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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:36 PM
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Teacher Writes "Loser" on Student's Paper
Teacher Writes "Loser" on Student's Paper

http://media.ksfy.com/images/LOSER+TEACHER.JPG

A North Carolina middle school teacher is in the hot seat over his controversial style of teaching.
Rex Roland teaches sixth graders at Enka Middle School in Candler, N.C.

Patty Clement says her child was repeatedly bullied by Roland in class and she wants it to stop.

Clement says on a November vocabulary assignment Roland wrote the word "loser" after correcting the paper.

Just a few weeks ago, another graded assignment made its way home, and at the top of the page was the word "loser" underlined twice.
The Buncombe County School District released a statement saying that this is a personnel matter that's being looked into.

It's important to note that some parents defend Roland's teaching style saying its his way of relating to his students. None would go on camera with us.

http://www.ksfy.com/news/national/87461092.html
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marylanddem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:39 PM
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1. This idiot teacher should be immediately fired -
and good for the child's mom for standing up for her kid.
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:08 PM
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33. There's no excuse for a teacher writing that on a paper.
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:09 PM
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35. agree. n/t
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wordpix Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:44 PM
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71. +1
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TheDebbieDee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:11 PM
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36. What in the h3ll is wrong with some people? The man is a teacher
Edited on Fri Mar-12-10 03:12 PM by TheDebbieDee
for crying-out-loud. Surely during his certification he was taught that placing negative labels on a child was detrimental to their self-esteem.

They should write "LOSER" on that phuncker's pink slip!
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Lorien Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:42 PM
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50. He's not a "man"; he's an overgrown kindergarten bully
who should be drop kicked ASAP.
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Warren Stupidity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 02:01 PM
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115. Do you think something awful will happen if you type 'hell'?
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TheDebbieDee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 05:28 PM
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123. No, just trying to head off the "language gestapo" on this board.
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Warren Stupidity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 05:32 PM
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124. there are people here who object to the use of the word 'hell'?
Who knew?
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rcrush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 05:33 PM
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125. Well fuck them assholes
What cock faces!
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Warren Stupidity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 05:44 PM
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126. exactly my sediments!
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:51 PM
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75. exactly. that's not a style. it's a crime, the bastard.
RV, taught 27 years
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Cetacea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 05:01 PM
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78. Fired and forced to take a psychology course.
Make him sit front row center with a cap on his head that reads "Bully".
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Brickbat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:39 PM
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2. There is no excuse for this. At all.
That poor kid.
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OKNancy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:41 PM
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3. a little more information at this link
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MrMickeysMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:53 PM
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22. Nothing within the body of that link at this time for me /eom
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FormerDittoHead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:41 PM
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68. I'd still like to know more. What if the essay was, "Why Rush Limbaugh is always right"...
Seriously. I'd like some more context. I could think of a few instances where the illustration above would be appropriate.

Of course, I'm thinking that those instances would be few and far between.

So let's find out some more before we fire the teacher and defend the 6th grader. They're not all angels either.
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 03:20 PM
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120. I can't think of any situation where it would be appropriate to grade the paper with that comment.
If the essay was "why Rush Limbaugh is always right", there are cogent factual arguments that could be provided easily disproving the core thesis. Core thesis is proven incorrect, therefore the grade is reduced.

Name calling is the sort of intellectually lazy shit Rush Limbaugh engages in, because that's all the fat, bloated turd has got.

And yes, I'm calling him names.
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FormerDittoHead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 09:17 PM
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129. HERE'S MORE INFORMATION. THE "OFFENSE" WAS SPELLING.
http://technorati.com/lifestyle/article/a-teacher-calls-his-student-a/

Put all the bullshit aside for now about Rush Limbaugh. I could have thought of some other example, but I stand accused of having an open mind and being willing to give a teacher a benefit of doubt without knowing all the facts. Guilty as charged.

The context here however, puts things in good perspective.

The student's offense was to MISSPELL some words:


http://technorati.com/lifestyle/article/a-teacher-calls-his-student-a/

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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 09:35 PM
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130. It puts things in perspective, in that it makes it worse. If you ask me.
Edited on Sat Mar-13-10 09:36 PM by Warren DeMontague
You don't call someone a "loser" for misspelling words. How is that going to help? :shrug:

Granted, bad spelling is rampant in this country. The one positive thing I would say about the teacher, is, at least he didn't call the student a "looser".
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FormerDittoHead Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 06:17 AM
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140. Yes. That was my point.
My point was that the circumstances would dictate the severity of this situation.

We agree. If spelling is the threshold to incur this teacher's wrath and hurl such insults, he shouldn't be teaching.
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mike_c Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:41 PM
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4. interesting-- it's a bit over the top, but 80% is a B on most grade books...
Edited on Fri Mar-12-10 02:44 PM by mike_c
...so this really does seem more a matter of style than genuine nastiness. Banter, maybe? Anyway, at least one parent seems not to like it, although that hardly seems worthy of making it national news.

OK-- I read the full news report and this REALLY sounds like a personal dispute with a parent rather than any sort of systemic abuse of kids, at least on the basis of that information. Interesting that so many here rush to condemn the teacher. DU really does seem more reactionary these days.
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Brickbat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:45 PM
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8. I have a huge problem with a middle-aged man writing "loser" on a sixth-grade girl's paper for no
reason.

