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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:38 PM Original message |
Poll question: As A Woman Have You Ever Been..... |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
1. yes, yes, and yes. Can you add "other or combination" choice? thanks. |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:40 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. done |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:41 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. thanks. voted "other" should have been "all of the above" |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:40 PM Response to Original message |
3. Where's the "all of the above" option |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:41 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. done |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:41 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. it has been added |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:42 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. I chose the "combination" choice |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
5. I was thinking about starting this myself, but didn't want it to fall apart the way the other one |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:42 PM Response to Reply #5 |
10. the first option |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:44 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. Yes, and that's what I voted. |
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Luciferous (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
8. All of the above nt. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:43 PM Response to Original message |
11. I recced and it's up to zero. funny |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:47 PM Response to Reply #11 |
17. lol really I'm not surprised |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:48 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. +15 now |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:22 PM Response to Reply #17 |
126. Yep. There's a small army of extremely hateful misogynists on DU |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:57 PM Response to Reply #11 |
23. what could be the possible motivation to 'unrec" something like this? |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 04:31 PM Response to Reply #23 |
31. meh, there are assholes everywhere. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:22 PM Response to Reply #31 |
128. or much worse. nt |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:36 PM Response to Reply #23 |
235. probably the usual misogynists. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
13. oooo, how about "none", just because perhaps some haven't |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:49 PM Response to Reply #13 |
20. done |
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yewberry (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
14. Two out of three. |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 04:12 PM Response to Reply #14 |
28. Thanks for the earworm... |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:47 PM Response to Original message |
15. 1 & 2 but managed to fight off the date rape==but it was the struggle of a lifetime. nt |
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tabatha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:47 PM Response to Original message |
16. There is also non-sexual gender initimdation. |
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BlancheSplanchnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 11:54 PM Response to Reply #16 |
161. Gender discrimination could be another poll in itself. |
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petersjo02 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:48 PM Response to Original message |
18. Nothing on the poll quite applies: |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:50 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. That's harassment at the very least, I'd say. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 03:56 PM Response to Reply #18 |
22. That is harassment. So was the young man who blocked me from passing as a pre-teen, kept grabbing my |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:18 PM Response to Reply #22 |
287. Some guy I went to high school with did that to me. |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 08:18 PM Response to Reply #18 |
112. OMG! |
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verdalaven (495 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 08:49 PM Response to Reply #18 |
120. Almost same age.... |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:38 PM Response to Reply #120 |
237. That is sick! |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:27 PM Response to Reply #18 |
131. That is harassment, and attempted statutory rape. |
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Danascot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 08:13 AM Response to Reply #18 |
189. You wonder what he told his wife so she wouldn't call? |
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otohara (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 09:33 AM Response to Reply #18 |
196. I Had Similar Experience |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:41 AM Response to Reply #18 |
221. I realize this was probably quite some time ago.... |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:30 PM Response to Reply #18 |
231. I am So very glad that never escalated into anything more. |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 04:04 PM Response to Original message |
24. Sadly we've had these kinds of polls here before |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:02 PM Response to Reply #24 |
42. I'm wondering when a certain poster who considers |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:18 PM Response to Reply #42 |
87. Haha, I'm one of those guys. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:40 PM Response to Reply #87 |
96. ooooh. we had a discussion on this, didnt we.... vaguely remembering... nt |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:47 PM Response to Reply #96 |
100. Haha |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 08:17 PM Response to Reply #100 |
111. ha ha |
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liberalhistorian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 10:42 PM Response to Reply #87 |
155. You don't agree with having to financially support your own |
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Chulanowa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:50 AM Response to Reply #155 |
180. "Fair" rarely figures into these cases |
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tourivers83 (177 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 01:28 PM Response to Reply #180 |
408. A lot of good points. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 01:57 PM Response to Reply #408 |
410. the other question could be, why are so many other woman not into bad boys? nt |
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tourivers83 (177 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 04:07 PM Response to Reply #410 |
414. Spike was a Bad Boy relationship for Buffy. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 04:46 PM Response to Reply #414 |
415. ok with spike and buffy. lol. i dont buy the women love deeper and harder.... |
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tourivers83 (177 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 05:10 PM Response to Reply #415 |
416. You never know what's going to happen. |
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cleanhippie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:07 PM Response to Reply #155 |
223. Wow, you sure got a lot more from his posts than I did! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:15 PM Response to Reply #223 |
227. she asked questions. specific question per his statement on that post. valid questions to what he |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 03:08 AM Response to Reply #227 |
378. Thanks seabeyond, no worries. |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 03:07 AM Response to Reply #155 |
