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Tales from the Frontlines: Why Are My Accomplishments Less Important than My Face?
From reader Julie, who lives in Japan (!):
As a kid I didn’t understand that just wanting to be treated decently made me a feminist. I thought it was normal to expect equality and to ask for fair treatment. I was probably a teen before I realized that I had been a feminist all along… I also know I get reminded of WHY I am a feminist every day.
When I do just as well or better than my male coworkers, partners, friends, or what have you, I watch the compliments and congratulations they get. He’s a hard worker. He did a good job. He is a great leader. He shows promise. Then it is my turn.
“She’s the prettiest girl/teacher/worker/student/employee we’ve ever had!”
Not once in all my life have I heard anyone praising a male coworker, fellow student, group member, et cetera, by praising his looks. Sure, I am happy you think I am pretty. I work hard to stay in shape and to look nice. I do. But, I also work hard to be the best damn employee/student/friend you have ever had, too. And I KNOW I am performing just as well if not better than the men sitting around me, being told how clever/hard working/productive they are.
What I want to know is, what about the girls who aren’t “pretty”? What are these jerks complimenting those women on? Making a good pot of coffee? Or are they just totally invisible?
http://equalitymyth.com/post/641306162/tales-from-the-frontlines-why-are-my-accomplishments