Ok,I don't ask for prayers/healing messages often.I am today.

[w8liftinglady]

This is probably one of the most stressful weeks of my life.i am asking for a little help from my friends,whatever your beliefs.
Mon-My neuropsychological exam to see if my brain function is "normal"
Tues- My neurology appointment to-hopefully-get released for work.
Wed-My oldest son stays the night with me as he prepares for
Thur-My oldest leaves for Afghanistan
Fri-I try REALLY hard to stay sober.
It's a tough one.You've helped me so many times.
Thanks.

[JerseygirlCT]

1. Of course. nt

[WolverineDG]

2. on their way

:hug:

dg

[Monique1]

6. Sending to you my

O8) O8) O8) O8)

[Mnemosyne]

3. ...

:hug:

[donco6]

4. Good vibes coming your way w8liftinglady.

Hope all works out well for you.

[marmar]

5. Good vibes.....Just try to picture everyone you encounter this week in goofy underwear.

:)

[femmocrat]

7. Best vibes coming your way, w8liftinglady!

Stay strong and keep checking in, OK? :hug:

[SargeUNN]

8. I am sure you will come out fine

I sure will be sending you my best vibes and certainly things will go favorably.

[Dinger]

9. Hugs And Comforting Thoughts And Prayers Sent To You . . .

:hug:

[kgnu_fan]

10. sending you my prayer for PEACE

[Hawkeye-X]

11. Coming your way!

:hug:

[InvisibleTouch]

12. Sending you good vibes and good wishes! n/t

[The Velveteen Ocelot]

13. You got 'em.

Hang in there...

[Dappleganger]

14. My dear...

consider yourself hugged!

:hug:

[panader0]

15. All the best to you

[Warren DeMontague]

16. Hang in there. Especially on the sobriety.

Seriously. We all have different ways and paths and programs or un-programs, but the prime directive is don't drink. No Matter What. There's no problem so bad that drinking can't make it worse.

Hang in there. Sending good vibes your way. You are not alone.

[OneGrassRoot]

17. You got it....

Good vibes, candles lit, prayers and hugs of support are yours {{{{{{{{{{w8liftinglady}}}}}}}}}}}

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

[gademocrat7]

18. Sending good thoughts and prayers to you.

[lunatica]

19. You're one of my favorite gals 'cause you're strong

I admire you and support you always. Just remember that it isn't about winning. It's about fighting for the right side. I send protective energy to your oldest and to you and all those you love.

[one_voice]

20. Sending good thoughts...

and prayers to you and your son. :hug:

[AnArmyVeteran]

21. I'm sending you a lot of good thoughts for strength and hope.

Take care. I wish you and your family the best.

[KT2000]

22. Sending good vibes

for a very stressful week.

[kimmerspixelated]

23. Take a deep breath several times a day.

There's a Qi-Gong exercise- Breathing In The Universe. ..It helps a lot! Bless you, and best of luck!

[yellerpup]

24. All the best to you and your son.

You are tough and you'll get through it. Wishing you peace and good health...and a :hug:

[Atticus]

25. I would not presume to assure you that I know all that you are going through, but I have known some

rough times.

Sometimes it helps to just take a deep cleansing breath and concentrate on the basics: serenity---courage---wisdom.

From what I have read of your posts, you possess all three.

[kentuck]

26. Hang in there lady...

We are thinking of you.

[handmade34]

27. positive thoughts for you

hang in there...

"There is no such thing in anyone's life as an unimportant day."~Woollcott

[jillan]

28. Sending hugs to you!! Stay strong, and feel free to vent anytime you need to.

[laughingliberal]

29. Prayers and thoughts are with you.

:hug:

[calimary]

30. We are there for you! MANY hugs and prayers!

:patriot: :hug: :yourock: :kick: :grouphug:

[sarge43]

31. Think of your son. He needs you.

You stay strong for him and for yourself... and for us. We need you, too.

:loveya::hug:

[tammywammy]

32. You're definitely in my thoughts.

As is your son.

:hug:

[proud patriot]

33. Sending Strength My Friend

:hug:

[WinkyDink]

34. {((w8liftinglady and w8liftingladyson}}} I'll be hoping for the best for you both.

[political_Dem]

35. You are in my thoughts. I hope that everything turns out fine.

Take wonderful care and focus on relaxation as much as you can. :hug:

[Bluenorthwest]

36. As tough weeks go, that is a doozy...

I wish you strength and peace of mind.

[SalmonChantedEvening]

37. All my hopes, and every good thought I have are yours.

Sending vibes and wishes that all goes well this week.