377. Nah, I think that parental roles are bullshit. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:40 PM Response to Reply #87 |
239. Don't want to pay? Keep it in your pants (or use a condom). |
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AtheistCrusader (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:29 PM Response to Reply #239 |
275. What about a deadbeat ordered to get a second job |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:36 PM Response to Reply #275 |
277. I am sure those few situations are the exception, NOT the rule. |
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SkyDaddy7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:39 PM Response to Reply #239 |
297. As long as you admit it is way street, I agree! |
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Skelly (136 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:53 AM Response to Reply #42 |
212. I wouldn't be surprised |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:44 PM Response to Reply #212 |
242. Chivalry is dead, it seems |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:14 PM Response to Reply #242 |
250. actually odin, that is a very good point. the crude crap that in the past was considered crude crap |
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Skelly (136 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:42 PM Response to Reply #242 |
259. It is not about a specific generation |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:09 PM Response to Reply #259 |
268. in the past we had a consensus of such on appropriate behavior and was reinforced |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:24 PM Response to Reply #42 |
327. Why do you think that child support is relevant to this thread? n/t |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 04:07 PM Response to Original message |
25. If a stranger deliberately rubbing against your back in a packed subway car is sexual assault, yes. |
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Cherchez la Femme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:56 PM Response to Reply #25 |
263. Frottage, Sweet Frottage! |
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Sherman A1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 04:08 PM Response to Original message |
26. As a male in his mid 50's |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 04:11 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. what is that phrase? |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 04:33 PM Response to Reply #27 |
32. 2nd |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 04:50 PM Response to Reply #27 |
33. I'm betting "Like your teeth?" |
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Sherman A1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:38 PM Response to Reply #27 |
94. It's pretty simple |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:07 AM Response to Reply #94 |
182. love it! |
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Sherman A1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:01 PM Response to Reply #182 |
283. My pleasure and I have to say that thus far |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:20 PM Response to Reply #283 |
289. really, instead of setting men apart, the nature of things, men are going to look |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:06 PM Response to Reply #94 |
320. I like your method of action fighting discrimination. |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 04:16 PM Response to Original message |
29. All of the above |
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me b zola (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 10:15 PM Response to Reply #29 |
152. That is an interesting observation... |
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CoffeeCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:52 AM Response to Reply #29 |
184. Yep, me too... |
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libmom74 (577 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:53 PM Response to Reply #184 |
280. that is interesting |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:55 AM Response to Reply #29 |
185. ITA--that's one of the benefits of getting old. |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
30. interesting that only one woman has voted none of the above. |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 04:54 PM Response to Reply #30 |
34. What's disturbing is that 30% of respondants have been raped. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 04:56 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. Date rape will account for a chunk of that response |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:15 PM Response to Reply #34 |
44. I'm not surprised by it |
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Raschel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:23 AM Response to Reply #44 |
213. I'm not surprised. And I think there would be more if you could check more than one category. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:47 PM Response to Reply #34 |
56. this is what we were saying josh. this is why it is so hard |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:02 PM Response to Reply #56 |
79. How do you know nothing will happen until you take action? |
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Cherchez la Femme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:47 PM Response to Reply #79 |
278. Ya know: Data. Facts. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:31 PM Response to Reply #34 |
132. I'm not surprised by it at all. |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:39 PM Response to Reply #132 |
135. +1. When stats on rape are taken from law enforcement the percentage looks small |
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comtec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:40 PM Response to Reply #135 |
332. Depends on what a conservative woman considers rape or harassment |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 07:15 PM Response to Reply #332 |
339. you are probably right on..... in more ways than you have suggested in this post. nt |
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Prophet 451 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:55 AM Response to Reply #34 |
177. Not representative |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:37 AM Response to Reply #177 |
211. I'd say 35-45% |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:36 AM Response to Reply #211 |
217. 4 women, two really girls. asked if raped. 4 rapes of two of the females. |
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Prophet 451 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:59 PM Response to Reply #211 |
362. Interesting |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:43 AM Response to Reply #34 |
222. I agree...that is indeed a horror... |
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Cherchez la Femme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:04 PM Response to Reply #34 |
266. I'm having difficulty reconciling this response |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:41 PM Response to Reply #30 |
52. i will clearly say, it is far from all men. absolutely. i know a lot of good men. but too many |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:34 AM Response to Reply #30 |
209. That's one of the reasons that I started working from home |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
35. What is your distinction between sexually assaulted and raped? |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:16 PM Response to Reply #35 |
45. sexual assault |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:22 PM Response to Reply #45 |
48. Thanks. |
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MoonRiver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
36. I've been sexually harassed on the streets and at work sites. |
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awoke_in_2003 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
38. as a man... |
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Parker CA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:05 PM Response to Reply #38 |
43. I'll second that. Disturbing results, but they need to be seen. K&R |
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stevenleser (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:48 PM Response to Reply #43 |
