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Godhumor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:41 AM Original message |
What's your thoughts on couples with a stay-at-home partner? |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
1. If you can afford it and want to, it's a valid choice. |
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roguevalley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 07:56 PM Response to Reply #1 |
162. my mom stayed home until the last kid was nine. Could have used the other |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
2. I have been a stay-at-home mom off and on, and |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:48 AM Response to Reply #2 |
14. Frankly, I find a full-time job to be FAR easier than being the stay-at-home dad. |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:58 AM Response to Reply #14 |
33. Especially when they are little, yes, it's a REAL job in and of itself... |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:17 PM Response to Reply #33 |
112. We used to think that I would work when our kids were in middle school and high school... |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:27 PM Response to Reply #112 |
117. I suppose. It's funny, they seem both annoyed and happy that one of us parental units |
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Godhumor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:04 PM Response to Reply #14 |
47. I learned very quickly to not complain about too many meetings causing me to be "tired" |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:55 PM Response to Reply #47 |
127. I have done both, stayed home with the kids early in their lives and then went to work full time |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:32 PM Response to Reply #14 |
78. Absolutely. I am not sure I could be a stay at home mom even if |
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Juneboarder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:55 PM Response to Reply #14 |
94. +1000 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:53 AM Response to Reply #2 |
25. and i dont have that concern. i would only bring in so much money. a lot more money would go out |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:13 PM Response to Reply #2 |
106. You ARE earning, you are lowering your bottom line! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:16 PM Response to Reply #106 |
110. exactly |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:31 PM Response to Reply #110 |
119. True--It hasn't been as hard to live with one income as we thought. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:34 PM Response to Reply #119 |
121. much much more frugal. i sat with young niece with her first baby |
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MousePlayingDaffodil (331 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
3. Since you asked . . . |
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LisaM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:45 AM Response to Original message |
4. The point wasn't that everyone had to get out and work 40 hours or more per week |
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Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:45 AM Response to Original message |
5. I detest people who stick their nose into other people's private decisions when no one is being hurt |
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TheOther95Percent (202 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:01 PM Response to Reply #5 |
40. Ditto. |
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jeffrey_X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:33 PM Response to Reply #5 |
79. Exactly |
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YOY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:45 AM Response to Original message |
6. Well were in the same boat. |
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GodlessBiker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:46 AM Response to Original message |
7. If you can afford it, do it. |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:46 AM Response to Original message |
8. My daughter and son-in-law have the opposite set-up. |
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JohnnyBoots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:52 PM Response to Reply #8 |
93. Who'd he play for out of curiosity. Big 'footy' fan over here. |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 02:22 PM Response to Reply #93 |
131. Several teams |
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JohnnyBoots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 03:43 PM Response to Reply #131 |
146. Thanks. Very nice, my wife and I both play as well. nt |
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Tikki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:46 AM Response to Original message |
9. Like my old mother said..."Those who scream the loudest about.. |
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Juneboarder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:58 PM Response to Reply #9 |
95. Could that have any correlation with... |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:47 AM Response to Original message |
10. I've been the stay-at-home dad for eight years and I'm proud of it. |
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Godhumor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:01 PM Response to Reply #10 |
39. I've already made the decision to not engage in any out of work conversations with her |
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dalaigh lllama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:47 AM Response to Original message |
11. Funny -- I thought we fought for everyone's right to choose |
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SouthernLiberal (115 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 02:37 PM Response to Reply #11 |
133. I'm an old feminist..... |
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proud patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 03:36 PM Response to Reply #133 |
144. amen to that |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 04:24 PM Response to Reply #133 |
154. Thank you! It's the right to choose, to have all options open. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:48 AM Response to Original message |
12. Lucky, that's what I think about them. :) |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:48 AM Response to Original message |
13. Its expensive and will drive you nuts |
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DefenseLawyer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
15. You work three jobs? Uniquely American isn't it? |
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iwillalwayswonderwhy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
16. YIKES - with friends like that who needs enemies? |
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NotThisTime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:04 PM Response to Reply #16 |
46. I have to agree, seriously, I hope you told your "friend" to go to hell... I wouldn't put up with |
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Godhumor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:23 PM Response to Reply #46 |
70. I posted about the question involved. But, yes, we did not end on a good note at the dinner |
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HipChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
17. None of their business...I was accused of being a 'kept' woman... |
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Subdivisions (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
18. I work from home, she works at a local hospital. No, never had an |
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shraby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
19. If you can afford that life-style, more power to you. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
20. being a stay at home, i am thankful that i have the opportunity. my children |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:56 AM Response to Reply #20 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:01 PM Response to Reply #29 |
38. my brother would have been an ideal stay at home and his wife should not |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:05 PM Response to Reply #38 |
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Godhumor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:07 PM Response to Reply #29 |
52. 2 of my best friends, including the guy I was best man for at his wedding, were stay at home dads... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:09 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. why is the poster getting deleted? am i missing something? nt |
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Godhumor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:12 PM Response to Reply #53 |
60. Not sure with regards to these posts. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:13 PM Response to Reply #60 |
63. ??? maybe. hadnt thought of that. nt |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:10 PM Response to Reply #20 |
56. "i wont mouth off about the over stressed two working parent homes" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:16 PM Response to Reply #56 |
