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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-08-10 11:59 PM Original message |
Momless DUers: This is my first momless Mother's Day. How do you deal with it? |
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Vickers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:01 AM Response to Original message |
1. No advice, but my heart goes out to you. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:02 AM Response to Original message |
2. Try to stay busy. |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:08 AM Response to Reply #2 |
5. Good advice, I think I might go for a long drive and reminisce. |
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roguevalley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:55 AM Response to Reply #5 |
31. good idea. my parents left me ten months apart and I talk to them |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 01:09 AM Response to Reply #31 |
32. I like that very much. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 10:42 AM Response to Reply #31 |
44. Oh wow... |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:04 AM Response to Original message |
3. you thank your lucky stars you had a mother you miss |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:09 AM Response to Reply #3 |
7. I will do that. |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:06 AM Response to Original message |
4. my mom has been gone for a long time |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:15 AM Response to Reply #4 |
13. Yeah, my uncle (mom's little brother) is very close to me. That helps. |
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fortyfeetunder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:09 AM Response to Original message |
6. Honor the other mothers in your life |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:17 AM Response to Reply #6 |
15. Thanks. That's sound advice. n/t |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:11 AM Response to Original message |
8. You're allowed to talk to your mom anytime |
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gmoney (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:51 AM Response to Reply #8 |
30. Don't let a Hallmark-created holiday get you down. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:11 AM Response to Original message |
9. I'm not momless yet, but my heart goes out to you. |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:20 AM Response to Reply #9 |
16. I'm headed to her grave in about ten hours. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:36 AM Response to Reply #16 |
25. ((hugs)) |
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footinmouth (630 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:11 AM Response to Original message |
10. It's tough |
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scarletwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:13 AM Response to Original message |
11. My sisters & I, along with our dad, are going to the cemetary tomorrow to visit mom's grave. |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:28 AM Response to Reply #11 |
20. That's what we'll do, too. |
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Desertrose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 01:30 AM Response to Reply #11 |
39. This is my 9th Mother's Day without my Mom.... |
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Kelvin Mace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:15 AM Response to Original message |
12. I am 15 years out from my Mom's sudden death |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:43 AM Response to Reply #12 |
27. She supported the Paralyzed Veterans of America |
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stevebreeze (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:17 AM Response to Original message |
14. sorry if this sounds cynical, but the memory of your mother and |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:26 AM Response to Reply #14 |
19. I get what you're saying about card peddlers and florists. |
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jotsy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:21 AM Response to Original message |
17. I have thought about you so much in recent days, about today. |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:30 AM Response to Reply #17 |
21. That's really good advice and thanks for your kind words. |
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liberal_at_heart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:26 AM Response to Original message |
18. My mom died when I was 3 |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:35 AM Response to Reply #18 |
24. Aw, thanks |
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Digit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:33 AM Response to Original message |
22. delete |
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onehandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:33 AM Response to Original message |
23. My mom died two weeks ago today. |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:40 AM Response to Reply #23 |
26. I am so sorry. My mom died six weeks ago, and my dog last weekend. |
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onehandle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:43 AM Response to Reply #26 |
29. Thanks. |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 01:38 AM Response to Reply #23 |
41. I'm so sorry |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:06 PM Response to Reply #23 |
48. (((onehandle))) so sorry for your loss. It's a huge one, I know. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 04:18 PM Response to Reply #23 |
53. Hang in there. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:43 AM Response to Original message |
28. This is my second Mother's Day without my mom. I miss her |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 01:11 AM Response to Reply #28 |
34. Yeah, I just want to call her on the phone. |
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XOKCowboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 01:09 AM Response to Original message |
33. It's been 12 years for me.. |
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housewolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 01:14 AM Response to Original message |
35. I'm so sorry about your mom - and about your dog |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 01:24 AM Response to Reply #35 |
37. Thanks. |
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lostnfound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 01:22 AM Response to Original message |
36. The one thought that helped me |
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tavalon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 01:24 AM Response to Original message |
38. Perhaps some sort of ritual recognizing her |
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Liberty Belle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 01:36 AM Response to Original message |
40. Father's Day is tough for me since I lost my Dad. |
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Tuesday_Morning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 01:43 AM Response to Original message |
42. On days when I'm feeling emotional |
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Swamp Rat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 01:46 AM Response to Original message |
43. . |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 10:46 AM Response to Original message |
45. have a good cry, if need be. remember the love always. in our house |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
46. Do something that would make her proud |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:05 PM Response to Original message |
47. Hugs to you Steve and it's my first without my Mom too. She died last July and it's been |
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Whisp (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:12 PM Response to Original message |
49. be a mom to someone. pay it forward in the name of your Mother. |
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Skidmore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
50. My mother left us 15 years ago. She is still very much missed and loved. |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 12:25 PM Response to Original message |
51. We went out for a late breakfast and had enough calories for a week. |
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Berry Cool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 04:14 PM Response to Original message |
52. It's hard. Try to focus on other things. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
54. Today is 19th yr anniversary of mom's death. How I coped... |
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FarLeftRage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
55. It is tough for me... |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 06:19 PM Response to Original message |
56. I am truly sorry on both counts, |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-09-10 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
57. I visited and cleaned her grave stone today |
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