102. Yes, horrifying, K&R |
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Taitertots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
39. What percentage pursued legal actions against them? |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:20 PM Response to Reply #39 |
46. that's a good idea. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:43 PM Response to Reply #46 |
55. no rape, one rape, more than one.... legal action? nt |
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Crystal Clarity (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:35 PM Response to Reply #46 |
93. Also perhaps one for those who did not pursue legal action? |
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Madam Mossfern (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:43 PM Response to Reply #93 |
97. No legal action |
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Blue_In_AK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:30 PM Response to Reply #39 |
50. Not an option for date rape or workplace harassment |
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Mojorabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 08:33 PM Response to Reply #50 |
116. Or 70's. nt |
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comtec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:43 PM Response to Reply #116 |
333. or 80's from what i've heard (nt) |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:27 PM Response to Reply #50 |
130. Or today, depending on what part of the country you live in and who you work |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:42 PM Response to Reply #39 |
53. The thread that I started was strictly about street harassment -- a one-off catcall that in most |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:43 PM Response to Reply #39 |
54. absolutely. i am seeing about 30% raped so far. how many reported. good question. nt |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:52 PM Response to Reply #39 |
60. Excellent idea |
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Karia (145 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:31 PM Response to Reply #60 |
232. Yes, thank goodness for laws and awareness |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:35 PM Response to Reply #232 |
234. "You can't thread a moving needle." |
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barbtries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:53 PM Response to Reply #234 |
246. it means |
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Karia (145 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:07 PM Response to Reply #246 |
249. Yes, an old saying |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:17 PM Response to Reply #249 |
252. wow. wow. i had no idea. oh boy. what i learn on du that will follow me everywhere. |
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comtec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:49 PM Response to Reply #249 |
335. I've got one worse for you (sadly) |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 07:17 PM Response to Reply #335 |
340. wow. i really am amazed at the stories i hear. eye opener for me too |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:16 PM Response to Reply #246 |
251. ahhhhhhhhhm. ahmmmmmm. gasp. no fuckin way. fucker. |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:32 PM Response to Reply #232 |
258. We must be approximately the same age (I'm 48) |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:43 PM Response to Reply #39 |
72. Why would you ask? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:45 PM Response to Reply #72 |
73. i think it is more the silence of women/girls take it and move on. that type point. one huge reaso |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:48 PM Response to Reply #73 |
75. I would actually like the guy who asked the question to answer it |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:50 PM Response to Reply #75 |
77. i hear ya... certainly. nt |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:03 PM Response to Reply #75 |
80. Oh ... You know your interpretation is likely correct |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:27 PM Response to Reply #75 |
92. Nah, the poster defends the justice system (in the bad cop threads). |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:24 PM Response to Reply #73 |
90. That may have been true 30-40 years ago but these days the courts take sexual allegations seriously. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:27 PM Response to Reply #90 |
91. not true. josh. it isnt true. all the rapes in army, ignored. rape is the lowest prosecuted |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:39 PM Response to Reply #91 |
95. Rape is down by 85% since the 80s, and it appears that in cases where alcohol... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:44 PM Response to Reply #95 |
98. that 85% is challenged too. the way the info is gathered. fbi says 30-70% |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:46 PM Response to Reply #98 |
99. Here was the source: |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:50 PM Response to Reply #98 |
104. HOLY SIHT AT CANADA'S RAPE STATISTICS! WTF is wrong with US/CAN? |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:36 PM Response to Reply #104 |
134. Canadians are more willing to report it |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 10:02 PM Response to Reply #134 |
147. u.s. numbers have a number of problems. reporting is one. sending stats to fbi is voluntary, fbi |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:02 PM Response to Reply #95 |
248. but the thing is men often choose women who are inebriated because they know they're easy marks |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 02:47 AM Response to Reply #248 |
372. Oh, I believe it. My brothers way into a girls pants? "Vodka." |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 10:37 AM Response to Reply #372 |
384. Im trying to explain it fucks up the stats good. plenty of us have a few drinks on our own and |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 11:57 PM Response to Reply #90 |
163. I suspect that the rate that most women are sexually intimidated at a young age contributes. |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:47 PM Response to Reply #163 |
244. The major betrayal on child sexual abuse came from Freud . . . |
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shanti2 (40 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 07:23 AM Response to Reply #90 |
187. Oh please... |
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eilen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:05 AM Response to Reply #187 |
198. The worst of sexual harassment and |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:43 PM Response to Reply #90 |
241. Rather, it looks like it's easy to rape a female and get away with it . . . |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:51 PM Response to Reply #241 |
245. The fucker that raped my friend got off with a sexual harassment conviction. |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 07:29 PM Response to Reply #245 |
346. Was this a prison rape? |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 07:44 PM Response to Reply #346 |
348. Why would you ask that? |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 08:25 PM Response to Reply #346 |
350. WTF? NO! |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:36 PM Response to Reply #350 |
367. You do realize my post which you responded to .... |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 02:51 AM Response to Reply #241 |
373. That's quite fair enough, I hadn't considered prison rape. |
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Taitertots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 08:50 PM Response to Reply #72 |
121. It would be interesting to see whether rape is under reported, or under enforced |
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comtec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:56 PM Response to Reply #121 |
337. The answer to that is YES! sadly... and I don't even need to look that up (nt) |
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kimi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 04:38 PM Response to Reply #39 |