"-20% for being a loser" has nothing to do with the kid's work. It's a statement on who the kid is. Obviously this kind of banter doesn't work for this child, because she had protested before. For him to keep doing it is inexcusable.
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mike_c Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:50 PM
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16. well, I generally agree...
...although this seems way short of something in need of torches and pitchforks. My personal view is that it's unprofessional, but then professionalism isn't always the best way to relate to middle school aged students. I think if that sort of classroom banter is appreciated by most of his students-- and that's the impression I get-- then it would be best to restrict it to verbal banter and not write it on assignments.

But calling for firing or suing him? That's just outrageous unless there's a whole lot more to this story than I'm seeing so far.
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Brickbat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:02 PM
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30. I totally disagree with you about "professionalism isn't always the best way to relate to middle-
school-aged students."
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unapatriciated Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 09:12 PM
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99. I have to disagree
Edited on Fri Mar-12-10 09:13 PM by unapatriciated
My son had a science teacher in the 7th grade that insisted on calling him "rash boy" in class (he gave nicknames to his students).
He thought it was funny and so did the rest of the class.
I made several attempts at explaining my son's illness (dermatomyosits) was the reasons for his rash and what looked like unwashed skin was the result of his disease not lack of showering.
For some reason this teacher believed his rashes were due to bad hygiene habits, (he also taught health class).
I finally had to pull my son from his class.
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:46 PM
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10. Sigh. Esprit de corps is truly a nasty thing. -nt
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mzteris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:48 PM
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13. they said it was a "personnel" matter not a "personal"
matter.

The guy's a jerk and should at the very least be suspended. And monitored.
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mike_c Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:54 PM
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24. and how is your summary judgement without knowing the full facts of the matter...
...any different than his calling someone a "loser?" Again, I get the impression that this is classroom banter that got under the skin of a parent, more than anything. But as I said above, even if that's the case, writing it on an assignment is certainly less than professional (although again, professionalism is not necessarily the best way to relate to middle schoolers).
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mzteris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:03 PM
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31. the "facts" are - he wrote "LOSER"
on a litte girl's paper, not once, but twice. I think that's the only fact needed, don't you?

That type of "sense of humour" is pretty sick, imo. "Classroom banter" my @ss. He sounds like one of those types who constantly put people down and then say, "I was just kidding!" and look all surprised and hurt that you were "offended".

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Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 08:40 PM
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152. no, the facts are, a parent alleges he did. not that i expect you to acknowledge
the distinction.
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Celebration Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:28 PM
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65. Classroom banter that includes the word "loser"
Is at best, extremely passive aggressive. I can't think of a case where this would be at all acceptable.
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WindRiverMan Donating Member (693 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 09:38 PM
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100. Boy I sure CAN!
My parents both taught Jr. HIgh School, and while they would NEVER EVER do this a student, my folks have been threatened to be "shot", been told "fuck you" and my mother had a little shithead take her coffee cup and dunk it in the toilet. I had two college degreed parents and we still qualified for food stamps.

Now, I do not know what the issues were behind this teacher's behavior, but if anyone, for one lousy second, thinks that the kids are the victims in 99% of these cases, they are wrong. A good portion of the time the kids are the perpetrators and the teachers are the victims. Quite honestly, most of our HR departments would fire ANYONE who pulled 1/2 of the bullshit that these kids pull on teachers today. Teachers have all of the responsibility and very little authority. Who the fuck wants to sign up for that job???

Many parents today are shit for brains who do not teach their children any respect. They teach their kids that no one better tell them anything. I have friends whose 13 year old girl was fucking a 16 year old boy, and when they called the police, the social workers told the parents that if they did not want to "lose thier daughter forever" they should allow her to continue the relationship.

A lot of kids today are a total mess. The system sucks, and I while I do not agree with what this teacher did, I am not going to be so pretentious to state that there is no case that could justify such a remark.
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Celebration Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 10:28 PM
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104. name calling solves NOTHING
I know that there are horrible things that kids do in the classrooms, but exactly what does calling them a loser do to change THAT situation? It would only worsen the situation.

What I hate is the trend for the classroom teacher to be told to solve their own problems with kids. Kids need to be removed from the classroom in situations like this, and a disciplinary system for the school needs to be strong.

But calling them LOSERS? Sheesh.
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olegramps Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 09:44 AM
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112. Apologetics???
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Spazito Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:48 PM
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14. A teacher writing LOSER not once but twice is "banter" to you?
A teacher who writes LOSER on an 11 year old child's work because, according to you, they have a dispute with the parent is okay with you?

Wow, just wow!
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mike_c Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:55 PM
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26. that's not at all what I said...
...but that's OK-- not being in possession of the facts in the matter makes it so much easier to arrive at a judgment!
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Spazito Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:04 PM
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32. The facts are this teacher wrote LOSER on an 11 year old's work...
not once but TWICE, was called on the carpet by the principal the first time for doing it yet chose to do it again only, this time, underlined LOSER twice. What facts are not in evidence as to what has been reported and admitted to by the teacher via an 'apology'?

When a poster uses the term 'banter' to describe this, is it not fair to assume they think such action is harmeless, just a joke, and outraged reaction is 'over the top' ergo okay? If you didn't think it was okay, I would have thought you would have made that clear in your first post yet it seems that was missing.

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TommyO Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:34 PM
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46. No student deserves to be called a loser by their teacher
Especially not an 11-yr old.

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nonconformist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:48 PM
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54. Not at my kids' school... 80 is a C- or D+, depending on the teacher
Grading scales are much harsher than they used to be.
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chrisa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:46 PM
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74. Bullcrap.
Are you really defending the teacher for this, even if it is a personal dispute? That would make the teacher even more of a tool for trying to get back at the parent through her child.

