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davidswanson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 04:22 PM
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No, We're Not a Broken People
In 2004 I began speaking at rallies and forums around the country on issues of peace and justice, something I've done off-and-on ever since. Up through 2008, it was extremely unusual for questions from the audience to consist of pure defeatism. In 2009, it was rare to get through a Q&A session without being asked what the point was of trying.

And the defeatism is so contagious that it will be hard for me to make it through 2010 if people don't shut up about how doomed we are. If current trends continue, by 2011 the only people showing up at forums on peace and justice will all be old enough to tell my grandparents they're too young to understand how pointless it is to try. And my grandparents are dead.

Most of the defeatist questions I get asked are more statements than questions, mostly informing those in the room of ways in which our nation is corrupted that we are all painfully aware of, but stated as much out of frustration and despair as out of any hope of hearing a miraculous solution articulated.

Aren't politicians all bought and paid for? Haven't we tried being activists for years with no success? Can't the corporate media just destroy us if it wants to? Won't the secret permanent bureaucracy just kill any politicians who stray from the plan? Isn't anything good doomed to fail under our two-party system? Et cetera and so forth.

Some of these questions / statements / cries of anguish build into them an analysis of what's wrong and, therefore, of what needs to be fixed, at least in the view of the questioner. And I tend to agree with much of the analysis I hear, and to want to add to it. (For example, I want to get people to see the danger of leaving all power in the hands of presidents, even though returning it to Congress wouldn't do a bit of good until we fix Congress.) But I have no sympathy for what I consider the unintellectual and immoral offense of coughing discouragement on people.

So, I ask participants in events I'm speaking at not to do it.

And they do it anyway.

What to do?

One of the most insightful and useful articles I've read this year is Bruce Levine's "Are Americans a Broken People?" published by Alternet. Levine diagnoses us as abused citizens and points out that the more we learn about how badly we're being abused by our government, the less able we are to push back. We're ashamed of our subservience, and every new report of it increases it.

Levine finds causes of our disempowerment in financial stress, social isolation, institutions of higher education that train submissiveness, the treating of rebelliousness with pharmaceuticals, the damaging effects of television, and the replacement of citizenship with consumerism.

Levine finds solutions in "encouragement, small victories, models of courageous behaviors." We don't need to be told what's wrong, he says. We need the morale boost of seeing people succeed in doing what's right.

I don't disagree, and I'm glad someone is talking about this. If from now on everyone who comes to an event on my book tour would substitute for their moans of hopelessness a report on something courageous they did or a small victory they helped win, it would add 20 years to my life and benefit, rather than harm, everyone else in the room -- including the would-be prophets of despair.

But Levine's discussion needs to be expanded. Levine offers no explanation for why activists, at least on the left, and I think across the political spectrum, have been hit with despair in 2009 so severely. He pulls out examples from 10 years ago as if nothing has changed in the interim.

Levine offers no analysis of why we are lacking in encouragement, small victories, or models of courageous behaviors. I believe the answer has more to do with our communications system than anything else, which means that the solution cannot simply be for you or I as isolated individuals to act courageously -- which is not to say that we shouldn't.

Levine also proposes no particular solutions for the causes he diagnoses, but would presumably support efforts to address them.

And, finally, I think a word of caution is needed about dependency on small victories, and on the wisdom of supposing that larger victories will come more easily than we believe -- something Levine suggests by quoting Noam Chomsky on his having overestimated how difficult it would be to end the Vietnam War.

Let me take these points in order.

The 2009 Breakage:

In my experience, activism diminishes with age. The older Americans are, up to the point of incapacitation, the more engaged they are as citizens. It helps to be retired and have time. It helps to have resources. It helps to have education. It helps to have lived in earlier times when more people were active. It helps to have lived in other countries where more people are active.

On the other hand, and with millions of exceptions needless to say, it hurts to have grown up without activism around you. It hurts to have grown up with your brain marinated in television. Yes, many young people are active, and many of those who are have better ideas than do their elders. But too many of them do not add activism to their ideas. It hurts to have grown up in a society more heavily damaged by all the causes Levine has diagnosed, which have been worsening. It hurts to be growing up with diminished and diminishing governmental representation and responsiveness to the public will. The corruptions of money, media, party, militarism, election rigging, etc., have worsened and are rapidly worsening. So it would make sense that at some point our population would either break and give up or be radicalized and push back.

But why in 2009 in particular? Why such a dramatic increase in defeatism from 2008?