307. I'll tell you what, for me it wasn't an option anyway to report |
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Control-Z (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
40. Can you direct me to the threads |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:01 PM Response to Reply #40 |
41. This one had a lot to do with it, I suspect |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:21 PM Response to Reply #41 |
47. correct |
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MerryBlooms (940 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:27 PM Response to Original message |
49. Sexually harassed in school, jobs, street, bars, restaurants, etc ... |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:35 PM Response to Original message |
51. I selected "Other" |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:49 PM Response to Reply #51 |
58. there are (imho) more nice guys than not. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:47 PM Response to Reply #58 |
74. whereas i always had good male bosses that never stepped over the line and were good mentors |
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Madam Mossfern (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:47 PM Response to Original message |
57. Oops |
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shireen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:23 PM Response to Reply #57 |
129. hugs to you ... |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 05:49 PM Response to Original message |
59. K&R |
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OnionPatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:01 PM Response to Original message |
61. Never raped but came close on two occasions. |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:09 PM Response to Reply #61 |
64. exactly. |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:06 PM Response to Reply #64 |
82. I don't believe the "none of the above" answers. I've never met a woman who hasn't |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:43 PM Response to Reply #82 |
138. +1. nt |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 10:54 AM Response to Reply #138 |
386. have any of you guys seen a woman actually post that she's had none of these experiences? I haven't |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:05 PM Response to Original message |
62. One of those people with a bullseye on her... |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:35 PM Response to Reply #62 |
68. ... |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 08:37 PM Response to Reply #68 |
118. Ain't it the truth? |
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FarLeftRage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:08 PM Response to Original message |
63. K & R... |
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lapislzi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:09 PM Response to Original message |
65. I was drunk |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:19 PM Response to Reply #65 |
66. "date rape" |
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Bette Noir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 11:33 PM Response to Reply #66 |
158. A friend's sister, 19 yo, was murdered when she tried to fight back against |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:55 PM Response to Reply #66 |
247. Yup. Most rapes are some kind of "date rape" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:20 PM Response to Reply #247 |
253. yup. and this is the huge issue i think en need to know. i think many dont want to hear it. |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:24 PM Response to Original message |
67. this is a sad poll. |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:35 PM Response to Original message |
69. the numbers seem high to me |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:41 PM Response to Reply #69 |
71. I think that 70% of men will say "none of the above"> |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:11 PM Response to Reply #71 |
84. I'd say 95% |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 04:06 PM Response to Reply #71 |
301. I'd be "All of the above" but I'm rather glad to be the rare male there. |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:50 PM Response to Reply #69 |
76. this does happen on a daily basis though |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:16 PM Response to Reply #76 |
85. Absolutely, but rapes shouldn't be so high in a civilized world. |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 08:16 PM Response to Reply #85 |
109. wrong spot |
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wellstone dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:56 PM Response to Reply #69 |
78. On the otherhand, it might be low |
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Curmudgeoness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:05 PM Response to Reply #69 |
81. One event in a long life....no big deal....just get over it.... |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:10 PM Response to Reply #81 |
83. I was offended by that statement as well. Some men don't realize what |
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Curmudgeoness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:21 PM Response to Reply #83 |
89. Men often think that we are too sensitive and take offense |
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eyeofdelphi (110 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:27 PM Response to Reply #83 |
274. i agree |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:49 PM Response to Reply #81 |
103. see post 101 |
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verdalaven (495 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:08 PM Response to Reply #81 |
123. Thank you for your response. |
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MerryBlooms (940 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:16 PM Response to Reply #69 |
86. You've experienced this sort of abuse |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:47 PM Response to Reply #86 |
101. one traumatic event can |
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MerryBlooms (940 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:59 PM Response to Reply #101 |
107. I'm sad for your experiences |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:22 AM Response to Reply #107 |
170. My SO had a woman sexually harassing him at work for a few months. |
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knightmaar (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:23 AM Response to Reply #170 |
207. re: elementary school |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:22 PM Response to Reply #207 |
229. Her reaction when you turned the tables is interesting. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:26 PM Response to Reply #229 |
230. my youngest, 4 yr old preschool..... girl kissed him. he was PISSED |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:23 PM Response to Reply #101 |
256. Sexual harrassment is like a hate crime. It's not the one event, it's the structure behind it. |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:22 PM Response to Reply #256 |
272. OMG - this really should be a post all on its own - everyone should read it |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 05:52 PM Response to Reply #272 |
313. Thanks. If I made it a post of its own, it would sink like the Titanic, I'm afraid. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 05:55 PM Response to Reply #313 |
314. i liked it. and appreciated the post. nt |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:02 PM Response to Reply #313 |
316. You are too modest |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:14 PM Response to Reply #316 |
324. i always like your posts. and so informative |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:36 PM Response to Reply #324 |
331. Aw, thanks |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 07:20 PM Response to Reply #331 |
342. lol |
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Curmudgeoness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 07:17 PM Response to Reply #256 |
