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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:05 PM Original message |
Something that has been missing from all of these discussions about education reform: bad parenting |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:06 PM Response to Original message |
1. parents income is the factor which most closely correlates with school performance. |
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FreakinDJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:18 PM Response to Reply #1 |
9. Same with Lower Income and Alchohol and Drug Abuse rates |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:21 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. my point is that if you want the "underclass" to have the same results the middle or upper classes |
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izquierdista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:57 PM Response to Reply #10 |
21. You do homage to your avatar |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 09:55 PM Response to Reply #21 |
110. i think you're guilty of vast overgeneralization. |
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MajorChode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:49 PM Response to Reply #10 |
94. Most of the time they are further handicapped by poorer school districts |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 04:23 AM Response to Reply #94 |
114. spending money on hiring others to "help" the poor is a sop to the middle class, & |
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MajorChode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 04:35 AM Response to Reply #114 |
116. It's a mute point to begin with |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 11:41 AM Response to Reply #116 |
145. moot |
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MajorChode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 12:50 PM Response to Reply #145 |
149. Thanx |
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donquijoterocket (357 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 02:23 PM Response to Reply #116 |
158. issues |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 02:24 PM Response to Reply #10 |
159. Correct ... these children/parents and communities are impoverished .... |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:29 PM Response to Reply #1 |
11. Because of what I teach, I get to keep my kids for several years |
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auntAgonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:18 PM Response to Reply #11 |
27. I wish I could K&R your post. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 11:34 AM Response to Reply #11 |
142. +1 n/t |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:12 PM Response to Original message |
2. Well parents aren't employed by school districts |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:15 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. reality? all the changes, all the fixes come to not when a child does NOT want to learn. nt |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:35 PM Response to Reply #4 |
14. ALL children want to learn |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:22 PM Response to Reply #14 |
30. are you mad!!! no, many children, more and more do NOT wnat to learn |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:29 PM Response to Reply #30 |
35. That is pure crap |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:34 PM Original message |
no. head start and young, one of the best programs that is being cut, is a time kids will learn. |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
39. If schools haven't laid the foundation |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:49 PM Response to Reply #39 |
59. my youngest couldnt get multiplication memorized for anything. a couple years |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:38 PM Response to Reply #59 |
85. here's some books for ou |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:43 PM Response to Reply #85 |
90. i read a mind at a time for my oldest. |
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reggie the dog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 04:33 AM Response to Reply #35 |
115. i teach in high school |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:46 AM Response to Reply #30 |
124. Perhaps with older children, but younger kids always want to learn and that passion |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 11:08 AM Response to Reply #124 |
133. i am referring to the older student that has the ability and desire to mae own decisions |
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Gin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:17 PM Response to Reply #2 |
8. but if that kid scores low on his tests, YOU are held responsible |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:38 PM Response to Reply #2 |
38. You could have a system where better rated parents get first choice of good schools. |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:59 PM Response to Reply #38 |
45. How do you rate them? |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:50 AM Response to Reply #38 |
127. This would amount to sending kids who are already horribly disadvantaged to the shittiest schools |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:15 PM Response to Original message |
3. exactly. right on. truth. nt |
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FreakinDJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:16 PM Response to Original message |
5. Stop it Right Now with the Reality Check |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
6. Teachers always blame the parents |
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Curmudgeoness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:47 PM Response to Reply #6 |
17. You really mean to say that parents do not have any responsibility |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:34 PM Response to Reply #17 |
37. Love how people distort what I say |
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Curmudgeoness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:41 PM Response to Reply #37 |
53. I did not distort what you said. I focussed on what you said |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:44 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. you know what hapens when my kids gets a "bad" teacher, or teacher whose style is contradictive to |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:46 PM Response to Reply #55 |
93. Wow. That's the exact wrong thing to do |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 07:14 PM Response to Reply #93 |
