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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:20 PM Original message |
My daughter was attacked last night. She lives in Brooklyn and |
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Swamp Rat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:21 PM Response to Original message |
1. . |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:22 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. Thanks. |
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Divernan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 01:30 AM Response to Reply #3 |
135. Some hopefully practical thoughts and suggestions |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 05:59 PM Response to Reply #135 |
181. Thank you for a thoughtful post. |
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liberaldemocrat7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 06:39 PM Response to Reply #3 |
185. Hugs NC Nurse. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 06:43 PM Response to Reply #185 |
186. Thank you for your wishes. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:22 PM Response to Original message |
2. If I were her, I'd be scared of having anyone around me. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:23 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. She is fiercely independent. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:29 PM Response to Reply #4 |
18. It's so important to validate what she's going through. Good for you. |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
5. I would go to her. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:25 PM Response to Reply #5 |
11. I think you are probably right, but I want to respect her |
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Bjornsdotter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:31 PM Response to Reply #11 |
26. Go to her |
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Morgana LaFey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:10 PM Response to Reply #26 |
79. I agree -- sometimes our bravery (or independence) is only an |
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librechik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:50 PM Response to Reply #5 |
100. me too |
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Lochloosa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 08:16 AM Response to Reply #5 |
141. I agree. Go Now. |
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Monkeyman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
6. * |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:26 PM Response to Reply #6 |
12. Thank you sweetie. |
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Nimrod2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 08:43 PM Response to Reply #6 |
129. Please please just go there, and DON'T freak out all day, just a 2-3 visit to say hi |
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dogday (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
7. It is good she reported this to the Police. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:26 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. I told her not to go anywhere alone. |
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dogday (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:29 PM Response to Reply #13 |
19. My daughter is 12 and she is learning |
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Dems2002 (337 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 02:21 PM Response to Reply #19 |
149. Excuse Me???? |
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dogday (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 04:53 PM Response to Reply #149 |
153. You do it your way and I will do it mine |
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Dems2002 (337 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 01:43 AM Response to Reply #153 |
154. Then do you let her ride in cars? |
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dogday (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 10:40 AM Response to Reply #154 |
155. I let her ride in cars that are safe |
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dogday (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 11:44 AM Response to Reply #149 |
160. Do you have a daughter? |
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a la izquierda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 11:53 AM Response to Reply #149 |
161. Well said n/t |
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MissWaverly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
8. live in Baltimore but she should stay with friends for a few weeks |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:27 PM Response to Reply #8 |
17. Thank you. |
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MissWaverly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:31 PM Response to Reply #17 |
24. also, why not make a fake fashion collar with cardboard/velcro |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:24 PM Response to Original message |
9. pepper spray and tae kwon do |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:29 PM Response to Reply #9 |
20. I'll get her some pepper spray. |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:35 PM Response to Reply #20 |
34. honestly tae kwon do |
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hfojvt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:48 PM Response to Reply #34 |
57. TKD was just my generic term |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:50 PM Original message |
oh I got what you meant |
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rasputin1952 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:25 PM Response to Original message |
10. Whenever possible, she needs to walk in the neighborhood |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:30 PM Original message |
I know. |
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rsmith6621 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
14. She Needs You and Her Family |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:31 PM Response to Reply #14 |
23. Thanks. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
15. I would STRONGLY encourage her not to stay alone |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:31 PM Response to Reply #15 |
25. Thank you. |
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Catherine Vincent (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
16. Oh, that is just horrible. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:32 PM Response to Reply #16 |
28. Me too. |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:49 PM Response to Reply #28 |
59. The neighbor is a heroine who put herself on the line to protect others |
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ORDagnabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
21. self defense training for women by women..... learn to use and carry some form of weapon |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:31 PM Response to Original message |
22. That has to be a horrible feeling for you. Being so far away. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:33 PM Response to Reply #22 |
30. That's a good suggestion. |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:02 PM Response to Reply #30 |
74. I had a feeling you'd say that.... |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:40 PM Response to Reply #74 |
92. Damn! |
