #248 |
249. so the boss can call you at home and say he wants to fuck you |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 11:37 AM Response to Reply #249 |
268. You're being reactionary and ridiculous as usual. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 11:56 AM Response to Reply #268 |
269. not reactionary, snarky. you are wrong in accessment.... as usual. wink. nt |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 09:28 AM Response to Reply #248 |
250. No of course not... they're my employees and I respect them. |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 11:04 AM Response to Reply #245 |
259. same as school |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 11:28 AM Response to Reply #259 |
266. No it's not the same at school. |
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Chemisse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:55 PM Response to Reply #42 |
94. I agree - involving the police was a bit of overkill |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:02 PM Response to Original message |
46. So, we're supposed to applaud the fact that a kid is going to spend the rest of his life... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:03 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. Why do people that don't read the article feel the need to comment? |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:11 PM Response to Reply #48 |
58. He shouldn't have even been charged. |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:04 PM Response to Reply #46 |
52. One has to be convicted first I believe before being on a sex offenders list |
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Posteritatis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:19 PM Response to Reply #52 |
69. It varies by state |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:52 PM Response to Reply #69 |
91. It says here one has to be convicted to be on the list |
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Posteritatis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:04 PM Response to Reply #91 |
101. Well, it says one convicted has to be on the list |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:06 PM Response to Reply #101 |
103. I think it would be terribly wrong to put people on the list just because they were accused |
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Posteritatis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:09 PM Response to Reply #103 |
106. I agree entirely (and found my source on it) |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:20 PM Response to Reply #106 |
114. Wow! A lousy bill if I ever saw one. |
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Posteritatis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:35 PM Response to Reply #114 |
121. It'd take some work to be worse than that, wouldn't it? (nt) |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
47. Oh FFS... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:06 PM Response to Reply #47 |
54. How is he going to end up on a sex offender registry? |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:08 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. Yeah, I missed that part |
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Indenturedebtor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:53 PM Response to Reply #47 |
134. Seriously. This whole thing is rediculous |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:55 PM Response to Reply #134 |
136. rIdiculous. quit spelling rediculous. one of FEW pet peeves, lol. |
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Indenturedebtor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:57 PM Response to Reply #136 |
140. Haha I get receive wrong all the time too... one of my quirks n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:02 PM Response to Reply #140 |
144. with you on the quirks. nt |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
55. The girl needed a counselor because some boy asked to see her naked pics? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:10 PM Response to Reply #55 |
57. Oh for crying out loud. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:14 PM Response to Reply #57 |
64. Being upset because teenage boys are horny is like being upset because the sun rises. |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:16 PM Original message |
That's an offensive blanket statement. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:20 PM Response to Original message |
72. Hah? |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:26 PM Response to Reply #72 |
75. That quote I posted seems to disagree with you. n/t |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:28 PM Response to Reply #75 |
76. It sure as hell doesn't say what you suggest it does. |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:37 PM Response to Reply #76 |
80. I can't see that it says anything else. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:38 PM Response to Reply #80 |
82. "A girl" (some girl) doesn't equal "all girls." |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:49 PM Response to Reply #82 |
86. In the context of your post, I disagree. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:52 PM Response to Reply #86 |
90. I've already explained to you time and time again that you |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:15 PM Response to Reply #90 |
152. That's not why I said she was screwed up. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:26 PM Response to Reply #152 |
155. You've made some conclusions, and based on what? |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:41 PM Response to Reply #155 |
160. Nope. That's twisting what I said. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:46 PM Response to Reply #160 |
162. I dunno. |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:19 PM Response to Reply #162 |
169. Not at all. And for the record, I KNOW that some boys are complete assh*les with the sexting thing. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:23 PM Response to Reply #169 |
170. Why don't we let her and her parents |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:37 PM Response to Reply #170 |
176. Her parents have decided the whole world needs to know about this. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:39 PM Response to Reply #176 |
177. I doubt they went to the press just so we can worry |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:46 PM Response to Reply #177 |