102. and my kids can deal with any particular teacher and continue to be successful |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 08:29 PM Response to Reply #102 |
106. Well clearly no they can't |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 08:44 PM Response to Reply #106 |
107. i have had this kid tested at about 4, 6 and 8. i have had from regular doctor to allergy |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:55 PM Response to Reply #53 |
97. I said "It's not the parents" |
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Curmudgeoness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 08:24 PM Response to Reply #97 |
105. The beginning of this thread "Teachers always blame the parents". |
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yurbud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:24 PM Response to Reply #6 |
31. the kids with ''bad'' parents don't go to charter schools |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:17 PM Response to Original message |
7. It's definitely a factor. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:31 PM Response to Original message |
12. Why do these discussions always begin with a scapegoat and work backward to a rationale? |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:33 PM Response to Reply #12 |
13. Exactly. It's not any one thing |
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waiting for hope (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:59 PM Response to Reply #12 |
22. What I don't hear in this discussion is how the family |
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Pisces (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:18 PM Response to Reply #22 |
28. Your post is very accurate. Everyone is doing the best they can, an unfortunatly |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:28 PM Response to Reply #28 |
33. i agree with both your posts. nt |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:51 PM Response to Reply #22 |
63. I've long thought that this nuclear family stuff |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:09 PM Response to Reply #12 |
26. +1 |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:24 PM Response to Reply #12 |
32. they PARENT is the childs ADVOCATE. the parent is the front line. the parent is the ultimate |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:33 PM Response to Reply #32 |
51. That's not true |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:42 PM Response to Reply #51 |
54. some of those kids will make it. many of those kids will not. |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:00 PM Response to Reply #54 |
72. All kids are "education material" ... not all kids are interested in college |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:05 PM Response to Reply #72 |
74. plumber, mechanic, landscape business.... lots of professions out there |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:24 PM Response to Reply #72 |
80. I really don't buy the notion that everyone is "education material." |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:35 PM Response to Reply #80 |
84. agree, again. and that is cool. it is ok. i mean, there has to be a below.... in average. |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:40 PM Response to Reply #84 |
88. Exactly. |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:39 PM Response to Reply #80 |
87. ...and the dumb are not worthy of an education? |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:42 PM Response to Reply #87 |
89. I mean college-level stuff. |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:50 PM Response to Reply #89 |
95. I think my post clearly stated that not everyone could or should be university bound |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:55 PM Response to Reply #95 |
96. You'll get no argument from me. |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 07:01 PM Response to Reply #96 |
99. Oh God ... I'm sorry |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 11:35 AM Response to Reply #51 |
143. Amen - I had a terrible childhood and family life and excelled in school. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:45 PM Response to Reply #32 |
57. Yes, when you start with a conclusion and work backwards |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:51 PM Response to Reply #57 |
62. is it an all or nothing? are you suggesting all kids that fail have bad parents? all kids that |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:53 PM Response to Reply #62 |
66. No, lol, I'm suggesting nothing of the sort. |
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TBF (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
15. I agree parent involvement/encouragement is a big part - |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:29 PM Response to Reply #15 |
34. +1. nt |
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yurbud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
16. divorce, single parenting, and both parents working have changed the ball game |
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DevonRex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
18. We have no control over parents. And we can't give up on a child because his/her |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:31 PM Response to Reply #18 |
36. it isnt "give" up. no we have no control, it doesnt change the fact, without the parent |
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eilen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:07 PM Response to Reply #18 |
46. Children may want to learn but not necessarily |
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Curmudgeoness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:24 PM Response to Reply #18 |
81. I have always thought that we should have some control |
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stray cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:54 PM Response to Original message |
19. Maybe we should pay the parents instead? |
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Bitwit1234 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 03:57 PM Response to Original message |
20. One thing every one seems to miss also is the disruptions |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:43 PM Response to Reply #20 |
42. No it does not happen all over the place |
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eilen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:09 PM Response to Reply #42 |
47. It doesn't happen in the suburbs. nt |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:15 PM Response to Reply #47 |