And as for "banter," that's the type of excuse a coward makes. This teacher is no different. He's hiding behind the "banter" excuse because he's afraid of accepting his punishment for trying to bully an 11 year old.

How could the writing of "loser" possibly be justified? That's completely beyond unprofessional. It's not even close.
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dixiegrrrrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 05:19 PM
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81. I saw nothing that said the kid got 80% grade.
The paper shown is that 20% (of whatever grade it was )
was for being a loser.
What grade the 20% was taken from I did not find.
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maryf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 05:50 PM
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128. I said it before, its like sharks on a feeding frenzy...and folks are really happy
to buy into the bad teacher rap...
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panzerfaust Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 08:20 AM
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144. You might want to think about what "Reactionary" means
i.e. "extreme conservationism" with consequent reflex defense of those in authority (such as teachers).

To tell a child that her paper is being marked down "-20% for being a loser" does not seem to give much guidance to the student in how to improve the paper.

Actually, it implies that there might be nothing wrong with the paper, but that anything she turns in will be marked down simply because the "teacher" feels the student to be a "loser."

It is not "banter" it is bullying, it is demeaning, it is disrespectful; it is what I put up with during my twelve year journey through the barren and stinking wasteland of public school "education."

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ddeclue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:41 PM
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5. He should be fired and sued.
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nimvg Donating Member (77 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:48 PM
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12. In California...
...it wouldn't happen, because the guy would know in advance there would be cause for one hell of a lawsuit.
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Xithras Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:17 PM
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38. Yep. Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress.
They can be incredibly hard cases to prove and win, but I think a grown man berating a young girl by calling her a "loser" qualifies, especially as he'd done it before and been warned about it.
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paulsby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:20 PM
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40. sued?
for pete's sake.

we may not need tort reform (god forbid our system is reformed to something as horrible as say... england's ) but we need common sense reform

SUED?

oh noes? he called me a LOSER.

i need money!
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ProudToBeBlueInRhody Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:53 PM
Response to Reply #40
57. Some people use slot machines.....
....others, the legal system to hit the jackpot.
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paulsby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:56 PM
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58. it's like the brer rabbit approach
please don't call me a loser, sir?

"loser"


SWEEEEEET. I can sue.

it's a very lucrative briar patch
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PlanetBev Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:45 PM
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6. Brings back a painful memory of Jr. High
Way back in '63. I was terrible at math. The idiot teacher insured my continued failure by wrting
"F minus minus minus" on my exam.
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mrcheerful Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:11 PM
Original message
Yeah I also wrote some stuff about the rotten teachers that we were exposed to back in the
60's, then got called a story teller and such. Or it was just 1 teacher, sure only 1 teacher was bold enough to say what he did, but there were many teachers that would say nothing but acted out on their feelings about certain students. Or how the principal should have put a stop to said teachers, little do the younger folks realize that back then principals tended to side with teachers. Whats even funnier was the 1st to 4th grade I went to was held in a 2 room school, 1st and 2nd grade was in 1 room 3rd and 4th were in the other and 2 teachers was the only staff the school had.

The reason I got called a story teller was because I said I had cracked a kids head open who was bullying a girl. I left out the fact that the fight happened on the basketball court and after knocking the kid down I proceeded to smash his head on the cement court. I guess it's also story telling when I say that the slide on the play ground was 15 feet high and had broken a few bones in the 75 + years the school was in use. Also story telling when I say that most of my grade school teachers used oak and maple paddles with holes drilled in them on students for crimes such as gum chewing lol.
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Raine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 03:46 AM
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135. Yeah when I was in 4th grade the teacher screamed at me
in front of the class about my poor arithmetic score she said "you're already in the dumbest arithmetic group, I can't put you in one any lower". :-( That sense of failure has always stayed with.
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Tom_Foolery Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 08:35 AM
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146. I had a similar event happen to me in the 6th grade...
I'm almost 50 years old, and I can still feel the sting.
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Spazito Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:45 PM
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7. Geez...
Some parents defended this?!? Disgusting, totally disgusting.
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:46 PM
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9. Sounds like he's joining the other children in singling out this kid for abuse. nt
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truebrit71 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:47 PM
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11. I'd tattoo 'Loser' on this fuckers forehead with my boot if that was my child..
:grr:
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Vinnie From Indy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:51 PM
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19. spelled correctly both forward and backward
The backward part would be so he could see it every morning when he looked in the mirror.
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:49 PM
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15. That is beyond inappropriate.
What happened to frownie faces?
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Dappleganger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:50 PM
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17. This is indefensible. nt
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Vinnie From Indy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:50 PM
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18. If it were my kid I would definitely deliver a personal "vocabulary test" of my own to ol' Rex
I have no doubt that when I left he would be able to spell "terrified" while sitting in a pool of his own urine.
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blueworld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 01:43 PM
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114. Bravo & I agree having once (& only once) delivered a comparable lesson. n/t
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reflection Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:52 PM
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20. I took a technical writing class in college,
and our teacher had a penchant for dumping out barrels of red ink on everyone's paper. He was a real tough instructor.

One day he had just passed out everyone's graded essays, and we were all morosely looking over the various red-marked corrections and comments. The young lady who sat behind me raised her hand and said "Mr. (x), I just want to thank you for complimenting me on every page."

The teacher said "What on earth are you talking about?"

She replied "You said I was vogue on every page."

He said "No, I wrote you were vague."