341. Wow, that was intense. And right on the money. You know |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 03:39 AM Response to Reply #256 |
379. Exactly, |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 11:58 PM Response to Reply #69 |
164. You're reciting an episode from when you were 10 or 11 and then turning |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:09 AM Response to Reply #69 |
166. One incident of a kid exploding in front of your face. Why do you have PTSD? |
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FedUpWithIt All (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 06:39 PM Response to Original message |
70. At least two of the above. Still trying to come to terms with a potential third. n/t |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:19 PM Response to Original message |
88. Sexually harassed and sexually assaulted (no rape) |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:51 PM Response to Original message |
105. Sexually harassed more times than I can count. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:44 PM Response to Reply #105 |
139. I think you made a HUGE point that deserves boosting. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 10:05 PM Response to Reply #139 |
148. i had two nieces and a friend with me and asked them, who has been raped. 4 women. 3 rapes |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 10:06 PM Response to Reply #139 |
149. and stalking is not even on the list. i have had two stalkers. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 10:30 PM Response to Reply #149 |
153. OH shit stalking, that's a whole other issue. |
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aquart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:29 AM Response to Reply #149 |
215. Gave up a rent-controlled apt. in Brooklyn |
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iris27 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:08 PM Response to Reply #149 |
363. "kinda friends that wanted more"...yeah those were my stalkers, too. |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 07:53 PM Response to Original message |
106. Attempted rape by a guy who very possibly had harassed me on the street |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 08:21 PM Response to Reply #106 |
113. Holy crap! |
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glitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 08:13 PM Response to Original message |
108. All the votes above 'all of the above' should be added to 'all of the above' IMO |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 08:16 PM Response to Original message |
110. The poll results are scary. |
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Freetradesucks (313 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 08:24 PM Response to Original message |
114. Interesting.... |
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Mojorabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 08:45 PM Response to Reply #114 |
119. Perhaps it is easier |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:05 PM Response to Reply #114 |
122. different statistics but it is 1 in 4 or 1 in 6 women raped. 1 in 3 raped in army and college. nt |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:46 PM Response to Reply #114 |
140. Where does that 4% stat come from? |
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Freetradesucks (313 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:13 AM Response to Reply #140 |
200. Whoops my bad. I just went back and looked at the stat |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 09:52 PM Response to Reply #200 |
354. Yeah, that's a VERY dramatic difference. |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:25 AM Response to Reply #114 |
171. Well where do you get that statistic from? |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 08:12 AM Response to Reply #114 |
188. I'm sure there are many |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:19 AM Response to Reply #114 |
205. The stats I've seen say 35% |
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Raine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 08:28 PM Response to Original message |
115. other, sort of ... |
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IMATB (158 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
117. shocking |
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undergroundpanther (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:10 PM Response to Original message |
124. wrong voted... |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
125. K&R |
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femrap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:22 PM Response to Original message |
127. I finally got a gun |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:32 PM Response to Original message |
133. I'd love to hear from the ten women(?) who voted "none of the above" |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:41 PM Response to Reply #133 |
136. me too --- |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 10:07 PM Response to Reply #136 |
150. amish? nt |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 10:11 PM Response to Reply #150 |
151. Do the Amish even have computers? |
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Lorien (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:16 AM Response to Reply #151 |
202. I think that those ten probably have testicles |
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Cherchez la Femme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 05:56 PM Response to Reply #150 |
315. I was just reading an article yesterday |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 11:59 AM Response to Reply #315 |
388. yes, That is what I remembered.. Thanks for posting this. n/t |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 06:46 PM Response to Reply #150 |
391. sexual assault, especially incest, is an epidemic in Amish communities |
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Kat45 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:42 PM Response to Original message |
137. Not sure what to answer. What category is this in? |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:52 PM Response to Reply #137 |
142. if there is physical contact then it's assault |
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rosesaylavee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:55 PM Response to Reply #137 |
144. Yes. That was assault. |
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Kat45 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:57 PM Response to Reply #144 |
146. Thank you to you and Maine-ah |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 06:47 PM Response to Reply #137 |
392. Yes, that sure as hell is assault |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:49 PM Response to Original message |
141. Harassed and assaulted, both. |
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rosesaylavee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:53 PM Response to Original message |
143. At work |
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me b zola (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 09:56 PM Response to Original message |
145. Yes. n/t |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 10:37 PM Response to Original message |
154. Everything but rape |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 11:09 PM Response to Original message |
156. K&R |
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Nay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 11:09 PM Response to Original message |
157. Combination:sexually harassed and sexually attacked. |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:50 AM Response to Reply #157 |
176. Workplace assaults! You reminded that my first waitress job when I was 15 I was assaulted |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 11:44 PM Response to Original message |
159. I listed just harassment, but it's also assault ...not rape ... |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:36 PM Response to Reply #159 |
236. ... which actually is another point re how many women are killed by their partners ...!!! |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 02:37 AM Response to Reply #159 |
371. Another K&R -- |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 11:46 PM Response to Original message |