48. I live in rural America |
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Pisces (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:00 PM Response to Original message |
23. This issue has been raised that is why the SEED charter is set up like a boarding school |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:04 PM Response to Original message |
24. There are always going to be variables beyond your control. |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:21 PM Response to Reply #24 |
29. I'm not the OP, but I'll bite. |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:09 PM Response to Reply #29 |
75. Beautiful post. n/t |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:08 PM Response to Original message |
25. Seriously? You come around here much? |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:39 PM Response to Original message |
40. "bad parents" don't need accountability measures. they need |
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proud2BlibKansan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:57 PM Response to Reply #40 |
43. I am in favor of driving a wedge between a parent and a child |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:44 PM Response to Reply #43 |
91. A brave statement. |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:58 PM Response to Reply #43 |
98. those children belong in the family courts. |
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Ex Lurker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:50 PM Response to Reply #40 |
61. a lot of them don't need support, they need a kick in the pants.,, |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:45 PM Response to Reply #61 |
92. And you'll never convince the useless assholes that they're wrong. nt |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:12 PM Response to Reply #40 |
76. I agree parents need support, but do you realize that what little they do get is often... |
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silverlib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:43 PM Response to Original message |
41. And I'll add a problem that most seem to totally ignore - drugs... |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:31 PM Response to Reply #41 |
83. Too true. I watched a lot of my classmates become really shitty students |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 04:59 PM Response to Original message |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:17 PM Response to Original message |
49. And how do you explain my situation, I value nothing higher than education |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:37 PM Response to Reply #49 |
52. without snark... is it the teachers fault? now what? |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:46 PM Response to Reply #52 |
58. How could it be "the teachers fault"? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:53 PM Response to Reply #58 |
67. i agree with you. nt |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:15 PM Response to Reply #58 |
77. Maybe it has to do with the fact... |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:17 PM Response to Reply #77 |
78. Maybe. But after observing him for 16 years, I have come to believe |
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YvonneCa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:24 PM Response to Reply #78 |
79. I have a grandson like that... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:38 PM Response to Reply #77 |
86. yes. and an environment both my sons fight against, were stupid is cool |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:28 PM Response to Reply #49 |
82. People don't like to accept that some folks are just downright unteachable. |
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cilla4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:32 PM Response to Original message |
50. I just think all these ideas - while accurate - |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:45 PM Response to Reply #50 |
56. OUR CULTURE JUST DOES NOT VALUE ITS CHILDREN ENOUGH. |
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bik0 (429 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 07:35 PM Response to Reply #56 |
103. When I see a drug abusing mother who couldn't care less about her child's education... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 07:48 PM Response to Reply #103 |
104. i will go with that too. |
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cilla4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:20 AM Response to Reply #103 |
117. Completely separate issues. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:22 AM Response to Reply #117 |
118. a lot. and looking at the reason is a good thing. if we can help society as a whole |
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cilla4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:55 AM Response to Reply #118 |
130. I don't believe there are "a lot" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 11:10 AM Response to Reply #130 |
134. there are a lot. but then i am not claiming that is the only issue. |
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cilla4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 11:33 AM Response to Reply #134 |
141. Whew - I think we have found our common ground, then! |
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bik0 (429 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 02:36 PM Response to Reply #117 |
160. Not a generalization... I said when I see "a mother" (singular)... |
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Taitertots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:50 PM Response to Original message |
60. Bad parents don't want to hear it/won't listen |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
64. How about the REAL third rail; |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:58 PM Response to Reply #64 |
70. +1. ok, not a chance i would use your adjectives, but..... |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:59 PM Response to Reply #70 |
71. I really do have a potty mouth. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 09:13 PM Response to Reply #64 |
108. Andrew Breitbart to a tee. eom |
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Sen. Walter Sobchak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:52 PM Response to Original message |
65. this is why every teacher I know has quit the public system |
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Taitertots (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:55 PM Response to Reply #65 |
68. It would take a very short amount of time for that to cause me to.... |
