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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:16 PM Original message |
New Jersey DYFS has abused and endangered my friend, a great mom. |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:24 PM Response to Original message |
1. Stay Out Of It, It Is None Of Your Business |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:31 PM Response to Reply #1 |
7. Wow. No I didn't look in the windows, I didn't have to. |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:34 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. According To You She "Deserved" It, It's Still None Of Your Business |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:37 PM Response to Reply #9 |
13. I'm not poking my nose anywhere |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:42 PM Response to Reply #13 |
22. Sure You Are |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 01:31 PM Response to Reply #22 |
136. Gee, let's not have friends help us or anything like that huh? |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 10:39 PM Response to Reply #136 |
146. Let's Not Have Intervention Either |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:37 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. no one has a "right to slap her face". |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:39 PM Response to Reply #11 |
17. Yes, I'm afraid that you are technically right. |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:40 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. I think there are better ways to handle it |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 12:23 PM Response to Reply #17 |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:38 PM Response to Reply #7 |
15. Again, you know FOR A FACT that her husband hit her in the past? |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:41 PM Response to Reply #15 |
20. Yes, it's on his record. |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:45 PM Response to Reply #20 |
26. a slap in the face is not self defense - it is assault |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:40 PM Response to Reply #7 |
18. Slapping a child is child abuse. It's illegal. It's immoral. You're blaming the child. |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:43 PM Response to Reply #18 |
23. Wow, that's ridiculous. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:56 PM Response to Reply #23 |
36. Yes it does. A parent is in a position of power over a child. If that were a teacher or a priest, |
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LiberalAndProud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:02 PM Response to Reply #36 |
41. To equate a slap |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:05 PM Response to Reply #41 |
45. Violence toward children is wrong. It fucks them up. |
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yellowcanine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:00 PM Response to Reply #41 |
65. Sometimes worse forms of child abuse begin with a slap. |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:08 PM Response to Reply #36 |
48. You sound like you have anger issues yourself. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:09 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. We should all show anger at child abuse. |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 01:32 PM Response to Reply #50 |
137. Well, maybe snotty assed teenagers should give their mothers some respect? |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 11:56 AM Response to Reply #36 |
132. My mother slapped me once. I don't consider her scum. |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:04 PM Response to Reply #23 |
43. Sorry, but that is indeed child abuse |
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yellowcanine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:56 PM Response to Reply #23 |
63. One slap in the face of a child IS child abuse. It is also assault.. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 04:48 PM Response to Reply #23 |
108. Yes it does |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:55 PM Response to Reply #1 |
35. sorta agree except the part about slapping in the face |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:58 PM Response to Reply #35 |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:24 PM Response to Reply #35 |
56. Exactly. |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:35 PM Response to Reply #56 |
59. did she schedule her own tests? |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:00 PM Response to Reply #59 |
64. I do tell her the truth, not what she wants to hear. |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:05 PM Response to Reply #64 |
69. Menopause can kick your ass... |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:00 PM Response to Reply #59 |
66. delete |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:22 PM Response to Reply #56 |
79. Yeah, I suspect bad social services policy |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 11:52 PM Response to Reply #79 |
124. After seeing CPS work here in Texas first-hand, I can believe |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 11:29 AM Response to Reply #124 |
130. Hey, WolverineDG, I'm a retired social worker who .. |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 03:06 PM Response to Reply #130 |
138. There's a lot more money in the termination/adoption racket now |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 03:48 PM Response to Reply #138 |
139. No, I don't drink the Kool-Aid. |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 08:52 PM Response to Reply #139 |
144. Truth is, they do nt |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 01:03 AM Response to Reply #144 |
148. Horsehockey. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:52 PM Response to Reply #1 |
62. Slapping a teenager in the face is not abusive behavior. |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:01 PM Response to Reply #62 |
67. No, You Didn't Deserve It, And It's Abusive Despite The Fact It Happened To You |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 09:34 AM Response to Reply #67 |