Of course everyone but her got a good laugh out of it.

Good times. At least he didn't write 'loser' like this schmuck. That's a bit extreme.

I bet there's a special entry for that guy at www.ratemyprofessors.com. (great site to get back at teachers who have wronged you, and to lift up the ones who were good)
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MattBaggins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:09 PM
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34. That is funny but you were in college and not 11 years old.
I am not a teacher but I would at least hope teachers would be trained in something similar to a military "after action review"; which entails examining what was done right and what went wrong. One should always start with what was done right as this will usually always lead to the right solution. Stress how following or sticking to what was going right would have prevented failures.
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reflection Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:11 PM
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37. I agree wholeheartedly with you.
Just trying to bring a little levity to the discussion. 11-year olds are very vulnerable and do not deserve to be treated that way by the authority figures in their lives. Heck, kids are cruel enough to each other that I'm sure most of them get their daily quota of snark by lunchtime.
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Hissyspit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:27 PM
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43. Great site to get back cowardly and anonymously at teachers who have "wronged" you.
Edited on Fri Mar-12-10 03:29 PM by Hissyspit
Teachers are accountable for their grades and behavior. Anonymous students on the Internet are not. Why do you need to "get back" at them? If you have an issue, address it with the teacher or in more serious cases with the administration. No, it's not a "great" site. I have students who hate me and students who love me and students who don't have a clue. I don't know what any of them think of me, because I don't go read the site anymore. Oh, and be sure and rate whether they are "Hot" or not. We must make professors who are not all that attractive feel bad about it. That's REALLY important. :eyes:
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reflection Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:04 PM
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61. I like the site.
Disclaimer: I've been out of college for a long time, and have never been a member of that site or rated anyone on it.

What I liked about it was reading what other people thought of some of the instructors I had through the years. (although very few of them were still around). That's the extent of my involvement with the website.

I do, however, believe in the concept of public feedback. I use it to gauge books I'm going to read on Amazon, products I'm thinking of buying, and I think the idea of developing a cross sectional view of teachers is a pretty good idea. Like any collective rating system, it should be pretty evident to the reader whether or not the teacher is getting a fair shake from his/her students.

You do make an interesting point regarding the 'hot' ratings. In all the time I've looked at that site, I never thought the 'hot' designation had to do with the attractiveness of the teacher. I thought it was a rating derived from having a large number of positive ratings.

You say you don't read the site "anymore." So you did follow it at one time?
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Hissyspit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:12 PM
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63. I visited it once. Found it pretty worthless.
Edited on Fri Mar-12-10 04:14 PM by Hissyspit
I just checked it again. Only one new rating in all that time and it's negative for my teaching of ART 101. Useful information considering I don't teach Art 101 and there is no Art 101. What am I supposed to do with that?

Hotness rating: "Appearance: (just for fun) Hot/Not"
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reflection Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:17 PM
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64. You got me.
Edited on Fri Mar-12-10 04:18 PM by reflection
:shrug: I think there's a way to point out mistakes via feedback. Don't know really. Maybe bang them out an email or check the FAQ for advice.

Just checked the site again. I think I am right in that the 'hot' rating is just a very positive rating, not a reflection on the teacher's attractiveness, but I am happy to be corrected if need be.

On edit: Nope. Looks like you're right. Appearance: hot/not. Yeah, that's weak.
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thereismore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:52 PM
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21. Merit pay to him! NOT. nt
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zbdent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:53 PM
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23. Interesting that the parents who defend the teacher
refuse to be identified ... are the bullies afraid of being the victim of their own ideology? (bullied by reality ...)
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tekisui Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:54 PM
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25. I went to this middle school.
I don't know that teacher, what an ass. He should be fired.
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MrMickeysMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:56 PM
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27. Sounds like the teacher needs to go and learn some classroom management skills..,
That, and remediation for being a fucking wise guy, bottom of the barrel. Go give his job to somebody who cares.

Hey kids, here's a classroom tip for open house: As soon as you visit his classroom, just form the "L" in unison using your thumb and index finger.
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:37 PM
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48. I think you could probably end that sentence at "go" and have it right
I cannot see any excuse for doing that to a child. It shows the teacher is completely incapable of doing his job.
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MattBaggins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 02:57 PM
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28. "It's important to note"
No it's not. It is not in the least bit important to note unless you are trying to point out that even many adults and parents can be utter idiots.
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Echo In Light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:02 PM
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29. Precisely. I can't believe the parents didn't raise unholy fucking hell upon the "teacher."
I would have
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maryf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 07:33 AM
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110. How do you know the situation???
I know of teachers who kid with their students with the thumb/forefinger L on the forehead, the kids relate...don't be so quick to judge teachers you don't know and join in on the general teacher hate going on in this country...soon you won't be able to complain about the teachers, the kids will be in classes of 50 with an aid adjusting the tv lessons....
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Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 06:25 AM
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141. how do we even know it actually happened?
the people you're responding to are the same types who *knew* the custodial staff in the merion case were peeping at little girls in their underwear on the school spycams.

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panzerfaust Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 09:15 AM
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148. If this is what was actually written
http://media.ksfy.com/images/LOSER+TEACHER.JPG

This is all that one needs to know to determine that the "teacher" is belittling and bullying his student.
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Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 08:38 PM
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151. "if". as i said, how do we know it happened. the article no where states that the paper in the
picture is the student's paper, or that there's some proof the teacher wrote that comment.

just an allegation.
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FarCenter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:18 PM
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39. Take 20% off his paycheck and write "Loser" on it
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slampoet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:23 PM
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41. I had teachers who did this regularly. My small town couldn't afford the legal costs to fire them...
Edited on Fri Mar-12-10 03:23 PM by slampoet
since they had tenure.
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:28 PM
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superduperfarleft Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:26 PM
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42. I had a 5th grade teacher who regularly called one particular student a "loser."
This student wasn't all that bright, true, but he was also desperately poor and had a really shitty home life.