:loveya: :hug: :loveya:

[nashville_brook]

38. sending big strong hang-in-there vibes!!

[PA Democrat]

39. Sending prayers your way!

[emilyg]

40. Prayers on the way. God Bless.

[spanone]

41. hang in there....sending light in your direction....

[renate]

42. one breath at a time

And on Friday, spend the day here with us.

:grouphug:

[hedgehog]

43. I thought I was having a tough week - Prayers going your way and

thanks for putting my problems into perspective.

[DeschutesRiver]

44. You will be in our thoughts out here in Oregon.

My most positive thoughts for good news for you and for the safety of your son.

And please give him a hug from us and tell him that from the deepest part of our hearts, we thank him for what he is doing for our country. And hugs to you mom - sobriety is a hard fought thing to hold on to when times turn scary like this. When life starts galloping away from you, grab mane and hold on, as we horse people say.

And come here when things feel the shakiest for a boost from people who care about what happens to you.

[Odin2005]

45. (((HUGS)))

:hugs:

[w8liftinglady]

46. I can not begin to express my gratitude

for your love,support and suggestions.you have helped one person more than you will ever know.it will be OK.

[AmerVoicesUnited]

47. My prayers are with you and your family

[QC]

48. Prayers ascending for you, my dear. n/t

[maryf]

49. easy does it...

:pals:

[oldhippydude]

119. yep

thanks bill w... for 31 years.. may whatever god you have, be with you

[oldhippydude]

120. yep

thanks bill w... for 31 years.. may whatever god you have, be with you

[riderinthestorm]

50. A virtual hug and good vibes!!

I hope you have a real time friend who can be there with you. What a week! :hug: You are one of the good ones. Please try to stay in touch this week. You DU "family" will keep you close.

[roguevalley]

51. darling w8liftinglady, you have them. all the prayers and

healing vibrations that are mine, I give to you. I send you hope and peace and all the love I got. Take care, honey. We love ya.

[AnotherMother4Peace]

52. You and your son are in my prayers & I'm lighting a candle for each of you.

You can do it! You're strong enough to weather this storm, and calm days are right around the corner. And remember one day at a time.

[pipi_k]

53. Peaceful and healing thoughts being sent your way.... n/t

[BrklynLiberal]

54. Sending lots of white light and positive energy your way....

[TBF]

55. Sending positive vibes your way - stay strong. nt

[DirkGently]

56. Positive vibes streaking your way from Florida. Be well.

[TheKentuckian]

57. I'll remember you in my prayers and shoot you some good vibes

[RainDog]

58. sending my best good wishes for positive outomes all around n/t

[CaliforniaPeggy]

59. My best vibes to you...as long as you need them...

:hug:

[bobbolink]

60. That is one hell of a week! I'm glad you asked, because nobody can do it all alone.

Its trying to be strong all the damned time that breaks us, so thank you for asking for support!

You have mine, and I think you know that.....:hug: :yourock: :pals: :patriot: :hug:

And, most of all...

[nolabear]

61. Hang in there. You need to do things that make you stronger,

even though they might not make the pain go--temporarily--away. Many good vibes from here. You are cared for, and care, and that is wonderful. Stick with us here.

[kimi]

62. Best of all wishes to you and to your son

Been there with the neuro stuff, and also, been there with family leaving for Afghanistan.

Yes, it's tough. Check in and let us know how it goes. Thoughts, vibes, wishes, all you need, being sent to ya.

Take care. Hugs.

[leftstreet]

63. ..

[Panaconda]

64. ...

[Skittles]

65. WE ARE HERE, SOMEONE IS ALWAYS HERE W8LIFTINGLADY

KEEP TALKING TO US; we can help (BY THE WAY - you're communicating perfectly "NORMAL"!!!)

[pacalo]

66. Wow, I can't imagine how stressed out you must be.

I'm going to pray for you -- you're a good, good person who needs strength right now & for a long time to come. I hope you can get back to work quickly so that you'll have other things to keep you occupied. In the meantime, stay with your friends here!

You write exceptional LTTE's; from my standpoint, your brain is working just fine. Please try to stay away from alcohol -- please! My dad loved alcohol too much & his body paid dearly for it. Keep yourself busy instead. Easily said, I know...

:hug:

[JohnnyLib2]

67. Oh, yes! All kinds of good thoughts and best wishes.

:hug:

[pnwmom]

68. Your problems put many of ours in perspective. Sending positive thoughts

and prayers, w8liftinglady! All good health and love to you!

[applegrove]

69. vibes!

[Dystopian]

70. {{{{{w8liftinglady}}}}}

I will be keeping you in my thoughts...
Prayers for you and your beloved son.
You have done much for so many....a beautiful soul.