181. Lol, you made a comment about my saying the girl is screwed up. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 09:27 PM Response to Reply #181 |
186. Again you are coming up with things that aren't there. |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 09:45 PM Response to Reply #186 |
187. Call it an instinct. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:25 PM Response to Reply #80 |
117. 14 year old girls |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:30 PM Response to Reply #117 |
119. I'm still trying to figure out what's so upsetting about saying it. |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:37 PM Response to Reply #119 |
123. Because it is dismissive. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:41 PM Response to Reply #123 |
125. but teenage girls are emotional. hormones. so are the boys, they just show it different |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:49 PM Response to Reply #125 |
130. And that couldn't be rooted at all in how they are TREATED differently? n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:51 PM Response to Reply #130 |
132. i dont know what that has to do with anything. |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:00 PM Response to Reply #132 |
142. See, now you've changed what you're saying |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:07 PM Response to Reply #142 |
149. i see. what i am saying is that both are emotional. and because of the boundaries we put on them |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:18 PM Response to Reply #149 |
153. So essentially, we're on the same page |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:52 PM Response to Reply #142 |
164. if we EXPECT ... arguing up thread. we expect nothing more of boys but rude and perverse |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:06 PM Response to Reply #164 |
165. Exactly. n/t |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:45 PM Response to Reply #123 |
126. Uh... Have you ever seen a 14 year old? They're insane. |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:57 PM Response to Reply #126 |
139. Let me see if I can turn this around and make my point. |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:00 PM Response to Reply #139 |
141. Golly - 2 year olds are short - I'M AGEIST!!!! |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:02 PM Response to Reply #141 |
145. Clever as you may feel right now, |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:03 PM Response to Reply #145 |
146. Indeed. I apologize to all the 2 year olds for assuming that they're short. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:06 PM Response to Reply #145 |
148. Here. Read this. |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:14 PM Response to Reply #148 |
151. I've read some of those studies |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:32 PM Response to Reply #151 |
157. And all your statements about "ageism" are what exactly? |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:35 PM Response to Reply #157 |
158. Attempting to combat assumptions. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:38 PM Response to Reply #158 |
159. How on Earth does what I said implies |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:15 PM Response to Reply #159 |
167. Um, what? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:18 PM Response to Reply #167 |
168. Do you feel the need to combat assumptions regardless of |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:31 PM Response to Reply #168 |
172. Again "Prepare for everything, assume nothing." |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:37 PM Response to Reply #172 |
175. I never assumed or stated that every teen behaved that way. |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:45 PM Response to Reply #175 |
179. True |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 09:21 PM Response to Reply #179 |
184. Because we are talking about how a 14 year old girl might |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 11:39 PM Response to Reply #184 |
189. The teen girl in question. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 11:53 PM Response to Reply #189 |
191. Ha? |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 12:12 AM Response to Reply #191 |
195. Did I say that? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 12:25 AM Response to Reply #195 |
198. Do alert on my statement, pretty please. Let's see if DU |
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Chemisse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
99. While you can't make blanket statements that fit everybody |
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darkstar3 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:47 PM Response to Reply #99 |
128. "You can make some that fit most, most of the time." |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:52 PM Response to Reply #128 |
133. i can agree with the ism part. i see both genders emotional rollercoaster |
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Chemisse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 04:12 AM Response to Reply #128 |
210. You simply cannot deny there are gender differences |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:44 PM Response to Reply #99 |
161. Teen boys get emotionally upset, they are just discouraged from showing it. |
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Chemisse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 04:14 AM Response to Reply #161 |
211. Yeah you are right |
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Chemisse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:59 PM Response to Reply #57 |
96. That is true, but adults indulge some teen upsets over others |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:11 PM Response to Reply #55 |
59. Seriously. If I had needed counseling every time a horny teenage boy came onto me as a teenager, |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:13 PM Response to Reply #59 |
62. I hope you realize that children develop at different rates. |
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ChairmanAgnostic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:14 PM Response to Reply #62 |
65. and super religious parents don't help matters much |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:16 PM Response to Reply #62 |
68. At fourteen I was a terrific prude. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:24 PM Response to Reply #68 |
171. So you think that a 14 year old girl being requested nude |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:14 PM Response to Reply #59 |