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Sen. Walter Sobchak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 01:18 AM Response to Reply #68 |
112. Most of them held out for years, |
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Codeine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 05:56 PM Response to Reply #65 |
69. Parents eager to excuse any behavior and defend the most horrible |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 06:02 PM Response to Reply #69 |
73. i watch it. both brothers with their kids. and then they blame the teacher. |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 07:06 PM Response to Reply #73 |
101. And those kids grow up to be helpless and exploitive young adults. |
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Sen. Walter Sobchak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 01:14 AM Response to Reply #69 |
111. The cursing parent wasn't looking to excuse the students behavior |
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Confusious (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 07:02 PM Response to Original message |
100. WHAT?!? ARE YOU INSANE? |
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bik0 (429 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Sep-26-10 09:49 PM Response to Original message |
109. The students in my wife's kindergarten class or mostly from single unwed mothers... |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:57 AM Response to Reply #109 |
131. While teenagers having children is not desirable, I would not be so quick to |
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bik0 (429 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 02:57 PM Response to Reply #131 |
161. You left out "young"... that's a big piece of the problem... |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 01:25 AM Response to Original message |
113. One of my mother's cousins began teaching high school in the 1950s and |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
119. Boys are 33% less likely to go to college than girls. Are parents only failing sons? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:34 AM Response to Reply #119 |
120. we have talked about it before. there are things our boys need today |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:39 AM Response to Reply #120 |
121. Boys embrace dumb as cool because they have to... |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:58 AM Response to Reply #121 |
132. You think girls don't? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 11:14 AM Response to Reply #132 |
135. There's dumb and then there's faux dumb. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 11:20 AM Response to Reply #135 |
138. yes, most of the girls that i see play dumb, also do their studies and dont get behind to where |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 11:18 AM Response to Reply #132 |
137. and then the young girls. my niece and her friend, well shit... both nieces |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 11:17 AM Response to Reply #121 |
136. my son saw it in middle school. dumb became cool, not learning was hip. it pissed him off |
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w8liftinglady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:47 AM Response to Reply #119 |
125. my boyfriend is a middle-aged ex-military who teaches behavior problems |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:51 AM Response to Reply #125 |
129. Yes, self respect and someone to identify with. +1 n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 11:22 AM Response to Reply #125 |
139. yes yes yes yes YES YES YES.. |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:40 AM Response to Original message |
122. Amen to that. However, |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:41 AM Response to Reply #122 |
123. +1 n/t |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 11:23 AM Response to Reply #122 |
140. but... regardless of what the schools try, and they are aware of this, they fail |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 11:36 AM Response to Reply #140 |
144. Not true - I was an excellent student - top percentiles across the board - and my parents |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 11:52 AM Response to Reply #144 |
146. few children do, and rah for them. i mean that sincerely. but that is not the odds. |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 11:56 AM Response to Reply #146 |
147. There have been numerous studies showing that preschool/head start gains do not |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 12:26 PM Response to Reply #147 |
148. sigh... sure. that is the issue that so many are talking. |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 12:55 PM Response to Reply #148 |
150. That was incoherent. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 01:24 PM Response to Reply #150 |
151. yes you said that. the odds are against them. some can achieve. many cannot |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 01:29 PM Response to Reply #150 |
152. btw.... i am really glad to hear |
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uncommon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 02:11 PM Response to Reply #152 |
154. It's not easy - |
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izzybeans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
126. I think if we were honest about how to manage both bad parents and bad teachers |
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flamingdem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:51 AM Response to Original message |
128. Parenting. Exactly the problem in Los Angeles |
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Skidmore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 02:07 PM Response to Original message |
153. We have a national culture that does not respect knowledge or its acquisition. |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 02:14 PM Response to Reply #153 |
155. I wish I could recommend your post |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
156. My cat's breath smells like cat food. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:27 PM Response to Reply #156 |
162. That's where I saw the Leprchaun. He tells me to burn things! n/t |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 02:22 PM Response to Original message |
157. And we have "bad parenting" because .... ????? I'm sure parents want to harm their children--!!! |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Sep-27-10 10:32 PM Response to Original message |
163. No, not bad parenting. Economic inequality. |
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