I am giving back to you a gift that you gave to us....not so long ago.
"The Wounded Healer"-A beautiful video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orxEawi9qro
I know that you found peace with this...
Hope it helps ...if only to remind you how you've helped others....
Just from your recent writings....you are going to be fine.

You've touched my heart so many times.

Sending you love and light....



Hope. Patience. Peace.

[w8liftinglady]

72. Thank you...and everyone..I'll sleep well tonight.

My other favorite...reminds me so much of you all

We Are The Ones We Are Waiting For

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SkSN_buNl4Q

[madokie]

71. Hugs and sober thoughts coming your way

:hug:

I don't think I could handle having a son being sent off to Afghanistan or any war of choice zone, just couldn't do it.

[snacker]

73. Sending a week's worth of good vibes your way... n/t

[Octafish]

74. Peace, love, strength, understanding and all the best to you and yours, w8liftinglady.

You and Yours are TOPS in every way. Our thoughts and prayers and best wishes and love are with You and Yours.

[EFerrari]

75. You got it, sweetie.

:grouphug:

[ljm2002]

76. Good thoughts to you...

...stay strong, we need you fighting the good fight as you do. Friday just remind yourself, staying sober is the best thing you can do for yourself and for your son.

Best of luck to both of you.

[femrap]

77. I give you my strength....

I want you to overcome.

[mr1956]

78. You're in my prayers, wishing you the strength to endure

[TexasObserver]

79. recommend

[Old Codger]

80. Hang in there

One day at a time, take each day as it comes..easier said than done I know but it can be done... And from what I have seen of you through this forum you are capable.

[mahina]

81. Good luck sis, prayers and hugs.

We got you.

[Tatiana]

82. A prayer

May God bless and keep you during this stressful time. I pray that you leave the hospital with a clean bill of health. I pray that the Lord watches over your son while he is overseas and returns him home safely. May you be strengthened by all the positive thoughts and energy directed your way and may you use that energy to maintain your sobriety.

In Jesus' name,

Amen.

Peace & Love, sister.

:hug:

[Hekate]

83. May blessings pour down on you, friend.

:hug:

Hekate

[grahamhgreen]

84. The book that helped me most....

"The Power of Now" by Ekhardt Tolle

[era veteran]

85. Today is my anniversary

21 years sober, still hard. Good Vibes your way!!

[rasputin1952]

86. I shall keep you and yours in my thoughts...

I can offer a little advice though...stay sober, nothing will change if you look for an "out"; in afct, things could get actually worse.

We all go through times of extreme stress and it can often seem overwhhelming, but as with all things, the times move on and we move with them. Look deeply ito the eyes of those ytou love, talk honestly about how you feel, and don't be afraid to get "emotional"...we are human beings, we are loaded with emotions, but far too often we suppress them.

Monday/Tuesday may bring wondeful news; Wednesday will be tough. Thursday, a little tougher...but it wil all pass

I shall send what positie "energy", (never really did know how that works), out to you. Stay stromg, others depend on the strenght you have and we at DU are with you...:hug:

One more thing, you are obviously a loving and caring individual...that adds to the strentgh you already possess, don't let the love and caring slip away.

[garthranzz]

87. May G-d protect your son and grant you a swift and complete

recovery.

May your life be filled with blessings and rejoicings, material and spiritual.

[jtuck004]

88. You hang in there. We will have some good thoughts for you. n/t

[phasma ex machina]

89. Loving Creator, please lighten Sister w8liftinglady's burden by filling her with our love.

:grouphug: O8)

[NuttyFluffers]

90. happy light vibes, with glitter!

O8)

[Lifelong Protester]

91. I want to send you my good thoughts and prayers,

for you and your family.
It does help, I know, tp have the knowledge that others care, even if we do not really know you, we do care, as a community here.

[denbot]

92. Vibes for you

Big hugs as well. :grouphug:

[Divine Discontent]

93. God bless you, w8liftinglady, prayers and good vibes your way for your situation, greatly...

[Iwillnevergiveup]

94. I'm glad you asked, w8liftinglady

Because in the asking, you demonstrate your humanity. We are with you.

:hug: :loveya:

[pinboy3niner]

95. Been following your thread from the moment you posted, dear w8liftinglady

You already knew from our communications how enormously helpful DU was to me at a time when I needed that SO badly.

At the same time, this was building up for you for a while. It's an especially unhappy coincidence that it's all coming down at once.

I care about you, and my thoughts are with you--especially in these next trying days.