The teacher is now superintendent in a nearby school district. Happy endings, eh?
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:39 PM
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49. My kid had a horrific 5th grade teacher, too
She had a history of bad anger problems, but won a suit against the town BOE because the process for firing her had some glitch in it. So back into the system she went - only to bully and even get physically violent with her chosen kids - mine among them.

She shouldn't have been allowed near children, not to even get to teaching them.
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wordpix Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:46 PM
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73. I hope she was yanked by now ---Shudder
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 08:12 PM
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98. Not as far as I know. - edited
Edited on Fri Mar-12-10 08:17 PM by JerseygirlCT
I do know that I - rather uncharacteristically - made sure every parent I knew with kids entering that grade at that school knew all about her and knew to demand their child didn't have her. The principal knew, and had been told she couldn't fire her. The town and the BOE just needed a bit of gumption, I think. And this is a perfect case of the union backing a bad, bad teacher. Not the fight they should have had for the sake and reputation of their profession, IMO.

Just looked around - she's retired. Good for the kids who won't have to have desks pushed at them, or be dragged by their ears...
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donco6 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:31 PM
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45. Completely inappropriate.
Happening once would be a warning; twice, I think I'd give him/her some time off to think about his/her career. Or lack thereof.
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:35 PM
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47. Treating a child like that is so thoroughly unprofessional it should be terms for immediate firing.
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OneTenthofOnePercent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:42 PM
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51. Whether or not this student was in fact a loser, you can't just take off 20%.
That's BS. Also, writing that the student is a loser on their paper is an asshole thing to do.
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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:43 PM
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52. Good example showing why teachers need to be held accountable
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Tutankhamun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:46 PM
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53. I'm a teacher, and no way would I ever be so stupid as this.
The only way I would ever call a student a loser is if he/she lost some sort of contest. I.E. Your friend was the winner at Donkey Kong; you were the loser.

And no, I don't teach a class in video game playing...YET!!!!!
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lpbk2713 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:49 PM
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55. I'd like to write "Asshole" on his final paycheck.



This clown has no business being in the field of education.


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JTFrog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:51 PM
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56. Maybe he forgot he wasn't in the military anymore.
http://www.buncombe.k12.nc.us/98720112671853600/site/default.asp

Whatever his problem, he's definitely in the wrong line of work.
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Zomby Woof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 03:59 PM
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59. Fire the sonofabitch
I think of all the good potential teachers out there looking for work, and unable to get it because assholes like this are employed.
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Mike 03 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:00 PM
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60. My best friend in highschool was in my Geometry class, and my teacher wrote on his first major test:
"It is an insult to have to grade this exam." I can't recall the grade, but I assume it was an F.

He subsequently quit the class.
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wordpix Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:45 PM
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72. yeah, way to encourage them when they're lagging behind
:sarcasm:
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Mike 03 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 06:22 PM
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92.  wordpix, thank you for raising this topic. My friend had just nearly been burned to death when
he got that message from our teacher. He was just trying to re-integrate into society.

Thank you for your sensitivity.
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wordpix Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 10:53 PM
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106. I teach those kids and there is usually a backstory
when they're not doing well in school, and it's not pretty.

And the adults often forget these are kids and they're young and they can learn BUT do not add insult to injury or the damage is just compounded instead of helped.
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msanthrope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:07 PM
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62. He's a bully and a possible predator--
I would investigate any teacher who sought to use their power in this way.
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Dora Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:36 PM
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66. That was my first thought - "predator." nt
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chrisa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:37 PM
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67. That teacher must feel so proud now.
Edited on Fri Mar-12-10 04:52 PM by chrisa
I bet he's one of those teachers who absolutely adores the instigators, and thinks that they can do no wrong. He's so cool now, because he can relate to 11 year olds by bullying the kid they bully. What a mature adult completely deserving of his job (not). He needs to hit the road ASAP and find a new career.
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devilgrrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:42 PM
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69. I had teachers like that in school
:puke:
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ThatsMyBarack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 06:23 PM
Original message
Me, too!
Other grownups would tell me it was my fault if a teacher did something like this to me.
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Dinger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:42 PM
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70. Yup, Fire 'em
Edited on Fri Mar-12-10 04:43 PM by Dinger
now.
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Akoto Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 04:53 PM
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76. Teachers like him destroyed kids like me.
I am still dealing with my experiences in school at age 25. As if the constant, daily bullying weren't bad enough, I also had my share of teachers who were either indifferent or complicit in my daily torture.

No pity for this loser. Fire him and give the kid a teacher who tries to support his students.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 05:20 PM
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82. Same here, I have PTSD from it.
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Raine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 03:50 AM
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136. Same here, I'm twice your age and
the after-effects are still with me. :-(
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 05:00 PM
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77. Emotional abuse is "his way of relating to his students"??
InSANE.