Well, another trend that has advanced to an extreme maturity is the equation of civic involvement with participation in presidential elections. The president is a character in a television drama, and our job is to vote the lesser of the two presidential contenders off the fictional island. And then our job is complete, and the good president will fix everything for us. So many people seem to believe.

We are obliged to spend our time registering each other to vote, because we are not simply registered upon turning 18, and we think of this work as activism. We think of activism as happening before, rather than after, elections. And we think of it as something national, rather than as something done at the levels of the congressional, state, and local districts through which we are supposed to be represented.

The year 2009 was different for those who have misplaced importance on elections, and in particular on presidential elections, and for those who have misplaced their loyalty on a political party -- that is to say, for nearly everybody. Those loyal to the Republican Party believed everything to have worsened dramatically at the start of 2009. Those loyal to the Democratic Party expected someone to fix their problems for them, but by the end of the year had ended up in about the same position of despair as the Republicans, or perhaps in a worse position. They believed they'd done everything a people could do, and that it hadn't worked.

We are now, entering 2010, in the position of having given the slightly better of the two parties dominant control of the White House and both houses of Congress (and don't talk to me about the filibuster, which the Democrats could throw out if they wanted to), and we've seen things continue to worsen rather than improve. Whether we take a different approach and correct for our mistakes, or dive into deep despair, cannot be divorced from the political situation and treated purely in terms of morale boosting. And if it could be treated purely with morale boosting, the problem would be back again soon enough if we did not direct our new-found morale into more effective strategies based on better analysis.

We've been told for years that we shouldn't impeach criminal officials, but wait and replace them in an election. Now we're told that we shouldn't prosecute their crimes, but elect people who might not commit all of them as severely. And we're told to support our congress members in dumping all of our resources into Wall Street, wars, and health insurance corporations in order to support the president, as if our duty is to him, rather then his duty being to the laws written by our representatives. There are more people refusing to do their civic duty right now out of loyalty to the president than out of discouragement in efforts to pressure congress. But those two groups combined dominate the handful of us belonging to neither of them. We need to recruit converts away from both despair and presidentialism with morale boosts, better analysis, or both.

No Encouragement to Be Found?

Above all, humans are imitators. It's how we learn when we are children. It's how we learn when we are adults. We do not, as Levine points out, need to be told to get active. Rather, we need to be shown others being active, enjoying it, succeeding at it, and being rewarded for it. When was the last time you saw that on television?

Recent studies of how children's' shows on television function are illustrative. Many of these shows depict children or cartoon characters disagreeing with each other and mistreating each other, after which a resolution is reached and a moral taught. Except that it isn't taught. Children don't view the story as a whole with a single moral, so much as they view each separate bit. And they learn more from the numerous examples of how to mistreat people than they do from the closing minutes explaining why such behavior is undesirable. Children who learn how to behave from television, for this and other reasons, behave less amicably than those who don't.

If we see activities that we think of as appropriate public activism fail 20 times and are then told to get out there and be active, the actions speak more loudly than the words. But if we see courageous and inspiring and successful activism, and enough of it, not much explicit encouragement to join in is required.

Some parts of the country I visited in late 2009, Maine for example, were much less defeatist than most. I think these may have been places where people were more aware of local and state victories and powers. But even in the heart of the defeatist heartland, people told me about local and state successes. I draw a couple of lessons from this. One is that we should be working more at the local and state levels, and working to shift more power to those levels. We should be testing out reforms for the national stage and pressuring our federal government through state-level successes. But we should also be doing a much, much better job of making each other aware of state- and local-level victories achieved in other states.

Some of the local victories I've heard about, such as victories in counter-recruitment (keeping military testing out of schools, closing recruiting stations, barring recruiters from school grounds, etc.) amount to progress on the national level when they are added together. But nobody adds them together.

Our independent media is too much a follower of the corporate media, spinning its stories in a different way, not covering the stories that no one else has covered. When we hear of successes, they are often disguised as something else. When a policy decision follows public pressure, the pressure is left out of the story. Politicians give other reasons for their actions, and stenographic reporters report them. And, of course, when a policy decision has not been made yet, the media instruct everyone not to imagine they can have any effective input.

When President Obama announced that there would not be a new U.S. military base in the Czech Republic, the media described this as appeasing Russia, an explanation they preferred to the more decisive actual cause, namely the work of a handful of activists in the Czech Republic to compel their nation to refuse to host the base.