66. Exactly. The things said in person were much worse and more harassing than... |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:19 PM Response to Reply #66 |
70. When I was seventeen I got asked out by the youth pastor of the local Baptist church. |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:50 PM Response to Reply #70 |
87. Lol, I have a few of those stories as well. |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:29 PM Response to Reply #59 |
77. please, tell us all how you were a perfectly adjusted teen and never over-reacted to anything. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:32 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. God no. I was a spectacular prude and overreacted to damn near everything. |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:15 PM Response to Reply #55 |
67. The article doesn't say the girl needed a counselor or that her or her family asked for one |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:53 PM Response to Reply #55 |
182. I don't blame her. |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 12:36 AM Response to Reply #55 |
200. Why treat her like she's done something wrong? She's the victim. |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 02:52 AM Response to Reply #200 |
207. She wasn't a victim when it started. |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 03:03 AM Response to Reply #207 |
208. Oh please. Some teenagers choose not to have sex. I don't |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 03:12 AM Response to Reply #208 |
209. Who said there was? |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 01:35 PM Response to Reply #209 |
231. I'm referring to the hateful and very angry responses here |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 03:04 PM Response to Reply #231 |
239. I'm not seeing hateful or angry responses. |
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BuelahWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 03:36 PM Response to Reply #231 |
242. +1 |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:33 PM Response to Original message |
79. The real damage is being done by her parents and "support" system. |
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ProudToBeBlueInRhody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:38 PM Response to Original message |
81. I'm amazed at some of the replies in this thread |
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Gwendolyn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:47 PM Response to Reply #81 |
84. No, not really. |
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Chemisse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:06 PM Response to Reply #84 |
104. Well said - nt |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:48 PM Response to Reply #81 |
85. The chasity vow and the girl's religion are not relevent |
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Chemisse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:07 PM Response to Reply #85 |
105. You are right |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:48 PM Response to Reply #85 |
163. They are relevant with regards to the parents overreacting over this. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:52 PM Response to Reply #81 |
89. i agree. it is sidebar that became the issue for some. nt |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:57 PM Response to Reply #81 |
95. Nope, that wouldn't be acceptable to me either |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:00 PM Response to Reply #95 |
97. Let's say you are an adult female and your co-worker |
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Chemisse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:09 PM Response to Reply #97 |
107. It was wrong, and worthy of complaint |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:13 PM Response to Reply #97 |
111. It depends, on a variety of things |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 11:12 AM Response to Reply #111 |
224. The girls I konw would text, "yeh, U wish!" and that would be the end of it. |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:03 PM Response to Reply #95 |
100. The boy got an answer. Not the one he wanted I imagine. |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:20 PM Response to Reply #81 |
154. I'm more amazed that sexual harrassment of this sort is considered PC |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 07:31 PM Response to Reply #154 |
156. yes. nt |
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WonderGrunion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 12:22 AM Response to Reply #154 |
196. It's not that sexual harassment is considered PC |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 12:12 AM Response to Reply #81 |
194. I am too. |
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theHandpuppet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 11:15 AM Response to Reply #81 |
225. I'm with you. |
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ohheckyeah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 05:55 PM Response to Original message |
93. Oh good grief. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:00 PM Response to Reply #93 |
98. Who says they didn't? |
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ohheckyeah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:11 PM Response to Reply #98 |
108. It didn't say they did, either. |
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Chemisse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:12 PM Response to Reply #98 |
110. The story almost inevitably would have turned out differently |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:05 PM Response to Reply #93 |
102. on the other hand, another thread, problems in middle school with sex game |
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ohheckyeah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:11 PM Response to Reply #102 |
109. I didn't say their should be no responsibility. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:13 PM Response to Reply #109 |
112. i understand you point. saying, go to the parent, then people outraged parents got involved |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:16 PM Response to Reply #109 |
113. Should have called the boy's parents first I agree |
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Brooklyns_Finest (747 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 06:25 PM Response to Original message |
