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ck4829 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 01:33 AM
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George Alan Rekers's poster boy for "ex-gay therapy" now depressed and suicidal
In 1974, Rekers, a leading thinker in the so-called ex-gay movement, was presented with a 4-year-old "effeminate boy" named Kraig, whose parents had enrolled him in the program. Rekers put Kraig in a "play-observation room" with his mother, who was equipped with a listening device. When the boy played with girly toys, the doctors instructed her to avert her eyes from the child.

According to a 2001 account in Brain, Child Magazine, "On one such occasion, his distress was such that he began to scream, but his mother just looked away. His anxiety increased, and he did whatever he could to get her to respond to him... Kraig became so hysterical, and his mother so uncomfortable, that one of the clinicians had to enter and take Kraig, screaming, from the room."

Rekers's research team continued the experiment in the family's home. Kraig received red chips for feminine behavior and blue chips for masculine behavior. The blue chips could be cashed in for candy or television time. The red chips earned him a "swat" or spanking from his father. Researchers periodically entered the family's home to ensure proper implementation of the reward-punishment system.

After two years, the boy supposedly manned up. Over the decades, Rekers, who ran countless similar experiments, held Kraig up as "the poster boy for behavioral treatment of boyhood effeminacy."

In reality, though, at age 18, shamed by his childhood diagnosis and treatment, Rekers's poster boy attempted suicide, according to Gender Shock, a book by journalist Phyllis Burke.

http://www.towleroad.com/2010/05/paper-george-rentboy-rekers-once-tried-to-spank-the-gay-out-of-effeminate-boys.html

Just plain sickening.
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provis99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 01:43 AM
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1. how come in his pictures, Rekers looks very effeminate?
More conservative projectionism, I'll bet. Rekers must have some effeminate attitudes and behaviors of his own he hasn't worked out.
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Toucano Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 01:58 AM
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3. He's a total mess. Where does one even begin? n/t
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Javaman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 10:31 AM
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13. I guess he didn't get enough blue chips. nt
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Hekate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 01:46 AM
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2. I would never do that to a child of mine. Never.
:cry:
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Toucano Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 02:00 AM
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4. Irony alert: The linked site has an ad:
"Shop Like a Man. Dress Like A Man."

Coincidence? I think not!
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Shallah Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 02:16 AM
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5. article w/more on the spank away the gay program - Feminine Boy Project
http://www.sbpress.com/2010/03/feminine-boy-project/

hough Stony Brook denies it, this campus was involved in a government-funded brainwashing project to keep children from “acting queer” for two decades. Some people involved still work on campus, and the Feminine Boy Project laid groundwork for current psychiatric abuses against transgender and gender-nonconforming people.

This project was funded by the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) from 1972 to1986. The original stated goal on the grants was “treatment of pre-homosexuality”–the, idea that if children were kept from stepping outside gender stereotypes, they wouldn’t turn out gay. When being gay was taken out of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) in 1973, the goal was changed to “treatment of pretranssexuality,” conflating gender identity and sexuality as the same, based in biased assumptions that anything other than stereotypical gender identities and heterosexuality were wrong. Children were declared “pathological” for behavior like boys playing with dolls, wearing dresses or helping in the kitchen, or girls climbing trees, playing with boys’ toys or wearing boy clothes.

This was collaboration between anti-LGBTI (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Intersex) members of the psychiatric establishment and the “religious right.”

Richard Green is a colleague of John Money. Money instituted the “Money protocols” for nonconsensual surgeries on intersex children after forcing David Reimer to live as a girl (until Reimer changed back to male before killing himself). During the “experiment” Green co-wrote the book Transsexualism and Sex Reassignment. Green has made a career of pathologizing LGBTI people. This has included making inflammatory comments like his 1995 Dateline remark “plays with Barbies at five, sleeps with men at twenty-five.” While head of the now closed Human Sexuality branch of Stony Brook’s Psychology Department he got NIMH to approve nearly $1 million for the project.

George Rekers belongs to several anti-gay fundamentalist groups, published his essay “Gender Identity Disorder” through the notoriously anti-gay Family Research Council and is “scientific advisor” to National Association for the Research and Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH), which claims to “cure” gays despite the American Psychiatric Association (APA) condemning “reparative therapy.”



Drop the Barbie!
If You Bend Gender Far Enough, Does It Break?
http://www.brainchildmag.com/essays/fall2001_wilkinson.htm

After three years of research and writing, Burke's Gender Shock: Exploding the Myths of Male and Female was published in 1996. It quickly became the focal point of a gender storm. In the book, Burke traces the genesis of the GID designation and treatments back to the 1950s. In the 1970s, a psychologist at UCLA named George Rekers opened a clinic for children. He got hundreds of thousands of dollars to fund his studies, finding children (often through newspaper ads) and testing treatments on them.

All the precision of science was applied in developing these tests to measure such things as how far the hips swayed as the child walked across the room.

