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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-05-10 03:30 PM
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Sidney & the One-Eyed Giant



“A non-violent revolution is not a program of seizure of power. It is a program of transformation of relationships, ending in a peaceful transfer of power.” – Gandhi

I traveled to my hometown of Sidney, NY, last night. Before the Town Board meeting, a group of us met in a local diner to break bread, and to update one another on new information on the conflict with the local Supervisor, Bob McCarthy. This is the fellow that Keith Olbermann named as the “worst person in the world,” because of McCarthy's vicious attack on a Sufi settlement, including his vow to force the excavation of Muslim graves in Sidney.

During our meal, journalist Andrew Reinbach, of Huffington Post, noted that the events in Sidney are a microcosm of what is happening in towns, cities, and states across the country: Tea Party activists have assumed a degree of political power – including, obviously, by winning a number of elections – and are creating havoc that destabilizes our already hurting society. It is for exactly that reason that I believe what is happening in this isolated town in the rural, upstate Delaware County is of real significance to the rest of our country.

When some Sidney residents contacted me, and provided me with information about the cemetery conflict, and several other serious issues involving their Town Supervisor, I evaluated the situation. Besides McCarthy, there are four members on the board. One is McCarthy's stepson, another is his best friend. These three are members of Tea Party. In talking to a variety of Sidney residents, I learned that the stepson is viewed as his sidekick, a “Festus Haggen,” of sorts; while Bob's best friend is his political guru It was this Tea Party Trio that decided it was their patriotic mission to respond to the planned Islamic community center near Ground Zero by desecrating the Sufi cemetery.

Bob McCarthy presented a perfect adversary – a loud, offensive, bullying nativist, incapable of calling women anything other than “girls,” with a bulbous red nose that documents his reasoning for his on-the-record attacks against the enforcement of DWI laws. He had already told journalists that he did not consider Islam to be a legitimate religion, and claimed the Sufi people had broken the law – although he admitted that he did not know any laws they had broken.

McCarthy's personal style had already created sharp divisions within the employees of the community, before the cemetery conflict. Democratic, republican, and independent citizens have had concerns over his tactics – including not taking bids on public projects, going through three accounting firms, bouncing checks, and failing to file financial documents as required by state law. Hence, while the cemetery issue drew the most media attention, group members were doing extensive investigating of other issues.

Town Board meetings have highlighted the ever increasing strain within the community. It is, as Martin Luther King, Jr., said, important for citizens to invest in bringing about creative tension in such situations. It can be expected, as Thomas Aquinas wrote, that when people such as McCarthy feel threatened, they will automatically react with anger and hostility. When women have confronted McCarthy on his lies, for example, he consistently threatens to have them thrown out of public meetings. When confronted with newspaper articles and television news clips which show that he indeed said the things he now denies, McCarthy lacks the intellectual and moral capacity to admit error.

As a result, not only are some board members finding it impossible to stick up for him any longer, but a growing number of community leaders are rejecting him. Forty area religious leaders signed a letter, asking the board to stop its attack on the Sufi community. The Sidney Chamber of Commerce came out in opposition to McCarthy. The Village of Sidney's mayor has also clearly separated from McCarthy. And even his stepson has reportedly told associates that he is “tired of cleaning up Bob's messes.”

While there are residents prepared to run for office in the next elections, more must be accomplished now. Civic leaders closely associated with the business community contacted me recently to ask what can be done to make the uproar stop? My studies of King's strategies has taught me the value of behind-the-scenes communications. It is in everyone's best interests for Bob McCarthy to resign, to spend more time with his family. He owns a home in Florida, and would surely benefit from spending more time there. They agree, but believe Bob is “too stubborn to do the right thing.”

That, of course, is actually the easy part. The greater difficulty – in Sidney and every other community across the country – is in healing the wounds, rebuilding, and moving forward in the future. In a very real sense, this crisis in Sidney was caused by the prejudice against a tiny minority group that has a different religion. The fears and hatred that the Tea Party trio were channeling are those found at the lowest levels of human nature. The rational thought of the forty area clergy certainly helped in the effort to protect the Sufi cemetery. And more, while I recently thought that my Brother Hans – the spokesman for the Sufi group – should consider running for local office, I now recognize that he is playing a far more important role, as an advocate for community values and harmony among various groups and individuals.

The problems in Sidney, in my current town, and in your town or city, go way beyond a cemetery. People need jobs. Healthcare. Food to eat. Clean water. Warm homes. The opportunity for good educations. And on and on. We must rapidly move beyond the problems caused by the ignorance and sheer stupidity of McCarthyism.

What will make this current uproar stop? Only those close to Bob McCarthy can solve that today, by convincing him to resign. They should talk to Bob and his wife, who reportedly wants this to stop, too. Then the Town Board members will get some breathing room. More, they can expect the support and cooperation of those 120 to 150 citizens who have been attending recent public meetings.

Strong, healthy communities benefit from politicians who have the respect and trust of citizens; from religious leaders who take an active interest in social issues, and enriching the local culture; from parents, children and youth that are invested in the school system and in community events; and from the wisdom of its senior citizens.

