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bluestateguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:15 PM
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Poll question: When will gay marriage be legal in all 50 states?
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Donnachaidh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:18 PM
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1. considering the fundies and other religious whackjobs - I'll wait for the
"hell freezes over" button.
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:21 PM
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3. what country has same sex marriage? we point the finger at the u.s.
Edited on Tue Dec-29-09 07:22 PM by seabeyond
the puritan, fundamentalist. we look over the pond to all of european wisdom, yet with thought

what country legalizes same sex marriage?

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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:31 PM
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12. Here
The Netherlands, Belgium, Canada, Spain, Norway, Sweden, and South Africa are the only countries in which the legal status of same-sex marriages are exactly the same as that of opposite-sex marriages.


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Same-sex_marriage
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 08:05 PM
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20. well, i am surprised. i have not heard this. but... i am glad to be told
thanks for the site.
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 08:07 PM
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21. No problem
Happy reading.
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robo50 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 04:43 PM
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47. I'm glad you are brave enough to ask and to appreciate learning that
Edited on Wed Dec-30-09 04:44 PM by robo50
you were woefully uninformed on the issue.

If Canada can have it from coast to coast, and all those other "Christian" nations, what the heck is wrong with people in the USA?

I have spent many wonderful days in Canada and the UK, France, the Netherlands, I can tell you, only up-tight Americans give this a second thought. It seems like ONLY the USA is filled with fear-mongering idiots who get elected or who vote. There is a monument to gay equality in Amsterdam, "HOMOMOMUMENT" it is called. Remember, that nation was under Nazi occupation, and learned about freedom the hard way.
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Ex Lurker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 07:28 AM
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35. didn't I hear something about Argentina recently?
and I could've sworn there are a few other countries in South America that have it too.
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Unvanguard Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:31 PM
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13. Spain, Sweden, Belgium, the Netherlands, Canada, South Africa, Norway
and it's looking like Portugal too, soon.

What was your point again?
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Prophet 451 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 07:10 AM
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31. Quite a few others have identical-in-all-but-name arrangements too
Including my own UK.
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ThatsMyBarack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:20 PM
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2. Gay marriage will be ILLEGAL in all 50 states....
Next time a repuke steals a presidential election. I hope to be dead by then.
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Unvanguard Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:26 PM
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7. Not a chance. They couldn't get that through in the darkest days of Bush.
And they will only get weaker with time on this issue.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 06:22 AM
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28. ridiculous. how would that even work??
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Political Heretic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 04:41 PM
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45. That's highly unlikely. They are consistently losing ground in this issue.
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tabbycat31 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:23 PM
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4. if we had a better Supreme Court
one case could legalize gay marriage the same way that Loving v. Virginia declared marriage a civil right. Unfortunately we need to get rid of at least one of the RWers for this to happen.
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Unvanguard Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:28 PM
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10. That will probably be how it ends. But unlike Loving, it will be a follower, not a leader.
More like Lawrence v. Texas: the Supreme Court will impose marriage equality on the few holdouts long after most of the country already has it.

(Well, unless David Boies and Ted Olson succeed in their effort, but I wouldn't bet on that.)
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Ex Lurker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 07:26 AM
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34. that's the only way I see it happening
I don't think Utah, et al, will ever do it of their own accord.
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David Zephyr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:23 PM
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5. Never
Edited on Tue Dec-29-09 07:24 PM by David Zephyr
Not in all 50 states.

Even many pseudo-liberals get the willies from my GLBT sisters and brothers when they are honest and worse, when they are in the privacy of a voting booth.

The only demographic group in American that is consistently for GLBT rights is Jewish-Americans which is why I am such a fan of American Jews. They are the most righteous single group in this country, and while they are not all good, I know how they vote and that's enough for me.

If I was a believer, I'd be in a Temple right now.
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Unvanguard Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:24 PM
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6. Somewhere between 2030-2050. It will happen. n/t
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agentS Donating Member (922 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:27 PM
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8. I'd go with 2020
I think it's gonna take a Supreme Court decision, like Loving V Virginia, to pull off but we don't have the Supreme Court on our side for that. We will if Obama stays president thru 2015. Scalia ain't looking too good these days...
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iris27 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:27 PM
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9. When public opinion has changed enough to get an SC appointed that will come
Edited on Tue Dec-29-09 07:30 PM by iris27
out with a Loving v. Virginia-esque ruling on gay marriage to which all states must comply.