160. And -- thanks for asking -- !! |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Sep-04-10 11:56 PM Response to Original message |
162. well |
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BlancheSplanchnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:00 AM Response to Original message |
165. Brilliant thread. |
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Angry Dragon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:48 AM Response to Original message |
167. This is a very sad poll |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:12 AM Response to Reply #167 |
169. thank you for recognizing it is a sad poll |
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jennied (547 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:02 AM Response to Original message |
168. sexually harassed (school, work, bar, on the street) - More than I can count... |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:27 AM Response to Original message |
172. The only female I've ever met who hasn't been sexually assaulted is my partner. |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:39 AM Response to Reply #172 |
173. , |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:40 AM Response to Original message |
174. I recently found out that a "friend" is a rapist and has raped two people I know. |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:47 AM Response to Original message |
175. I was assaulted by and almost gang-raped by about 20 men. |
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Cherchez la Femme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:04 PM Response to Reply #175 |
317. OMG! |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 06:49 PM Response to Reply #175 |
393. Jesus Christ |
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clyrc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:09 AM Response to Original message |
178. I voted for sexual assault, since it happened to me twice, |
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snot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:23 AM Response to Original message |
179. Pls post this and variants thereof often . . . |
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Anakin Skywalker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 04:01 AM Response to Reply #179 |
181. I can't wait to hear the response to this..... |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 08:19 AM Response to Reply #181 |
190. have you ever been a female walking alone at night? |
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Cherchez la Femme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:07 PM Response to Reply #190 |
321. And Florida, at least, |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 09:14 AM Response to Reply #181 |
193. sigh. why would you have a problem with it? |
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eilen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:24 AM Response to Reply #181 |
208. Another Hot Tip |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 08:25 PM Response to Reply #181 |
349. Yes. Having been raped, having friends who have been raped, the fear stays with you |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 08:27 PM Response to Reply #181 |
351. go to this reply as it is put well... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 09:09 PM Response to Reply #351 |
353. Anakin Skywalker needs to read 254. to see how two men look at this so totally different. |
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snot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:40 PM Response to Reply #181 |
361. Absolutely serious. |
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iris27 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:29 PM Response to Reply #181 |
365. Yes. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 06:51 PM Response to Reply #181 |
394. Yes, she is serious, and you need to fucking do that |
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Hell Hath No Fury (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 05:40 PM Response to Reply #181 |
418. I would love it -- |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:51 AM Response to Original message |
183. All of the above. nt |
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madokie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 07:02 AM Response to Original message |
186. I'm happy to report as a male I haven't done any of those things to a woman, |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 09:16 AM Response to Reply #186 |
194. ah, thank you. and you know |
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Xenotime (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 08:26 AM Response to Original message |
191. This poll just shows.. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 09:19 AM Response to Reply #191 |
195. we have had a good strong decade of male dominance between repugs |
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CoffeeCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:31 PM Response to Reply #191 |
233. but sex crimes against a person... |
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The Backlash Cometh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 08:51 AM Response to Original message |
192. I got felt up by an airport security guard. |
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brewens (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 09:38 AM Response to Original message |
197. I worked with a guy that was notorious for inappropriate touching. |
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iamthebandfanman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:09 AM Response to Original message |
199. i think every girl in every relationship |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:15 AM Response to Reply #199 |
201. thank you for being honest. that is a way in which men become aware of it. |
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maryf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:17 AM Response to Original message |
203. Voted before I saw the combo |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:18 AM Response to Original message |
204. I fall into 2 categories |
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azygous (110 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:22 AM Response to Original message |
206. All women grow up being prey |
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scarletwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:45 PM Response to Reply #206 |
243. You've hit upon the essence, well said. |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 03:50 AM Response to Reply #206 |
381. Yes. It circumscribes your life in a thousand internalized ways. |
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kpete (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:36 AM Response to Original message |
210. sad isn't it? |
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suffragette (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:29 AM Response to Reply #210 |
216. Yes, it certainly is |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:38 AM Response to Reply #210 |
220. kpete, becasue of the pete i always thought you were a guy |
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grahamhgreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:22 PM Response to Reply #220 |
255. +1 |
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Rozlee (821 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:27 AM Response to Original message |
214. Had all of them. All but one was even government sanctioned. |
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NikolaC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:36 AM Response to Original message |
218. All of the Above |
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DesertDiamond (838 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:37 AM Response to Original message |
219. I didn't realize I could only choose one. Can I resind my sexually harassed and change it to |
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amyrose2712 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:08 PM Response to Original message |