Humanity fail.
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devilgrrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 05:12 PM
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79. Gee, that'll get them motivated - huh, teach?
:eyes:

How anyone thinks that doing something like that will improve student's attitudes... you need to get your heads out of your asses.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 05:15 PM
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80. That asshole should be fired immediately.
:grr:
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lpbk2713 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 05:21 PM
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83. The local school board must have low standards in their hiring policies.
Edited on Fri Mar-12-10 05:47 PM by lpbk2713




Email the Buncombe County School Board and let them know what you think.

{Click}


or here ... communications@bcsemail.org


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walldude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 05:25 PM
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84. "No dark sarcasm in the classroom..."
So RI teachers are fired en mass at a school board meeting and this turd still has a job. :crazy:
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apples and oranges Donating Member (772 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 05:39 PM
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85. Not cool at all. That teacher should try positive reinforcement
Negative reinforcement does not work.
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DonCoquixote Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 05:54 PM
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86. My tinfoil hat is buzzing a bit
Not that this fool does not deserve to get slammed, but ponder this. Here we are, in the midst of an education debate, where there is some frustrations with Teachers that supposedly act like creeps and hide behind tenure. Now, I won't lie, of course some teachers fit that bill, (although more administrators do). However, we know that most teachers do not, and that tenure is the one thing that can keep a teacher from getting fired for, oh, teaching evolution in a predominantly Baptist district.

I am NOT defending this creep, just keep in mind the media knowns how to strike the right chords, and that we need to be careful we do not let ourselves be led around by our anger.
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Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 05:55 PM
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87. yep.
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maryf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 09:30 AM
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111. check this out!
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kimi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 06:06 PM
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88. That's "controversial"? Pretty mild description.
IMO, no controversy here. He's a fool, and has no business near a middle school. Those kids are hard enough on each other. Sheesh.
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Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 06:09 PM
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89. i'm sure you'll want to comment on the "charter school teacher repeatedly calls student "gay" thread
Edited on Fri Mar-12-10 06:10 PM by Hannah Bell
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DonCoquixote Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 07:10 PM
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97. Good point HB, but
Keep in mind, the myth of charter schools is that they allow a teacher to do things Public schools cannot. In other words, you submit to the abuse, especially when the nuns or priests are doing it. What scares me about this story is that it is a pre-loaded talking point, where people can say "See, these public school teachers and school fail our students, and then powertrip on them, hiding behind tenure!"

I can admit, some teachers do suck, though i will say many of those that do started off trying to be good, but ran right into the REAL folks that are never held into account, the School Board and the Admins! However, let's not forget, the right, and sadly, the center left under Duncan, need HORROR STORIES right now, to DEMONIZE TEACHERS, and the Media is all too willing to help.
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Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 04:01 AM
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139. yep. this week's newsweek cover: a blackboard with "we must fire bad teachers"
written on it 100 times -- is a particularly orwellian example of the propaganda machine's effectiveness.
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DonCoquixote Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 04:22 PM
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149. Quelle Surprise
And I am willing to bet they bring out the ghost of Debra Lafave for extra measure, until everyone thinks every teacher is f__king their students.
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Fresh_Start Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 06:14 PM
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90. he's done this before
from ratemyteacher.com

reviewed 2005: *
wants to be popular with the "popular kids" more than his students do. Grow up, Mr. Roland. Why do you and your wife continue to torment students and parents.
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Catshrink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 06:19 PM
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91. A student once accused me a writing "loser" on his paper.
It was actually another student but the kid took the quiz home and showed his mom, telling her I wrote it. His mom called the principal to complain and he bragged to the girl that I was going to be in big trouble. The girl went to the principal and admitted to doing it. All this happened before I even knew about it! I was so grateful to her for owning up to it! When the principal told me about it I was completely shocked and speechless. I couldn't imagine any teacher doing this but I was pretty green.

It is unacceptable for a teacher to write something like this. I understand the frustration in dealing with some kids who won't do their assignments, who disrupt classes, and are all around pain in the butts. However, there are other ways of dealing with them than write "loser" on a paper, even in jest.
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mzteris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 09:40 PM
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101. so somehow this is HER fault?
I mean = even IF she were a "bad student" - which it seems she is not by the evidence presented - writing LOSER on a little girl's paper is totally beyond the pale.
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Mike 03 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 06:23 PM
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93. Rec and Kick. NT
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Spazito Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 06:25 PM
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94. I am sure if he found LOSER, underlined twice for emphasis, written...
across his pink slip, he would just double up with laughter at the harmless banter. :sarcasm: just in case it's needed.
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Okiehomeschooler Donating Member (3 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 06:29 PM
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95. I urge all to notify Enka County School Board of their concerns
I would urge all commenter's to post or e-mail the Enka County School Board of their comments and concerns. You can click on "Board of Education" and submit e-mails directly to the board members. You can also find the e-mail of the teacher in question and post a message directly. Just follow this link: http://www.buncombe.k12.nc.us/ems/site/default.asp

As for myself... Although their are always two side to every story, this teacher has obviously set precedent. Not only did he do this once but it has occurred twice or more times recently. Regardless if this was his "style" of teaching and relating to students, he has only proven that his intelligence and common sense does not go beyond an 11 year olds. And in no way should this "style" of teaching be tolerated. Not only do you destroy the self esteem of a child you provide a life long label they are always attempting to overcome.