Sometime in between 2025 and never.
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bluestateguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:28 PM
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11. I voted for 2025 in my own poll
Demographic magic will continue to work its wonders as the old fart homophobic haters, er, leave us, with accelerating speed in the next few years.
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dhpgetsit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:35 PM
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14. It will happen, but not until after...
marijuana is legal in 50 states.
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LuvNewcastle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:39 PM
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15. Never is a long time.
The people in their late teens and twenties who I have talked to are progressive about gay rights, generally speaking. I think that as they get more involved in politics and the older generation dies out, we'll see more and more states pass marriage equality laws. Most states will have marriage equality in 20 years, but I'm guessing it will be another 10 years after that before it becomes legal in all states.
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Oregone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:55 PM
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16. Heh, if "states" still exist in that amount of time
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 07:57 PM
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17. It's going to take the Supreme Court
state by state, it's hard to imagine when.
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LostInAnomie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 08:00 PM
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18. Around 2030 would be my guess.
Not because we will become a more accepting or enlightened people, but because most of the people that oppose it now will have died off.
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Throd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 08:04 PM
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19. March 30, 2041
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michreject Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 08:15 PM
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22. Never
Some states have a constitutional amendment. Mi. is one. It would take 2/3 vote to change it. I don't see that happening.
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FreeState Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 08:16 PM
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23. When Democrats stop triangulating GLBT voters and actually deliver on their rhetoric n/t
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Yuugal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 08:19 PM
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25. +1 nt
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 08:19 PM
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26. ....
:thumbsup:
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Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 06:07 AM
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27. +1000000
Best answer. :applause:
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 06:45 AM
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30. In other words,
When hell freezes over? :shrug:
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Political Heretic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 04:42 PM
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46. If you are waiting for Democrats, it will never happen.
We must move beyond that on this issue.
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hyphenate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-29-09 08:18 PM
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24. The same day
the ERA will be signed into law.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 06:38 AM
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29. never? what's with the defeatism?
we've made huge strides in the last 10 years. It may take another 10 or 20, but it's inevitable.
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theHandpuppet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 07:37 AM
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37. Yeah, what's the big deal?
I mean, so what's all the fuss about rights... the millions who will suffer for another decade or two... those who will die before they are ever recognized as full citizens of this country? My partner and I may not live to see that day, but what the hell.
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 08:11 AM
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39. could you have twisted my words anymore disgustingly and dishonestly?
Edited on Wed Dec-30-09 08:13 AM by cali
nope. not fucking remotely possible, sweetie. And you and your partner could fucking well get married and live in a state where marriage is recognized. Maybe it's just not as important to you as you claim.
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theHandpuppet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 04:17 PM
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41. Sometimes, Cali, you deserve to be dressed down
But your response to my post isn't even worth that amount of effort.
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Fumesucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 04:38 PM
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43. IIRC, you live in Vermont, cali..
Come down here to the Bible Belt and things look vastly different..

Homophobia is as "real Murkin" as meth and teen pregnancy down here.

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struggle4progress Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 07:17 AM
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32. It depends on the strategy. It'll take 20-25 years to clear the Federal Courts of the
current crop of right-wingers. And for the next 5-10 years we might expect many state voters to vote against gay marriage (as they have in most recent elections), in response to ballot options or in reaction to state court efforts to legalize it. To get a majority of voters voting for gay marriage, one may need to wait until much of the opposition literally dies off. For faster results, the objective should be to make whatever progress one can, because progress will defuse the issue: it'll be harder and harder for the neanderthals to argue gay marriage is a real threat as the number of states allowing gay marriage and/or civil unions increases. If (say) all Federal discrimination was eliminated, if a handful of states allowed gay marriage, and if half the states allowed civil unions, I think the opposition would have no traction at all -- because most voters would realize pretty quickly that the rightwing fear-mongering was idiotic
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Ex Lurker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 07:25 AM
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33. not in my lifetime (I'm 48 and have good longevity genes.)
Barring some kind of federal approach, I just don't envision any reasonably plausible scenario under which the reddest states would ever legalize it.
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RebelOne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 07:32 AM
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36. Well, I know not in my lifetime.
I am 70 years old and will probably live at least another 10 to 15 years.
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LWolf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 08:08 AM
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38. Other: Someday, but well beyond 2025. nt
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dysfunctional press Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 08:13 AM
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40. within my lifetime.
Edited on Wed Dec-30-09 08:13 AM by dysfunctional press
i'm 48.9
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Angleae Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 04:32 PM
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42. It took a constitutional amendment to free the slaves and for women to vote
It will take the same for gay marriage. I.E. never.
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Political Heretic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 04:40 PM
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44. I cannot believe how many people say never. Some days this place makes me ill.
Most days it doesn't, but some days I just shake my head.

We had a civil rights movement in this country ones, oh ye of short term memory. We must and will have one again.
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Fumesucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 05:00 PM
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48. A lot of it depends on where you live..
If you come to my state, bright red and in the buckle of the Bible Belt maybe you'll understand why so many people say it will never happen.

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Political Heretic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 05:03 PM
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49. Dude, I live in Idaho.
Okay, I now live in Oregon, but for the last 15 years I lived in Idaho.
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