Sure, it's not a complete victory. Sure, Obama will press ahead with other bases and missiles on ships. "Missile Defense" is not dead, but it's wounded, and it would be far more deeply wounded if we told the story accurately.

The U.S. Army recently opened a murderous video arcade recruitment center in a shopping mall near Philadelphia, where 13-year-olds learn how much fun it can be to pretend to be in the Army. Picketing and civil disobedience generated such bad press that the Army began talking about closing the place down. Only the Army didn't credit the protesters with that possible success. The Army claimed it didn't need the "Army Experience Center" any more, given the boost in recruitment from the lousy economy. This was transparent nonsense, given the Army's continued investment in all sorts of other recruitment tools, and yet some of the very activists responsible for the AEC's poor performance quoted the Army's bogus explanation.

When we forced U.S. Attorney General Alberto Gonzales to resign, he was replaced with someone just as bad, and yet we had done something very interesting in a very interesting way, with the pressure of hearings, independent media, and a legislative push for impeachment. We should be studying such successes for both morale and strategy. The same goes for keeping Social Security alive thus far. The same goes for keeping the United States (or Israel) from bombing Iran yet. The same goes for having made the United Nations refuse legal cover for the invasion of Iraq, a step that may yet make possible the criminal prosecution of that war's architects.

No one will ever announce the successful prevention of a war on Iran. It has been prevented for years now and, if we continue to successfully draw the parallels to the lies about Iraq, it will be prevented for years to come. But we must announce and claim such victories every day, rather than waiting for an official declaration.

In short, we are lacking for encouragement and examples of success in large part because of our communications system. Did you know 1,400 people, many of them Americans, are taking great risks right now to try to visit and deliver aid to Gaza? Did you know that many thousands of people have gone to jail in nonviolent protest of wrongs in our country in recent years? Did you know that they have sometimes succeeded in winning all of their demands? What would the story of ACORN look like to you if you were aware of the incredible successes that organization had been having in winning rights and jobs and wealth for the poorest among us?

We have to be the media. We have to report on our successes. (I will post any good stories you send me at http://afterdowningstreet.org ) We have to use the media. We have to actively search out the sorts of stories we want to learn about. We have to reform the media, bust the monopolies, provide equal access, support community and public and independent outlets. We have to build organizations that create good media and press independently and democratically for good media reforms. We have to stop supporting bad media in any way. Don't buy it. Don't buy ads in it. Don't participate in it. Put everything into enlarging good outlets that report the news.

A larger conception of media, of course, includes history books and structures of education. Lessons from history can be less powerful than direct contact with courageous role models today, but they can be very powerful nonetheless. And they can teach a lesson beyond the immediate pavlovian morale boosting as well, because we can learn through history of people who struggled happily on without apparent signs of success, for many years, and even many lifetimes, and in the end succeeded.

Uncausing the Causes of Gloom

Some of the causes of despair that Levine points out may be more easily addressed than some of the causes of congressional misrepresentation (money, media, parties, election rigging, etc.). The primary causes of financial stress are not things an individual can simply wish away. Millions of Americans are simply under severe financial stress, the only solution for which is getting more money into their hands, and the blame for this situation lies entirely with the predatory plutocrats pigging out on the fruits of other people's labor.

And yet there are things that many of us may be able to do to become more citizenlike and less consumerized, as well as to alleviate some of our financial stress. We can cease buying unnecessary crap. We can grow and make more things for ourselves. We can trade and barter and participate in local economies. We can save money in local institutions, avoid borrowing, and avoid the mega-banks.

We can also address social isolation whether or not we're under financial stress. An ideal approach might be to start small political clubs or book clubs -- groups of a handful of people who can be friends as well as allies. Announcing that you are despairing is almost the equivalent of announcing that you do not belong to such a group.

We can turn off and throw away our televisions and unsubscribe from cable and satellite, thereby easing a bit more financial stress while enriching our lives. We can get books from the library and contribute books to the library. We can refuse to treat healthy emotions in ourselves or our children with drugs. And we can work to reform individual institutions of higher learning.

We can even create small-scale institutions of learning at every level. If you don't want or can't seem to form a political or book club, how about a tutoring club? How about a group that teaches toddlers or grad students? While we need immediate activism, and this will give you the morale to be a part of it, we also need the understanding that only future generations will win all that we can envision. So, we'd better teach them how to do it.

