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trumad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:17 AM
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Is it even possible to go 41 years without an Orgasm?
Let me get this straight... The Palin look-a-like-- Christine O'Donnell has never been married----preaches that masturbation is forbidden in the Bible--- ---and is against Pre-marital sex....

Maybe she has a Joba?

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Betty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:19 AM
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1. Probably why she is batshit crazy
she's ready to explode.
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 03:26 PM
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62. if she ever did pull ups on a bar in gym class, I guarentee she had
one. :)
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w8liftinglady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:19 AM
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2. lol...many of us have problems going 41 days...I'll spare the details
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alcibiades_mystery Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:29 AM
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18. Days?
Hours

;-)
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HughBeaumont Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:49 AM
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36. Yeah, more like hours for some of us.
Personally, I think this woman is lying through her churchy teeth.
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w8liftinglady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:52 AM
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39. hehe...
well..I have to keep some civility <I am Italian,however-you know how we are>
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joeybee12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:20 AM
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3. That is very, very, very rude...
...and of course I had to recommend this thread.
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trumad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:21 AM
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5. Seriously---
First off I don't believe her... she looks kind of naughty..

but 41 years without the Big O.... I don't believe it.
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Myrina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:24 AM
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9. I suppose it's possible ...
.... if you've never had a partner who cares about getting you there, or never took the time to figure it out for yourself for whatever reason ... in June it was 4 years for me, (ended a bad relationship, went thru depression, had zero interest) and I was seriously starting to develop an aversion to all things sexual so ... who knows?


:shrug:
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Botany Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:51 AM
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37. I don't buy it for a minute


The way she was laughing and got all a twitter when talking about lust and
masturbation ..... I am just waiting for the "home video" to surface.
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CTyankee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 02:38 PM
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58. She probably calls it something else...
Maybe she thinks everybody has that certain feeling after riding their bicycles...
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vanbean Donating Member (957 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 03:01 PM
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60. She has a boyfriend.
I bet they go at it like a couple of drunk monkeys.
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Liberal_Stalwart71 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 04:08 PM
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64. Did you notice how she and all of her friends on that interview were wearing
bright RED lipstick?

Now, please don't *misunderstand* me. I love red lipstick, but I just don't expect to see deep or bright red lipstick on a woman who is coy with her beauty. Remember that the Bible also preaches against vanity and adornment, especially for women.

I just found that interesting. Every girl in that video had this deep or bright red lipstick with teased out hair talking about how they don't pleasure themselves. Yeah, right!!
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pipi_k Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:21 AM
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4. No doubt she's just like some of her "peers" who
rant against homosexuality and then get caught trying to pick up people of the same sex.


Or they preach "Family Values" while they cheat on their spouses.


Bullshit. All of it.

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LiberalAndProud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:22 AM
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6. Hmm.
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/frigid

a : intensely cold b : lacking warmth or ardor : indifferent
2 : lacking imaginative qualities : insipid
3a: abnormally averse to sexual intercourse —used especially of women
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CurtEastPoint Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:22 AM
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7. Possible...if you have...
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Brickbat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:24 AM
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8. I do have to say that I hope trashing her doesn't turn into "If she'd just get laid" or "she needs a
vibrator" or "if she'd only get a man" or "if she'd just loosen up." I do hear some of this kind of thinking behind the funny comments about her, but as a longtime feminist, I also hear some of the unspoken attitudes behind it, which have historically been thrown at feminists themselves.

I respect the right to masturbate every day and to have sex twice. With two different people. But I also respect the right to not have sex at all. I think it's sad, but I also think there are legitimate feelings and reasons people feel asexual and don't want to have a sex life.
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trumad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:26 AM
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12. OK--- let's switch it to a John Doe.
man/woman--- I mean come on---41 years? I call Bullshit.
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Brickbat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:29 AM
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17. Oh, sure -- I find it unlikely myself, man or woman.
I was commenting more about the general attitude toward her, and wasn't trying to say YOU were saying "if she'd just get laid things would be different."
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Liberal_Stalwart71 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 04:10 PM
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65. I agree with you. For man years I didn't have a boyfriend and had people say that to me.
Edited on Wed Sep-15-10 04:10 PM by Liberal_Stalwart71
It's very sexist and rude in a very Freudian-like way.
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Orsino Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:27 AM
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14. Yes. Seriously, that would cheapen the discourse, if that's even possible.
For one thing, it assumes that she actually believes in all that purity nonsense. I remain unconvinced, as it seems to be the only thing that got her the nomination.
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gratuitous Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:27 AM
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15. She could very well be asexual, and she has every right to be
Ms. O'Donnell has crossed a line, however, when she starts in on everyone else, particularly on feelings or urges that she herself may not have and therefore doesn't understand. A color blind person plumping for the outlawing of the color red suggests itself to me.