Although I no longer live in Sidney, I still have strong connections there. I also know more about the town's history than any person living there now. From this vantage point, I see the citizens' group there as representing not any one political or religious faction, nor social class. Instead, it is the spirit of the town – its people, its land, river, creeks, trees, and rocks, and indeed, its past and present – that is providing the energy to right wrongs, to forgive, to heal, and to move forward into the future as a whole.

That same energy is needed in every location across the country.

Peace & Justice,
H2O Man
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JonLP24 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-05-10 07:16 PM
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1. K&R
Too bad this thread didn't receive more attention. It is a great post and I love the finish. "That same energy is needed in every location across the country."

Completely agree. There certainly is wave going on in this country, a hateful & fearful one, very much like the ones you're facing in Sydney. The encouraging news is that, based on your reports, seem to be winning this battle and the town seems supportive of the Sufi community. That is different from Arizona where voters overwhelmingly choose hatred & fear. Either that or they have remarkably inept memories of when the Republicans were in charge.

We could use that energy here and I will do what I can to bring it. It is inspiring to read stories such as this and others knowing these creeps can be defeated.
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-05-10 08:40 PM
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3. Thanks.
I think that it may be in large part the timing of this essay that keeps it from getting much of any attention. People are understandably tired from this week's elections -- the victories as well as the defeats. That is to be expected.

However, I do believe that this serves as a model, of sorts, on what type of organizing and activity is required on the grass roots level. In the lead-up to the 2010 election season, when people here were discussing their thoughts on the democratic candidates for Congress, I noted that while I have been less than pleased with most of the democrats in DC, I had no option but to support them. "Frack drilling" is a huge environmental threat in the northeast, and the democrats are the only politicians who even pretend to be concerned about poisoning the earth, water, and air. By no coincidence, Sidney's Bob McCarthy is assigning a town employee to attend some "workshops" put on by the energy corporations, because he wants the town to get their thirty gold coins.

I'm an old man now, no longer as strong as I once was. But I do not have the luxury of putting things on a back-burner, because I'm tired. Everything I have left is being invested in the struggle for social, economic, and environmental justice.
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Angry Dragon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-05-10 07:41 PM
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-05-10 08:41 PM
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4. Thanks, A.D.
Much appreciated.
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Angry Dragon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-05-10 09:15 PM
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6. No problem
I have been following your posts on this subject.

I wonder if the real fight is in the small wars, instead of the
national scene. Change small minds before they become too big
to handle.
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-10 08:54 AM
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8. I think so.
We need to put in the hard, often dirty job of building a national foundation .... and foundation work is, in a literal sense, "underground." People do not notice it when passing by. But with the solid foundation comes the ability to -- brick by brick -- rebuild our society.

In building a house. one never begins by constructing a roof. Always, always, it starts with that foundation.
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AlchemicalGirl Donating Member (1 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-10 09:20 AM
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11. Cultivating Minds
I absolutely believe that education starts in the home. If parents don't foster critical thinking, and the values of equality and empathy - then children will grow up to be closed-minded, selfish bullies like McCarthy...

I believe as we move away from the Americentric, misogynist and racist beliefs of the pre-1960's-type thinking, we'll see more equality of the cultures, religions, genders and sexual orientations in our future generations; but we must fight for it, and we must teach children to think, learn, and love.
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HCE SuiGeneris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-05-10 08:53 PM
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5. "Everything I have left is being invested in the struggle for social, economic,
and environmental justice."

You are a blessing and a motivator for us all. Thank you.
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-10 09:14 AM
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9. Well, thank you.
Two of the most important things on this Sidney issue, for me, are:

{1} Seeing young people getting involved. An 18-year old who may not see the connection between his/her day-to-day life and an election for state office, will have a connection to events in their town, and in their school district. If we want the younger generation to play a larger, more active role in politics, it starts on the local level.

There is a high school student --an Eagle Scout -- who is playing a wonderful, positive role in this local controversy. He has started getting individuals, businesses, and neighborhoods interested in, and active in the upkeep of local cemeteries. Also, a 9-year old girl penned a letter-to-the-editor, which I found to be proof that great wisdom really does come from the mouthes of little children; if our culture would only listen.

{2} Chief Paul Waterman used to tell me that, in order for social change to take place, it required the skills that only the female Elders have. Everyone else has an important role, he told me, but the female Elders are required. What they add is essential.

In this week's board meeting, I spoke with the mothers of some of my friends. They all said, "This town is becoming crazy, because of the actions of this board." (Obviously, not the exact quote in every case.)They add sanity and stability: not in the sense that the hostility from that board was lessened, but in the citizens' responses remained calm and focused. This is what I mean when I say it goes beyond political and religious leaders, this healing in a town, city, or society. It comes through the people. Who better than grandmothers and great-grandmothers, to channel the essense of the community of Sidney?
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Me. Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-10 12:12 AM
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spanone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-06-10 09:16 AM
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