127. Yeah, I did deserve it. I mouthed off to my Mom and she slapped me. |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 06:37 PM Response to Reply #127 |
142. Of Course You WIll Stand By That, Most Victims Do |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 08:48 AM Response to Reply #142 |
150. I don't have kids. |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 11:30 AM Response to Reply #150 |
151. Thank Goodness U Don't Have Kids |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 01:16 PM Response to Reply #151 |
152. Wow. |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 02:41 PM Response to Reply #152 |
154. Yes, We Get It, You're Prone To React Violently When Someone Calls You A Name |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 03:10 PM Response to Reply #154 |
156. I told some friends and family that you told me that I was abused. |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 03:36 PM Response to Reply #156 |
157. Typical |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 04:31 PM Response to Reply #157 |
158. I was smacked a few times, when I deserved it. |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 04:37 PM Response to Reply #158 |
160. Yes, You Would Think You Deserved It, That's Why I Pity You |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 05:13 PM Response to Reply #160 |
161. Don't waste your energy pitying me. |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 06:17 PM Response to Reply #161 |
163. Pity Takes No Energy |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 10:49 PM Response to Reply #163 |
164. I'll try not to. |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-03-10 09:58 AM Response to Reply #164 |
166. You Believe That It's Ok To Smack Kids Around For Name Calling |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 02:41 PM Response to Reply #151 |
153. n/t |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 01:29 PM Response to Reply #1 |
135. Well, her brat hit her first? |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 10:37 PM Response to Reply #135 |
145. The "Brat" Did That? |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
2. Um, how do you know for a fact that the knife-related call was untrue? |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:34 PM Response to Reply #2 |
8. She was drunk. |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:37 PM Response to Reply #8 |
12. So... drunk driving, drunken kid slapping, but no possibility of drunken knife threatening? |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:47 PM Response to Reply #12 |
27. And you can equate those things with this because you are so aware of her situation? |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:50 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. You said she drove home drunk and slapped her kid. |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:54 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. She didn't drive her, her husband did. |
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TK421 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 04:18 PM Response to Reply #29 |
103. "NO WIRE HANGERS"!!!!! |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:55 PM Response to Reply #8 |
34. "accepted probation under a conditional discharge" |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:02 PM Response to Reply #34 |
42. Wrong. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:07 PM Response to Reply #42 |
47. It's good to see that your psychic skills extend to people you know from one DU post. |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:31 PM Response to Reply #42 |
57. You're correct. |
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The Magistrate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:48 PM Response to Reply #57 |
93. It Is Often Offered, Sir, To First Offenders, Regardless Of Guilt |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 07:42 PM Response to Reply #93 |
110. New Jersey is not Illinois. |
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yellowcanine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:04 PM Response to Reply #42 |
68. A 16 year old is still a child. And assault is still assault. You make far too many excuses for |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 05:21 PM Response to Reply #68 |
162. It's not. New Jersey Statutes 2C:3-8. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 10:51 PM Response to Reply #162 |
165. Exactly. |
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LiberalAndProud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
3. Is this legal? |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:35 PM Response to Reply #3 |
10. I don't think it is legal. And no I don't think she has a good attorney. |
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LiberalAndProud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:52 PM Response to Reply #10 |
31. So there you have it. |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:06 PM Response to Reply #31 |
46. Thanks |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
4. Wait, this lady was drunk and hit her kid? Fuck her. |
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LiberalAndProud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:29 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. There are many times my daughters provoked a face slap. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:37 PM Response to Reply #6 |
14. The woman's a child abuser. |
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LiberalAndProud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:43 PM Response to Reply #14 |
24. From three paragraphs, you know this? |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:57 PM Response to Reply #24 |
37. From the stated facts of the story, the mom was drunk and slapped her kid. |
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yellowcanine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:12 PM Response to Reply #24 |
73. Except that in this case everyone except the woman who was drunk and slapped her 16 year old |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:51 PM Response to Reply #6 |