Victory Dependency

It has certainly been my experience that people are most willing to engage in activism when they have been winning smaller victories and when they foresee the likelihood of another bigger victory. In one way this makes logical sense: we ought to work where we think we might succeed, and use the strategies that seem most likely to work. In another sense, this is sheer lunacy. We are choosing to add our bit to the struggles that least need them and to withhold our assistance where it is most desperately demanded.

Now, it's certainly true, as Levine (and Chomsky) suggest, that sometimes victories are more nearly within reach than it appears, and there are those who work very hard to make popular victories appear impossible. But some struggles really are difficult, really do require long-term commitments and extreme sacrifices, and must include education and persuasion as well as mobilization.

It has been my personal experience, and that of some others I know, that engaging in activism strategically directed at the most useful possible success is enjoyable, far more enjoyable than sitting on the sidelines and complaining. I don't find that I have much use for or need of hope or the expectation of immediate victory. I find myself motivated primarily by the moral need to press for change, regardless of whether the wisest spectators predict success next week or next decade. (On the other hand, as noted at the top of this article, people's defeatism does eventually drag me down.)

So, I'm reluctant to endorse small victories, and even more so the expectation of early victories, as a necessary ingredient in civic engagement. As I understand it, people struggled to end slavery for generations with very little to show for it. Yet they were willing and able to keep struggling, and they were the same species of being that we are.

So, get your morale boost where you can find it, in examples new or old, near or far. Improve the strategy of your activism as well, supporting independent organizations not corrupted by parties or funders. But try to be inspired by victories without becoming any more dependent upon them. This is a marathon, not a sprint.
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Better Today Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 04:23 PM
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1. Rah Rah Sis Boom BAH! Give me a break.
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havocmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 05:14 PM
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11. How eloquent
Your microwave meal is ready
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Better Today Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 05:57 PM
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16. Ew yuck, I make all my meals from ingredients and don't own a microwave.
Yuck, processed food sucks.

Now that's out of the way, WTF do you mean in your snark? Makes no sense to me as a response to my post.
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leftstreet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 04:25 PM
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2. I'm sure this is very interesting, but it's just sooooooooo long
er, thanks though
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goldcanyonaz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 04:37 PM
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6. At least you're honest. I thought the same. I have the attention span of a 2 yr old at times.
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derby378 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 04:28 PM
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3. I cannot recommend this highly enough
Yes, we took a beating on what has been sold to us as "health care reform." No, we don't have to like it, let alone celebrate it. Yes, there is still a chance to enact real reform, but that probably won't come until 2011 - which is why 2010 is so important to the future of the Democratic Party.
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 04:31 PM
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4. If 2010 is that important, wouldn't it be a good idea to reach out to more people?
For instance, wouldn't it be a good idea to start NOW to listen to poor folk, and take up our cause?
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derby378 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 04:38 PM
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7. One would think...
...and, in some cases, you may get candidates who do just that. But the really important thing to do is to start replacing fake Dems with real Dems in the primaries. And sometimes it may backfire - remember how Lieberman turned his back on the Democrats in order to defeat Ned Lamont in 2006. But you can't ditch the dead weight if you never try.
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 04:58 PM
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10. Trying.
You see, YOUR reasons for trying may be very different from OTHERS reasons for trying.

When you leave out whole groups of people, and leave "pushing" as the only way to secure votes, its kinda short sighted, isn't it?

How many here, honestly, respond only to guilt trips as a reason to vote and "become involved"? Seriously?
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timeforpeace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 04:34 PM
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5. All that just to complain that people have given up because Obama likes him some wars?
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katkat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 04:50 PM
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8. thanks for writing this thoughtful post n/t
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davidswanson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 04:55 PM
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9. thanks for saying that
there are always some encouraging commenters on DU :-)
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JFN1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 05:36 PM
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12. Blame the Internet, and all of that information we now have access to
It's not nearly as complicated as the OP makes it out to be. Simply put, we're more despairing of our circumstances because we are, in 2009, more aware of them, than ever. Each new report shows us the further depths to which we have sunk as a nation, and while it is true we are ashamed by this, the larger truth is we feel quite powerless to do anything meaningful about it.

And the fact is, we ARE powerless to make ANY meaningful changes...as long as we continue to participate in the corrupted system that makes the rules that bind us all to the submissive corporate indenture we're all still faithfully playing along with...
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bobbolink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 05:40 PM
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13. "The truth will set you free, but first it will make you miserable."
Many of us discovered this during Vietnam. In discovering the truth of our country, we got quite depressed.