224. I voted 1, until I read the comments, |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:12 PM Response to Original message |
225. What is the point of this poll? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:19 PM Response to Reply #225 |
228. we are being told by a pretty significant group of male, that what women expereince, is not what |
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liquid diamond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:39 PM Response to Reply #228 |
238. Thanks for your intelligent reply seabeyond. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:42 PM Response to Reply #238 |
240. ah, .... |
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peace frog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
226. Back in the mid-70s |
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CLANG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:21 PM Response to Original message |
254. I just want to make one comment |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:29 PM Response to Reply #254 |
257. love yas.... as i got toward the end of your post. was already gonna post cause of beginning of |
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CLANG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:58 PM Response to Reply #257 |
264. Thank you! Peace be upon you. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:52 PM Response to Reply #254 |
262. Social conditioning is not mental illness. |
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CLANG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:07 PM Response to Reply #262 |
267. No matter what I say there is always someone willing to misinterpret |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:15 PM Response to Reply #267 |
269. what happens when society makes rape a norm. and entertainment |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:23 PM Response to Reply #269 |
273. I'm sure most date-rapists don't think what they are doing is rape. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:21 PM Response to Reply #267 |
271. You have just proved my point. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:47 PM Response to Reply #262 |
299. +1000. It's not mental illness, it's the result of being raised in a misogynistic society. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 04:46 PM Response to Reply #299 |
309. Thanks! |
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eyeofdelphi (110 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:19 PM Response to Reply #254 |
288. you're right CLANG |
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CLANG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:33 PM Response to Reply #288 |
366. Thank you, eod! |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 06:55 PM Response to Reply #254 |
395. Good post, except for one thing |
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CLANG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 07:36 AM Response to Reply #395 |
401. I guess it's just a matter of semantics |
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GreenEyedLefty (708 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:51 PM Response to Original message |
260. I was sexually harrassed at every job I ever had. |
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Cherchez la Femme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
261. Both #1 & #2, Luckily not #3 but only because, |
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Cherchez la Femme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 05:16 PM Response to Reply #261 |
311. Wow. Just realized even *I* downgraded my own sexual assaults! |
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scarletwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:27 PM Response to Reply #311 |
329. Just want to acknowledge your post - your moment of self-revelation - thank you. |
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Cherchez la Femme (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 06:42 PM Response to Reply #329 |
390. Thank you |
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Skelly (136 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
265. A funny thing happened on the way to the end. |
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Chalco (817 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:18 PM Response to Original message |
270. I'm all of the above |
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AtheistCrusader (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
276. Abort rapists. |
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ckwalker1984 (4 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
279. This isn't a scientific poll...but... |
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felix_numinous (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
281. all of the above |
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blue_roses_lib (378 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:27 PM Response to Reply #281 |
296. ... |
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felix_numinous (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
282. dup |
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RoseMead (953 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:09 PM Response to Original message |
284. Two categories for me: harassment and statutory rape |
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ChadwickHenryWard (692 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:11 PM Response to Original message |
285. "Rape" is not specific enough. |
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demmiblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:21 PM Response to Reply #285 |
291. Bullshit. |
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ChadwickHenryWard (692 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:44 PM Response to Reply #291 |
298. Well argued. |
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scarletwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 04:05 PM Response to Reply #298 |
300. self-delete |
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scarletwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:23 PM Response to Reply #285 |
292. "Rape" is plenty specific. It means sexual penetration without consent, PERIOD. |
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ChadwickHenryWard (692 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 04:07 PM Response to Reply #292 |
302. It's not uncommon |
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scarletwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 04:25 PM Response to Reply #302 |
306. I don't find anything you say to be a compelling argument against emphasizing the fact |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:09 PM Response to Reply #302 |
322. forcing sex by using a knife at the throat or drugging someone is rape and NOT ok. You seriously |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:21 PM Response to Reply #302 |
359. Then men your age are rationalizing rape, not something other than rape. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 07:45 AM Response to Reply #302 |
402. My father is almost 66 and does NOT think the way you do |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:24 PM Response to Reply #285 |
294. i teach my teen boys now, ... be sure the female is enthusiastic, not |
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ChadwickHenryWard (692 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 04:11 PM Response to Reply #294 |
303. As I get older, |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 04:44 PM Response to Reply #303 |
308. this is exactly the point and where we have gone |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 08:07 AM Response to Reply #303 |
404. Women are refered to as "things," or described by parts of their body. |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 02:56 AM Response to Reply #294 |
374. Very nice, good thing to teach them. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 09:45 AM Response to Reply #374 |
382. we have discussed it. nt |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 04:47 PM Response to Reply #285 |
310. rape is rape. |
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Liquorice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 05:24 PM Response to Reply #285 |