118. Goodness! |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:33 PM Response to Original message |
173. She needs a counselor for one rude request? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:41 PM Response to Reply #173 |
178. I imagine those are the sorts of thing school counselors are needed for. |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 08:45 PM Response to Reply #178 |
180. Maybe not accepted, but gotten over, for crying out loud. n/t |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 09:19 PM Response to Reply #180 |
183. School counselors are supposed to help students to get over |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 11:06 AM Response to Reply #183 |
223. She shouldn't need any couseling for one crude request, that |
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Posteritatis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 12:03 AM Response to Reply #173 |
192. Shelter someone enough and they'll break at the slightest thing |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 08:27 AM Response to Reply #173 |
221. It's probably because her parents messed her up with anti-sex religious crap. |
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Initech (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-13-09 11:41 PM Response to Original message |
190. I'm really thankful that Youtube and text messaging didn't exist when I was in high school. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 07:05 AM Response to Reply #190 |
216. i do to. i see such negative results for this generation and so many parents blithely ignore |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 08:19 AM Response to Reply #216 |
220. too. past edit time. hate this mistake. nt |
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Initech (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 11:02 AM Response to Reply #216 |
222. I graduated in 1998. One year before Columbine and the start of the school gestapo. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 01:49 PM Response to Reply #222 |
232. between the not taking a step out of line, and the free for all, all is cool |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 03:23 PM Response to Reply #190 |
241. I Believe This New Technology May Save Us Yet. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 08:39 AM Response to Reply #241 |
243. a freshman girl asked to be moved in her class, sittin around boys that spew vile and crude |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 10:29 AM Response to Reply #243 |
251. NOTHING HAPPENED TO THE GIRL |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 10:35 AM Response to Reply #251 |
253. this is your problem. my post wasnt about op, it was about your post, firstly |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 11:02 AM Response to Reply #253 |
258. The Boys Behavior Was NOT Justified. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 11:09 AM Response to Reply #258 |
260. because that's what teenage boys do... cant teach teenage boys. so teach |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 11:12 AM Response to Reply #260 |
261. lol |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 11:16 AM Response to Reply #261 |
263. whatcha you laughing at...... |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 11:28 AM Response to Reply #260 |
265. Like All People, Teenage Boys Are Individuals. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 11:36 AM Response to Reply #265 |
267. Some are brought up right, and some are not..... first smart thing you said |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 10:37 AM Response to Reply #251 |
254. So... saying vile crude things is somehow a need? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 10:40 AM Response to Reply #254 |
256. boys need to be nasty, vulgar, crude, filthy and girls need to embrace and enjoy |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 10:38 AM Response to Reply #251 |
255. so if a girl is offended by the vile, crude, vulgar things male says to her it is her own shame |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 07:17 PM Response to Reply #255 |
271. Pretty much. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-16-09 07:35 AM Response to Reply #271 |
273. the patriarchal bullshit. submit to the control and abuse. what some males want to teach girls and |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-16-09 11:16 AM Response to Reply #273 |
276. Nobody said anything about control, abuse, or submission. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-16-09 11:24 AM Response to Reply #276 |
277. but that is what this behavior is. whether said out loud or not. nt |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-16-09 11:28 AM Response to Reply #277 |
278. Nope. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-16-09 01:12 PM Response to Reply #278 |
279. we were talking about something else. nt |
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Blue-Jay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 12:23 AM Response to Original message |
197. Wow! I don't care! |
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timtom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 04:53 AM Response to Original message |
212. What about a simple "No?" |
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arcadian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 08:06 AM Response to Original message |
219. Who gives a fucking shit? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 02:00 PM Response to Reply #219 |
234. Butbutbut... it's got the word "sex" in it. |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 11:46 AM Response to Original message |
226. “My parents raised me well,” |
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w4rma (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-14-09 01:55 PM Response to Original message |
233. She and her family went extremely overboard over some words. |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 08:46 AM Response to Original message |
244. A consequence is in order but let's not brand the boy |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 10:41 AM Response to Original message |
257. It sounds like her parents have her freaked out about sex. |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 11:15 AM Response to Original message |
262. I think people who are upset by this boy... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-15-09 11:19 AM Response to Reply #262 |
264. *roffle* |
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