30. Man, thank you for being sane and seeing this more clearly |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:54 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. That Beauracratic Asshole Could Be In DEEP Shit If Something Happens To That Kid |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:59 PM Response to Reply #32 |
39. You are a real piece of work. And since you know so much more than I do |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:02 PM Response to Reply #39 |
40. What Do YOU Know About The Ethical Standards Involved? |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:18 PM Response to Reply #40 |
53. What does NY have to do with it? |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:22 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. Yeah, They're All In It For The Money |
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TK421 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 04:27 PM Response to Reply #53 |
104. I take it the DYFS has some sort of quota they must meet? |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 11:37 AM Response to Reply #104 |
131. No ... |
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LiberalAndProud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:08 PM Response to Reply #32 |
49. Where does their authority end? |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:10 PM Response to Reply #49 |
52. The Only Evidence You Have That This Guy Said She Should Fuck Her Husband More |
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LiberalAndProud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:32 PM Response to Reply #52 |
58. If he said it, would you agree that it is offensive? |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:38 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. IF He Said That, Then Yes It Would Have Been Innapropriate |
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TK421 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 04:42 PM Response to Reply #60 |
106. I've found most social workers, psychologists tend to be liberal-leaning |
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LiberalAndProud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 04:46 PM Response to Reply #60 |
107. I find that I have no argument with you, Beetwasher. |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 08:49 PM Response to Reply #107 |
112. The "Bad" Social Workers Are The One's Who Have Given Up |
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yellowcanine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:07 PM Response to Reply #6 |
70. Well that is her story second hand through the poster here. Not that credible. |
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NaturalHigh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 11:56 PM Response to Reply #4 |
126. +1 |
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UndertheOcean (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:27 PM Response to Original message |
5. She physically assaulted her daughter , whatever happened is no excuse for physical assault. |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:41 PM Response to Reply #5 |
21. maybe the "mom" was just playing |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:43 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. "Drunk one!" |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:38 PM Response to Original message |
16. This is why getting drunk, slapping your kids, |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 01:49 PM Response to Original message |
28. The best thing that you can do is just be a good friend. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:05 PM Response to Original message |
44. I'm not really feeling any sympathy for your friend, here. |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:10 PM Response to Reply #44 |
51. I don't even care about the face slap, |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:23 PM Response to Original message |
55. I'm sorry, but I don't see a problem. |
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yellowcanine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 02:52 PM Response to Original message |
61. You aren't helping your friend by apparently accepting her bad behavior. |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:07 PM Response to Reply #61 |
71. Another wow. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:17 PM Response to Reply #71 |
75. So, are you this person? |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:25 PM Response to Reply #75 |
80. No, I'm not this person. |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 04:36 PM Response to Reply #75 |
105. that's exactly what I was thinking |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:19 PM Response to Reply #71 |
77. She's not a monster, |
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yellowcanine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:32 PM Response to Reply #71 |
84. "an argument and a slap". Sorry but from your own testimony it was a lot more than that. |
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D-Lee (457 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:11 PM Response to Original message |
72. Here's a try at some helpful advice |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:19 PM Response to Reply #72 |
76. Thank you for your input. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:16 PM Response to Original message |
74. Yeah, stop miimizing her abusive behavior and tell her to make the most |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:22 PM Response to Reply #74 |
78. She slapped her face because her daughter was physically |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:25 PM Response to Reply #78 |
81. I'll bet you 90 percent of the people who are saintly non-slappers |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:28 PM Response to Reply #81 |
82. Yeah, that's what I think as well. |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:44 PM Response to Reply #82 |
89. This story gets more convoluted and filigreed every moment. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:34 PM Response to Reply #81 |
85. And you'd lose that bet. |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:41 PM Response to Reply #85 |