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formerrepuke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:31 PM Response to Original message |
27. Your presence with her could help, even though she says otherwise...remember |
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Hekate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:32 PM Response to Original message |
29. I'm so sorry. Previous poster may be right that she was shocky when she said not to come... |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:35 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. Thank you , dear. |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:33 PM Original message |
So...the guy is still on the loose? |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
40. Yes. I'm right there. |
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Ghost in the Machine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
31. Sorry to hear this, but glad she wasn't hurt worse.. or worse. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:36 PM Response to Reply #31 |
35. Thanks, you are right. |
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Stinky The Clown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:34 PM Response to Original message |
32. Can you contact one of her friends back channel to get an idea how she's doing? |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:40 PM Response to Reply #32 |
44. I don't know their numbers. She can't |
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LiberalFighter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:55 PM Response to Reply #44 |
65. Too bad there isn't a way to call into one's cell and remove that info |
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Truthiness Inspector (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 02:50 PM Response to Reply #44 |
150. To get phone numbers |
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SaveAmerica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 11:36 AM Response to Reply #150 |
157. She might be able to transfer phone numbers to a new cell phone |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:46 PM Response to Reply #32 |
52. What a good suggestion. |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:36 PM Response to Original message |
36. Rape affects everybody around the victim |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:41 PM Response to Reply #36 |
48. You are right. I've thought about sending the neighbor |
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maddezmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:36 PM Response to Original message |
37. If you can, go now and stay at a hotel |
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knitter4democracy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:37 PM Response to Original message |
38. I am so very sorry. My SIL was attacked last summer. Scary. |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:37 PM Response to Original message |
39. You know people here in NYC |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:44 PM Response to Reply #39 |
49. If I come up, I may |
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ThomCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:47 PM Response to Reply #49 |
54. I'm sure I, and probably others, could meet you. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:54 PM Response to Reply #54 |
102. Thank you. |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
41. You just experienced my biggest fear |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:39 PM Response to Original message |
42. that is awful -- sorry to see this... |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
43. dupe |
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Wetzelbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
45. she may be a little in shock, and still trying to stay strong |
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GrumpyGreg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
46. I'm so sorry,but you have to go along with her wishes. |
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speedoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
47. Well, since I live in Brooklyn... |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:46 PM Response to Reply #47 |
53. Thank you. |
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speedoo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 08:43 PM Response to Reply #53 |
130. Please don't hesitate to ask .... |
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xultar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
50. Thank God she is o.k. Screaming & fighting saved her life. She's a brave strong woman |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:49 PM Response to Reply #50 |
58. Thank you so much. That makes me feel good. |
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UpInArms (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
51. ... |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:50 PM Response to Reply #51 |
60. . |
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karlrschneider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
55. Tough decision. You probably shouldn't put a whole lot of faith in the NY cops' ability |
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Neecy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:45 PM Response to Reply #55 |
97. I think that's a great idea |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
56. Oh, Jesus, I don't have any advice for you. Just sympathy. Though if it was MY daughter, |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:51 PM Response to Reply #56 |
62. Thanks. |
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Parche (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:50 PM Response to Original message |
61. ONE BIG HUG |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:52 PM Response to Reply #61 |
63. Me too. |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:53 PM Response to Original message |
64. That's terrible. |
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The Backlash Cometh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:55 PM Response to Original message |
66. My heart goes out to you. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
67. Your poor daughter! |
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DURHAM D (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
68. Go to her. |
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Clark2008 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
69. Go to her. |
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TomInTib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
70. Just go, but don't stay with her overnight. |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:58 PM Response to Original message |
71. OMG! |
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Sapere aude (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 04:59 PM Response to Original message |
72. If she has friends there have them be your surrogates. |
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IChing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
73. Terrible news my 25 year old daughter was also threatened |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
75. Definitely file a report with every witness you can muster. The vermin will get caught. |
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mediawatch (224 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
76. oh my dear |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:09 PM Response to Reply #76 |