Cases such as these, and the fact that public schools have removed the Christian values and morals I want my children raised and steeped in is the main reason I choose to home-school my children. While this does not work for everyone, I would strongly encourage any parent to consider it. Many more incidents of this nature are becoming daily habits, without parents and citizens taking a stand against such atrocities it will only manifest uncontrollably.
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devilgrrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 09:56 PM
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102. "public schools have removed the Christian values and morals" - when did they have that?
I need to know this. What "values" and "morals" are they not teaching anymore? Please do share.
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Okiehomeschooler Donating Member (3 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 01:54 AM
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133. "I need to know"
Their are many Christian values and morals that have been removed from the schools. I can recall as a child a lady coming into school several times a month and telling Bible stories using a felt board. I also recall that no parents were appalled by this, the students loved the stories and eagerly awaited her arrival. Is she still there, of course not, we can't allow this in schools anymore thanks to atheists views and political correctness. I can recall when we all said God's name in the pledge of allegiance, now we must "gather at the flag pole" to do this. Do the schools teach creation anymore? No now we only have evolution as the source of existence. Are we teaching our children to respect themselves and their bodies, no now we pass out birth control even if the parents object. Do we teach our children to respect their elders and parents, no we teach them that rules can be bent to everyones liking, and elders are useless and expendable.

I acknowledge that other cultures and beliefs exist and that we should be considerate of this, however I must stand by my morals and faith when those cultures and beliefs become rulers over mine, enforce rules and guidelines over mine, and make me the criminal.

Take one good hard look at our culture today and compare it to Moses's era and I feel that you will uncover striking similarities. The further from God they became the harder their struggle. We as a country and society are following those same steps.

I do not mean to infer that everyone must share my views and beliefs, everyone has to make the choice for themselves. I simply want to supply you with "food for thought" so you can make your choice.



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devilgrrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 03:58 AM
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138. Schools taught us reading, writing, math, art and phys ed... and that's all they're supposed to do.
There wasn't much discussion about religion in Public Schools in the 70's. Also, if I remember correctly, people in the 70's were incessantly harping about "kids these days" - and quite frankly, I would like them to know what happens if their hormones get the better of them - they are human beings - speak to them like adults and perhaps they'll behave like them.
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panzerfaust Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 09:09 AM
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147. Like you, I have no problem with what people chose to believe in their homes.
But, unlike you, I do have a problem when any particular religious group wishes to push its own brand of superstition on the entire public: That is why "creation" (I assume that you mean the Jewish creation myth, not those creation stories of say the Navajo, or Chinese, or Vikings) should not be taught in public schools.

There are many other Biblical values that few rational people would want to embrace. Can we start with the book of Job? This shows the God of Abraham at His finest. What great values there are here for everyone to learn: That it is OK to torture a man, kill his wife and children, in order to win a bet.

in a democracy religion belongs in one's private life, not, as in the Western world's past, and as current in the world of Islam, as a part of the machinery of the state.

Every religion has beliefs that are an anathema to another: Burn not, least ye be burned.


Christian treatment of other Christians who disagreed on a point of theology.


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Celebration Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 10:48 PM
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105. If I had a choice between a school where this happens
And a home school, I would do the home school.

Luckily, this is an isolated case.

When I attended public schools decades ago, indeed, one of my teachers was a fundamentalist Christian that tried to impose her values on us. Those values included denouncing Darwin every other oday, at an age when most of us had never heard of him. LOL that probably really shaped my thinking and I was very suspicious of all my teachers after that. Another thing she did was ask who went to Sunday School. She would do this every Monday. Every week the Jewish kid in the class had to ask if his Saturday school counted. She would have to think for about five seconds and then very begrudgingly allow that. Whenever I was the chaplain of the class or some such thing, I made sure that I did not put "in the name of Jesus Christ Our Lord and Savior" at the end of a prayer, but something ecumenical, even though I was Christian, out of respect for the Jewish kids. But others were just clueless, and would invoke Christian words, I cringed for the Jewish kids. It literally caused my body a violent reaction.

Another thing that teacher did was say that drinking beer was sinful. Well my dad had a beer or two every Sunday afternoon, and that didn't seem sinful to me.

I'm not sure why the Constitution wasn't enforced back in the 1950s. And I am still not sure why a lot of my classmates did not have the empathy that I had for the kids in the class who were Jewish. I don't remember any Muslims or atheists, LOL. Thank goodness I only had one teacher like this.

I can do without Christian values like this in schools.

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Okiehomeschooler Donating Member (3 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 02:13 AM
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134. I can do without Christian values like this in schools
I must say that I am sorry you encountered someone like this at such a young age, the key to your distress is in your post..."a fundamentalist Christian that tried to impose her values on us". True Christianity does not impose on others, as a Christian I am called to inform others of God's love, compassion, and Mercy. However it is your choice to accept these gifts or not. God does not mandate belief in him, he allows you the freedom of choice. Adam and Eve had a choice, Judah had a choice, Satan had a choice, sadly all made the wrong choice and where held accountable for that choice.

I do not recall the Bible or God teaching hatred or shunning of the Jews. As you will recall God's chosen people are the Jewish and his promise to restore them to their Nation was in fact seen in the 1940's when Israel became a Nation. This is a value and a reality that I want my children to fully understand. I again am sorry that so many of your classmates where not taught this valuable lesson and can commend you for being sensitive to others.
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mvd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 06:37 PM
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96. No excuse for that at all.
Besides being cruel, it certainly will not give a kid confidence. If I had a kid, he/she wouldn't be near that teacher.
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Trillo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Mar-12-10 10:25 PM
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103. "Miss Mullins, she's The Man"
All right, here's a useful lesson for you.

Give up. Just quit.

Because in this life, you can't win.

Yeah, you can try, but in the end, you're just gonna lose, bigtime,

because the world is run by The Man.

- Who ? - The Man.