It's a natural happening, and, I believe, why a great many people do an ostrich imitation.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 09:21 AM
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24. Buddhist meditation masters mention the same thing.
You can't reach "enlightenment" as long as your are blissfully ignorant of painful truths, Which is why beginning meditators feel like crap at first.
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EmeraldCityGrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 08:07 PM
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20. +1000
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glitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 05:46 PM
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14. This is an important problem, thanks for tackling it.
Politics has been depressing as long as I have been an adult. I tell others who get too cynical or depressed about it to listen to some of the people who are actively doing something about (or at least educating on things to do about it). I get huge energy boosts from attending green festivals and if I can't then I download and listen to talks from them, or the Bioneers, or any place where audio is downloadable like radio4all.net and kpfa.org.

For example, when you speak in Seattle Ed Mays will no doubt record your talk for PirateTV to play on public access tv and I, out in the boondocks will download it from http://www.edmaysproductions.net/ and listen to it.

Equally important is to get involved with your local community, in whatever area is interesting to you. I do volunteering at the food shelter, which is hard work but I feel like I am helping someone, somewhere, just a little bit and contributing to a someone feeling a bit less desperate, for awhile.

I don't blame people for being depressed, there is plenty to be depressed about. But that is just the beginning. Depression is supposedly a cue that something needs to change. If you are depressed (from reality -- clinical depression is something which we are NOT talking about here) start looking around for someway you can be the change in this world.

K & R for a wonderful post.
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davidswanson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:54 PM
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17. well said
thanks
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laylah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 05:47 PM
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15. Sorry for the snark
replies...for me, it was too long but what I read resonated. Thank you :hug:
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Nikki Stone1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 08:01 PM
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18. I think the problem is that so many major changes are coming from the top
regardless of how the people feel about it in polls.

Take Madfloridian"s wonderful work on charter schools or the Piratization of education. Nobody really wants corporations teaching their children and no one wants teachers that are underqualified and poorly paid. No one wants to have to call an 800 number for a corporate headquarters to complain about something that is being taught in the classroom. But Arne Duncan has been given a lot of money and starpower help (Bill Gates) to transform public education into corporate dominated education. The fact that Obama is not listening, that state leaders are not listening, and that local Democrats, like Antonio Villaragosa here in Los Angeles are not only not listening but taking funding from charter school corporations like Green Dot makes the average person feel absolutely hopeless.
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 08:03 PM
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19. Spot on!
:applause: :applause: :applause:
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puebloknot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 03:40 AM
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21. K&R Well written, and not too long. The sound byte may do to America ..
... what it is said lead reservoirs did to Rome. But that is negative in itself, so let me return to praise for the thoughtfulness of your post. You are a very good example of "The Power of One."

I think your list of practical things we can do is very important. I think of being a child in New Mexico, and meeting under a cottonwood tree with our neighborhood story-telling lady, every summer afternoon when I was nine. Her influence on me lingers to this day.

As adults, we can meet under any number of "cottonwood trees" to discuss issues, and remember what it's like to interact in person, rather than via the Internet exclusively.

There is much in your article that is reminiscent of Paul Loeb's "Soul of a Citizen," in which he speaks of people learning to quietly become activists. Much is stacked against We, the Citizens, but there are people who simply get up every day and do *something* to contribute. A personal example comes to mind: My mother was married to a man (after my father died) whose son is a biology teacher in a high school in New Mexico. He teaches troubled students (many of whom have been in juvenile detention and have come back to his school) how to do organic gardening. They get their own plot, they garden together, and they get to take home the fruits of their labors. Big oaks from little acorns grow!

Thanks for this great article.

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N_E_1 for Tennis Donating Member (437 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 09:08 AM
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22. Hope and fight, never give up
In my teens I fought against the Viet Nam War, got drafted and decided to fight the good fight internally as a conscientious objector.
Small stuff. Got HOPE. We stopped that war. Then things really begun to change. Education across America was dialed down, making
our populace dumber, easier to control. Educated people can think too much, see the disparity of ideas. Not good for governing.
Got married and had three beautiful children. My wife and I educated them to our liberal desires and ideas. It took. HOPE arrived again.
We saw that across America that Mom had go to work just so the family could get by. That's when we made our biggest sacrifice, my wife
quit her job to raise our kids. Kept them off the television and video games, taught them the joy of reading. Taught them the process of freethinking
and critical thought. Fought for better education in our public schools, changes were made. HOPE rebounded.
We never thought our kids were too young to understand what was going on in America. We discussed events at the dinner table, yes we all sat
down to dinner every night, together. We encouraged political debate between ourselves, if we were all in agreement, someone took the devil's
advocate. It broadened thought and understanding. HOPE for better times was entrenched.

