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I want to live up to your expectations. I want America to be as good as you imagine it
... is audacious as hope can be, an impossible standard for any President, let alone a man confronting our current circumstances. That children grow up so quickly reminds us of our compromises, the absences, the long hours at work, the bittersweet appointments with 'quality time'.
For those like me, who saw too little of my father when I was growing up, the burden, the guilt is always there.
For a President, the burdens of office are immense. Being familiar with his life story, I am most touched when reminded that his struggle for identity is found in family. He spoke yesterday of the AMerican family 300 million strong, and the families there enduring tragedy. As President he is absent while his own daughters are in the cross hairs. Campaigning or overseas, there is always the possibility that his children will be left without a father. He said:
Perhaps we question whether we are doing right by our children, or our community, and whether our priorities are in order. We recognize our own mortality, and are reminded that in the fleeting time we have on this earth, what matters is not wealth, or status, or power, or fame – but rather, how well we have loved, and what small part we have played in bettering the lives of others.
The office of the Presidency provides a singular opportunity to better the lives of others, his work a unique opportunity to express his hopes, his love, his dreams of a brighter future for his American family, In the sacrifices of Public Office, Barack Obama expresses in the most tangible way, his love and concern for Malia, and Sasha, and the possibilities of life.
OK, I am soppy maudlin wreck at times, but this is how I feel.
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