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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:04 AM Original message |
Have you personally known someone who was/still is in an arranged marriage? |
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no_hypocrisy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
1. The concept of arranged marriages has scared me since childhood. |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
2. Yes, a former co-worker |
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dkf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:19 AM Original message |
My grandparents were. |
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JustAnotherGen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:19 AM Response to Original message |
3. Yes |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:19 AM Response to Original message |
4. a lady from india. ooosh.... |
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Vehl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 01:58 PM Response to Reply #4 |
26. Seems to be more of a case of a disobedient Child |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 02:12 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. good to know |
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Vehl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 02:41 PM Response to Reply #27 |
30. You are welcome |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 02:53 PM Response to Reply #30 |
33. that is so excellent. i am glad you took the time to talk to me. |
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Vehl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 04:43 PM Response to Reply #33 |
35. No probs :) |
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Barack_America (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
5. I've known two women in arranged marriages. |
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pipi_k (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
6. I don't personally know anyone, but... |
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enlightenment (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
7. Depends on if it's voluntary or forced. I know one couple that |
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TonyMontana (237 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:37 AM Response to Reply #7 |
10. Replace the word "arranged" with "forced" |
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enlightenment (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:55 AM Response to Reply #10 |
14. Citation, please? |
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Generic Other (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 01:39 PM Response to Reply #10 |
19. Not always forced by families |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 01:44 PM Response to Reply #10 |
23. bull. depends on the arrangements. |
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ieoeja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 01:54 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. You obviously have very strong feelings in favor of arranged marriages. |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 08:30 PM Response to Reply #25 |
37. rude & nasty? where's that? |
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Vehl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 01:50 PM Response to Reply #10 |
24. Pure BS |
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bluerum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
8. Several coworkers. They seem fine with it. |
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TonyMontana (237 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:36 AM Response to Original message |
9. Yes. And they generally "work out" |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:40 AM Response to Original message |
11. Someone pitched the idea to my father-in-law about my wife |
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Douglas Carpenter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:46 AM Response to Original message |
12. quite a few actually |
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Javaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:47 AM Response to Original message |
13. Yes, my grandparents on my dad's side... |
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laundry_queen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 10:59 AM Response to Original message |
15. sort of |
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NuttyFluffers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 11:51 AM Response to Original message |
16. yes, several. usually positive; developed a pragmatic look and grew to love. |
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blondeatlast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 11:53 AM Response to Original message |
17. Yes, several. The ones where the wife works are happy, the others, varying degrees of not so much. n |
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Vehl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 01:35 PM Response to Original message |
18. Yes, Both sides of my family |
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Lisa0825 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
20. Yes, a former coworker. They seemed like a very content couple. |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 01:42 PM Response to Original message |
21. yes, many of the japanese i met, including my in-laws. |
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Tierra_y_Libertad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 01:44 PM Response to Original message |
22. My Palestinian optometrist. She's very happy in her marriage. |
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elehhhhna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 02:18 PM Response to Original message |
28. a lovely woman, former coworker, from India -- |
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frustrated_lefty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 02:31 PM Response to Original message |
29. A co-worker, happily married. |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
31. I do. She is a Fundamentalist LDS and one of seven wives. |
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leftynyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 02:52 PM Response to Original message |
32. Kind of |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
34. I've known four people. Still know three. All but one (the only woman) has liked it. |
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Vehl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-27-10 04:46 PM Response to Reply #34 |
36. Arranged marriages before the age of 21 always raise a red flag for me |
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