Oh, you don't know The Man ?

Well, he's everywhere.

In the White House, down the hall. Miss Mullins, she's The Man.

And The Man ruined the ozone, and he's burning down the Amazon,

and he kidnapped Shamu and put her in a chlorine tank.

http://www.script-o-rama.com/movie_scripts/s/school-of-rock-script-jack-black.html">more...


chlorine?
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Catherine Vincent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 02:15 AM
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107. This teacher is a fool
I regret saying that but doesn't he realize doing something like that does something to certain kids and they react a certain way? What if that kid's older sibling or friend find out and commence to beat him upside the head? He may have gotten by so far but he better be careful. It may come back and bite him in the ass.
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Hekate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 02:28 AM
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108. I'd transfer my kid out of that class so fast it would make the teacher's head spin...
... and I always preached "Respect your teacher, s/he knows more than you, and you are there to learn."

What this jerk is "teaching," no kid should be learning.

Hekate

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maryf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 07:30 AM
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109. Another bullet against teachers, the attack against them is getting
exponentially worse, I dare anyone here to go in and teach for three days...and parents defended him, kids sometimes like it when teachers use their vernacular...Its a coup to destroy public education, only the rich kids will get a true education in their rich charter schools, the rest will be trained to be unthinking servants and cannon fodder...If you have kids watch out! their chance to really learn is diminishing by the second!
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Fresh_Start Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 12:38 PM
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113. you should blame the teacher who did this
no one else
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Pithlet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 02:15 PM
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116. Yes, because every story about a bad teacher is an attack against all teachers.
That's ridiculous. What you propose is worse. Let's sweep it under the rug and pretend nothing bad ever happens. That would really benefit kids. I guess the parents were supposed to keep their mouths shut. I support public education. I send my kids to public school. Hell, I live in an area where it's the thing to send them to private school because the public schools are just supposed to be soooo bad. Everyone's heads are still stuck in the 60's, here. But the knee jerk reaction by some here about every negative story that happens to be about a public school is just silly. Yeah, sometimes bad things happen in pubic schools. This teacher is awful and deserves to get fired. It made the news because it's a particularly noteworthy story. Anyone who agrees isn't a public school hater.
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Spazito Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 03:17 PM
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119. The 'bullet' was fired by a bad teacher...
it serves teachers ill when those in the profession do not condemn behavior such as that of the teacher in the OP and, instead, deflects such behavior onto the student or their parent/s.

Hiding/protecting bad teachers, yes, there are bad teachers, instead of removing them from the system does MORE harm to the reputation of a very honorable profession than any acknowledgment that bad teachers do exist and condemning behavior such as is iterated in the OP.

For every bad teacher, there are thousands of good ones and the good ones are as outraged by this teacher's actions as are those outside of the profession.
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 03:22 PM
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121. "kids sometimes like it when teachers use their vernacular..."
Really?

So you're saying that this kid likes being called a 'loser'?

Really?
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maryf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 04:54 PM
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122. Newsweek's cover plus


45 staff members laid off in the school north of me, Kansas City Missouri closes half its schools. How else are they able to do this without demonizing teachers? It is a coup, watch out...

Where are the stories of good teachers???? Which most are in my experience...
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panzerfaust Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 07:59 AM
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143. KC MO School enrollment in 1999: 35k, in 2009: 17k
How is it a "coup" to close half the schools, when the enrollment has fallen by half?
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Maru Kitteh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 02:21 PM
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117. That bully should receive a police escort to the curb.
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RedCappedBandit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 03:06 PM
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118. 'teacher' = bully. fire him
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 05:45 PM
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127. Being a loser is a big enough problem that it should be nipped in the bud.
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Contrary1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 09:43 PM
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131. My son teaches 5th grade...
He never writes minus anything on the kids' papers. He teaches in a lower income area, most of the children come from single parent homes. He figures they have enough negativity in their lives.



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etherealtruth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 04:40 PM
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150. Good for him!
I have no doubt the acts of this particular teacher outrage the vast majority of teachers.
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rollin74 Donating Member (489 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-13-10 10:25 PM
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132. if you would like to contact the people involved
and express your opinion

the "loser" teacher's email: rex.roland@bcsemail.org

Enka middle school principal: pam.fourtenbary@bcsemail.org

Buncombe County school superintendent: tony.baldwin@bcsemail.org
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Hannah Bell Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 03:54 AM
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137. this is the second time i've seen some poster urging people to contact the district to offer their
opinion on the basis of this poorly sourced, vague article.

why, i wonder?
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panzerfaust Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 07:35 AM
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142. Yep. Reminds me of my 12 years in public school hell.
It is difficult to see how writing "-20% for being a loser" delineates what the errors were in the paper.

Indeed, the statement implies that there may have been no errors/misunderstandings/misstatements and that the "-20%" is being imposed simply because the child is a "loser."

I do agree, that the child certainly is a "loser" in having this bullying, inarticulate, unhelpful tool as a "teacher." So is society.

But then, in my 12 years in public schools, such a teacher was the norm - so I am a little surprised that such an event made the news.

At least in most states, I do not think it is legal any longer for these petty tyrants to beat their victims with wooden boards - as was common when I was in their power - so now they can only use hurtful and demeaning language to make themselves feel superior to the children.

Pathetic.



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Dont_Bogart_the_Pretzel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 08:24 AM
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145. Wait till the Charter schools take over n/t
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Blue-Jay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Mar-14-10 08:41 PM
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153. At least he didn't write "looser".
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