78. Welcome to DU, mediawatch. Thank you for being here. |
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Gelliebeans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
77. When I was robbed at gunpoint |
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mediawatch (224 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:13 PM Response to Reply #77 |
81. I wanted to say just what you did Gelliebeans |
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Gelliebeans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:41 PM Response to Reply #81 |
93. A belated welcome to DU mediawatch! |
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mediawatch (224 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:43 PM Response to Reply #93 |
95. my goodness |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:48 PM Response to Reply #95 |
99. Thank you to both of you! |
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Gelliebeans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:53 PM Response to Reply #95 |
101. you bet!!! |
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BlackVelvet04 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:11 PM Response to Original message |
80. You have to do what you think is best, of course, but |
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nosmokes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:15 PM Response to Original message |
82. Go. let her know you're there for you as much as her. |
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philly_bob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:18 PM Response to Original message |
83. I think I would fly up there... |
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MagickMuffin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:21 PM Response to Original message |
84. Sorry this has happened to your daughter |
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wicket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:23 PM Response to Original message |
85. My god, I am so sorry |
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Frank Cannon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:32 PM Response to Original message |
86. Go see her |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:37 PM Response to Reply #86 |
89. Thank you. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:34 PM Response to Original message |
87. Update: |
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Frank Cannon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:40 PM Response to Reply #87 |
91. Thanks for that |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:34 PM Response to Original message |
88. I'm so sorry NC Nurse, that's awful. |
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Adelante (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:37 PM Response to Original message |
90. Thank God she was saved from much worse |
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Solly Mack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:42 PM Response to Original message |
94. Lots of hugs for the both of you |
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NewYorkerfromMass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:43 PM Response to Original message |
96. She just went through something tremendously traumatic |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:46 PM Response to Reply #96 |
98. Your sage advice is appreciated. |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:56 PM Response to Original message |
103. I went through something like this at 19 though not in NYC |
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KillCapitalism (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
104. I have friends in NYC |
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KittyWampus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 05:57 PM Response to Original message |
105. Buy her some Mace and send it to her. |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 06:01 PM Response to Original message |
106. I am SO sorry |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 06:03 PM Response to Original message |
107. how are you doing? |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 06:07 PM Response to Reply #107 |
109. Thanks for knowing how I feel. |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 06:57 PM Response to Reply #109 |
114. it's great to be proactive |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:05 PM Response to Reply #114 |
116. Thank you so much for your wise words. |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 06:05 PM Response to Original message |
108. She might want to look into a personal alarm to carry |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 06:09 PM Response to Reply #108 |
110. Cool, thanks. |
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renate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 06:15 PM Response to Reply #110 |
111. ack! I hope you see this in time--here's another suggestion |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 06:16 PM Response to Reply #111 |
112. Got it, thanks. |
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shireen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:49 PM Response to Reply #111 |
124. thanks, i got three |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 06:16 PM Response to Original message |
113. GO.. NOW |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:04 PM Response to Original message |
115. Oh, sweetie. That's gotta be a mother's worst nightmare. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:05 PM Response to Reply #115 |
117. I hope so. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:07 PM Response to Original message |
118. Send the neighbor a thank you note. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:07 PM Response to Reply #118 |
119. Thank you, I will do that. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:12 PM Response to Reply #119 |
120. I was just thinking it would be good for you and for her |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:15 PM Response to Original message |
121. That is terrifying! |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:27 PM Response to Reply #121 |
122. Thanks. |
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shireen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:36 PM Response to Original message |
123. that's scary |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 09:19 AM Response to Reply #123 |
144. Thanks for your sympathy. |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
125. What a horrible incident |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 07:51 PM Response to Original message |
126. That sucks. For my part, I'd already be there. Everyone's family is different, however. |
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likesmountains 52 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 08:16 PM Response to Original message |
127. One more vote for go be with her...she needs you even if she doesn't |
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LuckyLib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 08:35 PM Response to Original message |
128. This is one of those family emergencies where you pull out all the stops and go. |
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GenDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 08:55 PM Response to Original message |
131. A parents worst nightmare |
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Laurab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 09:23 PM Response to Original message |
