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Omaha Steve Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 03:34 PM
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Our youngest daughter just became a statistic of the times

Because of her divorce, she just had her home foreclosed on. We sold her the house 2 years ago. It has been in the family 35 years.

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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 03:35 PM
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1. oh no! Anyway you get get it back at a low price?
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Omaha Steve Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 03:38 PM
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3. Remains to be seen

She will be moving out over the next couple months.


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Motown_Johnny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 03:36 PM
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2. sounds like what my brother is going through.
Our parents bought the house in '64 and now he may lose it.
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 04:04 PM
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4. sad... :-(
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darkstar3 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 04:13 PM
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6. I'm confused.
If your parents bought the house in '64, wouldn't it have been paid off well before now?
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 04:22 PM
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8. Since wages haven't kept up with cost of living for 40 years
people have been refinancing their homes just to stay even.
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PassingFair Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 11:05 PM
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13. My mom just sold our family house in Detroit.
She got $18,000 for it and felt lucky.

My parents bought it in 71 for $21,000,
and my brother lived in it until '07,
when he moved to Mt. Clemens.

If he had moved out 5 years sooner, my
Mom could have sold the place for $100,000.

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Froward69 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 04:12 PM
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5. Damn that sucks.
Have you spent the money from the sale?
if not use it to settle the principal. Keep her in the house and do a Mortgage note between you and her.

In our family we sell each other property within the family. that is I bought "my" house from my father and he carried the "note". When I got divorced and couldn't make payments. I was never Foreclosed upon as He let me slide a bit till I could get the proper payment to him. (no bank ever involved and my credit rating never got a negative hit.)
once he passed away the "note" cleared as the deed was He and I in Joint tenancy.
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blueknight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 04:19 PM
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7. i hate to hear that steve,
hopefully things will work out for you guys
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Omaha Steve Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 04:34 PM
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9. We did that with her for 11 years before she bought it

At the time we thought they would have no trouble keeping it etc. We gifted them $10,000 for the down payment. Her soon to be X is a real piece of crap. She put him through college. He got a masters. Now he makes $10 hr as a teaching assistant. Lives with his parents. His is a dysfunctional family to say the least. He got nice check from his grandfathers estate. He won't use it to help them. He got a free lawyer, so she couldn't. Doesn't care about his son and how this effects him too.

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BlueKitteh Donating Member (26 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 05:32 PM
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10. Your family isn't alone
Try taking care of triplets whom are the product of 2 dumbells:( and one parent grew up with me the other is blood.
Some folks only love their reflection.
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MIprogressive1 Donating Member (80 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 06:50 PM
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11. sad times we live in..
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 10:59 PM
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12. very sorry.
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 11:23 PM
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14. I'm very sorry, OmahaSteve. Divorce shoves you into poverty
just about as fast and republican policies. Hugs to all of you.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-15-10 11:23 PM
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15. I'm sorry!
:(
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