312. The term "date rape" doesn't mean that the rapist drugged/plied the victim with |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:04 PM Response to Reply #285 |
318. What's the difference between those 2? Both are acts of violence, both force |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:05 PM Response to Reply #285 |
319. IOW, you want details. eom |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 07:40 PM Response to Reply #285 |
398. They are the same. They are acts of violence using sex as a weapon. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 07:46 AM Response to Reply #285 |
403. WTF |
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potassiumnitrate (102 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:18 PM Response to Original message |
286. This is an online unscientific poll with no real purpose |
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demmiblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:20 PM Response to Reply #286 |
290. You probably did! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:26 PM Response to Reply #286 |
295. again pota... not a single post of yours has been female friendly. everyone has had insult |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 04:15 PM Response to Reply #286 |
304. Wow, perpetrating the meme that most women are lying about |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 04:20 PM Response to Reply #286 |
305. Wow, man, you REALLY know how to step in it, don't you? |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:11 PM Response to Reply #286 |
323. The vast majority of these votes are lies or are from men. Right. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:16 PM Response to Reply #323 |
325. actually |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:30 PM Response to Reply #325 |
330. I have to admit |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 10:48 AM Response to Reply #325 |
385. i wish skinner could take a peak at those no votes and tell us how many were men! |
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nolabear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:22 PM Response to Reply #286 |
326. Don't you have any idea what goes on in the world? Warning: Rant to follow. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:25 PM Response to Reply #326 |
328. see those 96 posts... they are all |
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potassiumnitrate (102 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:54 PM Response to Reply #328 |
336. You repeating that over and over again doesn't make it true, you know |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 07:22 PM Response to Reply #336 |
344. ever watch the fockers.... i got my eyes on you.... nt |
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scarletwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 07:28 PM Response to Reply #344 |
345. You're not the only one. nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 07:37 PM Response to Reply #345 |
347. . |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:37 PM Response to Reply #345 |
368. Deleted message |
Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:45 PM Response to Reply #368 |
369. Oh, HIM, that one pisses me off to no end. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 09:46 AM Response to Reply #369 |
383. yup. nt |
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scarletwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 06:46 PM Response to Reply #326 |
334. Beautifully said! Righteous rant! Thank you! |
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nolabear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 07:01 PM Response to Reply #334 |
338. Makes your tagline all the more poignant. Teach your children well, and love those little boys. |
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scarletwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 07:21 PM Response to Reply #338 |
343. I'm the mother of two sons, now grown men. I did my best in raising them. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 08:28 PM Response to Reply #326 |
352. +1,000,000 |
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Curmudgeoness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 07:47 PM Response to Reply #326 |
399. Thank you for saying it so well. I am also bewildered |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 08:09 AM Response to Reply #286 |
405. So. Neither is any poll on DU. What's your point? |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 01:59 PM Response to Reply #405 |
411. Yay!!!!!! |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 03:52 PM Response to Reply #405 |
413. It's about time |
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blue_roses_lib (378 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 03:23 PM Response to Original message |
293. I picked harassment |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
355. I have 2 directions of thought on this. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:01 PM Response to Reply #355 |
356. interesting. first, thanks that this post had you talk to your wife. good on you. |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:13 PM Response to Reply #356 |
357. I have discussed this with her in the past |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:16 PM Response to Reply #357 |
358. i hadnt thought about that perspective. but |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:49 PM Response to Reply #355 |
370. That is hilarious and sad at the same time. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 03:04 AM Response to Reply #370 |
376. Deleted message |
Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 12:31 PM Response to Reply #376 |
389. Please don't use the term retard as an insult. |
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joshcryer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 03:04 AM Response to Reply #355 |
375. Heh, I've been harassed as a straight male, by gay men. |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 10:59 AM Response to Reply #375 |
387. Which matters very little, in the long run |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 10:31 PM Response to Original message |
360. Sexual Harrassment was the order of the day when I lived in San Francisco, in the Mission District. |
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Hell Hath No Fury (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 05:51 PM Response to Reply #360 |
419. I went to high school in the Mission -- |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-05-10 11:18 PM Response to Original message |
364. I've experienced all but rape. |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 03:44 AM Response to Original message |
380. It's horrid in the workplace where I live |
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MellowDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 07:00 PM Response to Original message |
396. I can't post polls, but I'd really like to see a male version of this... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 07:08 PM Response to Original message |
397. A Tale of Two Men |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-06-10 07:54 PM Response to Reply #397 |
400. i know lots of guy #1. lol. and love some of them too. i hear ya. |
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MrScorpio (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 08:27 AM Response to Reply #400 |
407. You know what the weird thing is? |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 08:22 AM Response to Reply #397 |
406. Guy 2 is much worse, imo. |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 01:53 PM Response to Original message |
409. Starting at the age of 12 I was occasionally grabbed, groped and verbally harassed. |
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TwilightGardener (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 02:12 PM Response to Original message |
412. Just harassed, back when I was younger--asshole strangers on the bus and street. |
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Hell Hath No Fury (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-07-10 05:18 PM Response to Original message |
417. Sexual harrassed and assaulted (not raped) -- |
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