The tests--many still used today--strike Burke as Orwellian. In one, a child being tested is asked to draw the figure of a person. Girls who draw boys first, predominately, or in positions of power and strength, are suspect, as are boys who draw princesses or mommies. The Barlow Gender-Specific Motor Behavior test examines such things as how far from the back of a chair a seated child's buttocks are--farther is "masculine," closer is "feminine." All the precision of science was applied in developing these tests to measure such things as the angle between the wrist and the hand, how often a child touched his or her hands together in front of his or her body, and how far the hips swayed as the child walked across the room. Especially damning for boys was a lack of hand-eye coordination.

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Kraig's treatment continued in this vein. He was also put on the "token system" at home. Inappropriate, feminine behaviors earned him a red token, masculine ones, a blue token. Each red token earned him a spanking from his father. After more than two years of treatment, Kraig's behavior had turned around. He was now described by his mother as a "rough neck," and he no longer cared if his hair was neat or his clothes matched. But when he was eighteen, after years of being held up (under a pseudonym) by Rekers as "the poster boy for behavioral treatment of boyhood effeminacy," Kraig attempted suicide, because he thought that he might be gay.

Five years after publication, Gender Shock is out of print, yet it still serves as a touchpoint for the anti-GID activists. Burke remains concerned that this "shocking pocket of psychiatric practice" is still thriving. "The government is still subsidizing this," she says. "Since the 1970s, more than $1.5 million has been awarded from the National Institutes of Mental Health for the study of children who don't meet the gender norms. George Rekers--the same man who declared Susan Smith sane, by the way--still believes that girls who don't wear dresses are disturbed. These clinics have a vested interest in finding these children and 'treating' them--it's their livelihood. There are still cases of teenagers being hospitalized against their will for GID."
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 02:30 AM
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6. Depressed and suicidal...
Wow, the birds have come home to roost. I wonder how many other people his 'therapy' has left feeling that way?
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Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 02:49 AM
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7. Red pill or blue, you are screwed if your guardian is insane and
allowed to torture you. I'm sure Dick Cheney and Rummy love this kind of shit when they torture people.
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ejpoeta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 06:11 AM
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8. how can a a4 year old be effeminate? at that age the boy and girl are basically the SAME.
did he play with dolls or something? give me a damned break! what is masculine and feminine behavior? who gets to decide. what a load of crap. i know my brother has a son and he would have wigged out if jake was playing with dolls or anything like that. personally, i don't care if my kids were gay or wanted tobe an actor. I will support them and accept them for who they are. As a parent it is not my job to determine what my kids should want to be.... it is my job to help them achieve their goals and to have self esteem enough to be happy with who they are and not get their good feelings about themselves from others. I am pretty sure that playing with dolls or doing 'girly' things means anyone is gay btw. just because the tv box seems to only be ok with showing flamers who are so extremely gay on the tv doesn't mean that that is the only kind of gay person there is. You have people who spend so much of their lives trying to be what others tell them they should be and fighting their own selves.... no wonder they would be depressed or suicidal. they think there is something WRONG with them. that's true for any kid whose parents are trying to micromanage their lives.
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David__77 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 06:31 AM
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9. I'm gay and I've never been a fan of the biodeterminist attitude, BUT...
if you look at pictures of me at age 4, it kinda screams "GAY!" I must confess... That's just me though. But it's the same with my boyfriend and a lot of my gay friends. I wouldn't say any of us were "girly" or "feminine," it's something else entirely from biological sex.
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ejpoeta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 06:49 AM
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10. i think this group seems to be under the impression that it's a nature/nurture issue.
like if given the proper praise/punishment for something perceived as masculine they can get someone to be normal. but what is normal. kids don't determine something as girly or for boys except what they are told by society. like i was given lots of dolls and tea sets as a kid while my brother got toy cars and video games. I didn't want the barbie dolls. I wanted the stuff my brother got, but looking back it seemed as though I was being socially engineered. I cut off the barbie dolls hair and gave them black eyes with pen. i would go play with my brothers cars when he wasn't looking. would that make me gay? because i am not. and i have watched my nephews play with barbie dolls AND cars.... they don't act any particular way... they just act like kids. who determines what is normal or acceptable for a kid? at 4 one would think focus would be on education and making a kid like to learn. like reading to them. i have a 4 year old daughter and my focus is on making reading fun and encouraging a love of learning. i have never thought about anything in regards to sexual orientation for a 4 year old. or an 11 year old which i have one of also. granted, again, these are girls. is there some different litmus for a girl and a boy? is it just boys they focus on with this crap? Personally i would think it child abuse to even think of a 4 year old in terms of gay or straight as they really have no sexuality at that age. if you can look back at pictures and see 'gay' in retrospect, that's different than a 4 year old knowing they are 'gay' or having any understanding of what that could be.
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LeftinOH Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 07:26 AM
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11. There is no such thing as an 'effeminate' four-year old boy. What awful parents. n/t
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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 09:15 AM
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12. This sort of thing only prospers in a culture of intolerance
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KittyWampus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-18-10 10:33 AM
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14. My heart goes out to anyone caught in this black web.
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