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They can't make you do anything, and here is one of the many errors in the highlander movie doctrine. You don't get someones skill when you defeat them, if they try to use that trick on you then you learn it.
I know 1000s of delusions and tricks, and I rarely use any of them, except with explanation when I see people in those traps.
They all have a way out of them, they have to trick you if you are a pretty decent person, and most people are, to get you to hurt people.
I found it is best being nice, and trying to appreciate all the lovely works of so many people, and do what you think and feel is best, then every time they try to use a delusion on you, you learn the counter. So after decades, I am basically trying to show all the different tricks they got.
I also found that it is not their fault, since most of them really become nice and loving after a short time, or they are replaced by loving and kindness, not sure exactly, but the bad stuff, when you don't do what it says, and try not to be mean, and try not to be in despair, it either leaves or changes to be nice also, like it can learn, but so can you, so you have to choose what you want to learn and why. Although I actually believe they really deep down are nice, and just under oppression, so it is not really teaching as much as in some way, them becoming what they already are, or becoming what they were again. But that's just a feeling also.
Hence why ignoring the stuff that really doesn't do much good, and appreciating the beauty is so joyful and makes sense.
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