87. Well you and beetwasher have a nice day |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:45 PM Response to Reply #87 |
90. You betchur @ss, physical violence against children is wrong. |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:47 PM Response to Reply #90 |
92. I actually agree with your last sentence |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:50 PM Response to Reply #92 |
95. The state's only real concern in practical terms is their own liability. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:35 PM Response to Reply #81 |
86. Deleted message |
yellowcanine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:43 PM Response to Reply #81 |
88. Sorry but "inexperienced and frustrated" parents can equal a dead child. |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:46 PM Response to Reply #88 |
91. oh you saintly parents. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:48 PM Response to Reply #91 |
94. You seem to be reading a different thread. n/t |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:52 PM Response to Reply #94 |
96. I just see the usual superior posturing . . . . |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 04:00 PM Response to Reply #96 |
100. You're reading something I haven't said. |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 04:04 PM Response to Reply #100 |
101. okay I think we're moving towards the middle |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 04:12 PM Response to Reply #101 |
102. I would gladly take this lady in and coach her |
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yellowcanine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:57 PM Response to Reply #91 |
97. Blanket rules? You mean like "getting drunk and slapping your kid is always wrong"? |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 04:00 PM Response to Reply #97 |
99. oh wring hands and bow down |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 08:25 PM Response to Reply #99 |
111. "These New Jersey nutcase social workers are lost, and doing harm, not preventing it." |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 09:36 PM Response to Reply #88 |
114. She is not inexperienced, the child is 16. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:29 PM Response to Reply #78 |
83. You are minimizing physical violence. |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 05:54 PM Response to Reply #78 |
109. sorry, you're contradicting yourself |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 09:27 PM Response to Reply #109 |
113. My kid has never gotten physical with me. |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 09:54 PM Response to Reply #113 |
116. Listen, I Am Going To Assume You Are Legit |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 11:38 PM Response to Reply #116 |
121. Thank you |
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Beetwasher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 02:48 PM Response to Reply #121 |
155. Sorry, But If You're Story Is Legit, DYFS Is Doing The Right Thing |
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NaturalHigh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 04:36 PM Response to Reply #155 |
159. Very true. |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 11:46 PM Response to Reply #113 |
123. you're still doing it |
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zorahopkins (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 03:59 PM Response to Original message |
98. Could You Be A Go-Between? |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 09:45 PM Response to Original message |
115. "she wouldn't calm down & cooperate" |
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shimmergal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
117. I can't believe the arrogance in |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 11:22 PM Response to Reply #117 |
119. Thank you! |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 10:33 AM Response to Reply #117 |
128. . |
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Lance_Boyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-03-10 10:11 AM Response to Reply #117 |
167. Where do we get the idea that she was drunk? Post #8, by the OP - 'she was drunk' |
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NaturalHigh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 11:21 PM Response to Original message |
118. She slapped her daughter in the face? |
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waiting (208 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 11:28 PM Response to Reply #118 |
120. You cannot possibly say that |
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NaturalHigh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 11:52 PM Response to Reply #120 |
125. No, I don't know these people personally... |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 03:49 PM Response to Reply #125 |
140. As a retired CPS worker, that's the part of the story I highly doubt. |
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NaturalHigh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 04:44 PM Response to Reply #140 |
141. When I was a teacher, I dealt with a lot of social workers. |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-02-10 01:04 AM Response to Reply #141 |
149. Neither do I believe that a social worker told her to do that. |
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shedevil69taz (222 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-30-10 11:45 PM Response to Original message |
122. Thanks for the story |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 11:17 AM Response to Original message |
129. That's so odd. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 12:10 PM Response to Original message |
133. Abusive alcoholic terrorizes family. |
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Meldread (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 06:42 PM Response to Original message |
143. Ugh. The only reason I'm posting here is for the children. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-01-10 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
147. move out. get a job. let hubby take care of the kids. kid service cannot |
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