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villager Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 07:48 PM
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"Consensual Christian Domestic Discipline"
Please tell me this is a parody site -- or a winking get-together of willing "dom/sub" types...

http://shop.christiandomesticdiscipline.com/splashPage.hg
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Ayesha Donating Member (587 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 07:51 PM
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1. *shudder*
It sounds a lot like "Taken In Hand."

http://www.takeninhand.com/

Warning, creepy sexism + Jesus Freakiness.
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Donkeykick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 07:52 PM
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2. Looks like you have to register to get more info...
but it is probably something kinky for church goers.:spank: :rofl:
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eppur_se_muova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 07:57 PM
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3. Ick. D&S of a purely 'Christian' sort.
"In today’s society where any physical discipline is severely frowned upon, it is important that even a Christian Domestic Discipline relationship be consensual; however, it is interesting to note that Biblically, a man’s right to chastise and discipline his wife is strongly implied. Just as a parent would never stop to ask permission to chastise his child, a husband should not have to obtain consent to discipline his wife; however, our legal system has put him in the position of having to do so. Just as our culture is turned upside down in so many other things, the traditional Christian marriage is no exception.

It is worth mentioning that even Biblically, it is best if the wife submits willingly rather than being forced to obey her husband, and in giving honor to his wife as the weaker vessel, it is good that the husband listen to her thoughts and opinions and try to incorporate them into their lives so that she will be content. In that sense, this discussion of CDD and all it entails is Biblically sound. That is the spirit in which we will approach the remainder of this book."
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 07:59 PM
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4. Oh. My. God. (snicker)--the Products pageand a photo:
Edited on Tue May-29-07 08:03 PM by blondeatlast
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Coexist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 08:17 PM
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11. wwjww?
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Az Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 08:01 PM
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5. You thought only atheists did the dom/sub thing?
How odd.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 08:14 PM
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9. Well, you atheists have no moral compass, ya know.
But now, the Bible says that whole spanking thing is okay*. You just don't know good (or is that Good) porn when it's offered to you!

*I know it does 'cause this fetish site says it does...
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Az Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 08:15 PM
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10. True, we upgraded a long time ago and now use moral GPS units
Much more accurate.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 08:18 PM
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12. Yeah, and I bet you've upgraded from crotchless pantaloons, too.
Hmm, you guys might win me over yet... :rofl::rofl::rofl:
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 08:01 PM
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6. Far Too Scary
I can't even look...
Lee
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Clovis Sangrail Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 08:04 PM
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7. I think it's real
but the crotchless pantaloons are hysterical.

Domestic discipline (DD) is the practice of interspousal discipline with an emphasis on spanking as a punishment. Practitioners argue that domestic discipline is distinct from both domestic abuse, and activities such as erotic spanking and domination and submission

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_discipline_%28lifestyle%29
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 08:05 PM
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8. It's real
We've giggled about it in the Lounge for the past week.
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villager Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 09:54 PM
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19. ah, the Lounge continues to be the cutting edge!
;-)
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Ilsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 08:52 PM
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13. Oh, wow. No, it's real. They are selling crotchless pantaloons.
"These pretty pantaloons trimmed in eyelet and your choice of ribbon color will make you feel sexy and cherished all at once. Made from 100% cotton PREWASHED muslin."

"Loving wife spanking in a Christian Marriage"

More on the wife-beating:

Consensual Christian Domestic Discipline
This workbook is written to suggest important topics of discussion for couples new to their CDD relationship or those who would like to clarify their expectations of CDD.

Table of Contents
Introduction
Biblical Marriage
Biblical Justification for CDD
Overcoming Cultural Influences
The meaning of consent
Chain of Command
Identifying Strengths and Weaknesses
Areas that Cause Disharmony
Wife’s Self-Evaluation

Husband’s Self-Evaluation

Husband’s Evaluation of Wife

The Rules

Discipline

Punishment

Aftercare

Consequences for Non-cooperation

Wife’s Means of Voicing Opinions

Protecting Yourselves

Sample Consent Form

Excerpt:

In today’s society where any physical discipline is severely frowned upon, it is important that even a Christian Domestic Discipline relationship be consensual; however, it is interesting to note that Biblically, a man’s right to chastise and discipline his wife is strongly implied. Just as a parent would never stop to ask permission to chastise his child, a husband should not have to obtain consent to discipline his wife; however, our legal system has put him in the position of having to do so. Just as our culture is turned upside down in so many other things, the traditional Christian marriage is no exception.

It is worth mentioning that even Biblically, it is best if the wife submits willingly rather than being forced to obey her husband, and in giving honor to his wife as the weaker vessel, it is good that the husband listen to her thoughts and opinions and try to incorporate them into their lives so that she will be content. In that sense, this discussion of CDD and all it entails is Biblically sound. That is the spirit in which we will approach the remainder of this book.

This workbook is designed for a husband and wife beginning a Christian Domestic Discipline relationship and is meant to give them a starting point as to the things they need to discuss so that each know what they might expect from their CDD marriage. Much of the talk will be the husband, the leader of the family, instructing his wife as to his wishes and expectations for her in their new arrangement, all of which she should pay close attention. However, the husband should place a high importance on his wife’s opinions during this time as well if they both are to be content within the relationship.

Most importantly, the couple should approach each subject with prayer, asking God’s blessing on their marriage and the decisions they make regarding their CDD relationship.

***Recommended in conjunction with Christian Domestic Discipline 101***

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villager Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 09:24 PM
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15. I just kept hoping it was some deep kind of "parody..."
There's no dividing line, anymore...
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 09:31 PM
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18. You just can't make this stuff up anymore, try as you might.
Still, I may have to get some of those crotchless pantaloons--except I'm sort of worried about what kind of sicko porno mailing lists I'll get added too... :rofl:
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 08:54 PM
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14. Spank me, baby! Spank me in the name of Lord! Spank me in the name of He who is called 'I Am'!!!
Wow, that sounds totally hot. Sign me up.
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blondeatlast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 09:29 PM
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16. No kink here, nosirree (or is that No, Sir?!)
From the table of contents of the book (note the slick cover art...)

Types of Spankings
Common Implements
Common Spanking Positions
Spanking for Punishment
How Much is Enough?
Uncooperative Wife
Avoid At All Costs

But it has nothing whatsoever to do with BD, SM, or DS. I know because the site clearly says so, so it must be true.
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-29-07 09:29 PM
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17. It's real, all right.
This site was posted in the Lounge the other day. As I said on that thread, the people promoting this kind of "Christian discipline" are probably the very same people who purport to hate porn, and most especially, BDSM. Fucking hypocrites.
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