You spend a lot of time caring about and working for our troops and their families, veterans and others. But sometimes, you just have to care about and take care of yourself. Without taking on any undeserved guilt about an LTTE not sent or a volunteer event missed. You deserve the best, just as you advocate for the rest of us.

Give your son a big hug from me, and tell him this vet wishes him a good tour. And I'm looking forward to that joyful day when you post that he's returned home again, safe and sound.

Hang in there, Sis. :hug:

Love & Peace,
pinboy3niner

[progressoid]

96. We're here for you w8liftinglady

:grouphug:

[RushIsRot]

97. All the warmth, strength and good vibes I can muster to you dear lady.

[PJPhreak]

98. All the vibes i can muster,

Stay Strong.

[HuckleB]

99. Peace be with you!

Take care, every way you can.

I've begun to appreciate your posts at DU in the past month or so, and I thank you for sharing.

May you find what you need!

[DesertFlower]

100. sending positive thoughts.

[liquid diamond]

101. Best of luck! n/t

[southmost]

102. stay strong

and thanks for your input here in DU

[Raine]

103. You got it!

I'm sending positive thoughts and best wishes your way!

[K8-EEE]

104. Peace to you!

No matter what, gathering up all your calm and centering yourself will help you get through everything. SENDING OODLES OF PEACEFUL VIBES YOUR WAY!

[ClayZ]

105. Here comes some from WA.

Blessings your way!

K and R

[colorado_ufo]

106. God bless. Hang in there.

[colorado_ufo]

107. God bless. Hang in there.

[onestepforward]

108. Sending positive vibes your way

of comfort, peace and strength.
:hug:

[Daphne08]

109. Prayer for you and yours

:hug:

[Granny M]

110. sending healing thoughts your way.

This week will come one day at a time, and I trust that you will be given what you need to get through each one. As I've been told many times, 'there is no situation so bad that a drink won't make it worse.' Can you get to some meetings on the days after your son leaves? Will be praying for you and your son.

[caliform]

111. Prayers for you

I pray that you feel the strength of our prayers and the presence of God, that your brain function is normal and that your physicians have supreme expertise and insight to help them find anything that might need medical attention, I pray that you get released from work and that you and your son face Thursday with confidence, I pray that on Friday you turn to God and sobriety like you have so many times before. I pray that whatever the stresses of your life this week, you feel your own strength (battered as it may be) and are grateful for the sobriety that helps you face this difficult week. I pray that you remember every moment of sobriety and that you recall that drinking is about the only thing that could happen to your week to make it worse. I pray that you remember that God has had you and your son in his hands since before time began and He has no intention of letting you slip from his grasp this week. I pray that you know we love you. :)

[Mimosa]

112. Many positive thoughts to you and yours. n/t

[unhappycamper]

113. Good vibes and wishes coming your way, w8liftinglady.

Stay off the booze & butts.

XOXO,
k

[Enthusiast]

114. You gots it....nt

[Solly Mack]

115. Hang in there. We're thinking of you.

[lillypaddle]

116. All my best to you,

TOUGH week, but I know you are even tougher - hang in there.

[pruple]

117. my peaceful vibes are in the air for you

best wishes for all the best possible outcomes.

[whoopingcrone]

118. Holding you...

and all who care for you in the Light.

[Altoid_Cyclist]

121. Best wishes for you and also for your son's safe return.

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

[laylah]

122. Sending love and light

to you during these stressful times. :hug:

Jenn

[mod mom]

123. Sending good vibes your way, w8liftinglady!

[a2liberal]

124. Best wishes and good luck! n/t

[MilesColtrane]

125. Hey, we've got your back.

Don't let the stress throw you off the sobriety track.

Get as much sleep as possible.

:hug:

[lonestarnot]

126. Vibes, prayers, hugs w8liftinglady!

:hug:

[Uben]

127. Prayers for you and your son

I remember sending my son off to war....twice! I know. God bless him and you both.

[barbtries]

128. it's a busy week full of stress.

breathe. you have all my best energies hoping for the best for you and your entire family. may your son return whole in every respect.

[stuckinarut]

129. I don't pray, but my thoughts are with you this week!

[GreenPartyVoter]

130. You got it! *hugs and healthy vibes*

[democrank]

131. You can get through this.

I know you can. ~PEACE~

[democrank]

132. You can get through this.

I know you can. ~PEACE~

[nyc 4 Biden]

133. . . .

:hug:

[GoCubsGo]

134. Best wishes.

Am there, doing that, so I know how you're feeling. Please remember to take some time to be nice to yourself. Do something you really enjoy. Exercise. Hug your pet, if you have one.

