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Not counting the almost $150 a month I put into the health FSA. But then, there are two members of my family who are disabled and the cost beyond the premium averages about an additional $400 a month with doctor's co-pays and prescriptions. The FSA knocks that additional cost to about $250 a month, so just on health maintenance, between a minimum of 7 doctor's visits and 11 different medications every month, we pay $950 a month. The $700 a month and the FSA are tax-free, (and I get the FSA expenditures back), so we can probably reverse the cost to around $650, to incorporate the tax savings. That still ends up being around 20% of my monthly income.
Of course, that doesn't count - Urgent Care/Emergency Room Co-Pays ("Clumsy" teen with mental and emotional issues - every month she's in for something...) Laboratory procedures (at least four a year to monitor progress of disability - probably around $150 a pop after insurance takes care of everything) OTC and "special occasion" medical expenses (the tax-deductible coded items like medical appliances, the occasional doctor's visit shots, and the more heavy-duty occasional OTC medications) - That runs probably another thousand or so a year. This year, due to unexpected surgeries, we've probably spent closer to 30% of our income on health care. I'm going to have to run the numbers on what we've spent outside the FSA, but I think we may have actually spent enough out of pocket to be more than the almost $12K "standard deduction" for a family of 3, and can claim this on our taxes this year.
Of course, this isn't usual. If there were no disabilities in my family pushing up the medical costs, what we're paying is probably the average, and between an FSA keyed to cover a conservative estimate of dental, co-pays, and deductibles and the pre-tax benefit of employer provided medical, we would probably only see actual out of pocket/paycheck medical expenditures of around $400 a month for the family. Which can be do-able to an average family, if they knew they had to budget for it.
Disabilities and other Medical Emergencies, however, can throw all of that out of whack. I can't afford 30% of my paycheck going to medical expenses. I don't make enough to have that much plus the critical household "can't do without" costs of housing, basic utilities, food and other basics (clothing, sanitation and transportation costs) (that's about 55% of total our income) and still have much of anything left over for a rainy day fund, repairs, pet care, the few trinkets or cheap treats for family celebrations or recognition - or much of anything else that keeps life worth living.
When I compare the cost of living my parents had when I was growing up - a family where both parents initially worked blue/pink collar jobs (gas station mechanic and secretary) and went to university full time, moving six times to follow a master's degree in education and Far East History until one could get job teaching High School full time, raising two active and clumsy kids (broken legs, broken arms, serious cuts and sprains...)with little or sometimes no medical insurance - and they could save enough to go on a camping vacation for two weeks every year, pay for music lessons, keep up with auto and household repairs, and buy a house right after the first year Dad started teaching.
Most of it is a cultural mindset - too much of what we have is "disposable" - it's expected that we replace an appliance or an auto every three to five years instead of considering them "an investment" to be cared for and maintained over decades. (Not to mention kids always having to have the latest and greatest...) Heck, jobs are considered disposable. Workers are disposable. Relationships and families are disposable ("They didn't come in your seabag, son...") The other part is that persistence, patience, accomplishment and personal well-being are not valued very highly. Happiness is apparently supposed to be a feeling of mania, an "extreme", not a feeling of satisfaction or just "being fine". Any little discomfort is something to be excised immediately.
And here I am rambling again. Ah well, that's what happens during a slow lunch period.
Haele
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