65. are you saying that they are not? is that a judgment call, reality? |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:25 PM Response to Reply #65 |
73. Of course it is |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:30 PM Response to Reply #73 |
77. i have yet to see it. i have talked to many many |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:07 PM Response to Reply #77 |
100. Whatever. |
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RKP5637 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
21. To me, it sounds like the work acquaintance has a few internal problems and conflicts of their own. |
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ivycat (70 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:52 AM Response to Original message |
22. I have to agree |
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arthritisR_US (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:52 AM Response to Original message |
23. it's nobody else's bloody business. If you can afford it then good on ya! This gal was |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:53 AM Response to Original message |
24. Women indeed fought to eliminate gender roles. But part of eliminating roles means that people are |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:57 AM Original message |
not to mention is the ability to have the stay at home dad too. somethng we are |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
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elfin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
27. Being able to have one stay at home is priceless |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:58 AM Response to Reply #27 |
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elfin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:14 PM Response to Reply #32 |
64. I never understood it |
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Flipper999 (185 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
28. I respect couples' decisions on this either way |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:57 AM Response to Original message |
30. They are, without a doubt, the epitome |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:58 AM Response to Original message |
31. I think that person had no right to tear into your wife like that, the decision is yours and hers ro |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
34. In the Great Depression, a lot of people agreed to work less hours so more could work at all |
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The Doctor. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
35. The woman was being ignorant. |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
36. I'd say it's nobody's business but yours. I have had encounters |
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zipplewrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:11 PM Response to Reply #36 |
59. It's not a "static" choice either |
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Robb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:00 PM Response to Original message |
37. Mrs. Robb had more earning potential |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:03 PM Response to Reply #37 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:06 PM Response to Reply #37 |
50. see... i am there with you. i told all the kids, mine, nieces, nephews when they were young |
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sufrommich (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:02 PM Response to Original message |
41. My thoughts are that I would have told the nosey |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
43. The posting rules prohibit use of the epithet I'd use to describe your work acquaintence |
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NeedleCast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
44. My sister and brother-in-law have have had issues |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:04 PM Response to Original message |
45. I have no problem with it per se |
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izzybeans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:05 PM Response to Original message |
49. There is a trend of more mothers (and some fathers) staying home and no one should |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:13 PM Response to Reply #49 |
61. i know. i have actually had to tell people.... i like my kids. what a concept |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:06 PM Response to Original message |
51. I can easily afford a stay at home partner |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:19 PM Response to Reply #51 |
66. god forbid housekeeping has anything to do with my 'identity". lol |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:25 PM Response to Reply #66 |
72. sorry I confused housekeeping with "homemaking" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:33 PM Response to Reply #72 |
81. lol, cause though i do a good enough job, housekeeping isnt high up there. BUT |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:12 PM Response to Reply #81 |
105. actually my identity is in the creative things I get to do |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:26 PM Response to Reply #105 |
116. well. |
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zipplewrath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:10 PM Response to Original message |
54. Nephew is a SAHD |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:10 PM Response to Original message |
55. None - Why Should I Care How Other People Choose To Live? |
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happy_liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:10 PM Response to Original message |
57. Do we live to work or work to live- that is the question |
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Zoeisright (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:11 PM Response to Original message |
58. More power to them. |
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w8liftinglady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
62. If it is a mutual decision,I think it's great |
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Cronus Protagonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:19 PM Response to Original message |
67. Sex partner or business partner? |
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jwirr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:21 PM Response to Original message |
68. If you are lucky enough to be able to afford that situation, go for it. |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:23 PM Response to Original message |
69. That person looks like a caricature of an "angry librul feminazi". |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:23 PM Response to Original message |
71. I would love to be a stay-at-home partner, |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:26 PM Response to Original message |
74. I think you might do well to view the world today through her older eyes |
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Jim Lane (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:27 PM Response to Original message |
75. In general, I agree with all the people saying it's your choice. One exception.... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:36 PM Response to Reply #75 |
85. that is my one condition on this discussion. nt |
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abelenkpe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
76. If you can afford to you are lucky and should do it. |
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Whisp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:33 PM Response to Original message |
80. sorry that had to happen to you. she was waaaaaaay out of line. |
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Still Blue in PDX (633 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
82. My opinion: It's great if you can afford it and want it. |
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Oregone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:34 PM Response to Original message |
83. No biggie. |
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Gman2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:35 PM Response to Original message |
84. Ask when her next day off is. Haul her ass to your house, you get the day off. |
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Dogtown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:40 PM Response to Original message |
86. "But, what do you *do*?" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:42 PM Response to Reply #86 |
87. exactly. i get that often enough. and you know. i have never sat on my hands, antsy and bored. |
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Dogtown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:48 PM Response to Reply #87 |
92. Exactly. |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:43 PM Response to Original message |
88. I think that whatever arrangement two people make is nobody else's goddamn business. |
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dugaresa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:44 PM Response to Original message |
89. everyone and every couple has a right to do what works for them |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:46 PM Response to Original message |