Or maybe she's just going Galt down there.
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Brickbat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:30 AM
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19. I totally agree with objecting to her starting in on everyone else.
As I say, my hackles rise as a feminist when I see things like, "She's never had sex? WHAT A FREAK" and so on.
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trumad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:33 AM
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22. I'm just calling Bullshit
and I can pretty much guarantee she'll exposed as a hypocrite.
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Brickbat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:35 AM
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26. I hear you.
"Exposed as a hypocrite," eh? Secret tapes? Surveillance photos?

Seriously, can you even believe that our politics have degenerated to the point where a person runs on an anti-masturbation platform? If that's the best we can come up with in America, maybe we should just end this little experiment right now.
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era veteran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:38 AM
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30. The only completely asexual person I know cut off a toe
with a wood chisel to see how it felt I told him "I bet it hurt." Every human needs a .........................
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LiberalAndProud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:28 AM
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16. To attempt to transform society around an individual's asexuality is twisted.
I won't tell you that you must have sex if you don't tell me I can't play with myself. This isn't about feminism. This is about public prudity.
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Brickbat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:31 AM
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20. Agreed. I object to her wanting to put her values on everyone.
I also object to people saying things similar to "she's never had sex? FREAK!" and so on.
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RaleighNCDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 11:01 AM
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42. "Freak" = someting not natural.
Absolute asexuality = something not natural.

Therefore,

Absolute asexuality = Freak.

Regardless of the background, the reasons, the choices, it is NOT NATURAL. Something in that woman is not properly wired.
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Scout Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 02:26 PM
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55. i think it already has.... n/t
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vanbean Donating Member (957 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 03:06 PM
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61. You mean you don't think people should be forced to have a sex life?
:hi:
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HughMoran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:24 AM
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10. She is creepy
I would never vote for someone who doesn't have orgasms. :rofl:
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SidDithers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:38 AM
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29. Political Statement of the Year...
"I would never vote for someone who doesn't have orgasms."


:rofl: :applause:

Sid
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eShirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:24 AM
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11. I thought only male masturbation was forbidden in the bible.
spilling one's seed, as it were

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Poll_Blind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:27 AM
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13. No seks threads! I recommended this to bring it to the Mod's attention!
:P

PB
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ladjf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:32 AM
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21. Yes, if one is deceased. nt
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Poll_Blind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:34 AM
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24. Didn't stop Shelly Winters. Apparently an undead Shelly fought Cher last year for a....
...Brazilian cabana boy. She lost, but only because Cher travels with her VooDoo kit.

PB
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Atman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:33 AM
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23. Don't believe it for a second. Like Swaggart caught with his pants down...
Any time a GOPper comes out against something like this, it's a red flag that they're doing it, just like Jimmy Swaggart caught with his pants around his ankles with a prostitute after telling everyone else what was sexually proper. It's a pathology with these people. If they're telling YOU not to do it, it's because they want you to think that THEY are not doing it, and that they're better than everyone else.
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SidDithers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:34 AM
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25. I get cranky after a couple of days...nt
Sid
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global1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:36 AM
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27. We Should Start A "Send A Vibrator To O'Donnell" Campaign.......
that was just a thought - but think about the bits that SNL could do on this woman. She is a comic's dream candidate. The material practically writes itself.
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Lucian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:37 AM
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28. The ones who proclaim that nonsense are usually the freakiest.
Sexually.

If masturbation is going against the Bible, then every fucking human being is going to Hell. End of story.
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FirstLight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:42 AM
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31. maybe there is a sad reason for her aversion?
abuse can certainly make one have issues... and if she was brought up fundie,that can add to the problem.

as hard as it is for many of us to imagine, let's try a little compassion too

My objection is that govt has NO place in our bedrooms...whether we are alone or not!
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closeupready Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:44 AM
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32. OR MAYBE SHE IS PANDERING? We can't know; we can only guess. Personally,
I think she's pandering, and since she's a public figure, it's fair of us to denounce her views.
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w8liftinglady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:57 AM
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41. I have worked with sexual abuse victims of both sexes
and if I thought there were a chance she was a rape victim,I would drop this.