I'll be thinking about your son, and keeping my fingers crossed that he stays safe.

[elehhhhna]

135. I love you

I know you because of your prolific contribution here and you have a huge fan sending love & vibes from Sugar Land. btw, your brain function is far beyond "normal". more like brilliant.

[Mayflower1]

136. Prayers,

real prayers headed your way.

[suffragette]

137. Sending you good thoughts

:hug:

[A-Long-Little-Doggie]

138. Hugs to you and your son.

May he stay safe during his deployment.

:hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug:

[NewJeffCT]

139. You'll be in my thoughts

best wishes to you & your family this week & beyond.

[myrna minx]

140. Healing and comforting vibes to you.

:grouphug:

[riverbendviewgal]

141. Love will get you through this

and on DU there is so much love...We are all on the boat with you....Sending prayers and hugs.

[texastoast]

142. Good vibes on the way

:hug:

[Redbear]

143. Prayers and vibes for you.

You are awesome!

[MissDeeds]

144. Prayers, wishes and good vibes to you

And congratulations on staying sober. You've had a tough week, but have met it with courage and grace. Hang in there, friend. Your DU family is with you in spirit.

:grouphug:

[swilton]

145. Hang in there w8liftinglady!

We're walking with you!

[classof56]

146. Blessings and affirmations heading cross country to you!

And they will continue the journey with your son as he heads out for Afghanistan.

:hug:

[tpsbmam]

147. All my strength I give to you this week. There are many with you.

I hope you feel all walking with you as you face this week. :grouphug:

[trayfoot]

148. Positive Thoughts and Prayers Your Way!

[trayfoot]

149. Positive Thoughts and Prayers Your Way!

[Jackpine Radical]

150. Riding with you.

If I haven't been down exactly that road, I've been down similar ones.

[flakey_foont]

151. best wishes

Hope all works out for the best for you

sending healing thoughts

[Thav]

152. Any good Christian doesn't need reasons to pray for someone.

And you don't need to feel bad about asking. Everyone needs prayers sometimes.

"Pray for me."

Done and done.

[Tippy]

153. Thoughts and Prayers comming your way....

[meegbear]

154. You got it!!

:hug:

[dchill]

155. Positive thoughts.

[mopinko]

156. hang on, honey.

one foot in front of the other. one foot in front of the other. one foot in front of the other.

[Peregrine Took]

157. Prayers up for you and your family! n/t

[Stellar]

158. Sending the healing light of the Creator your way,

and the warmth of his Spirit. :hug:

[Naturyl]

159. Sending you Positive Thoughts

Stay balanced. This too shall pass.

[Arugula Latte]

160. Sending good thoughts your way.

Hang in there. :hug:

[ceile]

161. .....

:hug:

[Raksha]

162. Sending positive thoughts to you.,,hang in there!

[librechik]

163. God bless you, W8

we've got your back. Stay in touch.

[joeybee12]

164. Here you go!!!

:grouphug:

[BlueIris]

165. ((((( wlady & son(s) of w8lady ))))) nt

[Kajsa]

166. Strong, healing vibes and prayers going out

to you, w8liftinglady!

That is a LOT to deal with all at once!

One day at a time, break it down to
one hour/minute at a time if you need to.

You are not alone- PM me if you need to talk
and call your sponsor!

:hug:

[mazzarro]

167. Best Wishes For You And Family - May God Guide You. -- n/t

[Subdivisions]

168. Oh, my neighbor and friend...

You have my extra-special good vibes coming your way each day this week.

Please give your son my very best. My cousin has done a couple of tours over there and she is home now. I'm looking forward to the day you announce his return.

Finally, I have just the greatest feeling that you're going to be A-OK and will be able to return to work. At worst, I'd say your week will end bittersweet. You'll be going back to work, but you'll be sending your son off to war.

I am so pulling for you this week my friend.

:hug:

[TwilightGardener]

169. You got it--and best wishes and safety for your son in Afghanistan, too.

[IntimidatingEyebrows]

170. Best of luck to you, w8liftinglady.

I would hug you if I could!

But for now, have a virtual hug. :hug:

[David Zephyr]

171. Hugs!

:hug:

[man4allcats]

172. My cats and I are thinking of you, w8liftinglady.

Best wishes. :hi:

[w8liftinglady]

173. you all are so precious to me.I made it through day one.

Thank you all for your words of hope and encouragement,your relaxation techniques...and just for being there.You have helped me more than I can ever express.
Thank you.

[RavensChick]

174. You'll be okay.

Believe on Him, and never fear.

Philippians 4:6-7, Hebrews 11:1, Psalm 37:1-5

Peace.