We told stories to our children about the times before Reagan, when all America had so much HOPE it was almost an entitlement.
My oldest was born in 1977, my kids never knew a time of HOPE like my wife and I did. We were born in the 50's.
They are all very successful today. My oldest the only child that is not a teacher is a Store Manager of a Home Depot. He is in a very small minority
of managers that will fight to unionize. My other two are fighting the system of bad education from within. HOPE for the future again.

All small battles, all small victories, but the seed of HOPE has to have fertile ground on which to grow. That is our challenge, that is our fight.
When HOPE is gone, as I feel that it is with some, we must instill it again.

HOPE and fight, never give up. The battles may seem long and dreary, we may never see the fruit of our labors. But never give up.
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chimpymustgo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 09:17 AM
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23. Excellent post. K&R.
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jotsy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 01:10 PM
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25. Many of us have addressed the apathy, but now don't know how to shake loose the atrophy.
Generations have been spent conditioning us into a lull of self building through irrelevant and trivial little things. Our education system has been regularly diminished to achieve a state of sheeplehood.

Activism is a necessary and rewarding task, the lifeblood of a sense of community. What I encourage others to consider the concept of localized sustainability, though I'm hard pressed to provide the details of what that involves.


The wealth of any nation is dependent on the viability of its public, and that I believe is the bulk of our anxiety, as an affluent few are perceived to hold all the proverbial cards. We must work to return our collective fates to our own hands. We need one another and a sense of hope to see that through. The continuation of America's journey requires a ready and resourceful rabble to rebuild a more stable road to travel.

I don't see us as a broken people, but do believe we're somewhat lost. We have the will to find our way, we just need to remember that by flexing that will until it's a reliable muscle that can carry the weight of such turbulent times.

Thanx Mr. Swanson for your responsive post to a haunting question and pointing out the need for any such article to finish by shedding some light at the end of the tunnel.
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Independent_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 04:00 PM
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26. K&R! Thank you David.
I've often thought about what I can do to get certain folks to overcome their feelings of defeat and despair. This spells out exactly what I've been looking for. For that, I thank you very much.

Good luck in the new year.

Peace,
I_L
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lunatica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 04:13 PM
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27. Grief doesn't have only two stages
Citizens en masse have the same basic fundamental psychology as individuals do. The American people are going through the stages of grief. If you try to rush through them nothing gets normal again. Give it time. You can't just get your heart broken and then simply pick yourself up and come out swinging.

Five Stages Of Grief

1. Denial and Isolation.
At first, we tend to deny the loss has taken place, and may withdraw from our usual social contacts. This stage may last a few moments, or longer.
2. Anger.
The grieving person may then be furious at the person who inflicted the hurt (even if she's dead), or at the world, for letting it happen. He may be angry with himself for letting the event take place, even if, realistically, nothing could have stopped it.
3. Bargaining.
Now the grieving person may make bargains with God, asking, "If I do this, will you take away the loss?"
4. Depression.
The person feels numb, although anger and sadness may remain underneath.
5. Acceptance.
This is when the anger, sadness and mourning have tapered off. The person simply accepts the reality of the loss.

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Note that depression, which is what you're talking a lot about is the 4th step. And the last one is the one that enables a person to get themselves back on their feet. Acceptance of things as they are without having to embrace it as something you can't do anything about. You've already gone through that stage. When you can finally accept that things are what they are then you can do something for or against those facts.
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ProgressOnTheMove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 04:35 PM
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28. Yes, stay inspired against all odds and keep others inspired too. It's a long road to success..
but we can only keep at it. The victories are out there we just need to celebrate them more no matter how small.
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Goldstein1984 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 05:04 PM
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29. Good analysis and good ideas
I'm going to save this one and read it again a few times.

As for the length, we've grown too dependent upon getting our information in sound bites. I love reading--thanks.
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Goldstein1984 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 05:04 PM
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30. Good analysis and good ideas
I'm going to save this one and read it again a few times.

As for the length, we've grown too dependent upon getting our information in sound bites. I love reading--thanks.
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icee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 08:49 PM
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31. We are long past broken, imo. I have been a political activist
all of my life. Obama was my last shot. Now, I'm just an itinerant poster.
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