Trust me,making a political point would be the least of their actions...
And I quote O'Donnell

http://tpmdc.talkingpointsmemo.com/2010/09/odonnells-greatest-hits.php

When a married person uses pornography, or is unfaithful, it compromises not just his (or her) purity, but also compromises the spouse's purity. As a church, we need to teach a higher standard than abstinence. We need to preach a righteous lifestyle. On an MTV show about abstinence (as summarized by Huffington Post), O'Donnell explained:




The reason that you don't tell that masturbation is the answer to AIDS and all these other problems that come with sex outside of marriage is because again it is not addressing the issue. ... You're just gonna create somebody who is, I was gonna say, toying with his sexuality. Pardon the pun.
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Lochloosa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:46 AM
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33.  My Grandfather used to say...
A man that says he does not masturbate is a damn liar and a women that says she does not masturbate is a damn fool.
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lapislzi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:47 AM
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34. I assume you're being facetious?
While I'm sure it's rare, it's theoretically possible. Not a life *I'd* like to contemplate, however.

I'm sure there are some genuinely celibate people in the religious life who honor their chastity vows. Again, not something I'd be interested in doing.
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Fuzz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:47 AM
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35. My wife is making me try to.
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jdlh8894 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:51 AM
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38. Is it even possible to go 41 years without an Orgasm?
Hell,yeah! Just ask my wife of 24 yrs!(She's 46 by the way):evilgrin:
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felinetta Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 10:54 AM
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40. Me think thou doth protest too much. She feels guilty because she probably
masturbates. Reminds me of Ted Haggard and others who preach
against being gay.
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ProudToBeBlueInRhody Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 11:01 AM
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43. That's bullshit
Just like David Vitter is a "family man" and Larry Craig "not gay...never have been gay".
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old mark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 11:02 AM
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44. Maybe she didn't recognize it when she had it...C'mon, she is a RW republican -
anything is possible with them...

mark
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baldguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 11:13 AM
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45. What do you think fundies mean when they say they were "touched by God"?
Bernini knew.



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old mark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 11:24 AM
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48. Hence the phrase," Oh God, Oh, God, Oh God....."
Amen!


mark
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flamingdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 11:14 AM
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46. When she finally explodes I hope Rove gets spattered nt
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valerief Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 11:24 AM
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47. I'm waiting for the sex tape of her to come out. nt
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LeftinOH Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 11:27 AM
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49. Doesn't seem likely. I only made it to 12 years.
:hide:
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 12:38 PM
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50. Maybe she is a liar...
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Scurrilous Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 01:08 PM
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51. LOL
:thumbsup:
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Codeine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 01:09 PM
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52. 41 hours is beyond my threshold. nt
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gkhouston Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 01:18 PM
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53. Medically, I suppose it's possible. Seems like most of the folks hung up on
sex are light years away from being chaste or even conventional in their sexual tastes, though, so I'm waiting for the scandal to break.
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Scout Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 02:26 PM
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54. one needs neither sex nor masturbation to have an orgasm....
anyone ever heard of dreaming?

sheesh, get over it people.
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trumad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 02:33 PM
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56. OK---
So if she had an orgasm while dreaming one must assume she was having sex in her dream?

So-- would she have sinned according to the bible?
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Lilyeye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 02:36 PM
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57. I am not even going to go there about this.
There is a hell of a lot more to bash her about. If she chooses to remain a virgin until marriage, that is her choice. Although, I will be laughing if it turns out she isn't....we all know about the true hypocritical repuke fashion.
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rug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 02:39 PM
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59. To be fair, she had Iraq and Afghanistan as a diversion.
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krabigirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 03:28 PM
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63. No, and the problem is that anyone with views like this is a contender for a high office.
If our govt becomes more and more overrun with these types, i won't be able to stay.
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TheManInTheMac Donating Member (512 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 04:34 PM
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66. If you could save it up for that long
and lose it all at once I suppose it would be worth it. You'd end up a blubber pile of jelly the rest of your life, but... heyyy... maybe that's what happened to her.
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HopeHoops Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 05:37 PM
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67. It is called "being a Republican".
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Ruby the Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 07:21 PM
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68. 41? I didn't make it to 14.
She is full of crap.
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WillyT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-10 07:24 PM
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69. If The Game Of Dungeon & Dragons Goes On Long Enough... Then Yes
:hide::evilgrin::hide:

Oh wait... that's for dudes.

:rofl:
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