132. I would be there already - I know it |
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young_at_heart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 11:01 PM Response to Original message |
133. I am a mother of two daughters.......I would not hesitate to go to them under such horror |
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flying_monkeys (519 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-18-07 11:24 PM Response to Original message |
134. I'd go there. |
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roguevalley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 01:34 AM Response to Original message |
136. Oh god, honey. I am so very sorry. I am glad that she is alive and |
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Alameda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 01:36 AM Response to Original message |
137. Rape prevention |
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qdemn7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 01:44 AM Response to Original message |
138. I reccomend you buy her |
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file83 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 02:15 AM Response to Original message |
139. Thank god that neighbor did the right thing and got involved.... |
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Festivito (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 03:14 AM Response to Original message |
140. I just want to say, that I don't know what to say. |
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electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 08:18 AM Response to Original message |
142. omg. I'll keep her in my thoughts. |
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in_cog_ni_to (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 08:23 AM Response to Original message |
143. You should be with her whether she wants you there or not. She needs support |
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debbierlus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 10:40 AM Response to Original message |
145. She needs immediate psychological support & counseling |
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amandabeech (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 04:33 PM Response to Reply #145 |
179. And don't let anybody tell her that it was her fault! |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 11:16 AM Response to Original message |
146. I'm a mother and a daughter ... |
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FightingIrish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 12:01 PM Response to Original message |
147. That brings back some uncomfortable memories |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 12:11 PM Response to Original message |
148. I think you should respect her space, but remain available to her. |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
151. I think your daughter is my new hero. |
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bobbolink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat May-19-07 04:15 PM Response to Original message |
152. One more suggestion, based on her fierce independence-- Model Mugging! |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 11:38 AM Response to Reply #152 |
159. That's a great suggestion. I took self defense for women |
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Cabcere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
156. Wow - that is so scary, and I'm really glad your daughter is OK |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 11:37 AM Response to Original message |
158. Is there an update NC_Nurse? How are YOU holding up? |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 12:51 PM Response to Reply #158 |
162. Nothing major to report with the case. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 12:54 PM Response to Reply #162 |
163. I'm glad she has friends around her. And here's a hug for you. |
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bcoylepa (438 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 12:59 PM Response to Reply #162 |
166. thinking of you |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 01:17 PM Response to Reply #166 |
168. Welcome to DU, bcoylepa. I haven't read you before. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 01:20 PM Response to Reply #166 |
169. Thank you. Welcome to DU. |
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upi402 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 12:55 PM Response to Original message |
164. Denial is the first symptom of shock, I'm told |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 01:21 PM Response to Reply #164 |
170. I think you are right. |
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upi402 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 03:16 PM Response to Reply #170 |
173. You're doing the right thing IMHO. She's very lucky. n/t |
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Time for change (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 12:58 PM Response to Original message |
165. I also have a daughter who lives in Brooklyn |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 01:22 PM Response to Reply #165 |
171. I'm sure. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 03:20 PM Response to Reply #171 |
174. It's hard for us as parents when our kids need to do things their own way. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 05:28 PM Response to Reply #174 |
180. True enough! |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 01:00 PM Response to Original message |
167. That is really awful. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 01:23 PM Response to Reply #167 |
172. Thank you. |
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WilliamPitt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 03:21 PM Response to Original message |
175. Eyes, nose, throat, sternum, balls. |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 06:49 PM Response to Reply #175 |
187. good advice... I would add... |
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Eurobabe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 03:22 PM Response to Original message |
176. I have a 25 y/o daughter, and if it were mine, I'd go regardless |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 03:30 PM Response to Reply #176 |
177. Thank you. |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 04:28 PM Response to Original message |
178. Thank you for sharing your daughters experience. Its a lesson for all of us - always fight back |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 06:07 PM Response to Reply #178 |
182. I just sent her all of the books mentioned upthread. |
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DFW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 06:16 PM Response to Original message |
183. I have a daughter, 24, living in Manhattan, too |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 06:30 PM Response to Reply #183 |
184. It's a fine line |
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Thirtieschild (978 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 07:03 PM Response to Original message |
188. So very, very sorry, and so proud of her for fighting him off. |
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NC_Nurse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun May-20-07 07:50 PM Response to Reply #188 |
189. I'm so sorry for your daughter's trauma! |
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