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Are_grits_groceries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 07:15 AM Original message |
Oklahoma Couple Want to Return Troubled Adopted Son to State |
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goldcanyonaz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 07:23 AM Response to Original message |
1. What a nightmare. I would agree with your assessment in regards to DHS. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 12:14 AM Response to Reply #1 |
27. OMG, poor girl! |
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MrsBrady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 08:43 AM Response to Original message |
2. i have a friend who was adopted at 7ish then returned a few years later... |
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Tailormyst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 08:50 AM Response to Reply #2 |
4. Sorry to hear about your friend |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 08:47 AM Response to Original message |
3. or, the kid is VERY smart and is playing DHS for fools |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 08:59 AM Response to Original message |
5. What would they do if they had a biological child with those kind of issues? |
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Coventina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 09:06 AM Response to Reply #5 |
6. Very good question. What is to be done about young sociopaths? |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 12:03 PM Response to Reply #6 |
44. Well, I have spent years working with adult sociopaths and there is |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 12:08 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. +1 |
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Larry Ogg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 02:01 PM Response to Reply #44 |
48. Why would things like psychology and science be politicized? Could it be that |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 05:10 PM Response to Reply #48 |
49. Science has little to do with it. running a chain of hospitals involves a lot of money |
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Larry Ogg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 07:41 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. So in what capacity do you work with these unsuccessful sociopaths? |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-24-09 06:10 AM Response to Reply #50 |
55. I was working in a state mental hospital observing and monitoring |
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frustrated_lefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 10:59 AM Response to Reply #5 |
8. That's a good question, and it cuts to the crux of the issue. |
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Tailormyst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 11:02 AM Response to Reply #5 |
10. If it was their biological child they wouldn't be having these issues. |
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Johonny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 11:43 AM Response to Reply #10 |
15. yeah that's what happen to my aunt |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 10:38 PM Response to Reply #10 |
24. No way of saying. |
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Tailormyst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 08:17 AM Response to Reply #24 |
36. If the child is homocidal it's different. |
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Neecy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 11:09 AM Response to Reply #5 |
11. it's a nightmarish system for anyone to navigate |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 03:31 AM Response to Reply #11 |
31. AND I DON'T WANT TO LIVE THIS LIFE - the book |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 11:13 AM Response to Reply #5 |
12. I would refuse to pick him up from the hospital. |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 12:03 PM Response to Reply #5 |
19. Not necessarily |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 10:32 PM Response to Reply #19 |
23. I know these situations pretty well- I used to work for a foster agency, |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 08:37 AM Response to Reply #23 |
37. I am sure you can |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 12:24 AM Response to Reply #5 |
28. exactly what I was thinking |
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verdalaven (495 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 08:59 PM Response to Reply #28 |
51. At this point, it is probably better for the child to not go back to them |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 05:25 AM Response to Reply #5 |
34. If they're like other people I've known, they'd bankrupt themselves trying to get treatment.... |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 09:37 PM Response to Reply #5 |
52. I'm wondering who will take care of the kid when he succeeds in killing both of his adoptive parents |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 10:02 AM Response to Original message |
7. Can't they just give him up for adoption? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 12:07 PM Response to Reply #7 |
45. I don't think people would lining up wanting to adopt him. |
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1awake (852 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 11:01 AM Response to Original message |
9. small correction.. |
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1awake (852 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 11:17 AM Response to Original message |
13. In my expreience, |
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Barack_America (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 11:20 AM Response to Reply #13 |
14. Hopefully one of those experts will offer to examine the child. |
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rocktivity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 11:50 AM Response to Original message |
16. That kid is a serial killer just begging to happen |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 12:06 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. Speaking of Ted Bundy |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 12:24 PM Response to Reply #16 |
22. Maybe We Should Just Send Him Straight to the Chair, Then? |
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Ms. Toad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 09:34 AM Response to Reply #22 |
38. Don't be so glib - |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
17. How will returning them to the state help anything? |
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TicketyBoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 03:53 AM Response to Reply #17 |
32. You have rather contradicted yourself. |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 10:12 AM Response to Reply #32 |
40. The contradiction is this: |
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Ms. Toad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 09:43 AM Response to Reply #17 |
39. Fully assimilated back in to family, school, and outside life... |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 10:25 AM Response to Reply #39 |
41. Sometimes it isn't going to happen. |
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Ms. Toad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 11:54 AM Response to Reply #41 |
42. That's kind of my point. |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-24-09 11:17 AM Response to Reply #42 |
56. It's true that there is no "cure" |
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GodlessBiker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
18. Maybe someone from DU's Gun Forum can give the couple some self defense tips. |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
21. Obviously, They Can't Help Him |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Dec-22-09 11:31 PM Response to Original message |
25. Kid needs way more help than untrained average parents can give, IMO n/t |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 12:12 AM Response to Original message |
26. Holy Christ. That kid needs WAY more help then those parents are caprable of. |
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Tumbulu (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 01:36 AM Response to Original message |
29. Of course they should not take him back |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 01:40 AM Response to Original message |
30. Needs to be put in state-care now. |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 05:07 AM Response to Original message |
33. Nightmare scenario. I have friends & cousins who are adoptees, & happy people. And then... |
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Sen. Walter Sobchak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 06:07 AM Response to Reply #33 |
35. their agressive all right, |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
43. I feel for these people. The child sounds way more than they |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
47. He's a sociopath |
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BreweryYardRat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Dec-23-09 11:19 PM Response to Original message |
53. Well, they caught the problems relatively young, which is good. |
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JCMach1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Dec-24-09 12:33 AM Response to Original message |
54. Don't automatically take the parents for their word either... |
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