90. I think I would love to be a stay at home mom as long as I was treated |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:48 PM Response to Original message |
91. I think it's probably better for the kids and the house-hold in general |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 12:58 PM Response to Original message |
96. We're human beings, not human doings. |
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Juneboarder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:01 PM Response to Original message |
97. My wife WISHES she could stay at home |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:14 PM Response to Reply #97 |
107. I'm sure you all have thought of this... |
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Juneboarder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 03:12 PM Response to Reply #107 |
138. Thank you for the advice :) |
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Zing Zing Zingbah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 05:28 PM Response to Reply #107 |
158. I recently changed to working four days |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:14 PM Response to Reply #97 |
109. ya. it is a tug. |
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Kahuna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:02 PM Response to Original message |
98. It's no one's business what arrangements couples make... |
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paulsby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:05 PM Response to Original message |
99. this is first wave feminist crap. simone de beauvoir said it best |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:09 PM Response to Reply #99 |
102. The whole point of the feminist movement was so women could have a choice |
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paulsby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:17 PM Response to Reply #102 |
113. sadly, that wasn;'t the whole point. that's revisionist history |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:29 PM Response to Reply #113 |
118. yup. |
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paulsby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:33 PM Response to Reply #118 |
120. no problem. it was a different era. i analogize it to early black seperatists |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:36 PM Response to Reply #120 |
123. sure. all of these dfifferent societal issues.... |
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BonnieJW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
101. I would call you lucky. |
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Tailormyst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:09 PM Response to Original message |
103. I would tell the acquaintance to mind her own business |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:10 PM Response to Original message |
104. I would say that it's nobody's gotdamn business |
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Lugnut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:14 PM Response to Original message |
108. I mind my own business. |
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get the red out (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:16 PM Response to Original message |
111. I look at that as |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
114. Well that was rude of her. |
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Godhumor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 02:29 PM Response to Reply #114 |
132. It was an odd situation, but I consider it a pretty much broken relationship now |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
115. Simple reply...doesn't matter what other people think, it's what works for you! |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:36 PM Response to Original message |
122. You work aquaintance is an insecure whiner who is just making shit up. Ignore her. |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:40 PM Response to Original message |
124. the work acquaintance is a brainwashed fool. |
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taught_me_patience (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:46 PM Response to Original message |
125. It would be a deal breaker for me |
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Howler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:54 PM Response to Original message |
126. Geeze!!!!!! %$@# |
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lib2DaBone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 01:59 PM Response to Original message |
128. Outstanding choice.. nothing better for kids than to have a parent at home.. |
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Fuzz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 02:02 PM Response to Original message |
129. Try being a stay at home dad and listen to the shit you hear. |
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Green_Lantern (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 02:10 PM Response to Original message |
130. I'm not a stay at home dad but as far as having reversed gender roles |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
134. Tell your coworker it is none of her damn business! |
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Arkansas Granny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 02:49 PM Response to Original message |
135. This debate has been going on since the emergence of the women's rights |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
136. I think that unless people are totally scraping by, two income families are unnecessary |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 03:07 PM Response to Reply #136 |
137. Or both could work part time. |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 03:15 PM Response to Reply #137 |
139. Been there myself. There is nothing like living on next to nothing to make you understand |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 03:32 PM Response to Reply #139 |
140. Thanks! I actually just got hired yesterday. |
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earth mom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 03:46 PM Response to Reply #140 |
147. Hope it works out and Good luck! |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 03:35 PM Response to Reply #136 |
143. Ideally both could do part time jobs |
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cutlassmama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 05:45 PM Response to Reply #136 |
159. Exactly! Notice how the prision population has risen since it takes |
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Zing Zing Zingbah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 05:51 PM Response to Reply #136 |
160. I think we could live off of |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 03:32 PM Response to Original message |
141. That person was rude |
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proud patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 03:35 PM Response to Original message |
142. I was a stay at home mom for the first 10 yrs of my sons life . |
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One of Many (85 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 03:38 PM Response to Original message |
145. I really would have had to fight the urge ... |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 03:50 PM Response to Original message |
148. If it works for them, it works for them. Their choice. eom |
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mamaleah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
149. OP, the woman who attacked you and your wife is obviously anti-choice. |
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ljm2002 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 04:07 PM Response to Original message |
150. I'd like to tear into your acquaintance... |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 04:14 PM Response to Original message |
151. My husband stays home |
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RoyGBiv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 04:15 PM Response to Original message |
152. Here's what I think ... |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 04:21 PM Response to Original message |
153. I hope you told her never to come back. |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 04:43 PM Response to Original message |
155. Sounds like she has some control issues herself |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 04:56 PM Response to Original message |
156. I wish I had enough money for both of us to stay home. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
157. Since I'm the childfree "housewife" I rather like it... |
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nickinSTL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 06:11 PM Response to Original message |
161. I have no problem with it - it's the couple's choice |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 08:01 PM Response to Original message |
163. Nobody's business but the two people involved n/t |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 09:07 PM Response to Original message |
164. What a great opportunity to mess with her. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-22-10 09:09 PM Response to Reply #164 |
165. you're funny. nt |
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